244 In the hot summer, come to the door
Summer is already very hot, not to mention the Northern Yan Kingdom that is a summer in the first half of the year. The weather and temperature www.biquge.info make people reluctant to go out, so if they don't have to go out, they prefer to stay at home. If it is other countries, summer means that farming is busy, and because Beiyan Country is half a summer and half a winter, the sowing and transplanting time here is in April and May every year, and it has not yet begun.
"Xiaoyan, do you feel uncomfortable outside, so you entered the space? Even though you can still put an ice basin, you can't feel too cool right now, so you can enter the space and enjoy the comfort that has always been the same, right? In the evening, Zhan Xiaoyan and Yan Qihao entered the space again, so the latter looked at her leisurely appearance and said clearly.
"Yes! Because Beiyan Kingdom is different from the other three countries, it only has summer and winter, and the six months is actually a bit long. If it's usual, then it's okay for me to stay in the room directly, but because I'm pregnant now, I'm more afraid of heat than before, so when I'm in the palace, when only the two of us are in the room, I will take you into the space, which is of course very comfortable! Zhan smiled and nodded, then took Yan Qihao's peeled apple and took a bite.
"You've worked so hard! Because you have always been so measured and planned, you can handle things very well. Now that I have a child, and it has been more than five months, I can imagine that you will love and educate our children. This is our first child, and there will be a second, a third, and so on, many more children, and although I know that having a child must be painful, I don't want you to have just one child, the child always has to have a companion.
And there are more children, so when they are around us in the future, it will be very lively. Then when we are 60, 70, or 80 years old, it is possible for three generations to be in the same house, four generations to be in the same house, or even five generations to be in the same house, and it will be very lively at that time! Yan Qihao said as he imagined what it would be like many years from now.
"Alright, you! It doesn't matter how many children we will have in the future, for us, they are all people who will appear in our lives, and we, as parents, will start worrying about them when we have children. Because after they are born, they will educate and love them for more than ten years, and then when their sons marry and their daughters get married, they will have their own families. It's okay if it's a son, and it will always be by our side, but when the daughter gets married, she can only come back occasionally, it's really 'raising a child at the age of 100, often worrying about 99', this sentence is very reasonable! Zhan smiled and touched his stomach and said.
"Yes! As you said, whether it is parents, children, relatives, or friends, they will appear in our lives for a period of time, but they will not always be there, because they all have their own lives, and the only person who will always be by our side is a wife or husband, so it is 'holding the hand of the son and growing old with the son'. In those families with wives and concubines, the only one who can accompany the male host's tablet into the ancestral hall is the tablet of the lady in charge, which is also a reason. Yan Qihao said with a smile.
"Okay, don't be so emotional, it's not too early, it's time for us to sleep! Even though the time passes in the space differently than outside, it's the same when it's night outside, so if you're not tired, you can go to the study and pick up a book to read, or do something else. I can't sleep, and I'm now giving prenatal education to the baby in my belly. Because according to one of the books I found here, in fact, babies already have spiritual intelligence and can feel everything outside after they have grown ears, so it is also very useful to start education at this time. ”
Zhan smiled and said, sat down in front of the shelf with the piano, and began to play the piano, it was a lyrical tune, because she couldn't play too exciting tunes, so she had to be lyrical and softer. As for reading, she has to read it word by word, so that the child in her womb can hear it, although she can't start learning anything right away at such a young age, but it also has a certain effect, so since she was five months pregnant, she has been doing it all the time.
The reason why it is said that it is the easiest time to have five or six more months of pregnancy is because it will not be as pantothenic acid and vomiting or drowsiness as when I was first pregnant, nor will I have a big belly and some inconvenience like when I was seven or eight months old. It is only at this time that the stomach shows up a little, but it will not affect the action in the slightest, no matter what you do, as long as the movement is not too big, and the movement is not intense and fast, it is okay.
Time flies very quickly, in a blink of an eye, Zhan Xiaoyan is more than seven months pregnant, Zhan Xiaoyan is more staying outside, playing chess with Guan Lao, watching Yan Qihao write, Zhan Xiaoning playing the piano together, occasionally she will draw a picture, but she will not sit all the time, she will also walk around, and she will only eat three meals a day, at most eat some fruits or vegetables that are easy to digest.
Because she eats, the child in the belly will also absorb nutrients, if the nutrition is too much, the child will be too big, and there will be difficulties when she gives birth, not only she is uncomfortable, but the child will not feel good. That's why now she has to exercise at the right time, and then control her diet, so that the birth will go smoothly.
"Well, smile, your pulse has always been very good, no matter what time it is, it is so smooth. And when others are pregnant, they will feel more or less anxious, but you won't, you've always been so relaxed, no matter what you do, it's the same as before. It is only when I occasionally see you reading to your child or talking to him that I feel that you are now a mother about to become a mother. You seem to have been so calm and calm all along, I really don't know what will surprise you. Guan Lao said after taking the pulse of Zhan with a smile.
"Hehe, grandpa, people are supposed to maintain a calm mind, no matter at any time, calm enough to be able to make the most correct judgment! And this kind of mentality must be maintained at all times, and you must not be impulsive and irritable, and you must learn to control your emotions at any time! Zhan Xiaoyan said with a slight smile.
"Alright, then you can go quickly! Didn't you already make an appointment with Shiyun to play? It's just the two of you, and she probably won't take the maid with her, and you don't want anyone to follow you, so you should be careful not to fall, although you must have a way to stabilize, but you also have to pay attention. Guan Lao also knows that this is the case, but he will also feel that she is too mature and calm, and he will feel sorry for her. But on the other hand, it is precisely because of her character that she can take care of her three younger siblings.
"Smiling, I'm here! Because today I want to take you to meet a person who knows how to take care of children very well, and can still start educating her after the child is sensible, whether it is the reading and writing that boys and girls need, or the horsemanship and archery martial arts that boys need, or the piano, chess, calligraphy and painting that girls need to learn, she will know! The reason why I was able to take you to see her today is because of my mother-in-law's face! Liang Shiyun said as she walked in.
"Well, I know your intentions, and I'll thank you whether or not I can get her to agree. And in fact, it is okay for me to educate Qihao by myself, and now it is only because I heard you say that there is such a person, so I will go on this trip with you, but it is just a visit, whether she will agree to my request, of course, depends on herself! Zhan Xiaoyan said as he walked towards the carriage at the door. It is precisely because I want to visit a very important person that I just go with the two of them without a maid, which is also a sign of respect and sincerity.
"Well, smile, as I told you before, she has never been married, and she has served a mother for a long time, until the mother died, she did not leave the palace, so there are many people who come to the door to personally invite her to teach their children in the house. I also know that the child has not been born yet, but I am afraid that if I look for her later, she will have already taken someone else's house, so whether she agrees or not, we are going to go this time, because her parenting style is really good. Although the money to hire her is not low, it is well worth it, and I only have one child for her to raise. Liang Shiyun continued to say more carefully.
"I know, and I know that the child's nurse doesn't need her to come, but if I want to start upbringing, I will also be after the age of five, so now this trip is mainly to ask her if she is free in five years, and if she can free up time for us!" Zhan smiled and nodded, indicating that he understood and the purpose of this trip.
Half an hour later, the carriage stopped in front of a house, which was still not small. Because according to what Liang Shiyun just said, even though she is only one person, she has adopted many children over the age of seven and under the age of fifteen, so the house is always very lively, so it can be seen that she should also be a person who does not like loneliness and loneliness!
"Is there anything you two are here? If you want to ask to visit your grandmother like everyone else, then it just so happens that your grandmother is not at home and has gone out. After the knock on the door was opened, a boy of about ten years old came out, looking at the two men who came to the door with gifts, and guessed what their purpose was, apparently it was not the first time she had received such a guest.
"Hello, we are here to visit Mrs. Wei, because we have something to ask for. Since Mrs. Wei has already gone out, then let us in, we want to wait for her inside, as long as she will come back today, we will wait for her, we have come to the door because of something, so we should wait for her. Zhan said to the boy with a smile.
"Well, in that case, then you two will come with me! However, because our family is sitting separately, we can only serve a cup of tea to the two of us, and when the tea is served, no one will entertain you. The boy said as he walked in with Zhan Xiaoyan and Liang Shiyun.
"It's okay, you don't have to entertain us, we'll take care of ourselves. And a cup of tea is enough, because we just have to wait here and then be able to meet Mrs. Wei! Liang Shiyun and Zhan Xiaoyan looked at each other for a moment, knowing what she meant, because no matter whether Mrs. Wei would agree or not, it was necessary to see this side today, so it was okay to wait for her a little.
"Smiling, I knew we would have waited until the afternoon to come back. Because Mrs. Wei is not in the house now, if it is to visit friends, it must be after dinner before coming back, I knew that we would first write a letter of worship for people to hand over first, and then make an appointment to make an appointment It would be better, but I didn't think about it. After the next person served the food and left, Liang Shiyun said a little embarrassed.
"It's nothing, because I need to see Mrs. Wei in the first place, you just gave me this opportunity to be able to meet Mrs. Wei, even if I know that there is such a person, I may not be able to meet her. Okay, don't think about it anymore, if Mrs. Wei's puppet hasn't come back at noon, then I think the next person will also prepare food for us, so don't worry. Zhan smiled and took the water to drink, she asked for a glass of warm water.
But at noon, Mrs. Wei came back, and it just so happened that they didn't need to have lunch here, and after explaining the request to Mrs. Wei, she also agreed, after all, Zhan Xiaoyan's request was to wait until the child was five years old, and she would come to the door to raise her, and although it was only a short exchange of less than twenty words, she could see what kind of person Zhan Xiaoyan was, so Mrs. Wei was happy to accept.
Therefore, the conversation was carried out by both parties, and when Zhan Xiaoyan and Liang Shiyun left, of course, they were also very satisfied. Although Zhan Xiaoyan said that she just came to ask her, and she was prepared that Mrs. Wei might not agree, but after she agreed, Zhan Xiaoyan would also feel happy.
And the reason why she took this trip was because she knew that Mrs. Wei was a person with a good reputation, and after meeting, she knew that her character was also very good, so whether it was from her reputation or her character, it was enough to raise her children, otherwise, she would not have gone on this trip with Liang Shiyun, and now she has received a positive answer from Mrs. Wei, even if it will be five years before she will appear by the child's side, it is very good, not to mention that this is what she needs! (To be continued.) )