When they returned to New York, they were greeted by the final exam week.

Mai Qixian was worried as soon as he arrived at the exam, obviously it was not a problem for him to learn these things clearly with his brain, but he was usually too lazy to work hard, and he had to temporarily cramle when he returned, and now Yu Gui was impatient to persuade him again.

Recently, Yu Gui has been spending most of his time in the library reviewing every day, and Yan Shu comes to accompany him whenever he is free, but probably because their professor's work is also very busy at this time, he usually comes to Yu Guidu after five or six o'clock in the evening.

Yu Gui didn't think there was anything wrong with this, but Yan Shu himself looked like "I'm sorry I came late and missed the world" every time he came, and Yu Gui saw that he couldn't wait to be with him 24 hours a day, and he felt warm and funny in his heart.

On this day in mid-December, Yu Gui went to the library to occupy a seat as usual after the exam in the morning, and was about to put down his schoolbag and go to dinner, but as soon as he walked to the door of the library, he heard his mobile phone ringing, and when he took it out, he found that it was a text message from Dai Siming, saying that he had just come to Columbia University today to run errands, and he was still in school, and asked Yu Gui if he had time to eat together later.

To be honest, this invitation is a bit abrupt, and usually unless the relationship is very close, things like meeting for dinner have to be said at least a day in advance.

However, Yu Gui thought that he had nothing to do for the time being, and the other party was someone who would work together in the future, so there was no harm in communicating more, so he texted back and agreed.

"I'll see you at the Dragon Gate Formation in that moment." Dai Siming quickly returned.

Yu Gui first went upstairs to put down his schoolbag and occupy the position, and then only took his mobile phone and wallet and walked towards the Longmen Array.

When he arrived at the restaurant, he didn't see Dai Siming's figure, so Yu Gui found a place to sit down, and about three minutes later, he saw Dai Siming striding in from the door, and when he saw him, he smiled and apologized: "I'm really sorry, I know it's too sudden to make an appointment with you, but because I happened to be at school, I wanted to try my luck to see if I could make an appointment, and I was in a hurry." ”

"It's okay, I just finished the exam and was about to eat, and your text message came." Yu Gui also smiled at him and said.

"How many doors are left?" Dai Siming's tone of questioning was very familiar, not at all like someone who had just met for the third time.

Yu Gui thought about the type that always seemed to appear "self-cooked" around him, and felt helpless and funny in his heart, and looked up and said to Dai Siming: "There is one last door." ”

"That's good, I'll be liberated after the exam." Dai Siming smiled quite freely, he raised his hand and gestured to the waiter, and after the waiter came over, he ordered four dishes cleanly, and then returned the menu to people for ordering, without asking Yu Gui's opinion at all.

"I invite you to this meal, just congratulate you on being hired." Dai Siming waited for the waiter to leave before he smiled and said to Gui again.

Yu Gui frowned slightly: "Don't be so polite, it's still AA." ”

"That's not appropriate, I ordered all the dishes, in case you don't like to eat and let you pay how depressed you are, let me come, it just so happens that I haven't been here to eat for a long time, and this time I ordered all my favorite food." Dai Siming's expression was easy-going, but his tone was undoubtedly oppressive.

Yu Gui estimated that he gave Yan Shu a similar feeling at the beginning, he liked to take the initiative, and once his ideas were formed, he would not allow others to refuse.

"If you're in for a treat, this meal won't be steady." Yu Gui looked at Dai Siming and said lightly.

"What's not steady," Dai Siming shrugged his shoulders and smiled: "We are going to work together soon, and there are still many places where you need to work hard in the future, so you should be a little reward to the junior in advance as a senior, so that I can squeeze you more steadily in the future." ”

"You can arrange the work that should be arranged normally, and I won't work hard because I paid for a meal." Yu Gui looked at him and still insisted.

At this time, Dai Siming suddenly laughed, and after a few seconds he said, "Yu Gui, have you always been used to rejecting others like this?" Although it is not a disadvantage to be high, when you really enter the society and start working, you will find that some favors are unbearable, and you must learn to establish and maintain interpersonal relationships. ”

"Is this the advice of the seniors?" Yu Gui raised his eyes and looked at him.

Dai Siming smiled casually: "Just kidding, you don't really think of my seniors as a friend." ”

Yu Gui didn't speak for a while, and when Dai Siming saw this, he added: "Inviting guests to dinner, you coming and going, it will be a very common thing in the future, you can't be so clear with others every time." Why don't you think of it as a process of adaptation, how about starting with this meal? ”

"Then it's better to be respectful than to obey." Yu Gui thought for a while and finally said.

The fact that he will agree does not mean that he wants to change the principles he has always adhered to, but Dai Siming is right about one thing, after entering society, some mentality that only applies to campus should be thrown away in due course.

Dai Siming saw that he no longer had an opinion and changed the topic of discussion, his thinking was very jumpy, the rhythm of his speech was very fast, and the direction of divergence was not predictable, fortunately, he was not a slow thinker, and he didn't feel confused when he said it so widely.

But just when they were halfway through their meal, Dai Siming, who was still discussing the European economic form a second ago, suddenly glanced at Yu Gui casually and asked, "By the way, are you single now?" ”

Where is this......

Yu Gui looked at him, shook his head and said, "No." ”

"yes, that's a shame." Dai Siming said this, and there was a regretful expression on her face: "I have a good impression of you, and I originally wanted to ask you out." You should like men too, am I right? ”

"Hmm. But I have a boyfriend. Yu Gui nodded and said.

"The one I met last time I had dinner with you?" Dai Siming asked with interest.

Yu Gui paused slightly: "It's him, you still have an impression." ”

"He's a very striking type, and just like you, handsome guys are usually impressive." Dai Siming put his palms together and put them on his chin and smiled playfully: "What's more, he seemed to be a little nervous when he saw me last time, I think he is quite interesting." ”

As soon as he said this, Yu Gui also remembered that Yan Shu had asked him if he liked this type last time after Dai Siming left, and he didn't pay much attention to these details at that time, but now that he thinks about it, he understands why Yan Shu asked like that at that time.

His little bit of caution is really sensitive.

Yu Gui couldn't help but smile when he thought about it, and Dai Siming looked at him and asked, "Are you serious with him?" ”

"Seriously, of course." Yu Gui replied without thinking.

Dai Siming's eyes looked a little puzzled, and he looked at Yu Gui carefully for a moment before saying, "I don't feel like he's the type you like." I mean, he looks like a kid, and you need a more mature man. ”

"I can't agree with you." Yu Gui said very directly: "I think it is enough for one of the two people to be responsible for taking on a mature role, if both people are mature, I am afraid it will be difficult to feel relaxed together." ”

"That depends on what your definition of relaxation is." Dai Siming sat forward, he and Yu Gui were now like two sides of a debate tournament, their expressions were particularly focused and serious.

"What do you mean by 'relaxation'?" Yu Gui asked him.

"It's what exactly you want to relax." Dai Siming glanced at Yu Gui meaningfully: "With a child-like person, you may feel relaxed and healed at first, but after a long time, will you feel tired?" Yugui, do you think he can understand you thoroughly? What are the consequences if two people in a relationship have a biased understanding of each other's thoughts? ”

"The situation of incomprehension you are talking about is just a phenomenon that will exist for a short time, as long as two people communicate in a timely manner, eliminate misunderstandings, and accurately inform each other of their thoughts, you can avoid the estrangement caused by incomprehension."

Yu Gui found that he was inexplicably more serious, he paused for a moment and said: "Even if you are a mature person, you can't understand all the thoughts of another individual from the beginning, after all, people's ideas are too complicated, so you need to run in." Immaturity is not a big problem, as long as the IQ and EQ are enough. ”

"It makes sense if you say that. Do you think the two of you can understand each other? Dess asked thoughtfully.

"Why not?" Yu Gui asked rhetorically.

Dai Siming suddenly smiled: "I seem to have taken the topic too far. I'm sorry, but I just happened to be interested in this matter, so I couldn't help but ask a few more words, don't take it to heart, I don't mean anything else. ”

"No," Yu Gui slightly hooked the corner of his mouth, and said indifferently: "I haven't discussed this matter with others before, and it's not bad to talk about it once in a while." ”

"It's fine if you don't mind, but let's change the subject, so as not to go back and let the person in your family know that I have ulterior motives." Desmond said jokingly.

"That's not going to happen. It's just that I was quite surprised when you said you were going to ask me out, and recently I found out that there are more people like me in New York than I thought. ”

"Is New York too much?" Dai Siming smiled disappreciatively and said, "Do you know that I studied in California as an undergraduate, and have you heard of the Bay Area there?" ”

"I've heard it, I've heard it, but the bay in that bay area is not a straight bend."

"There's nothing wrong with using straight corners," Desmond raised his eyebrows, "The Bay Area is a veritable 'curved area', and New York is already a place full of straight men in my eyes, and it's not easy to find a partner." ”

Yu Gui couldn't help but raise the corners of his mouth when he heard him say this: "If you want to find it, there will still be it, don't worry." ”

"Well, now that you've ruled out one more potential object for me, I'll have to reposition myself." Dai Siming smiled and stretched out his hand to Yu Gui: "It's okay to fall in love, so let's be friends, do you have any opinions?" ”

"Nope." Yu Gui shook hands with him, but in his heart he thought that he should find time to correct it with Yan Shu, so as not to misunderstand him all the time.

I remember that when Yan Shu asked him if he liked the type of Dai Siming, his answer was "I usually like it", but there is a "but" in this sentence.

……

"I usually like it," but it's you who I like.

There is no need to distinguish what type, and there is no need to add a big frame to describe it, just like the person.

I'm afraid that even Yu Gui didn't realize that Yan Shu had become the irreplaceable and only favorite in his heart.