"What? You're not going to let Meixi raise the kids? After listening to Hua Mian's words, Yu Jiang looked stunned. Pen % fun % Pavilion www.biquge.info

Yu Xing and Yu Chen glanced at each other, a little puzzled why Father was so excited.

Is there something wrong? Meixi is like that, and the child can't be taught badly if she is raised?

Compared to them, Hua Mian understood why Yu Jiang reacted this way, she sighed, "I know it's a bit unkind to say this, after all, the sister-in-law is the child's biological mother, but ......"

She said what Meixi said in the delivery room and her attitude towards the child, and then said: "She doesn't look like she attaches much importance to the little bellflower, and she herself has a temperament, and I really don't worry about her raising a child." Moreover, the child's talent is not high, which does not mean that she should be allowed to be mediocre. There are countless treasures in my soul space, such as spiritual spring water and colorful fruits, and the little bellflower is congenitally inferior to others, and it is not impossible for her to catch up with others if I spend some effort. In this way, it is better to take care of her nearby. ”

paused, "I don't want to dominate her all the time, but at least before the age of six, I don't want the little bellflower and sister-in-law to be too close, and the sister-in-law's current mentality is really not suitable for raising children." After the age of six, the little bellflower is almost independent, and we have to worry less about putting two slaves by her side. ”

"Of course, I don't want their mother and daughter to be completely isolated, but as much as possible, it's better not to let the little bellflower be affected too much by her mother. If my sister-in-law is sober one day, I won't stop their mother and daughter from loving each other. ”

"I'm afraid...... I'm afraid that my sister-in-law will hold on to the little bellflower, and at the same time refuse to take good care of her, disgusted that she can't give her a long face. ”

I have to say that Hua Mian can guess a thing or two about Meixi's thoughts now.

After all, she was once an orphan and knew better than anyone that children were born with a desire for close parents, and making this kind of decision could easily make her feel guilty.

In fact, before the child was born, Huamian couldn't really make up her mind. After all, no matter how unbearable Meixi is, no matter how much she tosses during pregnancy, she is also the mother of the child, no matter how ridiculous what she does, she has no bad intentions for the child.

But these hesitations disappeared when he saw the sealer say that Xiao Kikyo's mental power was not high, and all of Meixi's reactions were gone.

Children need good parents, but a mother like Meixi, who is confused and attaches more importance to face than the safety of her children, will only delay her children.

Regarding what Hua Mian said, Yu Jiang said that he had a headache. He naturally knew that what his daughter said made sense, but no matter how reasonable it was, it was not easy to do.

No matter how bad Meixi is, she is also the biological mother of the child, and no matter how close they are to the blood relationship with the child, they can't get closer to their mother and daughter.

I have only heard of couples who have parted ways fighting for custody of their children, but I have never heard of grandfathers, uncles, aunts and grandmothers fighting for custody of their children. Don't look at the three of them, but they are not as strong as the identity of one mother.

It's useless to abuse children with other people's families, and it's useless if you can't see it, because you don't have that position.

If Qianqian is still there, it would be easy to do, and there is no grandmother in the clan who takes her grandchildren to her side to raise, this kind of thing is generally willing to be a daughter-in-law, after all, it is not really far away, the child can still be **** close, and there is no need to bury a handful of and urine, there is nothing better.

But he was reluctant to refute his daughter's proposal, whose child hurts, Meixi's appearance, he can't look down on a hundred of them. If you want her granddaughter to be raised like this, or she is not as good as Meixi - you must know that Yutang is stronger than Meixi, and the child raised by Meixi may not be as good as her, so he has to vomit to death.

Don't look at it as just a granddaughter, but he gave birth to three daughters, the first two were gone early, and the only daughter who stood he couldn't watch grow up, so the weight of this granddaughter in his heart couldn't help but be heavy.

He was embarrassed here, but Yu Chen on the side said: "It's not difficult for me to say this, since Sister Meixi doesn't care about the little bellflower, as long as she sends the child to her from time to time to drink milk, she won't ask more at all." Maybe I don't like the annoyance of the child, and I want to wean the child early. ”

Everyone felt that it made sense when they heard it, but they didn't believe his later words.

But then, Meixi's behavior once again refreshed everyone's perception of her.

"If I say I don't feed, I won't feed!" Facing Hua Mian's questioning, Mei Xi said with a look of grievance: "I was bitten and bleeding by the little bellflower there, and yesterday I was rolled off a piece of meat by her tongue, and you just asked her to eat more, and I didn't see my suffering at all." ”

Huamian had a headache, "Didn't I say I'd get egg oil to coat you?" That kind of wounded egg oil is good as soon as it is applied. She knows and has seen that newborn sucking milk will cause her nipples to burst, after all, several girlfriends who have given birth to children in her previous life have complained to her about this kind of thing, and it is also from them that Huamian knows that egg oil is effective for this kind of injury.

In fact, according to her thoughts, can't she endure it and it will pass? Speaking of which, some of her girlfriends have been pampered and raised, and I haven't seen anyone who wants to die or live for this idea.

She couldn't help but taunt Meixi: "You can't stand this pain yourself, but you want Little Bellflower to suffer the pain of physical rejection for many years?" ”

Meixi was stunned for a moment, and then said angrily: "I just can't stand it, if you have the ability, you can find someone else to feed the little bellflower?" For her daughter, she really doesn't understand what maternal love is, it's not that she's hard-hearted, it's really such a small thing that she sleeps in addition to eating on weekdays, or crying, and she doesn't react to teasing, and she still thinks about it from time to time in the first day or two, and she feels bored after a long time.

Hearing her say such unpleasant words, Rao is Huamian, who didn't have much expectations for her, couldn't help but darken her face.

"Since you are unwilling to take on the responsibility of being a mother, you will not get involved in the matter of the little bellflower in the future."

Meixi stiffened her neck and said, "Who are you willing to come up with?" ”

Although Hua Mian really wanted Meixi to say such a thing, when she really heard it, she couldn't help but be disappointed.

She knew that Meixi's words were more of a momentary anger, and she didn't really want a daughter, but she still felt uncomfortable in her heart.

Shouldn't children be more important to their parents than themselves?

Seeing Meixi like this, she suddenly didn't blame her parents in her previous life at all. As the saying goes, if you are not afraid of not knowing the goods, you are afraid of comparing goods!

Compared with a mother like Meixi, her parents in her previous life were really affectionate to her. (To be continued.) )