050 Faces and hearts are not in harmony
The Zheng family has long since stopped caring about the previous things.
understood the difference between being a daughter and being a daughter-in-law, and she was quite knowledgeable about current affairs, and coaxed back her husband's heart.
Fortunately, it was not too late for her to understand, fortunately, Liu has always been a tolerant person and does not care about her. When he saw that she had come back to her senses and behaved like a good wife and mother, he stopped caring about her.
When he also has children, the Zheng family understands even more thoroughly, and he will not be the annoying daughter-in-law.
It is...... In the end, it was difficult to calm down, and in the face of the old lady Liu, there was a little less intimacy.
Everyone has been getting along safely for so many years, and the harmony on the surface has been maintained very well.
It was only when she found out that her daughter was particularly close to the old lady that she had a rare twist and a bit of a left-handed temperament.
Thanks to Xia Chu, she doesn't care so much about her mother's little temper, and she is not a real child, as long as the Zheng family has not abused her, she has a lighter affection for her, and she doesn't care.
In her last life, didn't she live her life like that?
Mrs. Zheng didn't know that there had been a lot of estrangement between her daughter and granddaughter these days, and it was impossible for the Zheng family to say this to her, even if she did, she could only scold her and worry about these things with her daughter, was she stupid?
No, I can't escape after being scolded in vain.
The mother and daughter talked at a time, and the time passed very quickly, but as soon as they made a mistake, they put dinner on the table again.
The rules of the Great Jin Dynasty, when you go back to your mother's house on the fifth day of the first month, you can live in your mother's house for a few days, as little as three or five days, and as much as half a month, depending on the in-laws' leniency and intolerance.
Luo Ziqian didn't care about this, in previous years, he stayed at his mother's house with his daughters-in-law for ten days and a half months.
And people like her and Mrs. Zheng's grandmother's generation, Gao Tang is gone, and there is no reason to go back to her parents' house to visit her relatives, and she also let her own children and nephews come to the door to pay a New Year's greeting or something during the New Year's festival - if you have a good relationship with your mother's brothers and sisters, you will exchange ideas, bring a letter to talk or something, if it is not good, it will be a meaning to send a festival gift.
In previous years, Zheng had to bring many days at home, but this year it was not possible.
Don't look at the New Year's Day, when the New Year is over, she has to worry about one thing after another, and she can't be busy at all.
At the banquet, the Zheng family took advantage of the happiness of the old man and the old lady Zheng, and told them about Xia Qing's official status.
Old Man Zheng is very happy, his only son-in-law has a chance, how can he not be happy?
The Zheng family is rich, but the family has no power, and many sons have not been able to cultivate a good reader.
Old man Zheng is not like others, because there is a scholarly saying, he thinks about his sons as officials all day long, and shines on the lintel. The Zheng family is a Yuqing family, and they have long looked down on those things in the court.
However, that doesn't mean that he would like his son-in-law to be a Hanlin scholar for the rest of his life.
The Zheng family is not very involved in the affairs of the court, and there is naturally no way to know that the son-in-law is such a small thing as a Bapin County Cheng. In order to ask for a good fortune for the New Year, the Zheng family deliberately did not mention this matter, and did not say it until today.
Old Man Zheng's beard curled up slightly, and he liked it even more when he looked at his daughter's two brothers, even if one of them gave a set of ink treasures.
These good things that are valued by scholars, the Zheng family has more than the Xia family.
Old Madam Zheng is not such a careless person as he is, and the first thing she thinks of is the marriage of her eldest grandson.
"You are going to take office with you," Mrs. Zheng is afraid that she is the person who knows her daughter's temperament best, she has a good relationship with her son-in-law, and she is afraid that she will not be detached from Meng Meng wherever she goes, "Yi Erding's family affairs in the early spring, can you live a good life?" Have all the things about getting married and children getting married at home have been arranged? What did your mother-in-law say? â
Zheng doesn't like to listen to this sentence 'what does your mother-in-law say', as if in addition to her being a capable person, everyone around her is a false shelf.
Of course, she won't go to the hard top of the family's mother, she just went out and came back with a tantrum, and now she has no such heart, so she said with a smile: "Mother-in-law said, let us call our own decisions." Over the years, the three books and six ceremonies have already been completed, and the in-laws have also set the charter, and the troublesome things have been done almost the same, and then the public middle school has given 5,000 taels of marriage, and the daughter looks at it, it is enough to do a proper marriage. â
"How can five thousand taels be enough?" Mrs. Zheng will not be satisfied, their family will marry a daughter, and the dowry alone will be tens of thousands of private silver! However, she also knows that other people's families can't be compared with their own, and their own family is just such a daughter, and their sons are the top ones who can hold silver, so they can naturally add makeup as much as they want. Moreover, in the case of the Xia family, it is already generous to be able to give 5,000 taels to his grandson to marry a daughter-in-law, but he is not from a family and has a thinner foundation, so he has the idea of subsidizing his daughter: "Go back and take some from me, you can't make my eldest grandson shabby." â
As soon as the word shabby came out, you could probably see how Mrs. Zheng thought of the Xia family.
At the beginning of the summer, he only thought that he went out without ears, thinking that he would follow Old Man Zheng to the study after his brother Xia Yi had eaten, otherwise he would have to bury himself in his heart......
When Xia Yi was born, Xia Qing was still a small person. Even though he has married a wife and had children, he still follows the old man to study in the study every day. Zheng has always been a delicate character, although he was pressed down by Luo Ziqian for a few minutes at that time, he gave birth to a child, but he has a good temper, and he has a headache and brain fever all day long.
At that time, Uncle Xia Yan was just out of the difficult time, and the old lady didn't have time to play with her daughter-in-law this kind of trick that couldn't be put on the table, so she could do whatever she wanted.
Luo Ziqian was impatient to fight with her, but Old Man Xia was angry.
Don't look at Old Man Xia in Xia Mansion, he doesn't seem to have any sense of zĂ i, but if he really wants to talk, he can stand up! He was not a lover on the spot, he endured it at the time, kicked his son back to accompany his wife, two years later, the little grandson was already the age when he could speak, and he was pregnant with a second child by Zheng's family, as soon as the old man spoke, the fat son was sent to the old man by the filial son Xia Qing to do his filial piety!
Zheng was stupid at the time, but she really didn't dare to cry!
If it was the Liu family who did this, she would have to make a fuss, but her father-in-law spoke, what could she do? The old man doesn't usually meet his daughters-in-law, and he can't even say a soft word!
I had to silently swallow this depression with blood.
So, Xia Yi grew up in front of Old Man Xia when he was a child, and he had a strange sense of pride in his family, and he would never listen to this kind of 'disgusting' words.
But the person who said this is his own grandmother, or for his family affairs, even if he heard it with his own ears here, he could only pretend to be deaf and dumb, and his heart was secretly blocked.
But it's better not to happen like this.
Old Madam Zheng also understood the temperament of her eldest grandson, so she picked out when he was not there.