The unruly marriage gave Yan Xun a headache.

Lu Luo also thought about it all night.

Whether a person is good or bad often cannot be said absolutely, it depends on the position.

For the girls and ladies of the Xiao family, Xiao Wulang always unconditionally defends his sister, respects his mother, and stands on his family's side regardless of whether his family is right or wrong, helping his relatives or not, this is undoubtedly the best brother and the most filial son.

Lu Luo also hopes to have such a brother.

However, Yan Xun and Lu Luo are outsiders, their positions are different, they look at Xiao Wulang, and they only see a man who does not distinguish between right and wrong.

Yan Xun loves Yun so much, when Yun Yun has a conflict with someone, Yan Xun also stood by first, looked at the situation, figured out who was right and who was wrong, and then spoke, not like Xiao Wulang, who rushed up and scolded.

The other party is still a girl.

A man's filial piety is due, and friendship is also a virtue, but he blindly protects his shortcomings and has no ability to distinguish between right and wrong, which is Xiao Wulang's character.

From the standpoint of Xiao Wulang's future Yue family, Xiao Wulang's character is a great flaw, and Yu does not hide his flaws, and he is a good person.

Lu Luo also told her mother about it.

"It's not good to get married by fingertips." When Wen heard this, he also felt that this matter was tricky, "Regret the marriage, the gossip star will tell you to death; If you don't quit your family, you are encountering difficult people, and you will suffer for a lifetime. ”

General Yan said that his mother and the wife of Xiao Shilang of the military department at that time were close friends, and the two knew each other well and admired each other. Xiao Shilang is in a high position, and Mrs. Xiao has a gentle personality and views children from their parents. I don't think Xiao Wulang can be wrong.

Who knows, and then things will take such a big turn? First, General Yan's father died in battle, and his mother became ill after receiving the letter, so she went for half a year; On the Xiao family's side, after two years, Xiao Shilang is also ill.

Of the four parents, only Mrs. Xiao was left. With such a big change, the children have naturally changed. Now when we talk about this marriage, the two families don't trust each other, and I think it's difficult. Lu Luo said.

Wen's jaw head.

People are always fickle. to adapt to life.

After Mrs. Xiao lost her husband. returned to her hometown with her child, how could she still be the character she had more than ten years ago?

And what is happening to her children now, who can guarantee it?

Marriage is a woman's second reincarnation. How could Yan Xun not be cautious?

The sixteenth day of the first month. Yan Xun listened to Lu Luo's words. Early in the morning, after Yamen went to Yamen to order, he immediately returned to the house and told Mrs. Yan about it.

The old lady of the Yan family understood what Yan Xun meant.

It's just that. She disapproved of quitting her family.

The old lady knew that the other party's Xiao family was not as good as before. Xiao Shilang also had a brother back then, who was also an official in the court. The year before last, the uncle of the Xiao family died, and the Xiao family completely cut off their contacts in the court.

Therefore, when the world looks at the Xiao family, they feel that they are really down, unless their children and grandchildren can re-enter the office.

The Yan family retired before, and the reputation of "disliking the poor and loving the rich" was completely betrayed.

The higher the family, the more they cherish their reputation, and they are easily unwilling to tell the truth. The Yan family is so prominent, there is no need to get a notoriety for being frivolous and domineering in order to withdraw from relatives, which will attract hatred.

This matter is obviously only owned by the Yan and Xiao families, but in the end, it will be scolded by the world, because the world looks up to the Yan family and is more and more critical of them.

"San Lang, why is that kid bad?" Old Mrs. Yan pretended to be stupid and tried to turn around with Yan Xun to see if there was room for maneuver, "Because he loves his sister and is filial to his mother, he will quit?" No matter where you say this, it's sensational. ”

Previously, the imperial court advocated filial piety.

It's just like in the afterlife, if you say that a person obeys the law, he will be put in prison, just like the appalling thing.

It would be a great rebellion to say such things.

"Everything must be done in moderation, and once it is excessive, the good becomes bad." Yan Xun said, "Grandmother, is water an excellent thing?" All things grow, which one can leave the water? However, when the flood was a great disaster, did you think that water was a good thing? ”

Old Madam Yan smiled bitterly: "You are using strong words. It was just a chance encounter at the Festival of Lights, when his sister was crying, and Yun Yun said a few more heavy words. In a hurry, he didn't ask the reason, and it was understandable, why did this become rampant? ”

The old lady felt that when people were in a hurry, their actions would get out of control.

This is called caring and chaotic, ordinary people will be like this, only Yan Xun can stay calm at all times.

There is only one encounter, and the unhappiness should be resolved, not to retreat. Acting like this is too extreme, and Mrs. Yan doesn't like it.

Isn't this another kind of flooding?

"San Lang, you have to think twice." The old lady said, "Whether the children of the Xiao family are good or not, it is difficult to determine once we meet. At that time, Yun Yun was just a stranger, and he scolded his sister and cried. If it is his own family, he will naturally measure it. The human heart is not so simple to determine, you are too arbitrary. ”

"I see people very accurately, I don't like that kid at a glance." Yan Xun said, "Grandmother, I have to go to the palace in the afternoon to teach His Majesty martial arts, and I will talk about this matter when I come back." ”

Yan Xun saw that the hour was not early, so he hurriedly said goodbye and entered the palace.

As soon as Yan Xun left, Old Madam Yan's temples hurt. This grandson doesn't let him worry for a day.

"Alas!" The old lady sighed.

"What's the trouble again?" It just so happened that at this time, the old marquis returned home.

The old marquis traveled to the Wonderland last year, and the family thought that he was going to become a monk and seek Taoism. Unexpectedly, he traveled for a year, and felt that it was just like that, but he still didn't like it in his heart, so he returned to Yanfu.

It's just that after walking around for a year, eating fasting and reciting Buddha, his health has improved a lot.

"San Lang came here just now, and he said that he wanted to quit his family with the Xiao family," Mrs. Yan said.

This is a big deal, so she told the old marquis what the Yan family said.

When the old marquis heard this, he was so angry that he almost didn't carry it. The old marquis was furious: "Bastard thing! Filial piety has become not, then does he still have the principles of morality, is he still a person? ”

Filial piety is the highest moral standard.

Even the courtiers felt that if a person was unfilial, he would be disloyal.

Filial piety is the cornerstone of the moral rule of monarchy, patriarchal society.

A society in which law and morality go hand in hand, underpinning the code of conduct of the whole society.

If the cornerstone of filial piety is destroyed, the morality of the whole society will also fall apart. The old marquis is old, and when he heard this, his face was bleeding because of anger.

"Someone, go and call San Lang over, I'm going to ask him personally!" The old marquis drank vigorously.

The old lady stopped him: "He went to the palace, and today he will teach His Majesty martial arts"

In the end, I had to tell the old marquis, so the old lady said it in advance.

The old marquis was angry, which was also expected by the old lady.

The old lady calmed him down for a while.

"San Lang won't listen to our words. When did he hear a word from us when he was a child? From the time the front clan was alive, he listened to his mother's words. Now, nothing you and I say will work. ”

"Then let him mess around?" The old marquis's mood calmed down a little, and he also remembered Yan Xun's rebellion, it was indeed helpless to deal with him, and it was useless to be angry.

Now, Yan Xun is self-reliant, and he won't listen to his elders.

Yan Xun himself is an unfilial thing, expect him to take a fancy to filial piety?

"He listened to a few words from the Lu family." The old lady pondered for a moment and said to the old marquis, "He values Wu Niang very much." ”

"Then you send someone to invite that little lady to come, let's tell her, let her persuade San Lang's unfilial grandson again!" The old marquis said.

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