Chapter 16
Eating together as a family, I like that. But sometimes it's also quite annoying, and after a while, annoying things come.
After eating a few bites of food, my mother seemed to think of something, in fact, I also know that she has been thinking about it for a long time: "My former colleague in the factory said that her son's friend wanted to introduce you to him, and he was widowed and three years older than you; With a daughter, about the same age as Lele. said that he looked quite honest, working as a technical backbone in a factory, earning 6,000 a month. The family lives not far from here, one and a half rooms, and his daughter lives in a small room...... Why don't you check it out. ”
I rolled my eyes: "Is that unreliable colleague?" Last time, it was said that the person was 1.75 meters tall, but it turned out that he was less than 1.74 meters when he wore the inner heels. There is also the engineer with a college degree, who is thinking that he can be admitted to the engineer with a college degree, but it is not easy, but this engineer has no title at all, he repairs the light bulb printed on the business card, and my father is younger than him. Where did she come from so many people to introduce, to open a marriage agency? Don't go! ”
This sounds good, but the actual conditions are much worse. Of course, my mother is also for my consideration, in her eyes, the widowed are better than the divorced, and there are fewer problems and troubles that may be caused. Living close to each other, she can take care of it and help out as she does now.
After being silent for a while, my mother continued to nag: "Let's go and have a look, maybe it's okay this time, you're not too young, do you really plan to keep it for the rest of your life?" Hurry up and find one while you're young, and the adults will one day take the first step. ”
"No, my parents will live a long life, and it will not be a problem to live to ninety-nine. I also want to watch Lele get married and have children. I took a bite of food, although this topic is not suitable for children to say, but let Lele listen to it, divorced children must be precocious, in today's society, it is not a bad thing for children to be precocious: "Don't look at this, the conditions are too bad." No matter how high the housing prices in the neighborhood are, one and a half bedrooms are too small, and my houses all have two bedrooms. The income is only 6,000, and he is in his forties, and the technical femurs in this factory are at this price, and the benefits are obviously not very good. The child is only this big, he got married later than me, and I got married late because I didn't open my mind, he must be in poor condition. Whoever is honest is a dwarf and poor! ”
"People just need to be honest." Mom muttered: "Don't always have money, your dad doesn't have money, we are doing well." ”
Hearing this, I was angry, but this kind of education for a long time made me not grounded at all, and I was used as a springboard by my ex: "It's not that people are bad if they are rich, and the idea of being rich and unkind should have been thrown away a long time ago." There are many people who have no money and are unkind, what is bad about being rich, and how much money you make represents the other party's ability to survive. I don't want to find another man who has nothing, when Wang Baochuan helps the poor, but he died inexplicably before he enjoyed a few days of happiness. Of course, I don't dare to kill people now, I will only make a divorce. ”
I raised my head at my father, who was eating silently: "When you married my father, it wasn't because my grandmother saw that he had a house, plus an intermediate engineering and technical title." Life needs a material foundation, otherwise it is all fake. Isn't it honest, okay, a man like my father, come to one, sign an agreement before marriage, buy another house, if it's not good for me, get a divorce, like that bastard, and get out of the house. ”
Mom sighed: "Then what do you want, this is not good, that is not good, is it just like this?" ”
"It's not good, you can't ask for it, otherwise it's not just about me, it's also about Lele. I'd rather be single, earn as much as I want, and not be angry with a scumbag," I sneered and said confidently: "Sue your colleague, don't introduce any more people with a monthly income of five or six thousand, now I see all those who drive Ferraris and Porsches, and tens of thousands of dollars are too little." ”
I turned to Lele: "Give me friends at the age of eighteen, the younger a woman is, the better the man she is looking for." Don't look for the poor boy, throw it away, most of the slings will be mixed up for a lifetime, and they will still be slings when they are old. I don't care about your early love, but the other party must have the conditions, to be handsome, to be rich, to be able to marry you, you know? ”
was burying his head in the rice Lele, and casually responded: "Got it." "I don't know if I listened to it or not.
My mother looked at me with her mouth slightly open, as if she were looking at a stranger.
Yes, the huge setback has completely changed my mind, it doesn't matter if you don't have money, just be honest, it only applies to the seventies and eighties. Now I just don't have any money!
Life and reality have taught me fiercely, don't be high, let's get a little down-to-earth, and find a so-called honest person with no money, what will happen? I didn't cry in the BMW, I couldn't even sit on the back of the bike and cry, I was an abandoned woman, I asked for it.
If you are wrong once, you should overturn them all, and don't make the same mistake the second time. Otherwise, it's not as simple as asking for yourself, it's cheap.
The father, who had been silent on the side, finally spoke: "Let's not care too much, forty-year-olds should have their own ideas and know what to do." ”
I smiled at my dad, "Thank you!" ”
"But~" Mom wanted to speak and stopped, and finally picked up the vegetables with chopsticks and ate angrily: "I don't care." ”
I couldn't help but laugh, my mother was getting more and more childish the older she got. Actually, it's very good, like me, I don't have anywhere to send it if I want to, who birds you. In addition to maturity, reason, and reality, it is possible to live a better life, and then live in a daze, only to be eliminated, in fact, I am already eliminated.
When I got home, let Lele wash and get it done, I accompanied her, and when she fell asleep, I picked up my phone a little bored. After thinking about it, I opened WeChat and sent it to No. 2: "Hi, what are you doing?" ”
"Watch the film at home." Number Two also sent a picture of a TV set, which was supposed to have some kind of science fiction movie on it.
It's a big TV, it's fifty inches, right? If the TV is big, then the room should be big. I had an idea: "I don't believe you're at home." ”
"Really at home."
"Then you turn on the video and take a turn, I believe it." I secretly laughed.
"Wait."
After a while, sure enough, there was a video of going around the scene...... I was stunned. It's a big hall, and it's luxuriously decorated.
Although the house I currently live in is not big, a two-room house of 50 square meters, it is also a school district house in the urban area, and now the market value is getting higher and higher, 50,000 or 60,000 yuan per square meter. No. 2 obviously lives not far away, it seems to be a commercial house, it costs seventy or eighty-one square meters, and such a large hall, even if such a house is two bedrooms and one living room, it will cost seven or eight million, and three bedrooms and one living room will cost tens of millions, how can these aliens be so rich?
"It's at home." There is also an expression of sticking out his tongue and grimacing in the back.
"Well, I believe you."
Number two: "It's boring to be alone, why don't you come over and watch it together, have coffee, and make popcorn." ”
My heart was beating faster.