"Do you think my cousin over the years means that I want a child?"

Tian Lin shook his head, even when Lu Wei mentioned the matter of having a child in front of them, Lin Tian didn't talk much, most of the time it was Tian Lin who was talking. It's really not good, Lin Tian said that he doesn't have time now, and he doesn't have energy. In short, it's been shirking.

"That's fine, we don't want children, okay. Just the two of us, how about a good life? ”

There is still a difference between not having children and not having children, not having children is just that they don't have children, and they can still adopt/adopt children. Don't, that's don't, the two live a two-person world together.

Let's not talk about the parents, in Tian Lin's opinion, having a child at home is troublesome, but it is also very happy. She saw Zhang Meimei giving birth to a child, so she didn't want Lin Tian or herself to suffer like that in the future. But don't? That's the real world for two. Although the world of the two is also very good, I always feel that something is missing.

"When it's just the two of us at home, you're more relaxed. If you have more children, will you say it or not? Having said that, the more people who know, the more dangerous it is. If you don't say it, you have to be prepared to hide it for the rest of your life. ”

"When the time comes," Lin Tian remembered the scene at home, when she had to hide Tian Lin's affairs from her parents, and almost became suspected of autism. After all, whose child drills into the house as soon as class. "We're both in the house, leaving the kids outside, is it suitable? And you have to act every time, aren't you tired? ”

As soon as Tian Lin thought of his situation, he was silent. Home is indeed the last comfortable place for her, she can become a human if she wants to become a person, and she can restore the prototype if she wants to, without worrying about being seen, there will be no one in the house except Lin Tian. And when the others come, they will knock at the door.

But what if there is a child? As mothers, they must have at least one person with their children. At that time, she couldn't change her form as she wanted. Although it may be better to let the child know, but a big living person will appear and disappear for a while, and the child will not be afraid. If they tell someone about it, will they think it's childish or would they rather believe it or not?

"And, I want you to have a place of relaxation, and I hope that I can live a good life with you now. □□ another person is not good for us or for her. ”

"I know, you are a little envious of Zhang Meimei now, although she has suffered a lot, but she has a small life to accompany her. However, the individual has a personal way of living, and if you are asked to live her life, you will definitely not want to. ”

Now Zhang Meimei has been buried between diapers and milk powder, and the family has invited a confinement sister-in-law, which can really help a lot. But she still has to do many things by herself, after all, the confinement lady can't stay for a lifetime, and she still has to take care of herself. And what about Tian Lin? You can not eat or drink, just think about it, it is a field of clean clothes at will, and it is all clean clothes. Can you take care of a small child?

When it came to taking care of people, Tian Lin continued to be silent. Not to mention taking care of a small child, even at home. She just cooks breakfast, and she cooks it in the microwave, and Lin Tian eats lunch and dinner at school, and Lin Tian makes it on weekends. The clothes are all Lin Tian's, the small Lin Tian washes by himself, and the large ones are washed in the washing machine. It is good to clean up the house, but this small apartment, which is only more than 20 square meters and is occupied by tables and beds, is there nothing to clean up. The other living fields are dry, but they are not very dry.

If there is one more child, will Lin Tian still have to take care of her and watch from the side? And there are all kinds of things that follow, going to kindergarten, elementary school, middle school...... These are troublesome things. A person's healthy growth needs the help of parents and the support of society. Asking himself, Tian Lin found that he couldn't afford the growth of a person.

"I always feel that there is an extra child in the family, there is sweetness and burden, and the burden, I don't seem to be able to bear."

Tian Lin sighed, he felt that he hadn't grown up much, if he had another child. Sure enough, Lin Tian refused? Maybe in Lin Tian's view, there is not much difference between raising oneself and raising a child. Thinking of this, Tian Lin became depressed.

"And children need to be accompanied, although you are at home, but I remember that you often go to various places to find inspiration, and often get into the computer and do not come out, do you think about the feeling of children when they look at the empty home? Can you remember picking up kids? ”

Tian Lin didn't know where Tian Lin thought, but it was enough for her to think of responsibility. Although taking responsibility is often said, Tian Lin has never acted without taking responsibility in ordinary times, but in Lin Tian's view, it is all a trivial matter and has little impact. And a child is a life, and that's a big deal. It's okay to do small things, but can you do big things? She didn't dare to play this package ticket and said that she would definitely be able to raise a child or something.

And Tian Lin likes to run outside, and many times he just leaves with a word. Although Lin Tian didn't know where Tian Lin would go, she must have already walked around the cities with cultural heritage. When he got up in the morning, he saw a lot of notes, and Lin Tian ignored them, but can the child accept this mother who disappears at every turn?

Although Tian Lin will remember to come back and give Lin Tian a good morning kiss when he is not obsessed with the scenery, and then go to that city. But more often than not, she suddenly appeared in the house at night. After that, I started recording my inspiration, going around the house, and babbling a bunch of things I didn't understand. This looks like a neurotic cousin, and it will scare the child.

Once Lin Tian went to a meeting in X City in the west, and he saw Tian Lin who suddenly appeared in the hotel. This person also greeted and said that she had only been walking for more than ten hours, but she didn't expect Lin Tian to catch up. Then I followed Lin Tian to live in X City for two days, watching Lin Tian hold meetings from morning to night, but he went to the food street to eat and go to the surrounding attractions to have fun.

Tian Lin, who loves to play so much, looks at the child, it is really the sadness of the child. This time, she was able to go to Zhang Meimei's house to report all day on weekdays, which surprised Lin Tian, but he didn't expect the child to be so attractive. But if there is really a child by his side, can Tian Lin persevere? Hayashida didn't know at all.

So the best thing to do is not to have a child in between them, the two of them live together, it is enough. They don't have to worry about a person's growth or a person's future. As long as two people live happily for a lifetime, this is enough. If you are old, you can have a nursing home, and you can also ask someone to take care of you. If she can't move anymore, she can also apply for euthanasia, but I don't know if there will be any fields and forests in the days after death.

Tian Lin felt that he had been persuaded by Lin Tian, and the ideas in his heart could not be realized in reality. Raising a child is really not an easy task. She grew up easily leaning on Lin Tian, but not children.

"Then we won't give birth or raise it, two people will be two people, and we will never be lonely."

made a heavy decision, Tian Lin threw Lin Tian on the bed, two people are just two people, there will still be more fun. The two of them have had a good time together, but there is still a problem in this. Tian Lin put down the yellow thought in his mind and asked Lin Tian a very undesirable question.

"So how do we talk to Mom? At the beginning, I said a lot of things about wanting children, and my mother seems to be already looking forward to holding her grandson? ”

I almost forgot, just the two of them discussed the result and came up with nothing, what about Lu Wei? It doesn't matter if the daughter doesn't get married, it doesn't matter if the daughter falls in love with the woman, and the daughter doesn't have children, it's a little unbearable when Lu Wei sees it. How can there be a woman who doesn't have children, what if she doesn't grow old.

"Drag it out, I'm on the rise in my career now, and if I have a baby, I won't have a job in the future. If I don't have a job, I don't have a financial source, how can I raise my children, how can I support myself. ”

Although you won't lose your job if you have a baby, as long as your research has results and the paper can be sent, you will naturally not be fired. After all, the teaching task is not heavy for university teachers, but the research task. But Lin Xing'an and Lu Wei definitely don't understand. As long as they say it strictly, they can't lose their daughter's future for the sake of an unborn child.

And she has been pregnant for three years, although she can't see what Zhang Meimei's situation is now, but if she takes out the books she taught her students at the beginning, she will definitely forget most of them. If you are stupid for three years and have no results for three years, it will be the fate of dismissal. It's not easy to be a college teacher.

"As for you, will your mother ask you about having a baby? Either you say that you can't give birth, and there are so many cases of infertility now, just find a random one that is difficult to cure with modern medicine. ”

To be honest, Lin Tian was not sure if Tian Lin could get pregnant. Whether Tian Lin has egg cells or not is unknown. And Tian Lin likes to become a prototype, and after becoming a prototype, some physical objects will fall off, including the meals that are eaten. What about fertilized eggs? Will it also fall off? There are also nutrients, and now Tian Lin is relying on the mirror and kissing himself, including physical zero contact, so what should the child do. Leaning on the forest, leaning on the mirror? By the way, whether the child can enter the mirror or not is still two words.

No matter how you think about it, Lin Tian can't even think of Tian Lin's pregnancy, it's too strange, okay. So Tian Lin still said that she was infertile, so that her parents would not expect too much from her. And you can use the procrastination trick yourself, and then create an image of not wanting children for the sake of your career. In the future, you can live with Tian Lin and live in a two-person world.

After Tian Lin listened to Lin Tian's words, he didn't care about Lin Tian who was lying down, took out the computer and began to check the information. Why do you have to come out like a disease similar to your own situation, in case you are taken to the hospital for examination, you can still get through the test. If it's too bad, they think it's not good for her to panic.

Lin Tian also turned up her mobile phone, she hasn't read today's news, she hasn't swiped Weibo yet, as a teacher who keeps pace with the times, she can't say a word when her colleagues talk about the news tomorrow.

The first thing to pick out is the news that same-sex marriage is legal in another country. Many people commented on when Huaguo would be like this, and Lin Tian also left a message and forwarded it. If same-sex marriage is legal, they can get married and become a legally recognized couple. I don't know how long it will take in this lifetime.