The best attitude towards the accumulation of unresolved issues is to resolve them slowly and patiently.

Now that he has passed the hurdle with his uncle, Kim So-hee is also through his younger brother and pays attention to his mother's side.

If it was before, she thought that she couldn't make sense with her mother, and communication would be a waste of energy. However, now she began to think that if she failed without even trying, when would she be able to truly untie the knot?

But according to Kim Chung-hyun, after breaking up with her, Kim Mu's face has been bad, as if she has returned to the time when she insisted on taking the road of a cartoonist.

"Anyway, Mom is better, I'll call you again."

In the past few days, Kim So-hee in the family is a figure who is forbidden to mention, but whenever Kim Zhongxian wants to ease the relationship between mother and daughter, it will arouse the anger of Jin's mother.

"Anyway, I've put my words here, if she insists on messing around with those messy people, don't come back!"

How angry his mother was, Kim Chung-hyun didn't elaborate, but Kim So-hee could also imagine it. According to Jin Mu's unconventional temperament, she must have said cruel things.

didn't choose to become a teacher at the beginning, Kim So-hee and Kim Mu were in a stalemate for more than a month, how long will it be this time?

Kim So-hee doesn't know what other people's mothers are like, but her own mother's temperament makes her children love, hate and fear. When she treats you well, she can make you feel guilty, and when she is stubborn, you will be resentful because of her difficulty in communicating.

In the days of his uncle's absence, Kim So-hee complained about Song Jong-ki's behavior of buying snowballs, which completely shows that he is a scheming man. No, Snowball has begun to take someone's place, eating with her, catching up with her, sleeping with her, and playing with her.

"If you don't come back, I'll just live with Snowball for the rest of my life."

Song Jong-ki chuckled on the other end of the phone: "Snowball is a female cat." ”

"Now don't they all say that heterosexuality is fruitless, what about mothers?"

"It's a cat." Song Jong-ki once again pointed out the point.

Jin Suxi sat up straight and sneered: "People are still a cat, you are still a big bad wolf!" My love for it, transcends gender, transcends race! ”

Song Zhongji raised his eyebrows and teased back: "Yes, I'm a big bad wolf, or a hungry big bad wolf." ”

Kim So-hee suddenly remembered some occasions when he was so fond of tossing her, and his face was as red as ripe fruit. She snorted viciously, she was indeed a hungry and lustful wolf.

"I'll be back next week."

Kim So-hee was stunned when he heard it, and subconsciously looked at the calendar on the desk, and unconsciously it was the day when he ended his trip abroad.

The long wait and separation from overseas seems to be coming to an end. She was happy, but she was also a little confused for a while.

"Wait at home for me to come back."

He didn't have much time to rest, and after the two of them hurried to finish the sweet and greasy phone porridge, they both hung up the phone a little reluctantly.

Kim So-hee lay lazily on the sofa, the corners of her mouth curled up more and more, and finally she couldn't help but bury her head in the pillow, trying to hide her happy laughter.

Early the next morning, Kim So-hee received an unexpected phone call.

When she came to the old beef bone soup shop that was not far from Jin's house, Jin's father's favorite, and saw the gray-haired man sitting in the innermost, she stood in place in a daze.

Father Kim's profession is a captain, and he is away from home all year round. Kim So-hee has very little memory of her father, except that when she was five years old, her father used his rare vacation to teach her to swim.

If you want to say that the golden mother is a tough person like a stone, then the golden father is a good person with a big heart and a calm sea.

When she was very young, Kim So-hee looked forward to the most because she wanted her father to come home, but as she grew up, such expectations became less and less, and gradually she began to get used to the lack of her father's shadow in her life.

Now, when Father Jin has retired, she looks at his back that has begun to look old, feeling strange and not knowing how to deal with it.

She blinked, letting the tears fade. Kim So-hee approached his father with his bag and sat down across from him.

Father Jin looked at her with a smile, just like the doting and indulgent gaze he did when he was a child: "Our family Suxi has grown so big. ”

"Daddy."

She had heard and written the word countless times, but she had rarely had the opportunity to say it. The man in front of him is much older than he remembers, but he also has more wisdom in life.

"Dad is retired, and he won't go anywhere in the future." Father Kim's tone was full of apologies: "When you and Zhongxian were young, I couldn't be by your side, and it's too late to come back now, but Dad still hopes to make up for it." ”

When she was a child, Kim So-hee's proudest thing was that her father was a captain. When the father of the child around her is busy with urban construction and national development, and runs around the busy city all day long to make a living, she can proudly say that her father is the captain.

The child is simple-minded, and Kim So-hee thinks that the father on the sea is great.

But when she later found out that her father couldn't grow up with her because of professional problems, this pride in her father's profession gradually faded.

The position of the father of the Jin family has been vacant, and only the mother of Jin lives with two children.

"It's okay, you're back anyway." Kim So-hee stared at the words on the menu, and her throat was a little jerky.

"I heard Zhongxian say that you have a conflict with your mother, right?" Father Kim's voice was gentle, and he couldn't hear his position.

Originally, Kim So-hee felt a little embarrassed and uncomfortable about the sudden father-daughter conversation, but when she heard the topic related to her mother, distress and irritability came up again.

"Actually, there have always been contradictions." Kim So-hee feels that the knot between her and her mother has never been untied, but whenever the two quarrel, Kim Mu will definitely take out her professional affairs and talk about it again.

In the eyes of Jin's mother, it seems that her daughter's life has completely ended tragically after her career choice is inconsistent with what she wants.

"She didn't identify with my profession, she didn't identify with my boyfriend, she didn't even respect the friends I knew, her colleagues. She was like a prejudiced eye that didn't identify with all of me. Could it be that she made the right decisions when she said them? ”

Facing his younger brother, Kim So-hee couldn't tell him about his dissatisfaction with his mother. But in the face of her father, it is different, she can rest assured that she has a conflict with her mother, because the identity of the father is enough to play a coordinating role between mother and daughter.

Father Kim was not in a hurry to relieve Kim So-hee, but talked about himself and Mother Kim when they were young.

knew Jin's mother until the beginning of their marriage, and Jin's father was just an ordinary sailor. The two have been together less and separated more for a long time, and it is also because Jin Mu has a more stubborn temperament than other girls, and the two finally entered into marriage.

"Actually, your mother was also gentle and liked to rely on people at the beginning, although she was a little stubborn, but it was far from what she is today."

At that time, both material and human thought were poor. Even after getting married, Jin's father still rarely went home, and the pregnant Jin's mother supported the family alone, and she had to face the secret ridicule and sympathy of her neighbors for a woman whose husband was not often at home.

This is far from the end, when the child is born, the child's illness, schooling, growth, and family daily life, etc., are all pressed on a woman's shoulders.

"Your mother also wants someone to help her, but she can only learn to make decisions and face all the problems alone."

Speaking of this, Father Jin was full of guilt. Mother Jin never blamed him, supported his career, and took care of the family wholeheartedly without letting him worry, but Father Jin knew that he owed the family too much.

Jin Mu's indisputable temperament is honed in decades of life, she gradually began to get used to being the master alone, when the children grew up and began to have their own ideas, the contradictions between mother and daughter gradually revealed.

"Maybe she speaks a lot of times very hard and excessively, but her kindness for you is real."

Father Kim knows Mother Kim very well, which Kim So-hee didn't expect at all. Kim So-hee saw a different golden mother from his father's words. She had never experienced such a day, and she knew how hard it was.

Kim So-hee vaguely remembers the days when she was a child, but she and her brother were still carefree at that time. Now that I think about it, the burden of life is all on Jin's mother alone, so she and her brother have a happy childhood.

There was a smile in Father Kim's eyes and the corners of his mouth, and Kim So-hee felt that maybe he had experienced too many storms, and he was very wise. In just a few words, the dissatisfaction with the golden mother in her heart quickly disappeared, and was replaced by forgiveness for the golden mother.

"You and your mother are like firecrackers and firecrackers, and you will never be able to communicate with each other. If one party turns into water, not to mention the result of communication, at least it can make each other understand what the other person means, right? ”

"She's old, a little menopause, and it's unlikely that she will turn into water, but Suhee, you're still young."

Jin Suxi lowered his head and softened his tone: "I know, I'll try." ”

Father Kim smiled and touched her head, as if facing a young child, and praised: "What a good boy, your mother is great, both children are college students, and So-hee has a good job after graduation." ”

Kim So-hee rarely had the opportunity to be praised by his father, and he laughed a little embarrassed.

"Well, after all that, you should be hungry. It's not what it used to be, So-hee can do whatever she wants. ”

This beef bone broth shop is a dream place for Kim So-hee.

At that time, Father Jin didn't make much money, and it was a small luxury for the two of them to order a beef bone soup and rice here, so once in a while, Father Jin only ordered one for her to eat, and only ate the rest when his daughter couldn't eat it.

Now is not that time, the father and daughter invariably ordered the cheapest soup and rice in their childhood memories, and when they looked at each other and smiled, there was a tacit understanding in their eyes.

The father who was originally absent for a long time and the director Jin Suxi felt a little strange, as in his memory, Jin Suxi felt extremely familiar and missed very much.

Later, Kim So-hee, like an ordinary family's daughter who relies on her father, tells him about her life, her friends, and her boyfriend Song Jong-ki.

Of course, the latter occupies a large proportion of Kim So-hee's words, and it must be mentioned every three sentences. Father Jin looked at his daughter's happy appearance, and according to what she said about how good he was, he had a good impression of his daughter's boyfriend who had not yet appeared.