Chapter 08: Keep Looking
From last night to this evening, Yu Wenkang looked for Whelan all day, neither contacted Whelan nor saw Whelan, which made him very frustrated, and he went home and lay down in bed.
Speaking of the relationship with Whelan, Yu Wenkang still cherishes it. Anyway, they have been together for four years, and they are together almost every day. We go to class together, eat together, study in the library together, and often go to the park to read and study together on Saturdays and Sundays. has been together day and night for four years, and the relationship between the two is still quite deep.
After graduating from college, the problem arises. Yu Wenkang originally planned to let Huilan stay in Beizhou City, and then help him find a job and get married during the Spring Festival. But when he asked his parents about it, they didn't expect them to agree at all. Yu Wenkang introduced Whelan to his parents, and said how good Whelan was, and showed Whelan's photos to his parents. He thought that although Whelan was a foreigner, Whelan had a good temper and looked like a flower, so his parents should not object. But unexpectedly, after he introduced Whelan's situation, his parents unanimously objected, on the grounds that Whelan was a foreigner and an ordinary person. They think that since there is no need to find a foreigner, and there is no need to find a girl from an ordinary family in a foreign country, it will not only bring a lot of trouble, but also will not help the child at all, so you can only let the child help her, isn't it nothing to look for!
Yu Wenkang found a lot of reasons to explain, what has been good for four years and can't be blown anymore, what as long as she stays in Beizhou to work, isn't it the same! Anything is better than anything as long as people are good?????? But none of these reasons stand with the parents. They said, why can't you blow it after four years? If you are married, you can blow it, let alone if you are not married; It is more troublesome to leave the woman in the local area, and she will definitely have to take her parents over in the future, isn't it even more troublesome! It's good to have good people, but there are also good people in the local area, so there is no need to find good people from other places??????
No matter how Yu Wenkang explains, it is useless, the attitude of his parents is very resolute, that is one word: blow!
For more than a month, Yu Wenkang has been talking to his parents about this, trying to make them turn around, but his parents didn't pay attention to him at all, but urged Yu Wenkang to blow with that Whelan quickly. This made Yu Wenkang really not know what to do. Escaping from marriage, it seems impossible at all, and there are a few modern people who still engage in that set; Continuing to do the work, it seems that there is no hope at all, and it can even be said that it is impossible at all; If you handle the marriage independently, it will be cut off from the family, and you will not have a good life in the future. Is there any other way? Yu Wenkang couldn't think about it for a while.
For this qiē, Yu Wenkang did not sue Sù Huilan, he was afraid that Huilan would not accept it. So, while stabilizing Whelan, he continued to do his parents' work, and wanted to strive for the best result. But his parents couldn't wait, because they wanted to introduce Yu Wenkang to a partner as soon as possible, and then live a down-to-earth life.
Yu Wenkang's parents are both civil servants in the Lanhui District Government of Beizhou City. His father was the deputy director of the sub-district office, and his mother was an ordinary cadre of the district business committee. In their opinion, their son Yu Wenkang is still very good, he has to be big, he has to have good looks, and he has to have academic qualifications. With these few points, it is not a problem to find any kind of daughter-in-law, and there is no need to find a daughter-in-law from other places. Anyone who is looking for a daughter-in-law from other places is not very good in their own conditions, either lacking this less or lacking that or lacking that, it is not easy to find a good daughter-in-law locally, so you can only find someone from other places. There's no way around that.
More importantly, they want their son to have a good future, which requires a good interpersonal relationship in addition to his son's personal efforts. They even believe that good relationships are more important than personal effort. Therefore, they hope that the family of the person their son is looking for should be able to help the child's future. In this way, the foundation for the development of the child's career can be laid.
However, they didn't expect their son to find a girl from an ordinary family in another place, and this ordinary family would not help the development of the child's career at all, which made them completely unacceptable. This matter is obvious, if he marries that Whelan, his son's career will basically be like that, he will not get more help, and his career will not develop much. And basically they helped the woman.
Of course, that Whelan is indeed very good-looking, but what is the use of that! Looks are only temporary, not forever! And the career is forever, and with a career, it can be said that there is a qiē.
Seeing that Yu Wenkang had not improved his understanding at all, his mother was anxious. So while his son was not paying attention, he got his mobile phone and wrote a WeChat paragraph and sent it to Whelan, which was the WeChat that caused Whelan to jump into the river.
It wasn't until Yu Wenkang received a call from Tong Shuihe and was scolded that he saw the WeChat that was sent, but it was already too late. No matter how he looked for Whelan, Whelan was already determined to ignore him. Yu Wenkang also lost his temper with his mother, saying that his mother had hurt him. His mother finally told him that it would be a few years before he could truly understand this, and only then would he understand what harm was and what love was, and he would understand that his mother's approach was right.
Yu Wenkang is a smart person, and he knows that his mother has her own reasons for doing this. Therefore, although he lost his temper, he can understand what his mother did, after all, his mother is also for his good. He didn't really want to have anything to do with her when he came to Whelan, he just wanted to explain it well, pluck himself out, don't let Whelan hate him, and get a good result. Because it is impossible for him to break up with his parents, let alone break up because of marriage and family.
Despite this, Yu Wenkang took it very seriously to explain this matter to Whelan. He felt that no matter what the final result was, he must say what he wanted to say, and he must not carry this black pot by himself. But how do you get in touch with Whelan?
He didn't answer the phone, he didn't reply to the WeChat, and he couldn't find him when he went to find him, what else could he do? There's nothing to be done. It's not easy to make calls or send WeChat, and the only way available now is to look for it. If you can't find it once, you will find it a second time, and if you can't find it twice, you will find it a third time, and there will always be a time when you can find it.
If you want to find her, you have to confirm whether she has been discharged from the hospital. How can I find out if Whelan has been discharged from the hospital? Then you have to find Tong Shuihe. Thinking of this, Yu Wenkang, who was lying on the bed, picked up his mobile phone and dialed Tong Shuihe: "Hey, Shuihe, I'm ??????"
Before he finished speaking, Tong Shuihe gushed again on his mobile phone: "Yu Wenkang, have you apologized to Whelan?" If you don't hurry up, you have to strike while the iron is hot, and if the heat passes, there will be no chance to apologize, and it will be over at that time. It's still too late to do it now, you hurry up and apologize, otherwise, you will never have a chance. This time, you hurt Whelan too much, she is a girl, and she has been with you for four years, do you still have a conscience to treat others like this? Is it still a manly business? Also ??????"
"Don't talk about it! I want to ask you something. Yu Wenkang was already anxious when he heard that long talk, so he shouted loudly.