28. Think

On the way home, Lin Xingan found that his daughter had her head down and didn't know what she was thinking. As soon as he stopped, he saw his daughter stop as well. Lin Tian looked up and saw that before he reached the intersection, why did his father stop. She looked at her father with questioning eyes, it couldn't be that the grade director said something, and it was inconvenient for her father to sue her mother.

Lin Xing'an paused for a moment before he spoke: "What's wrong this afternoon, is there something that is difficult to solve?" "My daughter has been looking thoughtful, not like she is for the exam. He suspected that it had something to do with those two girls, but he didn't know what he had encountered.

"Dad, ......what do you say," Lin Tian pondered for a moment, she really didn't know what to say about what happened this afternoon, "Why would anyone bully other people?" This is the most incomprehensible thing for her, why should people have trouble with people? The examples in the books were too far away, but in life, this was the first time she had experienced such a thing.

"Did you encounter something?" Hearing his daughter say this, Lin Xingan's heart lifted. He is not unaware of the situation of No. 1 Middle School, as the best middle school in the city, rich and powerful people want to stuff their children here. But some of those children are really not good in character. If the daughter meets them, or is targeted by them. Lin Xingan took his daughter's hand and looked at her carefully, she looked fine on the outside, and asked his wife to take another look after she went back.

"Sue sΓΉ Dad, have you met those people in the twenties, and have they done anything to you?"

"I saw that they were bullying a girl," Lin Tian said in a slurch, "and then, Zhang Meimei and Li Xilian appeared, and those people left." ”

"Zhang Meimei and Li Xilian?" The names of classmates rarely appear in the daughter's mouth, and these two people should not be in the same class as the daughter. And the name Li Xilian is a little familiar.

"It's the two girls who were with me just now, and after they appeared, the girl who beat me left." Lin Tian was originally going to talk about Li Xilian's great achievements, which helped many bullied people escape. But when I thought that those things were all told by Tian Lin, and Tian Lin's existence was a secret that could not be said, I stopped talking. asked Lin Xingan again: "Why do people bully others?" ”

Lin Xingan finally remembered Li Xilian, she was the first in the grade in several exams, and her name had been hanging on the propaganda board for half a year. My daughter's may have encountered a scene where someone was bullying her classmates, and then she was stopped by Li Xilian. It's his daughter's question, he really can't answer it. He thought for a while and said, "Let's go home first, and when we get home, Dad will tell SΓΉ Tian Tian if it's okay." "It's public, and he's going to have to think about what to say. Lin Tian nodded and followed Lin Xing'an to continue walking.

Along the way, Lin Xing'an was thinking about how to sue his daughter for school violence. Before that, he wanted to protect his daughter forever and not let her be exposed to these contents. Even after discussing with Lu Wei to teach her daughter some social things, they still couldn't bear to say those dark things. I didn't expect these things to be so close to my daughter, and it was no longer something they could stop if they wanted to. I have to say it this time, I hope my daughter can bear it, and now it's much better than knowing that society suffers losses in the future.

After arriving home, Lin Xingan went to cook first, and told Lin Tian to do his homework first, and then talk about those things when he ate. Lin Tian obediently responded, but as soon as he returned to the room, he began to ask Tian Lin, who had followed her all the way without speaking, "You say, why is this?" Why did they bully their classmates at will, and why didn't that girl run away? You told me that there are many more such things, is it true? ”

Tian Lin was also troubled by the same problem as Lin Xing'an, and directly told Lin Tian everything in one go, is it really okay? Even if it was her, after knowing about the campus violence, it took several days to recover after checking the news on the Internet. Lin Tian still felt that she wanted to avoid studying and wanted to read at home, so she specially put back all the books she took from her parents, put all the books borrowed from the library in the living room, and left all the books in the house that she had read. But she still stayed in the mirror for a few days, only to get into the computer at night to see if anything else was going on.

Those days were a few days when Tian Lin's understanding of the world deepened, and negative news filled her mind, she didn't want to see it, but she wanted to know why it happened, and was there such a thing in this world. Those things affected her thinking, and finally vented in the text, and she added a lot of negative energy. Later, I saw more of Lin Tian's smiling face, and I stayed with Lin Tian for a long time before I slowly recovered. At the same time, he kept his identity tighter, did not dare to act unscrupulously, and tried to be closer to Lin Tian. There are no surprises in this world, if anyone other than Lin Tian can see her, will she be treated the same as those female ghosts who were burned to death.

And in addition to worrying about herself, she is also worried about Lin Tian, will Lin Tian become a victim of campus violence, will someone bully her? After observing for many days, she was sure that Lin Tian was not affected and knew nothing about school violence. At that time, she also thought that it would be good if Lin Tian didn't know about it, and those things would be far away from Lin Tian. But I didn't expect that what happened this time was so close to Lin Tian.

Facing Lin Tian, who was sitting in front of him, waiting for him to say an answer, Tian Lin felt that he had something more called responsibility in him. She has to tell Lin Tian well, and she can't let Lin Tian be like her at the beginning, because she has seen too much at once, her thinking is confused, and she even has bad thoughts about this world. She can vent in the text, Lin Tian has no channel to vent, if she doesn't say it psychologically, what if she looks like those antisocial people? Tian Lin silently put the "create a clean environment for the child: there is too much negative news, and the girl says she doesn't believe in the world." "Delete it from your head and think about what to do so much. Lin Tian is not like that. But what are you going to tell Lin Tian now?

"You know, we're still small, so we're seeing a little bit of a big world." Tian Lin made a round gesture, "But this world is very big. She waved her arms and drew a circle. We will see more and more things, there is always something different from what we originally knew, but it is in place. ”

In other words, it is normal for those people to bully others? Isn't that a wrong thing, and why is it normal? Lin Tian asked.

"It's not normal, but people are used to it happening." Tian Lin didn't want Lin Tian to think that this was a normal thing, these were all wrong, but everyone couldn't solve them, and finally it became a kind of default storage. "There are a lot of things in this society, which are the kind of things that you know are wrong, but you can't stop it, you can only watch it happen."

Lin Tian was silent for a while before asking, "It's not right for those people to bully others, but can't we stop it?" Why was Li Xilian able to stop it? Seeing her coming, the girl ran away. According to Tian Lin, Li Xilian stopped more than just this one, why can she do it.

"Because...... Because she's better than them. Tian Lin thought of several words, but he didn't know how to explain these things to Lin Tian. If you look at the essence of bullying others, you can bully others only if you are stronger than others. "You can only do those things if you are better than others. Bullying others is the same, those people bully people who are weaker than them, and Li Xilian can help those weak people because she is stronger. And it's not always possible to get those people away. Several times, it was Li Xilian who ran away with the bullied, and Zhang Meimei was pulled out by her in this way. ”

"As long as it's better than all of them." Lin Tian repeated this sentence, "Because you are strong, can you treat the weak like this?" Is it because the strong can help the weak? What is it like? She doesn't sit in a chair, but circles around the room, which is what she always thinks. A lot of things were messed up in her mind, what Tian Lin said, what she saw herself, and what she guessed......

Tian Lin saw Lin Tian like this, and was a little worried that she would go astray, and as soon as she wanted to come out to help Lin Tian think, she heard a knock on the door, accompanied by Lin Xing'an's voice: "Tian Tian, it's time to eat." ”

Lin Tian went out absentmindedly, still circling those things in his mind, as if there was a bend in front of him, and he couldn't turn around. Seeing his daughter like this, Lin Xingan exchanged a look with Lu Wei. "Eat first, if you think too much, your brain won't be enough." After dinner, he wants to have a good talk with his daughter.