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Work is still different from doing research, but after a month, Lin Tian has already experienced the boredom and tedium of work. There is no legendary workplace dumping, no factional struggle in the office.

Everyone has their own tasks every day, and they have a timeline in hand when they have to complete it, otherwise the project will be delayed. It's too late to do those, who has the heart to intrigue. This made Tian Lin, who wanted to write about some workplace wars, a little disappointed, but in addition to the project team, there were still other people to write about.

It took Lin Tian a month to memorize all the people and understand what the main purpose of the project was, and then he studied the part he was responsible for. It didn't take much knowledge, it was mainly her patience. She could already see her life in a year. Because according to the project's plan, her mission will be carried out for a whole year.

That's probably what everyone who walks out of school goes through. What you learn in school doesn't seem to be of much use, and what you need to use in the project needs to be relearned. A lot of things that I didn't feel very useful in school are even more useful when working on these projects.

There is a big difference between work and school, and Hayashida has been trying to adjust his condition. At school, it is not uncommon to work overtime until 90 o'clock in the real yĂ n room, but when I am working, I feel very tired before it is time to get off work at 5 o'clock.

When Lin Tian was trying to step into a new life, Tian Lin began to collect workplace materials. How newcomers integrate into the collective is a good observation point, not to mention Lin, novice, Tian, there are also fresh graduates recruited in the company. Of course, some of them have been interning for several months, and in some ways they are much better than Hayashida. In addition to this, there are also students who come for internships during the summer vacation.

These people have provided Tian Lin with a wealth of materials, she rarely paid attention to this aspect before, many times her life revolves around Lin Tian, and most of the materials and inspiration come from Lin Tian's things. Lin Tian was in school, and many of the articles he wrote were campus essays; Lin Tian went abroad and wrote exotic articles.

Tian Lin is rarely involved in this aspect of the workplace, Lin Tian has no job or internship, and Tian Lin has no Ted to collect materials in this area. If she wants to write about it, she basically looks for information on the Internet, or goes to various forums and communities to see people talk about their life experiences.

The first thing I mentioned was to write the story of her and Lin Tian, and Tian Lin was also collecting materials for this. She sorted out a lot of things from childhood to adulthood, and she and Lin Tian have been reminiscing about their lives. But the things that can be remembered are basically how the two are happily together, if this is written, the whole article will be sweet from beginning to end, there will be no conflicts and no twists and turns, and the reader will run away while reading it.

Whether it is to think of a body - this thing that can be done just by thinking about it has no technical content in Tian Lin's opinion, or how difficult it is to get married - they have not yet reached how to write, and they cannot become the theme of the new book. And the lack of a small book that has accompanied him from childhood to adulthood, Lin Tian can't think of anything that has a heavy twist, so writing a book can only be put on hold for the time being.

Tian Lin is not in a hurry, in fact, if she really wants to write, she would prefer to write on another special day, such as the day of marriage, well, I believe that in her lifetime, she can wait until the same-sex marriage in Huaguo is legal. Or write it on the anniversary of their 10th anniversary, counting the days, and it will be a year.

The thought that they would be together for ten years in a year, and that she had not yet taken Lin Tian's parents, Tian Lin was sad. She also heard Lu Wei on the phone two days ago talking to Lin Tian about finding a partner, and at that time she really wanted to go up and say to Lu Wei, "Auntie, I am the person your daughter has recognized for a lifetime, I hope you can accept the two of us together." ”

But Tian Linsheng restrained his impulsiveness, and being too anxious would cause the opposite effect. Many parents who usually seem to be very good to their children will do unreasonable things after hearing that their children may be gay.

Some boys are a little better, a little stronger, they can run away before their parents tie them up, and the boys are still fighting and can resist. Many girls often get hurt from their relatives after coming out, and it's okay to lock them up, at least they can find a way to escape.

There are also parents who think that their daughters are gay because of the lack of men, and they will behave very irrationally. Sometimes the rest of this girl's life is ruined in the hands of those closest to her. There are many such examples, Tian Lin can often see the help post after coming out, and everyone tries to help in various ways.

Tian Lin still doesn't know if he and Lin Tian's brainwashing plan for their parents will succeed, and accept the existence of homosexuality without reminding them that their daughter is the same. If they know that their daughter is gay when they are still disgusted with homosexuality, they will subconsciously refuse to say anything about this aspect in the future.

The first step is to test homosexuality in film and television dramas and novels. After seven or eight years of data transmission, Lu Wei and Lin Xingan have become accustomed to the characters in it. Sometimes I would discuss a few words with Lin Tian, and both Lin Tian and Tian Lin felt that they had done enough in this regard.

They want their parents to accept homosexuality in reality, and the two-dimensional and three-dimensional situations are different after all. What is acceptable in the virtual world may not be acceptable in reality. Don't want to love on the Internet, as soon as you find out that there is a zĂ i in the truth, you will be disgusted, and there are many people.

On this day, Lin Tian picked up the phone, and in his heart, after the words that she and Tian Lin had practiced countless times, there was a background content at hand. It fictionalized a colleague who had known each other for a few months, and now came out to his parents, but his parents did not agree, and he came to the company, and finally the colleague asked for leave and returned to his hometown.

As a newcomer to the workplace, Lin Tian often called her parents to talk about the things she encountered in the company, and sometimes asked her parents, who had been mixed in society for decades, to teach her some interpersonal relationships. Now it's time to ask her parents how she deals with these colleagues who have returned from a great experience, and what she does when others ask questions.

This is the first time Lu Wei has heard that someone is gay, and she is a colleague with her daughter. But she didn't think about it so much, since it was someone else's private matter, she maintained the principle of "don't listen, don't ask", and did business. Especially the character of the daughter, she can't be a little expert in enlivening the atmosphere, as long as she doesn't spoil the atmosphere.

It's a good thing that parents' concerns are no longer homosexual, Lin Tian squirmed on the phone before he spoke: "I think, there is always a strange feeling about homosexuality, are there such characters among your colleagues?" ”

Lu Wei was a little stunned, her daughter hadn't spoken in such a tone for a long time, was she prejudiced against homosexuality or something else?

"Tian Tian, people are your colleagues, as long as you have the ability and don't do anything illegal and undisciplined, it doesn't matter if you are gay or not, don't take it too seriously. In this society, there are many such people, but you just see too little. ”

Although she hasn't seen a few, the people she knows are basically married, and those who aren't married really don't know if they are not suitable or really the same. However, after watching so many books and movies, Lu Wei can also face them with a normal mentality.

"However, it is enough to have contact with people at work, and I usually don't have much contact."

After thinking about it, Lu Wei still added the last sentence, although there is no evidence that you become homosexuals if you have more contact with homosexuals, but in her opinion, a person who is not very reasonable should communicate less, and it is not a good phenomenon to have too close personal relationships. There are also a lot of scum among the homosexuals in the country of flowers, in case they do anything to their daughters.

Let Lu Wei mention the usual interactions, Lin Tian and Tian Lin thought of using friends as the breakthrough point. The intersection between a colleague at work and her is only work, but friends are different.

You can learn a lot by having a good friend, and it's very easy to make up for losing a good friend. The influence of friends is very great, since Lin Tian made Li Xilian a friend, the former purity is gone.

Although Lu Wei has a lot of people who can be called friends, there are only three or five people who can be called very good. They don't see each other much, but every time they meet, they have endless topics to talk about, and every time they have something new to share. After one of them left L City, Lu Wei was absent-minded for several days. Unexpectedly, a few days later, several people established a WeChat group, and now it was fine, and they chatted enthusiastically every day.

Knowing how important a close friend is, how would Lu Wei react when she received a call from her daughter asking for help? Lin Tian and Tian Lin have already planned. If she expresses her blessings, then say about herself and Tian Lin on the last day of the New Year. If she wants to stay away from them herself, then she has to make the image of struggling in front of her friends and parents, and slowly make Lu Wei accept the fact that her daughter has a gay friend.

As for Lin Xing'an, it also depends on Lu Wei's reaction. Although his father is very authoritative at home, according to his observations in recent years, he has become more and more adhering to the principle that "what my wife says is right, and if my wife is wrong, what my wife says makes sense." "This concept. So as long as you take down Mom, Dad will definitely not be a problem. Both Lin Tian and Tian Lin think so.

At the beginning of the year, the project officially came to an end, and the company took annual leave in advance. Lin Tian made a call to Lu Wei, her best friend was going to have a wedding, it was the kind of bride and bride, just in the last few days, just in the middle of the home. She wants to be a bridesmaid, can she come home two days late?