Shuai Xiaobing frowned: "This seems to be a bit wishful thinking, and...... It will make it difficult for Sister Xiuzhu to do. ”

"It's hard to do?" Lin Xuefei asked curiously.

"That's right!" Shuai Xiaobing explained, "The feelings of two people will only be effective when two people pay at the same time, if it has always been one party to pay, then over time, this feeling will be unbalanced, if you happen to encounter any external stimuli, it is completely possible to hate because of love, the so-called deep love, deep hatred is how it comes." ”

"I understand that." Lin Xuefei said. This kind of thing is indeed more common, not all people are saints who only give without wanting to reciprocate, many people always give unconditionally at the beginning, but after a long time, the person who accepts the payment of others will feel that it is taken for granted, and the person who pays will feel unfair. In this way, resentment comes. If you are small-minded, one or two times is enough to give you dislike, and if you are broad-minded, it is impossible to pay indefinitely. Someday, the one who keeps giving will feel tired.

Although love is not an equivalent exchange, unequal love is destined to not last long.

"Moreover, if I continue to do this, it will also make Mr. Shi very difficult," Shuai Xiaobing continued, "because I have always been good to her, and she accepts it, and if she is not with me, the others will scold her for her poor character; If I have been good to her and she refuses, and I continue to be good to her, others will still scold her for not knowing what to do. Sometimes, being too nice to others has become a kind of moral kidnapping, knowing that others can't like you, and you have to make the other person feel embarrassed, and this kind of relationship is not worthy of being called true love......"

"Forehead......" Lin Xuefei was very surprised. Because in her mind, as an otaku in the past, she would read a lot of "chicken soup texts" every day, and subconsciously thought that as long as she continued to be good to a person, she would be sincere sooner or later. Now it seems, it seems a bit of self-deception.

"Psychologically speaking, knowing that the other party cannot fall in love with him, but also giving to the other party all the time, is not only a kind of masochism, but also a kind of moral self-flaunting, which is no longer the love of the other party, but the cherishing of his own feathers. People who do this tend to love themselves more deeply; Because they will rudely think that as long as they pay seriously, they will not consider whether they will force the other party into an embarrassing situation by doing so, and the reason why many 'good men' make girls afraid to avoid it is because of this," Shuai Xiaobing said, "They treat people too well, so good that people are afraid; When you treat her well and make the girl feel that she can't bear it or can't pay it back, then she has to avoid you. So, many girls would rather choose bad men...... Because they have no moral pressure in front of a bad man, on the contrary, knowing that the other party is a bad man, they can also stimulate the subconscious sense of martyrdom and sacrifice, feeling that they are using their bodies to save a fallen soul. The man treats her well, but she thinks that it is cowardly and incompetent; Men treat her badly, but she feels that it is a kind of conquest, which is the subconscious and instinctive ...... of women"

"What the hell is this...... Lin Xuefei was completely speechless, "No wonder you didn't fall in love before, after you analyzed it so 'scientifically', you really can't find true love in this world!" ”

Shuai Xiaobing said very honestly: "So when Sister Xiuzhu rejected me, I knew what she thought." The more I try to get closer to her, the farther away she will be. ”

"Hmm...... Okay, anyway, the choice is yours, and I'll just watch from the side," Lin Xuefei sighed and said, "What about Xiao Yun?" And what should she do with the child in her womb? ”

Shuai Xiaobing was silent for a moment, in fact, he really wanted to continue this topic, because he felt that there were many things to explain to Lin Xuefei. But he was soon relieved, because fundamentally speaking, the relationship between him and Lin Xuefei is not love, but a family relationship that is different from flesh and blood. It's just that fate makes the two unable to separate, and the fate of the two people is called one, she refers to and screens women for herself, why not for herself?

"What are you going to do?" Lin Xuefei urged.

"Me? Arrangement? Shuai Xiaobing felt a little embarrassed, "What do you think I should arrange?" Anyway, I think I can only take care of the aftermath, and I can't really help with other helps. ”

"Can help with the aftermath...... It's already rare......" Lin Xuefei thought about it and said, "Xiao Yun doesn't seem to plan to keep children. But...... She also seemed to be worried about the physical harm caused by the loss of the child. ”

"Don't have children......" Shuai Xiaobing sighed, without words.

Lin Xuefei continued to press Shuai Xiaobing's waist a few times: "What? Do you want her to give birth? It seems like...... Unrealistic! Her current condition...... Although there is no problem financially, children are born out of wedlock...... It's going to be a lot of pressure. ”

Shuai Xiaobing stopped talking, and after a while, he said, "Feifei, if it's you...... What will you do? ”

Lin Xuefei frowned and thought for a while: "First of all, I definitely won't look for other men...... If I have your child and you still don't want me, I will definitely go to our mother, and our mother will definitely not be able to kill you! If I don't like you...... I will also keep the child, after all, it is also our mother's grandson......"

"Forget it, this question is asked to the wrong person!" Shuai Xiaobing said with a wry smile.

"Because your question can't be set up on me and Xiao Yun at all," Lin Xuefei said, "Xiao Yun has been killed by Ni Haifeng, will he still give birth to a child for him?" It's too late to hate him! I also know that it is a cruel thing for a life to be lost like this, but ...... We don't have a choice. This child shouldn't exist in the first place! ”

"Why?" The voice came from outside the door, and Lin Xuefei suddenly turned around and found that Ai Lili was standing at the door.

"Sister Li!" Lin Xuefei immediately got off the bed and looked out, "What about Sister Zhenzhen?" ”

"Don't let her know too much about the matter between the two of you!" "I saw that the two of you have been up for so long, and I am worried that you will quarrel, so I will come and take a look." ”

"Quarrel?" Lin Xuefei reminisced for a while, knew what Ai Lili was talking about, and then said freely, "If I come here a few more times, let him become an 'old driver' first, I won't be happy too late, lest I be hurt to death when I am with him in the future...... How could you quarrel with him about this! ”

Shuai Xiaobing was a little embarrassed, got up from the bed and said, "This...... Sister Li, don't listen to her nonsense, I won't make mistakes again. ”

"Thank you!" Lin Xuefei immediately said, "It's annoying that you make more mistakes!" I've suffered so many years in the first half of my life, and I haven't even held a girl's hand, you have to trick a lot of girls back for me and let me enjoy it! Sister Li has already recommended a lot of 'power tools' to me, just waiting for you to send me benefits! ”

Elili's face immediately turned a little ashamed: "What do you say?" What to say? Why are you two me? This is too wide-ranging, right? ”

Lin Xuefei immediately smiled maliciously.

Ai Lili said with a straight face: "Fei Fei, I listened to it outside for a long time just now. How do I feel...... You seem to be very opposed to Xiao Yun keeping the child? ”

"Me? Very opposed? ”

"That's right! It's all about getting rid of it! I feel like this kid has a grudge against you......" Ai Lili glanced at Lin Xuefei's face, "Do you want Xiaobing and Xiaoyun to get along, and the three of you can be together in the future...... So you think this kid shouldn't exist, and it's a shame to give a green hat to a creep? ”

Lin Xuefei was stunned for a moment, but then shook her head firmly: "No! I never thought of it that way! Moreover, I never thought that the three of us would be together in the first place. On the contrary, I have been thinking about whether I can help Xiao Yun find a good home, although Xiao Bing is good, but I definitely can't give Xiao Yun a name, Xiao Yun is very good, although she has done a lot of mistakes before, but she can't erase everything about her. ”

"Then you shouldn't be angry with the child's life!" Ai Lili comforted, "It's not that you can't get married if you have a child, and you said, modern people are very open-minded, if Xiao Yun is a girl in her belly, I don't know how many people are happy, the daughter born by a beautiful mother like Xiao Yun will definitely be a big beauty in the future!" Only Ni Haifeng's kind of person would treat his son as a treasure......"

Shuai Xiaobing thought about it and said, "Yes, Fei Fei." Although we can't make decisions for Xiao Yun, after all, the child is a life, and if you don't want it after birth, you can ask someone else to adopt it...... The third brother and Sister Li will definitely be able to help the child find a pair of very good adoptive parents. But once the child is abandoned, there is no chance to regret it...... I know that it was Xiao Yun's own decision to lose the child, but let's unify our thoughts and persuade her together......"

Lin Xuefei was silent, and after a long while, her gaze gradually became firm, she took a deep breath, shook her head vigorously and said, "No!" Children can't stay! ”

"Maniac!" Elili sighed.

Shuai Xiaobing stood up excitedly: "How can you be so cold-blooded!" You can treat your children as a burden, but we never have! Me neither! If you feel like you don't need her, leave it to me! No matter what the cost, I will help raise this child until he grows up! ”

"I support the creeps!" Ai Lili said decisively, "Moreover, if Xiao Yun doesn't want it, this child is my child!" I was raised! Give him everything I've earned in my life! In the future, I will be given a pension to the end! ”

Lin Xuefei was in a hurry, the whole person stood up "poof", walked forward a few steps quickly, then stopped, walked to the door a few seconds later, closed the door, turned around, faced Ai Lili and Shuai Xiaobing, gritted his teeth and said: "Do you know why I killed the hostages when I was in the exercise?" ”