186. Chapter 186
The popularity on Weibo really disappeared in a few days. Except for the rainbow flag that everyone added to their avatars and didn't have time to change, Lin Tian rarely saw topics related to same-sex marriage. The next time I heard about same-sex marriage was during the Spring Festival of the following year.
This year, Lin Tian went home for the Spring Festival as usual, and continued to take Tian Lin, who was not verbally spoken, but had actually been recognized by his parents. After changing to a large house, Lin Tian's bedroom was placed with a double bed. Of course, the former vanity mirror was also placed at the end of the bed, and when he couldn't be completely sure that Tian Lin had nothing to do with the mirror, Lin Tian didn't want to risk throwing the mirror away, so he continued to stay in the bedroom.
Even if he has lived in countless mirrors, for Tian Lin, this mirror is more comfortable. Even if the furnishings of Lin Tian's bedroom have basically changed, Tian Lin still feels that he is the most familiar and reassuring to live in this mirror.
However, Lin Xing'an and Lu Wei, as parents, don't know the relationship between Tian Lin and the mirror. In the face of what Lin Tian asked to bring, they all brought it, and since this relatively old mirror appeared on their daughter's memory list, they also moved over. After being scrubbed by Lu Wei, it still looks relatively new, and there will be no incompatibility with the painting style of the house.
When Lin Tian came back this time, what they wanted to say to Lin Tian was mainly two things. First of all, there is the same-sex marriage that everyone has been talking about before. Although the popularity on the Internet has gone down, in the hearts of Lin Xingan and Lu Wei, this topic continues.
If this bill can be passed, presumably those people will not say anything like girls not getting married in their thirties. Even if it is said that there is a daughter-in-law, it is better than being said to be a leftover girl. In L City, those people's gossip Lin Xing'an and Lu Wei can be blocked, but there is no impermeable wall in the world, and it must be uncomfortable when her daughter hears it.
Lin Xing'an and Lu Wei have reduced their contacts with many friends, and now they can still have contact with them, although they will not specifically mention Lin Tian's marriage, but bringing it out in the process of casually talking about it will still cause embarrassment. Although they would soon bring this matter over, when Lu Wei and Lin Xingan heard it, they would still chuckle, afraid that the other party would ask them in detail.
They couldn't happily tell their friends that although they didn't have a son-in-law, they had another daughter. Once exported, what the daughter will harvest will not be the title of leftover girl, maybe there will be something like mental abnormality. There are usually times when the news is discussed, and when there is news about homosexuality, they pay special attention to the expressions of these friends. There are few who can accept it, thinking that this is abnormal, and there are still many who still want to get married and have children.
If there is a bill and the country has legislated for it, those who say that this is not right and that is not right, and that it is not right, and others who are also in line with it, must not be so easy to get everyone's approval. If it's really time to tear your face, it's better to argue with the other party with the legal provisions than to rely on those words in your head.
And this time Lin Tian came back, and the two of them were asking about related things. Lin Tian has access to more information than they do. They also wanted to know what Hayashida thought.
What else could Hayashida think? If the policy is enacted, then it will definitely be married, and if there is no such policy, then continue to think of ways to make it take shape. If there are more people who talk about it, it is natural that some people will put forward a bill in this regard.
But in the face of his parents, he directly said that he would definitely get married, wouldn't that be to attract hatred to Tian Lin. In case they still say anything to test Tian Lin, after all, there is still a difference between being together and getting married last time, and at that time, parents didn't know that homosexuals could get married. If they make a fuss in this regard, she and Tian Lin don't know when they will be able to achieve positive results.
"Actually, let's, of course, the more intimate the relationship, the better. If the two of them come to that point naturally, they will naturally have to continue. "So, mom and dad, you just have to bless us.
Of course, she wisely did not say the latter sentence. When it comes to marriage, there is a difference between being involved and not being involved for parents. If they were allowed to give their opinions, in fact, they would not be able to oppose her and Tian Lin. But if there is a little involvement, for them, marriage is a family matter, not a simple matter of two people. In the future, the probability that they will become one family is much greater than the probability that they are still family members but are actually two families.
Lin Xing'an and Lu Wei glanced at each other, and they almost understood what Lin Tian meant. After all, there are more than ten years of relationship, if there is really a law that stipulates that you can get married, and not getting married is to delay other girls. The government of Huaguo also knows that it will take many years to really have this set of laws, as long as the law is implemented, they have no points, and they will pull them to get married no matter what they say.
Lu Wei has already calculated in her heart that when the time comes, when she gets married, the wedding must be held. When this family got married, she gave out a lot of gifts, and she had to take it back. National policies have recognized same-sex marriage, and she will have confidence in what those people say. And how can a wedding be held in one place, of course, in both places.
"I really decided, so I told my mother. Mom will retire this year, and I can go to City B to help you when the time comes. ”
There are a lot of things to do when you get married, and now that my daughter still lives in a rental house, I can't live in a rental house all the time. The family doesn't have much money, and the housing prices in City B are high, so she has to sum up with Lin Xingan, and she has to help her daughter buy a house in City B. I don't know if it's okay to sell the small house in my family, I've been living there for more than 30 years, and I don't know how much it can be sold.
Lin Xingan didn't think as much as his wife thought, and his daughter was going to stay in City B, so they couldn't help much. It's good to have your own house, but then you'll have to take on a mortgage for a decade or two. Whether you have been renting a house or taking out a loan. These things, as long as the two of them discuss them, they can only be here to provide them with a place of refuge.
"Also, Tian Tian," as soon as Lu Wei spoke, Lin Tian felt that something was wrong, when she grew up, her mother rarely called her by her nickname, so there must be something. Sure enough, Lu Wei's next sentence made Lin Tian feel the wind and rain. "Mom will retire this year, when will you and Ah Ling have a child, while Mom is not old, I can still help you take it."
In Lu Wei's opinion, this request is not too much. There are a few women who have no children, and they have to give birth early and late, so it is better to give birth early, while they are still young, she still helps to help. And no matter how late Lin Tian is, she will become an elderly mother, and when she wants to give birth, she will have to stop herself. The timing is not bad now, it just doesn't happen to be the peak of the population, and it will be more convenient for children to go to school in the future, and if it is too late, it will collide with the next wave of people.
Although Lin Xingan didn't tell his daughter clearly, he was still very much looking forward to having one more child in the family. Every time he sees his colleagues with their grandchildren and hears them sweetly call grandpa, he is quite envious. Although his daughter's mouth is also sweet, is there a comparison between children in their thirties and three or four years old.
"Actually, this one, Mom, you know, the competition is fierce now, and it's not easy to get a job when you have children. And the most important thing in my current research project is the mind. After two years of no results, the project cost me, so I was most short of time. Without a thesis, you can't be promoted, and the job title is very important in school. ”
Lu Wei sighed and turned her gaze to Tian Lin. My daughter answers this every time, and she has been listening to it for years. But Ah Ling, who was still discussing related topics with her, didn't say a word, she was a little strange. The daughter-in-law is also her own family, and she is born the same. With this in mind, Lu Wei asked Tian Lin.
"You guys are not too young, Lin Tian pushed and pushed, I remember that you like children very much and don't have the idea of wanting one. Writing...... I don't need to evaluate the title or anything, right? Didn't say how many books you have to publish a year, did you? ”
Tian Lin now wants to go back to the past and ask himself back then, why he can't think of talking about children with Lu Wei. After experiencing Li Xilian and Zhang Meimei's parenting, she didn't want to see the child at all. Even if Zhang Meimei said that Lelan only cried when she appeared, and was more well-behaved at other times, Tian Lin would not believe it.
Children are demons, and she can sometimes be heard crying when she passes by at night. In the middle of the night, I woke up people to change her diaper and breastfeed...... Anyway, she doesn't want a child anymore, it's too painful.
However, now in front of me sits this mother-in-law who wants to have a child. Lu Wei looked at Tian Lin expectantly, her daughter can't be counted on, doesn't she still have a daughter-in-law? Other people's families have a daughter-in-law, and if they say they don't want children, they don't want children, and if they say they only have one, they will only have one. She has two daughters, so she can hold a grandchild.
"That, Mom, actually, I ......" Hearing this half sentence, Lu Wei's ears jumped, how could this be so similar to Lin Tian's words, they all started with a slurring and spitting, and then said what he didn't want to hear. Could it be that they haven't seen each other for a year, and the daughter has changed her daughter-in-law's mind, and she has no idea about the child at all?
"Actually, I can't have children." Facing the shocked eyes of Lu Wei and Lin Xing'an, Tian Lin continued to make up. She didn't know if she could give birth, but at this time, she still thought she couldn't give birth. "I also wanted to have a child, but when I actually tried it, I realized that it was really hard, I ...... I couldn't be a mother. ”
As he spoke, Tian Lin's voice choked. Thanks to the countless TV series she has watched, and thanks to the role play with Lin Tian usually, she successfully achieved this "high" difficulty action, and there was no laughter. Lin Tian next to him also reacted very quickly, and his hand had already put on Tian Lin's shoulder, pretending to comfort her.
After Tian Lin said this, he didn't speak again. Lin Tian helped the people, thinking about how to exit next. Lu Wei and Lin Xing'an are still digesting the news. If a daughter doesn't give birth, a daughter-in-law can't give birth, aren't they ready to have children? Now there is a Dink family, and the daughter has also become one of them.
"Dad, Mom, I'll take her back first."
With that, Lin Tian helped the person back to the bedroom and closed the door quickly. The painful expression on his face went down instantly, and he rubbed his face to normalize the face that had just pretended to be paralyzed. And Tian Lin had already gotten into the quilt and rolled, and she was almost about to laugh because of Lin Tian's expression. I didn't expect Lin Tian's reaction to be so fast, and this first conversation since returning home passed like this.
In the living room, Lian Ah and Lu Wei looked at their daughter and daughter-in-law who both left, looking at each other, not knowing what to say. In the end, Lu Wei asked about Lin Xing'an.
"And so they left? Haven't said anything about Weibo yet? ”