When people encounter serious changes, they often think not about the changes themselves, but about some marginal things.

After Lin Xingan heard the word "nine years", he chuckled in his heart. What is the concept of nine years, in the ninth year that Lin Xingan and Lu Wei met, Lin Tian was five years old. In the ninth year of their relationship, Lin Tian is a third-grade elementary school student.

And now, the daughter appeared in front of her with her lover who had known each other for more than ten years and had been identified for nine years.

Lin Tian is already an older young woman, and as a father, he can't be said to pay attention to his daughter's marriage problem. Not only does the other party want to be good, but also wants the daughter to be satisfied, and it is difficult to find a candidate, or even none. Now there is a person who has been with his daughter for nine years and has known his family for five years, and who once satisfied himself and his wife.

The only problem is that she is female.

"Daddy."

Lin Tian raised his head, his eyes full of tears. The silent father is more sad than the crying mother, and she doesn't want them to be sad, but feelings are not something she can control. If you don't say it today, you will have to say it one day, and what happened today will happen in the future.

"Dad."

Tian Lin also raised her head, she reached out to hug Lin Tian, and handed over a tissue. Lin Xingan didn't care about their affairs, and even Tian Lin's "Dad" didn't refute. Instead, he thought of what happened every time Ah Ling came to his house.

What is she here for? In addition to looking for his daughter, he also found his wife, and I remember that they also went out shopping. My wife even joked that Ah Ling was like our second daughter. Lin Tian and Ah Ling did not refute and did not answer. Or afterwards, Lin Tian told them that Ah Ling's parents had left, so she was living alone now, and her parents were a thorn in her heart.

What else? When Ah Ling couldn't go back at night, it seemed that she had stayed at home for one night, and even slept in the same bed with Lin Tian. At that time, it didn't look like anything, just when their friends had a good relationship, but now that I look at it, it's not a disguised agreement to let them live together.

"When you were in the United States, she was there?"

Ah Ling basically came to the house during the summer vacation, and she usually met her, but in the past two years, Lin Xingan and Lu Wei have not seen her. At that time, I also speculated whether Lin Tian would not be a friend and ran away from others. Now that I think about it, Lin Tian is no longer here, how could Ah Ling come over? She came here to find her daughter.

"I didn't get a chance to go for the first two years, and I lived there for a few months in the last few years. Lin Tian is there alone, and I really don't feel at ease. ”

Tian Lin didn't stop for a few months, they lived together for three years, but this can't be said. Although Tian Lin didn't know what Lin Xing'an thought, she had seen all kinds of Zhao who had seen her father-in-law on the Internet. For a father, the person who snatched his daughter is not a good person, and the people who are more important than him in his daughter's heart are enemies except for his wife. Now, she treats Lin Xing'an as her father-in-law.

"Sit down, let's talk."

At home, Lin Xing'an is not used to talking to people with his head up, and there is always a feeling that he is talking to a student when he looks up. He wants to talk to Ah Ling now, not the teacher facing the student, but a father facing the daughter lover. No matter what the outcome is today, he is trying his best to do what a father should do.

"Dad." Lin Xing'an's concession made Lin Tian feel that he agreed, and his tone couldn't help but bring a little joy.

But Lin Xingan had no intention of talking to his daughter, and he was always soft-hearted in the face of his daughter.

"I'll talk to Ah Ling alone, you go and see what your mother thinks. She's menopausal now, you take care of it more. ”

Lin Xingan rarely spoke to his daughter in such a detached tone, he was afraid that if his daughter begged again, the momentum he had managed to hold up was gone. My daughter is all debts, I sighed in my heart, but my eyes and actions made Lin Tian leave. This is the look he has practiced as a teacher for more than 20 years, which is enough to make Lin Tian obedient and go out to see his mother.

Lin Tian turned around and left step by step, looking at Tian Lin with worried eyes every time, and then receiving Lin Xing'an's eyes that left quickly, coupled with Tian Lin's smile that he didn't have to worry about, the atmosphere between the three of them was extremely weird.

When Lin Tian left and closed the door, there were only two people left in the entire living room, Lin Xingan and Tian Lin, and neither of them spoke first. The two who were not very familiar with each other were connected together because of Lin Tian, and in this small space, they collided with each other with their eyes and momentum.

Tian Lin, who spoke first, didn't come to fight with Lin Xing'an today, her purpose was to get him to agree to Lin Tian being with her.

"We truly love each other."

"I've been a teacher for more than 20 years, and I've heard this phrase countless times, and every young couple says it to me. Some broke up before graduation, and some separated after graduation. The longest lasted for ten years, just divorced last year, neither of them wanted children, and now they are still pulling the ball. ”

The lethality of this passage is too great, Tian Lin felt that his preparation was not sufficient, how could he forget that Lin Xing'an was a teacher? As a teacher, as a high school teacher, he has seen not a thousand but eight hundred young couples.

In No. 1 Middle School, the teacher's office is two large offices, one has more than 20 teachers, and the class teacher and the teacher who usually attend classes are in the same office. Only the Head of Year and Head of Group are on the other side. Every time I found a young couple, the teacher would call the office to confirm first, and although the other teachers would not be onlookers, they could basically hear everything.

When collecting materials in No. 1 Middle School, Tian Lin took it with him in the teacher's office, and he could often see couples who were called over for various reasons. The words they say to their teachers are almost the same, "love", "sincerity" and "inseparable" are the most common words, and in the end, the results of these little couples are basically broken up, and few can maintain it until they graduate from high school.

She said to Lin Xing'an what these young high school couples said, and in the eyes of the experienced Lin Xing'an, the outcome of this relationship may not exceed those common endings.

Tian Lin tried to be smaller, and responded to how he accepted the two girls together when he heard about Li Xilian and Zhang Meimei. The story Li Xilian told is basically how two people worked hard outside, is this what he wants to hear?

"When you were with Lin Tian, she was not yet eighteen years old, and there was no good result in early love, even if there was fruit, it became something that was pushed."

This is about the innocent kid whose parents could have been the benchmark for early love boys and girls in high school. I met in high school, established relationships, and persevered under the pressure of teachers and parents. The two were not separated because of the college entrance examination, and spent four years of college together again. Both returned to L City to get married and began to work hard for their small family. In the third year of marriage, I had a child and took out a loan to buy a house, which was smooth and without any accidents.

All good romances are wiped out in family trivialities, and every student who takes the beautiful lovers of the XX grade A senior and B senior as a successful case of early love is disappointed. As teachers, they learn more than the outside world.

Not only are they divorced, but none of them even want to accept the crystallization of love. In other words, no one wants to see people or things related to the other person. The two who used to greet the teacher with a smile when they saw them on the street now leave in a hurry as soon as they see them.

"We have been together for almost ten years, and the future is not guaranteed now, but I can do my best to support each other with Lin Tian and get through every difficulty together."

The future itself is uncertain, and Tian Lin knows that no matter how much he promises about the future, it is a blank promise, and every bit is not as convincing as what I can do now.

"I have my own career, although my level is not high, and my talent is not enough, but hard work can make up for it. The annual manuscript fee is enough to support Lin Tian and me. If the market is good, sell the film and television rights, and you don't have to worry about money for a few years. ”

From an economic point of view, Lin Tian, who has just joined the work, does not earn as much as Tian Lin, but Tian Lin and Lin Tian have always been mine, and yours is also mine. And Tian Lin doesn't have to spend too much money, and it is completely enough to live in City B.

"Lin Tian and I have been trying to rent a house in City B for more than half a year, and we have moved once in the past six months, except for us and friends to help, and there has been no unpleasant incident. And it's enough to just consider the forest field and the place of work. ”

Moving is something that every renter has to go through, and when two people are renting, they always have to consider each other's needs. But Tian Lin has no troubles in this regard, her place of work is home, and she can go on a trip without inspiration, just half a day away from thousands of miles, and one day back and forth is enough.

"Lin Tian and I have similar hobbies, we both like to read, we both like to travel, we both like to watch movies, we usually have endless topics, and we don't worry about not finding fun."

The lack of a common language is the reason why many couples and even couples break up, Tian Lin believes that as long as Lin Tian still likes to read books and watch movies, they will not lack topics.

"Our tastes are similar, we can't eat spicy, but we can eat a little, we are not picky, we all like to add a spoonful of chili pepper and a spoonful of vinegar to the noodles, tofu brain likes salty, zongzi loves meat filling, and moon cakes have egg yolk lotus paste."

For Tian Lin, what Lin Tian eats, she eats, and there will definitely be no disagreement on what to eat. They will never quarrel over food in their lives. It's definitely better than Lin Xing'an and Lu Wei's, if you don't want to eat what I made, then you can do a lot better.

After listening to this long list of words, Lin Xingan found that he had nothing to ask, they all lived together, what else could he say. Block it again, force the breakup again, can it be stopped, can it be separated?