Someone has studied that there is a process for suffering. It is generally divided into four levels, in order of primary pain, general pain, moderate pain, and deep pain. The Cheng dù of pain is measured in tears. Tears swirling in the eye socket is primary pain, tears welling out of the eye socket is general pain, tears forming teardrops flowing out of the eye socket is moderate pain, tears forming large teardrops and hitting the ground is deep pain.

However, there is also a situation where although this incident is very painful, but the person who feels it is forced to endure and does not shed tears, what kind of pain is this situation?

This is the case, and it is not uncommon. Pain is entirely a personal feeling, and the same thing is felt differently by everyone, and the pain that is formed is also different. For example, if the same thing does not shed tears on the first person, and on the second person it is tears hitting the ground, then the second person is in deep pain, and the first person is not in pain. As long as you can hold back and don't shed tears, there is no pain.

That seems a bit unreasonable. For example, the death of an elder is a very painful thing. But there are people who just don't shed tears, can you say that they are not in pain? According to this statement, then he is not suffering. Whatever the reason he didn't shed tears, he really didn't feel the pain.

Now a few big tears flowed out of Whelan's eye sockets, and they smashed on the ground, which showed that Whelan felt a lot of pain, and since the tears were not long, it was a short period of deep pain.

Tong Shuihe saw that Huilan was sad, so he quickly sat down beside Huilan, took out a few paper towels and handed them to Huilan, Huilan wiped her tears and said, "Why is this Yu Wenkang like this!" Blow it! It's not endless! Who emphasized your responsibility to you, and pushed it to God, that is the WeChat sent by God! It's not your WeChat yet. Chasing me is you, blowing me or you, you still have the face to say! Speaking of this, I felt a wave of grievance, and several big tears rolled down from my eyes.

Tong Shuihe was afraid that Huilan would be mentally stimulated, so he hurriedly comforted: "He can say whatever he likes!" Don't take it seriously. We have nothing to do with him now, he says he loves you when he loves you, he hates you when he says he hates you, it's all he said. His words are not scored at all, they are not sincere, they are just performances, you just let him act casually! Let's just look at the excitement, don't go to your heart, if you go to your heart, you will be fooled. ”

Tong Shuihe's words really relieved Whelan. Oh, yes! Yu Wenkang writes like this for a while, and then for a while, isn't it all nonsense! How could I trust him! If you believe him, you will be torturing yourself, which can only make Yu Wenkang happy. So, I don't believe in your set at all, you just want to torture me, you just want to excuse yourself, you just want to blow the lamp with me decently, you just want to blow it with me and you want me to say yes, you stinky and beautiful!

Who is he Yu Wenkang? Now I can see through it, he is a love hooligan, an out-and-out love liar, and a pure love egoist. In just a moment, Whelan thought of three words, and they were all particularly suitable for Yu Wenkang.

Seeing that Huilan's face was full of tears, Tong Shuihe walked to the bathroom, took a clean towel, threw it with warm water, wrung it dry, and then handed it to Huilan and said: "Don't think about it, anyway, we have already blown it with him, how he likes to think, how to say, and how to do it is his own decision, and it has nothing to do with us." We are one principle: we don't care what he does. So he loses his temper! ”

Obviously, Whelan is in a much better condition, and at least there is no possibility of mental stimulation anymore. She wiped her face, and deliberately wiped her eyes, and said, "That strength has passed, and I didn't want to live a little just now, but fortunately, thanks to your enlightenment, I was able to ease up." ”

"No! We can't always think about dying, we should always think about how to live better, how to let people see that I live better alone, this is right. The more you want to see my misfortune, the more fortunate I am to live. It's to anger the other party. Tong Shuihe hurriedly said.

When people are in pain, it is still important to have someone around them. If someone says a few words of comfort, they will give some sympathetic messages to the person in pain, and they will help them make a simple analysis. These seemingly unimportant things will actually give the sufferer a positive feeling, and will dispel his extreme feelings, so that he will not do extreme things lightly.

Whelan listened to Tong Shuihe's words and felt that she was very right. Everyone will encounter difficulties, they will encounter pain, and they will encounter very unhappy. At such a time, don't think about how unlucky you are, but think that I will definitely get better, I will definitely cross this hurdle, and I will definitely reach the other side of victory. Thinking of this, he said: "I want Yu Wenkang to see, without him, I will live better." ”

"That's right!" Tong Shuihe said happily.

Whelan stood up and said, "Ignore him!" I'd better do some work! As he spoke, he walked to the table and put away the dishes and chopsticks. I'm going to wash all the unpleasantness away from it, and really start anew. ”

"I'd better do it! You're tired of the day. Tong Shuihe rushed over to pick up the bowl in Whelan's hand, "You better rest for a while!" ”

"So be it! I'll wash the dishes, you clean up the table, and it'll be done in no time. Whelan went to the kitchen and brushed up the dishes.

Tong Shuihe cleaned up the table, swept the floor again, and then made a pot of tea and sat on the sofa. At this time, Whelan also finished brushing the dishes and walked out of the kitchen, and sat down next to Tong Shuihe. Tong Shuihe poured half a bowl of tea and handed it to Huilan and said, "Xiao Lanlan, drink some tea!" ”

Whelan had just picked up her teacup when her phone rang again. She picked up her mobile phone and saw that it was Lai Quan's call, so she answered: "Lai Quan, let's eat!" ”

"Just finished eating," Lai Quan said on his phone, "Shui He is also at home!" How nice it is for the two of you to be together! There are talking and laughing. He said enviously, and then changed the subject, "Yu Wenkang came again just now, knocking on the door and going back and forth around the house, as if he didn't believe that you had returned to your hometown." Then I went out and I said do you want to go in? I have a key here, and when Whelan left, he was afraid that something would happen at home, so he left me a key. If you want to get in, I'll open it for you. Yu Wenkang waved his hand and said no, no and left. ”

"He's been going every day for the past few days, right?" Whelan asked.

"It's been days on end, and I've been here every day." "But I don't think I will come so much in the future, and I have already warned him today." ”

"Well, thank you! Keep staring at him! Don't forget to eat tomorrow! Bye! Whelan thanked him and reminded him, then hung up the phone and said to Tong Shuihe, "It's Lai Quan's call, telling Sù that Yu Wenkang went again, and let him blow him away." ”

"This Lai Quan is not bad, how responsible!" Tong Shuihe praised, "It's this Yu Wenkang, there are few people like him, who only care about themselves and don't care about others." She looked at Whelan, "If we have dinner together tomorrow, we will thank Nan Zhuang and Lai Quan, they are reliable people who can be trusted for a lifetime." ”