CHAPTER XXIX
Su Miaoyan smiled: "That's naturally not good." ”
Zhan Shuxiu: "......"
Su Miaoyan looked at him sideways, and still smiled lightly: "Zhan Shuxiu, generally speaking, if I accept your dowry, I want to repay your dowry, what dowry do you want me to give you?" ”
"Huh?" Zhan Shuxiu was stunned for a moment, very surprised, and then subconsciously said, "I don't need to ......"
After a pause, he was silent again, and frowned again and looked at Su Miaoyan.
"You don't have to buy a dowry, do you?" Su Miaoyan chuckled, said the second half of the unfinished words for him, and then shook his head and sighed, "I knew you definitely hadn't thought about it." The custom here is that the man's family comes to the dowry, the woman's family buys the dowry, and on the day of the wedding feast, the groom comes to pick up the bride, and the bride takes the dowry to marry together. You know, I told you before, I don't want to have a wedding banquet, so I won't have a dowry, and naturally I can't accept your dowry. What's more, our relationship isn't stable yet, right? ”
Zhan Shuxiu pursed his lips, not very happy: "Su Miaoyan, I don't care, you don't have to care so much, I don't want to be so clear between us." ”
Su Miaoyan looked at him for a while, and when she heard him say this, she was happy in her heart, happy and happy, but ...... She turned her head, looked at the bright floor of the airport, and said lightly: "Zhan Shuxiu, some time ago, a cashier girl at the front desk of the hotel temporarily asked me for two days off, saying that her cousin was killed by her boyfriend, and the court wanted to sentence the murderer, and she wanted to go to the trial." ”
Zhan Shuxiu: "......"
"I approved this fake, and when I came back, this girl told me the reason for her boyfriend's killing, guess what?"
“…… Something to do with money? ”
"Yes." Su Miaoyan nodded, her expression was a little solemn, "Her cousin wanted to break up with this man, but the man disagreed, her cousin insisted, and the man saw that there was no hope of recovery, so he gave up." But the man then proposed that during the relationship between the two, he spent more than 10,000 yuan for her cousin and asked her cousin to return the money. Her cousin refused, and the two argued at a stalemate, and the man killed her in a fit of rage. ”
Zhan Shuxiu: "......"
He looked at Su Miaoyan and stopped talking.
Su Miaoyan also looked at him, smiled, and said softly and sincerely: "Zhan Shuxiu, I know what you want to say, you don't have to say that I also know, you are not such a person." Moreover, this is not the main reason why I told you this, let alone guard against and suspect you, otherwise I would not have told you this. ”
Zhan Shuxiu breathed a sigh of relief, and then said curiously: "Then what do you want to say?" ”
"My principles and attitude." Su Miaoyan said in a deep voice.
Zhan Shu was stunned.
Su Miaoyan smiled at him and said slowly: "Zhan Shuxiu, the only opinion that this cashier girl expressed on this matter is that her cousin was unlucky to meet a man who is so careful. In fact, she is indeed qualified to say this. She has a boyfriend, very rich, but not handsome, the sister doesn't like him, but needs his money, the two have been dating for three years, and the sister still can't like him. I've also met his boyfriend, it's really not good-looking, but he loves this girl very much, gives her money, helps her buy things she likes, and pays off her credit card debts......"
"Where's this girl? While complaining to us about her boyfriend every day, she has a very bad attitude towards him; While calculating every day when he will pay his salary, he can buy what she likes, and spend his money happily. If that's it, forget it, Zhou Yu Huang Gai, one is willing to fight and the other is willing to suffer, there is nothing to say. However, the girl is not satisfied, in addition to her boyfriend, she also keeps in touch with several other men, and has secretly met and gotten along, in her words, it is a spare tire. She was also very successful, she could receive four or five bouquets of flowers for a festival, but she always complained that she couldn't do anything but look at the flowers, so it was better to give her money, give her gold and silver jewelry, or something. ”
Later, she finally found a type she liked on the Internet, and the man was willing to come to S City from his hometown to live with her. The girl found an excuse to quarrel with her boyfriend, and broke up with him resolutely. The man from his hometown lived with him as soon as he arrived in S City, and it was Valentine's Day in a few days, and the man wanted to give her roses and chocolates, and the girl didn't want to live or die, so he had to go to the shopping mall counter to buy her a gold necklace of more than 10,000 yuan, and wear it to show off to us at work. ”
Su Miaoyan looked at Zhan Shuxiu very calmly and smiled lightly: "Isn't it incredible?" ”
Zhan Shuxiu frowned tightly, because of upbringing, he doesn't like to talk about gossiping about other people's private affairs, but this girl ...... It's too much for him to know. He said in a cold tone: "I don't comment on her right or wrong, but in my opinion, there is no word 'morality' in the dictionary of such people." ”
Su Miaoyan sighed: "Everyone in our hotel thinks that she will be debunked if she does this, and then she should know how to write the word 'regret', but the strange thing is that from beginning to end, not once, none of the people she has dated are suspicious of her, and still send her flowers and buy gifts." I think it's ridiculous that the ex-boyfriend who was randomly found by her to break up with her still thinks that he is wrong, and he still loves this girl. He bought flowers and wrote a letter to the hotel to find his sister, but the girl didn't go to work, so he asked me to pass it on to my sister. ”
"It's really a very pitiful and sad thing to really pay wrong. I actually wanted to tell him the truth, but I couldn't help it. This is the life and choice of the two of them, and the right and wrong and the consequences are borne by the two of them, and it should not be me, an outsider, who interferes and talks. Therefore, I just told him euphemistically, probably because he had no fate with his sister, so he didn't want to be attached. He just smiled back at me, he didn't do well enough, and he didn't blame the girl for breaking up with her...... I heard that I was in a complicated mood, at that time I really felt that this girl was too blessed, and she didn't know how to cherish it, why did I understand so well but couldn't meet such a good man? ”
Su Miaoyan sighed and couldn't help laughing at herself.
Zhan Shuxiu: "......"
Looking at her, looking at her, and finally looking at her, Zhan Shuxiu finally couldn't hold back, rubbed his fingers, cleared his throat, and said awkwardly and slightly shyly: "Don't worry, you actually met it now." ”
Su Miaoyan was stunned for a moment, then covered her mouth and laughed happily, without speaking, only looking at him with bright eyes.
Zhan Shuxiu was laughed uncomfortably by her, his face was hot, don't overdo it and urge: "Okay, don't laugh, what's going on in the back, you can say it quickly." ”
Speaking of this, Su Miaoyan smiled again: "Later, I handed over the flowers and the letter to the sister, and the sister did not shy away from reading the letter to me, the letter was not written long, to the effect that she apologized to the girl, hoping that she could give him another chance, it doesn't matter, let the sister go to him if she has difficulties in the future, he can help." The girl didn't feel much, I couldn't help it, and I asked her if I didn't feel uneasy about my conscience? She said no. But what I never expected was that a week later, this girl quickly broke up with the man from her hometown. The reason is that she felt that this man was stingy and refused to give her money to spend, and asked her to save some money, saying that the two would live together in the future, so she couldn't stand it and broke up, and switched to her ex-boyfriend who begged her for forgiveness. ”
Zhan Shuxiu: "......"
Su Miaoyan paused, and then said: "I heard from my sister that the man from my hometown was divorced and had no children, and there was a ten-year difference between him and this girl. I think he really wants to live with her! The sister used to think that he was rich and could afford the life she wanted, and she also said that she really wanted to live with him and didn't mind that he was married, but his money was not willing to spend for her. She could carry it clearly, and she broke it quickly, and the only thing she was worried about was that the man would ask her to take the necklace back. I said that if he asks you, you will give it to him, and my sister gave me a white look, so I can't give him sleep for nothing! I asked her if she would feel uneasy about her conscience, and she said no, the relationship seems to her to be like this, both parties take what they need, and if they have a better choice, they can say goodbye, and they can also say goodbye if they feel that they can't get by, that's all. ”
Zhan Shuxiu pursed his lips in disgust, remembering the word 'three views' that Su Miaoyan had told him before, so he said succinctly: "The three views are not on the same line, and I don't want to speak for her affairs." ”
Su Miaoyan smiled, and only then put away her smile at the end, and said slowly: "Yes, this is her way of life, she likes it, we don't want to conspire with each other." It's just that the people in the hotel have discussed her affairs in private, and they basically look down on her behavior and practices, and the point of contempt is basically that she has a boyfriend and is looking for a spare tire, but the point I am concerned about is that she loves to spend other people's money, why doesn't anyone think this is also wrong? Later, those female colleagues told me that it was natural for her to be like this, but if she was sincere and only alone with her boyfriend, then it didn't matter if she spent his money, it was normal for men to support their wives and children, if it weren't for their husbands' incompetence and their ability to make money to support their families, they wouldn't come out to work. I thought about it, they weren't right, because that's how my parents came here. But ......"
Su Miaoyan paused, looked at Zhan Shuxiu with a straight expression, and his eyes were a little dark.
Zhan Shuxiu had already roughly guessed what she was going to say.
"Zhan Shuxiu, since I was a child, I have been very afraid of owing favors to others, and I am also very afraid of troublesome others. Basically, someone gives me a candy and I get her a pack of cookies in return. When someone gave me a pear, I did everything I could to return her an apple...... In short, it is necessary to do not owe each other. To put it mildly, this can be said to be a courtesy, in fact? In fact, I just want to have peace of mind, I don't owe the other party, then I can do whatever I want, others can't say it, and I can't manage it......"
Su Miaoyan paused and laughed at herself: "My parents said that I was actually very selfish and cold-blooded, just because I had such a temperament, so I couldn't get along with people, and not many people were willing to have a deep friendship with me." I think my parents are quite right, I am like this in life, and I am also like this emotionally, so I don't like blind dates very much. I don't think I'm ready, meeting someone is tantamount to deceiving the other party, especially after the meeting, the man's parents will basically give the woman a red envelope, and if you are satisfied with the other party, you will give a lot of money. ”
"At the beginning, when I couldn't wipe my face and went on a blind date against my will, I would pray that the other party would not fall in love with me, and everyone would say goodbye after a few words of meeting. Later, once the other party expressed a good impression of me and wanted to develop further, I would be so frightened that I would refuse at the first time. There is no other reason, it is purely because I feel that it is easy to take back the emotional giving, knowing that I am not ready, and I have no intention of responding to the other party, dragging the other party, I can't compensate if I hurt the other party in the future, so it's too tricky. My parents always tell me that if you don't try to understand the relationship, there will definitely be no way, I understand, but I just can't take that step, if I'm not ready, that's to deceive the other party, I don't want to. ”
Zhan Shuxiu looked at her calm and beautiful face, thinking about what she said, and suddenly understood why she sent him WeChat news about the tragedy caused by the discord between seven or eight men and women before agreeing to date with him, and told him in advance that if the two separated in the future, she also hoped that the two could get together and break up peacefully.
She is really serious, cautious, and responsible about her feelings.
This seriousness, prudence, and responsibility are not only for herself, but also for the other party.
Zhan Shuxiu felt distressed inexplicably, thinking so much, thinking so much, wasn't she tired?
Holding her hand gently, Zhan Shuxiu said softly, "So...... Are you ready to be with me now? ”
Su Miaoyan looked at the hands of the two of them, and in the skin touch, his palms were thick and warm. It's novel and awkward, but she doesn't want to break away at all.
The two looked at each other, and Su Miaoyan smiled: "Yes, Zhan Shuxiu, I am ready and willing to be with you, otherwise I wouldn't want to travel with you." However, Zhan Shuxiu, I want to fall in love with you with peace of mind and no debt, the two are evenly matched, free and equal, and unrestrained, so I can't ask for your money, and I can't just let you pay alone. Perhaps, when our relationship is stable in the future, and we are sure that we will be together in the future, then we may be able to integrate everything together regardless of you and me. Now, not yet. ”
Zhan Shuxiu sighed lightly and rubbed her head helplessly: "Okay, I'll listen to you." I only have a small hope, I hope that this day will come soon, and I won't have to wait too long, okay? ”
His handsome face was a little helpless and warm, and his eyes were deep and soft.
Su Miaoyan blushed, the impulse struck, she plucked up her courage, leaned forward and hugged Zhan Shuxiu, and after answering "Okay" in his ear, she quickly wanted to retreat.
Zhan Shuxiu was stunned for a moment, and then quickly hugged her who wanted to retreat, the corners of his lips couldn't help but rise, and he laughed softly in her ear: "I'll wait." ”