Chapter 36: The Ideal Wife
Ding Yang didn't feel the slightest affection conveyed by Li Fei'er, Ding Yang's thoughts about Li Fei'er were very complicated.
In all fairness, on the one hand, he does not deny that he does have a good impression of Li Fei'er.
My Fair Lady, a gentleman, and everyone has a love for beauty.
Li Feier is indeed peerless, captivating the country and the city, and has been publicly recommended as the "first school flower in the opera" since she entered the school. Up and down the body, there is no place that is not beautiful: a perfect face, a graceful figure, and flashing eyes. It seems that there is also a moving prototype of a future movie superstar. With a smile and a smile, there is a faint lethality that seduces the soul.
Who is Ding Yang? is an ordinary layman with all living beings, and to put it bluntly, it is a sling. But Li Feier is undoubtedly Bai Fumei, the perfect lover.
Although he looked good in his previous life, he didn't have anything to do, let alone a goddess-level character like Li Fei'er, even if he was an ordinary girl with an ordinary appearance, she wouldn't look at him squarely. He has little experience in dealing with the relationship between men and women.
Maybe sometimes, it's just a matter of attitude, the characters who worship thousands of slings as goddesses stand in front of them alive, and they can be so close, before this, Ding Yang was already content, he didn't have too much luxury, and he didn't dare to act rashly to destroy this atmosphere.
Migrate qi and nourish the body.
Status changes temperament, and provision changes physique. This statement is indeed true. But Rome wasn't built in a day. Mindset changes don't happen overnight.
No one can immediately change their appearance and become a different person as soon as they cross over. If you're like that, what's it called, swell!
Getting carried away usually leads to a miserable death! There must be a process for the evolution of the sling silk into a rich and handsome.
The twelfth chapter of "Cold Eyes": "Let him make a windfall, move his qi, and nourish his body, he will always show his feet in the subtleties." ”
At this time, Ding Yang felt that he was like the nouveau riche who made a windfall, he was particularly insecure, and life gave him a sense of unreality, he was afraid that he would be like the movie "Charlotte Troubles", the actor woke up and suddenly found that he was back in his previous life, and a qiē was just a dream.
Shanghi Drama Academy is one of the three major performing arts colleges in China, with a large number of beautiful women, Li Fei'er has thousands of people in this class, and there are many girls who are taller than her in terms of comprehensive appearance.
School flowers? Yard flowers? There are many girls with faces and no breasts, chests and brains, brains and no talents, and there are many girls with talents and no quality, she is such a Zhong Lingyuxiu, a girl who is unique in ten thousand, if she wants to really convince her, she must cultivate both inside and outside, and her "wealth" and appearance are unique.
Could this person be me?
Although the body is now an 18-year-old boy, but the inner soul is a 27-year-old uncle, Ding Yang is no longer longing and fresh for the love of young boys and girls.
If you ask Ding Yang, what is the ideal other half? He immediately sketched in his mind a girl who best met the standards:
The long straight hair is never dyed and permed, and the skin is very fair, which can be called a sentence of ice muscle and jade bones, and never wears makeup.
Double eyelids and big eyes, lying silkworms, straight nose, goose egg face. How to say it, the beauty is very standard, it is the kind of beauty that is particularly formal and traditional, the character is extremely gentle, the concept is very traditional, and sometimes it makes people feel that it is from the grandmother's generation.
For example, girls should listen to their parents, they can't have sex before marriage, and they can't divorce when they get married. He rarely complains and says that others are not, rarely says that he can do whatever he wants, lacks personality, is slightly indecisive, but is gentle with others. But there is no lack of thinking ability, more of a calm and rational and unhurried. It's a bit like Melanie in Gone with the Wind. Life is quite independent, but it also has the attribute incompetence of not being able to lift a bucket and repair a light bulb.
A standard, decent, and pure girl can't seem to be the center of attention and the brightest figure for everyone, but you can't blame and ignore this beautiful being.
Of course, if the ideal can be realized lightly, then it is not an ideal, and it is really more difficult to find such a girl in the vast sea of people and still rely on each other.
If Ding Yang is asked to choose someone from among the people around him to be his girlfriend, he prefers the classical beauty Zhao Jing, who has a demure temperament, graceful manners, and a generous manner. In terms of temperament, it is most in line with the woman he imagined, demure and self-controlled, IKEA and IKEA.
A beauty like Li Feier with a hot body and a beautiful country is perfect to be a girlfriend or lover, but it may not be necessary to be a wife.
Generally speaking, beautiful girls have been spoiled since they were young, always thinking that they are beautiful and that others should be good to them, and they don't know how to thank or give.
Beauty and big money (especially nouveau riche!) The bad temper is well-known, and the beautiful people with beautiful hearts and beautiful tempers will only appear in the rivers and lakes of Uncle Jin Yong or Aunt Qiong Yao's garden, and the beauties have a little temper like celebrities who have some scandals from time to time, which complements their identities.
In addition to retaining traditional habits such as loftiness, pride, willfulness, and vanity, most beauties also have harmless but nerve-wracking "beauty syndrome" such as love of dressing up, aversion to housework, and love of pleasure.
It's no wonder that beauties have been pampered since childhood, teachers pity them when they are studying, classmates admire them, and men chase and grab them when they become adults, and their sense of superiority is innate, just like most famous brands are expensive, and beauties don't have a good shelf, so it's not the same as an ugly girl?
Marrying a beauty, in addition to the above problems, is to quarrel and shout for divorce, she is very confident, that means, leave and leave, we are strong!
The beauty also has a resistance to housework, and the appearance of a stunning woman wearing an apron is definitely not as fresh and refined as a white dress. Ding Yang believes that Li Fei'er must be better in the above aspects, but it is also limited, at least Ding Yang does not believe that Li Fei'er is a person who can do housework.
Some people say that a beautiful wife is like a car, and she is not sure where she stays, not because she is worried that the car lock is not safe, but mainly because she is afraid that the thief will always worry about it.
Even if you believe that a beautiful wife is immune to many temptations, but now the man who is not dead in the thief is invincible, maybe those guys are not as competitive as you, but there are many people who are sideways, and they are willing to work hard, and in the long run, the consequences are really a bit hanging.
There is no shortage of men around beautiful women, and it seems that the older the married women are, the weaker their guard against men, and they do not averse to the proper harassment of men, which will make them fluttering, and over time, the future is unpredictable.
Marrying a beautiful woman is like setting fireworks under the bed, although the possibility of spontaneous combustion and self-explosion is very small, but you have to be highly vigilant about the cigarette butts in the hands of all the people who enter the room, and you will not sleep soundly.
There is a beautiful wife at home, and from time to time there will be kind-hearted people who will pat you on the shoulder half-truthfully and joke: "Your wife is so beautiful, you have to be careful!" When it comes to the key point, it stops abruptly, and his look is enough to make you go home and beat for a long time.
In addition, if a beautiful woman has made a success in her career, the tongues behind her will be active abnormally, and it is suspected that she has paid more than just sweat. It's no wonder that everyone takes the bus to work, and if you're driving a car, you have to allow people to gossip about their psychological imbalance. People are terrible and tiring enough.
All in all, what Ding Yang longs for is a lifelong partner, not a brilliant fireworks-like love, fireworks are easy to cold, leaving only emptiness and loneliness.
From Li Fei'er, he really can't feel the security and comfort brought by love and marriage, so Ding Yangcai has always been like leaving Li Fei'er and has never responded positively.