I thoroughly understood the difference between my father and other men.

One is that you can save it, and the binary yuan you find back is still kicked in your pocket. One was worried that we would go hungry, so he called again and offered to invite us to dinner.

Enough for others to guess, which is the own father and which is the other man?

After hanging up the phone, I happily went back to the computer and continued to select a 100-dollar book. After a while, my ex came to me from the QQ of the previous kindergarten group and asked me if I had made a good choice. A week after the divorce, I haven't deleted his QQ, he deleted mine first. I really don't know who made the mistake, and I won't harass him every day with my number, even if I want to harass, don't I still have a mobile phone?

It's about that little three making a fuss again, if you want to show me, see if you don't, your man doesn't want you anymore, you will die after the divorce.

In fact, I don't have to do this, I am already dead, with a wound on my face, and I am already dead when I sign the Civil Affairs Bureau, and I have no extravagant hope at all. Such a man, it's a good thing to leave, I tried my best, worthy of the conscience of heaven and earth, if I have to say sorry for anything, only sorry for myself.

I pasted the link onto QQ, sent it over, and listened to my colleague chat. Today's topic is, how to make bad meat delicious, what brand of sake lees is good, fragrant and fresh.

After about an hour or two, QQ came. It's the ex: "One is there, one is sold out, choose another one." ”

Nonsense, the website is engaged in promotions on June Day, and I choose the most popular and discounted books, which are exactly 100 yuan after the discount, and the cost performance is very high. Of course, it will be booked out by others soon.

I reluctantly opened the website, turned a few pages and became impatient, and replied directly: "You choose, just get a copy of the price and content." In this way, he chooses one, and I choose one, which can be regarded as fulfilling my responsibility.

"Okay" This is the last sentence of the first contact after deleting my QQ number for eight months. One word, simple, no follow-up.

Although there is such a thing, after all, it doesn't cost money, Lele has books to read, so it doesn't affect much of his mood.

After work, I went to my parents' house for dinner, and told them that they were going to take Lele to June Day tomorrow, so I didn't go home for dinner, and I watched a movie after eating outside.

"Okay." Lele is happy, she loves to watch movies the most.

"It's very expensive outside, so let's eat it at home." My mother inevitably nagged: "Money is spent leisurely, Lele is only a few years old, and there are many places to spend money in the future." You have only saved much until now, and you don't have 10,000 yuan, and if you want to go to college in the future, tuition fees are also a big expense. ”

By the time Lele went to college, it was just when I retired, and now the university is at least 120,000 yuan a year.

I responded very firmly: "I have only saved for eight months, and there is at least 15,000 a year, and when Lele goes to college, there will be more than 100,000, which should be enough for tuition." No matter how bad it is, she is the only one who works and studies and suffers early. This meal was invited by someone else, and the ticket was given by his unit, which did not cost money. ”

In the past, I lived on three or four thousand yuan, and my parents didn't eat here. The cost of food is ten to twenty yuan a day, and the cost of good food is forty or fifty; I go out for dinner on weekends, and it costs about 200 a month. The predecessor's clothes still have to be bought, and the five or six hundred ones are too low-grade. I can only have as much money as I have, buy as many things as I want, and basically spend all my money every month.

After the divorce, I was able to save more than 1,000 yuan a month, and as long as I continue to work hard, I should gradually increase the money. As long as there is no foreign debt, it will be fine.

"Men?" Mom asked sensitively.

"Of course." I grabbed my meal and calmly replied, "Isn't it a man or a woman?" It's really a woman, invite me to dinner and watch a movie, you're not more worried. ”

Dad laughed next to him: "I have already told you, a forty-year-old person, what do you have to worry about." Braised pork is good today. ”

"Put rock candy in it." The mother replied, and then asked with great concern: "What unit, what for, how old, where is the house, does the child belong to him or to the woman, boys and girls?" ”

The series of questions, of course, are all necessary for economic conditions. Can you not answer, the Universe Immigration Bureau, the first superintendent, I don't know the age.

"I haven't skimmed the eight characters yet." I frowned slightly, and reached out to pick up the vegetables: "Don't worry, I won't want a man who can't support myself." ”

"I'm going to eat meat." Lele was watching me.

"Okay, let's get a big one." I flipped a piece of moderately fat pork belly in the pot with braised pork and sandwiched it into Lele's bowl. Pork belly, now a good pork belly, the general brand costs 278 yuan, like this kind of miscellaneous meat that is generally only stamped with a quarantine steel seal, it also costs 10** yuan a catty. To eat such a meal, it costs more than 30 yuan, and meat will soon become a luxury in the future. Therefore, for half a month, the meat is only cut into shredded meat, fried with meat slices and other vegetables, or eaten mostly fish for ten yuan and two.

But it was not a bitter day. Think about the film and television works, in the past, the poor family, during the New Year's holiday, cut half a catty of pork and went home, the whole family was so happy, my life was still very happy.

"Is it delicious?" Mom asked Lele.

"Hmm~" Lele buried his head in eating hard, and his small mouth was oily.

After reading it, my mother chose another piece and put it in Lele's bowl: "Eat more, it doesn't matter if you eat less." With grandma here, it won't be without you. ”

In fact, with me, I won't be without Lele to eat. But my mother's family will always be my most solid backing, after the divorce, what did my ex-parents do, a total of less than ten phone calls, repeatedly said that the ex was joking, asking me to remarry him. Now that the phone is no longer calling, I must know that there is no hope. On the phone, there was no word about Lele, the daughter of the person there was an outsider sooner or later, and only the son was his own family.

The mother seemed to remember something again: "In the first few buildings, there was also a divorce, saying that if you don't pay child support, the child's surname can be changed to the woman's surname, or the child's name will be changed to yours while the child is young." ”

I sneered: "Is it so easy to change?" If it is changed, it will be sued, and then the court will rule to change it back. ”

My mother didn't seem to understand: "I've asked, as long as I don't pay child support, I can change it." ”

"He didn't pay alimony, but the divorce agreement clearly states that the house counts as alimony." I've also looked up information on this matter.

My mother was stunned: "People say that child support is not paid, so what about education and nutrition?" Tell me to go to his company and talk to his leader. ”

I can only smile bitterly, what age is it now, and I am still looking for company leaders. Try to be as patient as possible: "The latest law stipulates that child support includes child support expenses, education expenses, medical expenses, and other expenses. In order to divorce, he had already investigated everything. Even if he goes to court, he will say that he has no money to sell the house. ”

When she heard that she was going to sell the house, her mother was silent at first, and after eating a few bites of food, she muttered: "That's too cheap for him." ”

I smiled and comforted: "What's cheap?" If you think about it the other way around, he gave me all his savings to buy a house, gave me eight years' salary, and remitted that month's salary to me after the divorce. I found someone to help me buy a house together, and I also had Lele, and I made a lot of money. On my own, I can buy a house with a salary of 3,000 yuan, and if I want to buy it, it is also a suburb, or a small apartment, just like what he lives in now. Now that house prices have been rising, they have been sold, as long as they don't eat, drink, prostitute and gamble, they are enough to eat for two lifetimes. ”

Saying this, my mother seemed to calm down a lot. After a while, he muttered again: "I still think I should go to his company once before the divorce, so that his company knows what kind of person he is." ”

God, still entangled in this matter! I rolled my eyes and took a deep breath: "What are you doing in his company?" At most, he led to let him roll up and get out. But what do I do about the rest? He lost his job and fell out with me again, so maybe he would go back to his hometown or move to a suburban house. How do I divorce him? He dragged me for another three or five years, and then I would still get a divorce, but wasn't I dragged to death? Do things or look at the results, don't be angry for a while, and make a fuss that can't end. ”

It was my mother's turn to roll my eyes, and in order to appease my mother, I returned to the original topic: "Actually, what about changing my name?" As long as it is beneficial to Lele, the richest man in the mainland wants Lele to change his surname, no problem. You can have any surname, whatever you love, all surnames are not given by the ancestors themselves. Wait until Lele is eighteen years old, let her decide for herself. ”

I remembered that when I first gave birth to Lele, my ex-parents came to the house, hugged the child and said to my mother: "You bring it, bring it to me when you are one year old, and I will take it again." ”

This made my mother angry, and she said directly: "Just this one, if you are not satisfied, even if you divorce and find another life, we have the same boys and girls here." Moreover, your son has lived in a place with high alkalinity for a long time, and the water here is acidic, and it will take ten or eight years for the body to neutralize the acidity and alkalinity. If you don't believe it, go to his company and ask, all the girls who live apart give birth to girls, and only those who live together can have boys. ”

I originally planned to give birth to one, and it is impossible to regenerate within a year, I had a difficult birth, caesarean section, how can the wound be healed well within a year. I also knew before I was born that I would give birth to girls, and there were also acidic and alkaline things on the Internet, and his company was indeed like this. The alkalinity is nine times higher than the norm, and the separation is all girls without exception, unless the child is the old king next door.

I also said, "Isn't it just for a surname, it's so hard to waste." The surnames were all given by themselves in the past, and wherever people went, they took the name of the place where they were surnamed. Or what you see is called, the Yellow Emperor's father is called Xuanyuan, since he wants to recognize his ancestors and return to his ancestors, he simply changes his surname to Xuanyuan, or Ji surname, win the surname. This is the earliest surname of our ancestors. ”

said that his ex's parents were stunned and didn't speak for a long time. Recognizing one's ancestors and returning to one's ancestors is not a big rebellion, what I said is right!

For this reason, my mother nagged for a long time, saying that the people in this area are too patriarchal, and there are still some remnants.

Now it seems that the ex should not have the idea of patriarchy, at that time it was only about having children, because he only loved himself, and it didn't matter what the child had, even if he gave birth to a pig, it was a woman to raise. He just has the ability, shook his hands, didn't care about anything, and left in style.

My mother finally accepted it, and if she changed her surname, she would have to sell the house and pay child support, which was not worth it for a surname. She turned her head sideways and asked Lele: "When you grow up, do you want to have your current surname, or your mother's surname." ”

Dizzy, let's start educating now.

Lele thought for a while: "The surname of grandma!" ”

Ha~, my mother was finally amused, and after sandwiching a piece of lean meat for Lele, she continued to eat.

My family is like this, what kind of surname, as long as the name is good. A hundred years from now, who knows who, will they have to give birth to a son if they can't give birth to a son? It is said that this is still the case in some areas, and if you have to give birth to a son, you will be looked down upon, and when you scold the street, you will say that you will cut off your children and grandchildren.

And the predecessor's hometown is the hardest hit area, and it is said that if he can't give birth to a son, he will inherit one. Even buy one back and raise it as your own son.

It seems impossible, but it still exists. Before I heard it, I couldn't believe that there was such a thing in modern society. It's no wonder that people in some areas will be so strict with straight male cancer, and the environment will determine a qiē.

I hurriedly said to Lele: "When I look for a boyfriend in the future, I want to say that my family can only have daughters, don't have any hope, and can only have daughters." Got it? ”

Lele was puzzled: "Why? ”

"For there are places where a man dies and a son dies, and there is no son who dies. There is no reason why you have to die without a son. "I also need to educate at this point, otherwise, if I encounter a strange thing similar to the Internet, I will find someone to test it when I am born to the third, and I will kill it if it is a daughter, and it will be born if it is a son. used his wife's belly as a container, beat him until he couldn't raise it, divorced and married one to continue to live, or he was looking for a junior outside.

When the mistress had a son, the son was the most important, so he immediately divorced his wife and married the mistress.

I coaxed and lied: "You are a girl, think about it, I gave birth to a younger brother and only likes my younger brother, what should you do?" ”

Lele was very happy after hearing this: "Okay, I want my brother, my brother can play with me." ”

Mom and Dad laughed, and I only had a wry smile. Another way: "Where is the money to raise two?" If you can only raise one, your mother will die for a son, and when you see that you are a girl, you will die before you see the world. You have to have a family like this, okay? ”

Lele nodded: "It's not good, that's killing." I died before I was born, so I can't see my mother, my grandmother and grandfather? ”

I finally understood, tears in my face, and it was really difficult to explain something to my child. I hurriedly said: "Yes, not only can I not see my mother and grandparents, but I also can't eat such delicious braised pork and can't see movies." ”

Lele immediately responded: "Fortunately, my mother is not, and neither is my grandparents, does it mean that I am lucky?" ”

Now the whole family was happy at the same time, and I smiled: "I am indeed very lucky, I am already lucky to be born in this city." Know how hard it took your dad to get to the city? This is the place where the status of women is highest in the country and even in the world, and women can have the same educational opportunities and job opportunities. In many places, women in many places stopped studying before graduating from junior high school or even elementary school, helping the family, taking care of their older brothers and younger siblings, and waiting to get married. ”

Needless to say, the bride price money for the marriage is also for the elder brother and brother to marry the daughter-in-law, and the money earned is also for the elder brother and younger brother...... Wait until Lele is sensible, maybe by then, the situation in these areas will also change, after all, the times are developing, so there is no need to talk about it. (To be continued.) )