Lin Tian had already planned to go abroad, but she didn't expect Lu Wei to disapprove of this. At this time, if you insist that you want to come out, you will definitely provoke Lu Wei's fragile nerves. Maybe the person who was nagged was her and not her cousin.

Having said that, Lu Wei is also in her forties this year, and it is almost time for menopause. Thinking about her recent behavior that is different from the past, is it really a menopausal attack? Lin Tian couldn't stop after this conjecture popped up in his mind, and the more he thought about it, the more he felt that it was possible.

Since the mother has reached this stage, it is better not to stimulate her at such a time. Lin Tian pondered the words and carefully revealed that he might also go abroad to gild gold. The vaccination still has to be given, so as not to leave herself after three years, leaving her father alone to face her.

The person who wants to go abroad has changed from a niece to a daughter, and Lu Wei is even more worried. She couldn't figure out what was good abroad, and where did she want to go. I don't know the place well, I am far away from relatives and friends, and my safety is not guaranteed. No matter how you look at it, it's Longtan Tiger's Den, but she can't say anything to her daughter.

"Let me think, have a mental preparation, let me think." In the end, Lu Wei faced her daughter, and she could only say that.

The daughter is older, and she has watched the children who have grown up grow up, and they have their own lives, and it is not time for her to point fingers. But I'm really not used to it, when my daughter was young, she could look at her every day, and she didn't feel anything at that time, but when Lin Tian went to college, Lu Wei felt lonely.

Lin Xing'an's work is destined for him to have to watch evening self-study at school one or two days a week, and Lu Wei stays at home alone, feeling empty in her heart. When Lin Tian went to school, she was also at home alone, but thinking that her daughter and husband would be back soon, she didn't think it was too long.

But Lin Tian left it was different, Lu Wei was used to having three people in the family, and when there were only two people left, she felt that there was a big vacancy in the family. Half of her heart was here, and half of it was on Lin Tian.

When eating, when shopping, Lu Wei always thinks about whether Lin Tian is doing well. She was so young when she left home, and she didn't know if she could take care of herself. Even now, Lin Tian has been in school for almost four years, and she is still not used to the days when she is no longer around. Everyone could tell that she was too worried.

Lin Xing'an often persuaded her, don't worry, Tian Tian is living a good life alone, but Lu Wei just can't stop her thoughts, and even has an awkward relationship because of this Harlem Xing'an. Her daughter is not her alone, how can she be so relieved to be a father.

Once or twice, Lin Xingan can understand that being a mother is always more sensitive than being a father, and it's okay to worry more about her daughter. After many times, Lin Xingan also felt that something was wrong with his wife. I haven't seen my wife mention her daughter so many times a day before, and I haven't seen her complain all the time. And he has a feeling that in his wife's heart, his daughter is much more important than him.

After checking on the Internet, Lin Xingan also knew what was going on, his wife was also in her forties, and it was normal for me to go through menopause. During this time, emotional instability and temper are all normal physiological reactions. The most important thing is to be calm, reduce the number of things that make her unhappy, let her be happy a few more times, and if she can't find something that makes her happy, she will create something that makes her happy.

Seeing his wife and daughter eating absentmindedly, he went to the computer after eating. Lin Xingan silently washed the dishes and prepared to join them. He also read a lot of information, "when adolescence meets menopause" is the most likely to have disputes in the family.

His daughter is eighteen this year, just at the tail of puberty, and he doesn't want to turn his head and find his wife and daughter arguing. Don't look at Lin Tian's soft temperament on the surface, in fact, he is quite stubborn, he will never change what he decides, and he will not hit the south wall or look back. If these two people quarreled, he didn't want to be a sandwich biscuit.

As soon as he came out of the kitchen, he saw his wife, who looked uncertain, coming out of his daughter's room. Could it be that what they said, Lin Xing'an was shocked, today is the second day of Tian Tian's return, and what he was worried about will not happen.

Lin Xingan watched Lu Wei go back to the room without squinting, and closed the door with a "bang", and her daughter came out of the room. There was no joy or sorrow on his face. When he saw Lin Xing'an, he was silent after shouting "Dad".

"Your mother is now," Lin Xing'an paused, it is said that it is better not to involve the children in the affairs of the parents. But after all, they are a family, and their daughter is almost an adult, so she must know these things. "Let's go in and talk."

"Mom, has she reached menopause?" As soon as he entered the door, Lin Tian asked. It's just that Lu Wei is worried and worried, so she can't see it, but Lin Xingan talked to her about her mother, and Lin Tian can verify her guess even more. Mom is not only worried, but the abnormal reaction is also related to menopause.

When she first had doubts, Tian Lin went to check the information on the Internet. Judging from the reflection of menopause, Lu Wei has a little sign. The mood is unstable, and the physical condition looks worse than before.

"That's right." Lin Xingan was a little surprised by his daughter's keenness, "What did you say just now?" Lu Wei has been thinking about her niece's going abroad, and Lin Xingan is not easy to say. In his opinion, other people's lives don't need their excessive intervention, and if their mother and son want to go out, then go out and try it. But in the face of his wife's worried eyes, he really couldn't say this.

"That, Dad, what if I want to go abroad in the future." Regarding the matter of going abroad, Lin Xingan basically did not speak, and Lin Tian could also understand that he was in favor of this, and he did not say a word considering his mother's face.

Lin Xingan really thought about this question, when her daughter was young, her colleagues said that she was smart and could study abroad to earn a lot of money in the future. At that time, he was still an ordinary teacher, so he could only smile and not answer, the cost of going abroad was not something his salary could afford. If his daughter's ability is strong, he may be able to go out to see it when he gets the official mission, and he has no hope for his own financial resources.

Later, his daughter's grades have always been at the top, and he also wants to save money, but the most useless thing in this world is money. Fill in a little here, move a little there, and the current deposit will be gone if you get sick. He can only hope that his daughter will fight for herself, and she really needs to stay abroad for a while to meet the most cutting-edge scientific research.

"Your mother doesn't agree?"

It seems that what I just said is not about my niece, and my niece doesn't want her to go abroad, and if she wants to think about it, her daughter probably disagrees even more. Lin Xing'an knew his wife's considerations, but when he went abroad, he didn't go to the mountains and rivers, they all went to study. If you don't go out, rest on your laurels in a small place, and lack vision and knowledge, how can you do it?

He now regrets a little, if he had fought a little more and went to the provincial capital city with better resources, would his life have gone further. Lu Pingying and her husband went there to work hard for a few years and earned a lot of money, if he went there to be a teacher instead of staying in L City, his daughter's study abroad must have been earned.

Now that his daughter is self-motivated, he will never stop him. The wife thinks that her daughter is a girl and doesn't have to fight so hard, but in Lin Xingan's opinion, if her daughter doesn't fight, how can she live better. Their life is good, and that's what they fought for.

What kind of life are those who grew up with them and didn't struggle now. It is true that some of them have become grandparents and look quite happy, but having children is not the whole meaning of human beings. Lin Xingan supports her daughter to go on more adventures, and if she gets married later, she will be applauded if she is doing well.

The wife was just like that, and compared to the fact that she was against her daughter going abroad. If you want him to say that if you don't catch the chance, you will be a fool, and if your daughter goes out for a trip, it will also help her life. In this regard, Lin Xingan fully supports any decision made by Lin Tian.

As for his wife, he also agreed to persuade his daughter, and there are still a few years before Lin Tian has the opportunity to go abroad, maybe Lu Wei's love will not fluctuate so much by then. The psychological construction is also good enough, and I won't worry about my daughter's going abroad, and I don't want that.

Dad's support made Lin Tian quite happy, although his mother was still a little stubborn, thinking that it was best for her to be by their side. But as long as her father supported her, she believed that her mother would figure it out and let her go. She's not a kite that has to pull a string, she should be a bird that always finds a home.

I hurriedly said a few words to my daughter, especially to let her spend more time with her wife these days, and be careful not to provoke her temper in the future. Lin Xing'an went back to the room, and as soon as he opened the door, he saw Lu Wei sitting on the edge of the bed, holding his mobile phone and constantly swiping messages. Lin Xing'an turned on the light before he looked at his wife, and he didn't know if his wife had noticed something wrong with her.

After sending her father away, Tian Lin pointed to the information she had collected, which included various alleviating measures in addition to the symptoms of menopause. Lin Tian and Tian Lin looked at it pickingly, they had to stay at home for more than a month, and whether she had a holiday this summer vacation was still two words, now it may be the longest time she has been at home, and it is best to accompany them more during this time.

However, when it comes to her parents, Lin Tian feels that it is too difficult for her to pass the test with Tian Lin. Dad seems to be a little more open-minded, but there is also a saying that "every dad looks at the bad boy who kidnaps his daughter as an enemy". And my mother's love is wrong, at least I can't say it little by little until she stabilizes a little.

As a last resort, Lin Tian and Tian Lin opened an off-site request for help. However, this time Li Xilian did not return to L City, and several people could only talk on Q/Q/.