Chapter 073
Chapter 073 Baptism Three Great Rites Lin Yi Presents
On the third day of Daiyu's production, it was the "washing three" gift. "Baptism three rites" is an ancient ceremony, whether it is in the folk or in the court, this baptism three ceremonies are to be held extremely lively and grand.
The folk regard the "baptism three rites" as an auspicious gift, and all relatives and friends love to join in this excitement. The Xie family's in-laws are limited, not as complicated as other princes' mansions, and Xie Jinxuan did not serve in the court, and his colleagues were saved. Therefore, it is also an easy task to post a post, the Lin family is the first one, needless to mention, no one else is invited, Lin Jue is also invited.
The Beijing Palace, which is also on the list, is the Jia family. Jia's Daiyu only posted to Jia Laotaijun and Xichun, and the other is two girls who have been married, which has always been good with Daiyu, such a happy event, Daiyu also wants to invite them, and then there is the aunt Mrs. Zuo's family.
Xie Jinxuan and his wife didn't want to invite too many people, just watched the ceremony together, after all, the child was still young, it was not easy to feel the wind, there were many people, Daiyu had just finished giving birth, and she still needed to recuperate, and it was not easy to work. However, Lin Jue analyzed that their ideas were good, but I was afraid that on that day, how many guests would come would not be controlled by them.
Sure enough, on the day of "washing three", the Xie family invited those who were not invited, and the room was full of people.
Lin Jue arrived early in the morning, Princess Beijing and King Beijing also arrived early, these are their own family members, and they all know each other, they sat together and talked, and Princess Beijing went to the inner courtyard to see Daiyu and the child.
Princess Beijing has long been familiar with Daiyu, and now that Daiyu is her younger sister, she only loves her more. Daiyu was in the couple's bedroom when she gave birth, and now she doesn't have to move around, and she rests directly in the bedroom. Originally, the production was in a special delivery room, and it was said that it was unlucky for a woman to be filthy when she gave birth, and it was unlucky for a man to easily collide with him, but Xie Jinxuan, as a doctor, just didn't pay attention to these. I am afraid that Daiyu will move and get cold after giving birth, that is, she will give birth, and she will be directly set up in her bedroom.
Now that the room has long been cleaned up, because of the air leakage that I dare not open the window and open the door, there is still a faint smell of blood in the room. Princess Beijing is also a person who has given birth, so she knows how to raise confinement children. Entering the house without a trace of wind, seeing that Daiyu was about to get up, he hurriedly pressed the person back, "Your body is weak, don't be polite." Then Daiyu stuffed back the quilt that was about to lift a corner, "This woman is a confinement, but she should be cautious, the most taboo is the cold, and now the days of April and May are still a little cold." If you get sick in this month, not to mention whether you will be able to raise children in the future, you will have a problem of back pain, leg pain, and body weakness, which is also tight. He also sighed, "When I was born with water, it was extremely dangerous, and I heard Xuan'er say that your womb is very smooth, which shows that you are a blessed one." ”
After all, Daiyu spent a lot of body to leave the child, and now it is inevitable that she is still a little weak, and said with a smile: "Yes, Xianggong often says, sister sit down, I am a little messy here, sister, don't dislike it." "Moved in.
Xie Wenya sat next to the side, "You are also blessed, you have just become married, and it is really smooth to have a child so soon." I've been working on your nephew's marriage these days, and I haven't even found time to come and see you. We don't even have an old man in our house who can talk to you, so I really have to take care of you more. ”
Daiyu said: "Where did my sister say, we are a family, what do you say about not being treated, there is no birth." I know what kind of character my sister is, and I have always only been favored by my husband, but what kind of treatment do you have to talk about? ”
Xie Wenya smiled, "I don't know anything else, but I know that you have always been sensible." ”
As he spoke, both of them laughed.
Daiyu asked about the family that the water dissolved each other again, Xie Wenya said: "It is the third girl of the Liguo family, the most gentle and virtuous character, when you can move around, I will take you to see, you will definitely get along." ”
"I've only been to Beijing Wangfu for a few days, so it doesn't matter if I don't get along, the most important thing is to honor my mother-in-law." Daiyu smiled.
The two talked for a while, and listened to the next person report through the curtain that Mrs. Zuo was coming, Daiyu couldn't get up, and Princess Beijing hurriedly greeted her. After a while, the two walked in hand in hand, Mrs. Zuo smiled and asked Daiyu's body, and then asked the child, these Daiyu gave birth on the second day Lin Jue went to Zuo's house to report the good news, now it is just more reassuring.
Because Mrs. Zuo also came, Xie Wenya asked Yahuanyu if she was awake, and when she heard that she had woken up, she asked someone to pick up the child from next door.
Elderly people are even softer in the face of young babies, and the two hug and hug, as if they are not rare enough. Xie Wenya inevitably sighed: "As soon as I saw this child, my heart was even more on fire, but fortunately, my family's evil obstacle is now taken care of, and I will be optimistic, and my little grandchild should also be born tomorrow." ”
Mrs. Zuo also smiled: "I said that Daiyu was born with blessings, but the concubine didn't know, the former Er Jue'er went to my place to report that Daiyu gave birth to a son, how happy is my heart." Coincidentally, I was talking to my two daughters-in-law about this great event, and my eldest daughter-in-law suddenly felt unwell, so I asked the doctor to take a look, isn't it another happy event? This person has a child, and he has been believing in the letter for more than three months, but he didn't even notice it, and when he touched the pulse, it had been three months! ”
When Xie Wenya heard this, she became more and more envious.
After talking for a while, the guests arrived one after another, this time the Jia family did not take the lead, Mrs. Jia led a large family, and arrived after noon. This is the latest, but the number of people is also the largest, Lin Jue raised his eyebrows at Xie Jinxuan: Look, I'll just say it.
When he entered the door, he didn't like the Jia family like Lin Jue, and Xie Jinxuan also greeted him with a smile.
They are not outsiders, so there is no distinction between male and female guests, there is only one male guest, Lin Jue, and the female relatives are all real relatives, so there is no need to shy away from it.
The "washing three" is usually held at noon, and the Jia family came the latest, but they did not delay the hour. This can be regarded as a kind of etiquette, although the Jia family is not particular about some things, but the big pleats are fine.
The midwife-in-law is not only the midwife who delivered Daiyu, but she is also a mature old man, and the Xie family's bounty is rich, so she is even more dedicated.
As soon as the items are neatly placed, the "washing three" is about to begin. When adding a pot, the people of the family need to add warm water and happy eggs, gold and silver bills and other things in the basin in order of the elder and the youngest. Although the number is not enough, it can make up for one or two in terms of identity.
After adding the basin, the midwife-in-law stirred a few times in the basin with a mallet, muttering something in her mouth, probably meaning that the elder brother would bring a few more little brothers. After that, I took a bath for my brother carefully, and while washing, I recited auspicious words such as "wash your hair first, be a prince, then wash your waist, and one generation is ...... taller than the next".
When taking a bath, the child is stimulated by the water, and it is easy to cry, which is a good thing, and it is called "ringing basin". It's just that the brother of the Xie family has a pair of big black eyes, and with the actions of the midwife, he stared at it wrongly, and he didn't mean to cry at all.
The midwife-in-law had never seen such a child, but she didn't have to make the child cry. glanced at the face of the third master of the main family, there was nothing wrong, and the midwife-in-law had to put down the matter first and continue to the next step.
After washing, the midwife took the bridal egg and wiped it on her forehead and body, which was said to prevent disease.
After a tedious set of procedures, Lin Jue felt tired when he looked at it. Xie Jinxuan didn't like these long-winded things, but it was different for his son. For example, if other children have it, no matter how troublesome it is, their own children must have it. This typical "happy father" mentality, Lin Jue can still understand a little bit.
"Adding pots" are all added by the people of the family, and after the ceremony is completed, the visiting guests have some gifts. Generally, for poor people, a few eggs, a piece of cloth, and a few cakes are just a heart. If it is a wealthy family, it is usually some small clothes, small shoes, or directly give small bracelets, longevity locks and the like. No matter what, the main family is going to entertain a meal of "washing three faces".
People like the Xie family will not be like ordinary people's families, just one face and be done. How do you have to add a few dishes, such as the Xie family prepared four cold dishes and eight hot dishes, but the staple food needs to be noodles, which is "washing three sides", which must be the same.
Lin Jue brought Lin Yi with him today, and during the "washing three" ceremony, Lin Jue didn't dare to bring him over for fear that Lin Yi would make trouble, and when it was over, Fang asked the nurse to bring Lin Yi over.
Xiao Lin Yi saw that everyone was giving gifts to his little brother, so he broke free of the nurse's hand, threw himself into Lin Jue's arms, and said slowly: "Daddy, Yi'er also wants to give gifts to her aunt and younger brother." ”
Lin Jue squatted down, "What does Yi'er want to send her aunt and brother?" ”
Xiao Lin Yi took out the small cloth bag he was carrying, and after a long time, he took out a piece of candy and a paper folded crane, "I want to give this paper crane to my aunt and father to Yi'er, can my father do it?" "This is a gift from my father, and since I want to give it to others, I naturally need my father's consent.
Lin Jue smiled and nodded, Xiao Lin Yi immediately laughed, and pinched the candy again, "Yi'er gave her favorite osmanthus candy to her little brother, okay?" ”
Lin Jue let go of Xiao Lin Yi, "Then why don't you go and ask your aunt to see if your little brother can eat candy?" ”
Xiao Lin Yi got the approval, and immediately ran to Daiyu's bedside, this child, speaking slowly but not slowly, looked at Daiyu with his eyes on the edge of the bed, "Auntie, aunt, so I gave you a paper crane, do you like it?" ”
Daiyu heard the conversation between Lin Yi and Lin Jue just now, her eyes were red, and after she became a mother, she became more and more soft-hearted towards her children. Touching Lin Yi's hair, "Yi'er sent it to her aunt, and my aunt likes it." ”
Lin Yi smiled when he heard this, "Then Yi'er wants to give her younger brother Yi'er's favorite osmanthus candy, how is your aunt?" ”
Daiyu received it in her hand, "My brother is still young, he hasn't grown teeth yet, and he can't eat sugar." But my aunt will put it away for my younger brother, and when my brother can eat it, my aunt will tell my younger brother that this is a gift from Yi'er's brother, okay? ”
Xiao Lin Yi nodded shyly, blushed, and nestled back into Lin Jue's arms.
Everyone inevitably laughed and praised Lin Yi for being sensible, and Lin Jue unceremoniously accepted it for his son.