Chapter Seventy-Nine: On How to Flirt with Han
Ren Yingying on the other side, there was no news for a long time, and just when Wang Shuai thought he had poked the sore spot that Ren Yingying didn't want to talk about, a message was sent at this time.
"Actually, it's not a broken love."
"What do you mean?" Wang Shuai continued to ask.
Ren Yingying replied: "Because we have been together for less than a week. β
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Wang Shuai was speechless for a while, he only knew that a boy and Ren Yingying proposed to break up that night, but he didn't expect that the time the two spent together was so short. Ren Yingying talked about her last relationship by herself.
"He's a Leo, I'm an Aries, at the beginning, we both felt very compatible with each other, and it felt super good when we chatted, and then we made an appointment to meet, but after we met, he insisted that I was the Five Elements Water Destiny, and he was the Fire Destiny, and said that we were not suitable, and then broke up with me."
Listening to Ren Yingying's narration, Wang Shuai frowned, what constellation, five elements, that kid must have found that there was too much difference between the real person and the photo, so he would throw out such a reason to hold back.
"Such a superficial fellow, it's good to be early and early." Wang Shuai replied, "The world is so big, I'm afraid I can't find a handsome guy?" β
"But...... This is the eighth time I've fallen out of love this year...... I'm sad......"
This reply made Wang Shuai almost faint, the eighth time this year? What is the concept, an average of once a month, such a breakup frequency, you should have been used to it for a long time, right? Still sad?
Wang Shuai replied weakly: "Girl, I really admire that you can have such a good mouth......
"What do you mean?"
"Eat one a month."
"But none of them are sincere," Ren Yingying seemed to let go, and replied, "It's all good chatting on the Internet, but after meeting, I love to ignore him when I look for him again, either disappearing or breaking up directly, they are all wolf-hearted guys." β
Looking at Ren Yingying's reply, Wang Shuai felt her anger.
Wang Shuai said in his heart: "Hmph, most of the online dating is dead by seeing the light, because the photo is really unreliable." β
However, Wang Shuai still patiently replied: "Not all men are like this, you can't overturn a boatload of people with a stick." β
"Cut, different? Are you talking about yourself? β
"Me?" Wang Shuai was stunned for a moment and replied, "I am indeed a very responsible man, so there are still good men in this world." β
"Then why, I keep failing?"
Wang Shuai said in his heart: "Don't you know that this is a society that looks at faces? Although he thought so in his heart, he couldn't write it like this on the reply, otherwise, he was afraid that he would be blocked by Ren Yingying in an instant.
So, Wang Shuai said: "Maybe it's because you haven't learned the skills of flirting yet." β
"Flirtatious skills?"
"That's right, to deal with men, you have to be able to attack, but also to be affectionate, of course, it is indispensable to be cute and coquettish, and sometimes it is a little bit domineering and leaky, and when you master these skills, men all over the world can't fly out of the palm of your hand." Wang Shuai is talking nonsense.
"I don't know much about ......"
"Let's just put it this way, when dealing with men, the lowest is to be obedient, the middle is if you leave, and the best is to ask for it."
"What do you mean?"
"Don't you know the truth that the more you can't get it, the more you want it?"
"I don't know."
Wang Shuai frowned, and said secretly: "This Ren Yingying, who has been in love so many times, has it all talked about dogs?" Every time you fail, why don't you summarize the reasons? It's really idle, but you should find some books to read, there are many such books on the Internet. β
There was no way, Wang Shuai could only continue: "Let's put it this way, do you know Chairman Mao's sixteen-character formula? β
"Do you mean that 'the enemy advances and I retreat, the enemy is stationed and disturbs me, the enemy is tired and I fight, and the enemy retreats and I pursue'?"
"That's right."
"But what does it have to do with falling in love?"
In fact, these sixteen words can also be used in love. For example, when a man pursues you very clearly, as a girl, even if she wants to, you have to say 'no'. β
"If you want to, why say no?"
"Because girls always have to be reserved, hard-won things are the most precious."
"Oh, I see, what about the next few sentences?"
"The enemy is stationed and I am harassing - if a man chases you but always can't catch you, then he may stop and hesitate, at this time, the woman needs to take the initiative, and then give him a hint or implicit to let him continue to chase you."
"Mm-hmm, that makes sense."
"When this man chases you until you are exhausted, you must not be soft-hearted, at this time, you will lose! If you don't like this man, at this time, you just let it go, then the other party is likely to retreat; And if you like this man, at this time, the time to test the other party has come. β
"How?"
"Have you ever watched a Korean drama?"
"Yes."
"You see in Korean dramas, when both men and women have feelings for each other, there will always be an old lady or rival who loves to make trouble, and then drops a check and says, 'Give you 10 million, leave my son/fiancΓ©e', right?"
"That's right, that's right."
"That's right, that's what it means when the enemy is tired and I fight, when the other party chases you until you are exhausted, you need to figure out some objective factors to let him know that it is difficult for you to be together, at this time, if he also withstands the test, you can move on to the next step."
"The enemy retreats and I chase?!"
"That's right, because at this time, the person chasing you is very tired, and even if you encounter such a thing, no matter how powerful you are, you will retreat, at this time, you need to show the style of a domineering president, and then pull him backwards, and then say some sensual words loudly, tell him how much you love him, then he will definitely be moved to the ground, and become your slave from now on."
"I want to know you and live a long life. There are no tombs in the mountains, the rivers are exhausted, the thunder and earthquakes in winter, the rain and snow in summer, the heaven and the earth are combined, and you dare to be with you! ββHow about that? Is it enough to be numb? β
"Very good, it seems that you have also opened up and made a little progress."
"Haha, thanks to the guidance of the love saint, inspired by you, I found that the whole person suddenly opened up." Ren Yingying replied, "But Qingsheng, these are just theoretical foundations, I need to find someone to practice." β
"This, I can't control you."
"Okay, I'll think about it carefully, find someone to practice first! Bye-bye, wait for my good news! β
On the other side of WeChat, there was no more Ren Yingying's reply, through the window, Wang Shuai found Ren Yingying in the classroom, and the whole person suddenly became excited, and there was no laziness at all.
I saw Ren Yingying take out a notebook from the table, and then write seriously on it with a pen. Obviously, what Ren Yingying wrote must be related to Wang Shuai's long flirtatious theory just now.
That Ren Yingying wrote five big characters in her notebook very seriously - "On How to Flirt with Han". Of course, these Wang Shuai don't know.
In a short period of time, Wang Shuai talked nonsense about such a theory, and there are many flaws in it. Among them, the most critical one, Wang Shuai did not put forward, that is, a girl who can use such means to flirt with a man must have a high foundation of herself.
What is self-foundation? To put it bluntly, you must first have good looks, and then it is best to have a good figure.
Think about that Ren Yingying, if she is chanting something in the image of a female man, "The mountains have no tombs, the heaven and the earth are together, but dare to be with the king", the picture is unbearable.
From this conversation, Wang Shuai got two messages: first, this Ren Yingying was very crazy about falling in love, but she didn't succeed every time, so Wang Shuai has reason to believe that it was this failure in love that caused her academic performance to plummet; Second, after every failure, Ren Yingying ate and drank frantically when she was in a bad mood, which led to her figure being further out of shape, and the result of her distorted figure was that she failed to fall in love again in this face-looking society.
Suddenly, Wang Shuai thought of the paintings of Ren Yingying that he found in the teaching and research department, during his freshman year, Ren Yingying's painting style began to move closer to bright and bright, and the composition was mainly based on warm tones and landscapes; During his sophomore year, he began to turn to figure painting, and the subject matter was mainly to depict the love between men and women, supplemented by landscapes, but these compositions were extremely extreme, and the coordination level of the whole picture dropped greatly.
"It seems that the reason for Ren Yingying's great change in temperament has been found." The failure of love again and again has led to Ren Yingying's plummeting in all aspects.
If you want Ren Yingying to change the status quo, the most important thing is to let her be her true self again, instead of indulging in those virtual online dating. If you want to be yourself, you must first regain your self-confidence.
Look at this Ren Yingying, compared with a few years ago, what has become fat? The change in appearance is the fastest and most intuitive, Wang Shuai feels that this Ren Yingying can't be so fat all the time, she needs to change.
Looking at Ren Yingying, who was struggling to write in the classroom, Wang Shuai had an idea, he planned to let Ren Yingying start losing weight.
With Ren Yingying's previous qualifications, if he loses weight successfully, he must be much more beautiful than now, but Wang Shuai needs a justifiable reason, and he can't let him say to Ren Yingying, "You're too ugly now, hurry up and lose weight".
For his plan, Wang Shuai first thought of Qin Xuan.
Qin Xuan, as the head of the academy dance troupe, has a good dance foundation, and the members of the dance troupe under him can all sing and dance, in fact, let Qin Xuan guide Ren Yingying, if Ren Yingying is obedient, her figure will soon become slimmer.
It's just that losing weight is very painful for everyone, and Ren Yingying will listen to Qin Xuan's words 100%? That's the crux of the matter.