Chapter 291: Popularization
"Isn't it, what are you thinking? My boyfriend is a very normal person, okay? Otherwise, he wouldn't have found a girlfriend like me, right? This proves that his vision is not a problem, and he will not look at people who should not be liked, you can really relax about this, but I don't doubt that he has this kind of problem. ”
"It's not necessarily, who knows if he's changed after being away for so long?" Yang Yilin said disdainfully, "Otherwise, I can't think of a second reason why he refused your visit." ”
"Normally, he wouldn't look down on those men, don't think about it. He's just trying too hard, and he doesn't have much time to contact me, so how can he come to you and become a stranger. ”
Ye Wei shook her head helplessly and asked very puzzled. Although Yang Yilin has never seen Lian Xunqin's appearance, and she has never popularized some basic information about Lian Xunqin to her, but they have been together for so long, basically she should have said some news to her intentionally or unintentionally in the past two years of getting along. So Lian Xunqin, who is buried in the depths of his memory, after being described by himself, how can he not become a person who has been away for too long and is unkind, empathetic, right?
"Effort? Hehe. How hard can I get to put you in this pack of wolves? If I have a beautiful girlfriend like you, I don't keep it by my side every day, so I don't think it's strange if I will be snatched away by wolves. But he can just let you here with such peace of mind, without worrying about these problems at all, isn't there a problem? ”
"Yilin, people have to trust each other to go further, if he is always guarding against me like this, I will not accommodate him, what I don't like the most is people who don't believe in me at all, understand me naturally know that I am not such a person, and he knows me well enough. I made a promise to him that I wouldn't change my mind when he left, and that he knew I was a man of my word, and that he would be able to settle down. And in the same way, if I expect him to believe in me, then I should also believe in him, and not wander because of a long period of incontact, which is not my style. ”
Ye Wei said very firmly, this is what she thinks in her heart, she has already emphasized it to Lian Xunqin once at the beginning, and now she doesn't mind talking to Yang Yilin again.
Although some of these words are not true, but most of them are answers, at the beginning of Lian Xunqin was doubting himself, but because he believed in the promises he made, so he was able to leave in the past three years basically did not ask, she knew that this was her trust in herself, but because he trusted himself and was not staring at it all the time, he was a little unhappy, but there was no doubt that when he knew that it was because he trusted himself, his heart was indeed very moved, He originally realized that Lian Xunqin was a very suspicious person, and it was not easy for him to be able to let go of the mustard in his heart, but no matter how difficult it was, he did it.
"Yes, at the time, you believed in him, and he believed in you. However, people will change, as you said, how much he cared about you before, then he may not be in the current time. You ask yourself, if you, at such a level of care, can you be away for so long without contacting your boyfriend? ”
"I can't, but that doesn't mean he can't. A man will always try his best to ignore what he cares about because of some other things, and if he wants to come back as soon as possible, he can only work harder if he doesn't see me and hear my voice. Because at this time I am his motivation, he is the motivation to come back to me and watch me, and when he can't stand the training, think about me, and he will start working hard again. Although I am very distressed, I want him to come back to me, so I can't disturb him, I need him to keep working hard to get back to me wholeheartedly. ”
"I think that although I am the most important thing to him, he can't ignore other things for me, because he can't ignore other things, so he can only return to me by desperately doing other things, and he has always put all his efforts into it for me but doesn't tell me." Ye Wei thought about it and suddenly began to smile, and said, "Besides, because his care for me has always been superficial, so I didn't think to doubt him, I care about him much less than he cares about me, in this case, even I haven't changed things, how can he do too much change in a place like the barracks where life is unchanged?" I still have that confidence in him. ”
"You, you, you, stubborn, don't hit the south wall and don't look back, right?" Yang Yilin glared at Ye Wei angrily, puzzled by her persistence, why, why was she able to trust her boyfriend so much, and she could always be as protective as a jade when her boyfriend left her side? Obviously, there are so many temptations in this world, how can she resist these temptations without being moved? When they were together at that time, they were obviously still young, and the relationship at that time was already able to be so firm? Ye Wei's stubbornness made her dumb and made her feel guilty.
After all, for her, if she likes it, she likes it, and if she doesn't feel it, she doesn't feel it. When a person leaves her side for longer than she can accept, over time, her feelings will slowly fade. I don't know why, obviously the feelings are so deep when she is invested, she likes him so much, but once she gets it, everything is different, is it really just a long way to watch and not blasphemous? Disillusionment as soon as you get closer to each other? However, why was Ye Wei able to last so long in that relationship? Could it be that there is no so-called boredom period, and there is no feeling that getting along with each other and getting along with life has become as dull as water, and there is no longer the vitality before?
So generally speaking, if at this time, the other party needs to leave for a while, she is not sad, but it is very pleasant for her, and she always feels that she is liberated in that awkward atmosphere. But at this time, it is very easy for her to fall in love with another person who appears by her side to accompany her, is it commonly known as empathy and love?
Yang Yilin didn't know, she only knew that in a relationship, she often couldn't last too long, there would always be all kinds of reasons and excuses, and she just couldn't be consistent. That's why she feels that the current Ye Wei is a very strange existence for her, after all, what she has never been able to do, Ye Wei has insisted on it for three years. (To be continued.) )