Chapter 174: The Happiness of Home
"Little sister, this aunt is your mother, right? You take such good care of your mother. Tan Panpan cast an approving glance at the little girl.
When the pregnant woman heard this, she felt sweet in her heart, and she couldn't help but stroke her daughter's hair.
The little girl was very innocent and said, "This is a must." Because my mother was pregnant with her little brother. ”
"Oh, how do you know your mother is pregnant with a younger brother?"
The little girl couldn't help but smile brightly in the face of Tan Panpan's curious gaze: "I don't know, but my mother is either a younger brother or a younger sister." Whoever it is, I like it. ”
Tan Panpan couldn't help but be curious: "Aren't you afraid that your mother will not spoil you if she gives birth to a little brother or little sister?" ”
The little girl said innocently: "I'm not afraid, because I also have a pampered object, and I will accompany my father and mother to spoil the future little brother." ”
Tan Panpan felt a little incredulous: "Why? ”
The little girl glanced at the pregnant woman, then grinned and said, "If my mother has another baby, then I can't help but pester my mother to buy me dolls." ”
Tan Panpan was a little dumbfounded: "Little sister, it turns out that you are looking forward to your mother giving birth to a baby, just want to be a little pet?" ”
"Not exactly." The little girl shook her head seriously, "Our teacher told us children that happiness is not only about accepting and taking, but also about giving your love. If the mother has a second child, she must love the little brother or sister born to the mother. In this way, we can feel the affection of brothers and sisters at home, and let this affection surround us and experience the warmth and happiness of the family. ”
Tan Panpan listened to the innocent words of the little girl, and couldn't help but feel for a while. She sometimes feels that she has a bit of an autistic personality, is it because she has no other siblings in the family?
She couldn't help but think of her mother's generation, it was because her mother had sisters and older brothers, so she could always feel a strong family affection, no matter who had an accident, the other members would come forward. When he went astray and was about to fall into the abyss, didn't he rely on his second aunt and second uncle to risk their lives to rescue him? In this way, I really need to have a younger brother or sister, so that I will have more family affection in my future life.
"Panpan, what are you thinking?" A female classmate noticed Panpan's thoughtful appearance and couldn't help but interrupt her train of thought curiously.
Tan Panpan was stunned, and then whispered to his classmates: "I really admire this little girl, her mother is pregnant with her second child, not only is she not worried about falling out of favor in the future, but she is also so excited, as if she wants to have a baby." She will definitely be a good sister in the future. “
The female classmate disappreciated: "Don't worship this little girl, just worship me, because my mother is currently pregnant with her second child." I'm sure I can be a good sister. ”
Tan Panpan couldn't help but be surprised: "Aren't you afraid of falling out of favor?" ”
"Where do you want to go?" The female classmate was puzzled, "How old are we, can we still compete with a new baby?" ”
Tan Panpan thought about it, and couldn't help but grin: "Isn't it, in a few years, we will all be mothers ourselves." ”
"It's too early for us to be mothers. However, we have lived without a companion for more than ten years, which is really pitiful. ”
Tan Panpan was stunned: "Why do you say that?" ”
The female classmate asked rhetorically, "Do you feel that your childhood was full?" ”
Tan Panpan said vaguely: "It's okay, it's finally so-so, after all, my parents are just one of our children." ”
The female classmate asked again: "But do you feel satisfied enjoying everything that your parents have given you?" ”
Tan Panpan shook his head: "I can't understand this." However, my parents said that our generation is the darling of the times. No one is fighting with us. ”
Unexpectedly, the female classmate sighed: "It would be nice if the second child came more than ten years earlier!" That way, I can at least have a brother or sister. People say that our generation has fallen into the blessing pile. But I felt that my childhood was very lonely. Every day when I come home, I don't have a companion who can talk or play with us. Even if we want to be a top player and compete for a favor, we have no object to compete with. You say, as only children, are we suffering? ”
The words of the female classmate couldn't help but make Tan Panpan fall into deep thought. When she saw that the little girl was very happy to take care of the pregnant woman, she couldn't help but think that maybe she was very eager to have a companion and more family happiness.
When he came home that night, Tan Panpan found that his father had not come back, so he slipped into the kitchen and said to his busy mother: "Mom, I want to ask you for something?" ”
Qi Shunmei was a little embarrassed by her daughter's expression, and couldn't help but be surprised: "What do you want me to do, just say it." ”
"I want you to give me a little brother or little sister."
Qi Shunmin, who was chopping vegetables, suddenly became agitated, and almost let the kitchen knife cut into his hand. She simply stopped what she was doing and asked her daughter curiously, "What's wrong with you today?" Why do you have such an idea? ”
Tan Panpan scratched his head: "I feel that the atmosphere in our house is a little too deserted, and we need a little life to add to the lively atmosphere." ”
Qi Shunmei's heart fluttered, but after all, she said angrily: "Why do you think that this kid is a play?" Don't mess around anymore. ”
"Mom, I'm not kidding, I'm seriously discussing this matter with you."
Qi Shunmei stared at her daughter for a long time, and after a while, she whispered: "This kind of thing must be approved by your father." ”
"Alas, you were the one who gave birth to the baby, why did you discuss it with him?"
Qi Shunmei's pretty face couldn't help but turn crimson, and she had to say shyly: "He is the head of the family, he has to approve it." ”
Tan Panpan was puzzled: "No matter what happens in our family, doesn't he listen to you?" You're his queen. ”
Qi Shunmei's heart was a little confused, and she looked impatient and said, "I won't tell you." You hurry up and do your homework. ”
"Mom, I'm already on winter vacation, and I'll have a lot of time to write that little homework in the future."
Qi Shunmei saw that her daughter was sticky to herself, so she excused herself again: "In this case, you can help me do some work and clean up the living room." ”
Tan Panpan stuck out his tongue: "If I help you work, will you help me give birth to a little sister?" ”
Qi Shunmei's face turned completely red, and she just buried her head in work.
"Panpan, why did you come to the kitchen?" Tan Lijun walked in from outside at this time.
Qi Shunmei didn't wait for her daughter to answer, so she took the opportunity to speak: "Panpan said that I have something to discuss with you." ”
Tan Lijun asked his daughter curiously: "Panpan, what is the matter?" ”
"Dad, I want you to persuade Mom..."
Qi Shunmei's heartbeat intensified at this time, and she quickly interrupted: "You father and daughter should go out and talk." The fumes in the kitchen are too heavy. ”
Tan Lijun felt even more strange when he saw that his wife was deliberately trying to avoid it, so he stretched out his arm and wrapped his arm around his daughter's shoulder: "Panpan, let's go to the living room to talk." ”
When Tan Panpan sat side by side with her father on the sofa in the living room, she was embarrassed to tell her father.
Tan Lijun smiled kindly: "Panpan, what do you have to discuss with me?" ”
Tan Panpan hesitated and deliberately changed the topic: "Dad, you said that many families are now preparing to have a second child. Then think about it, is it difficult to raise a child now? ”
Tan Lijun didn't understand what his daughter meant, so he subconsciously said: "Of course it's difficult." Today's children are very sick, and the cost of raising them is very high. If there are children who love to cry and make trouble, they can be guilty of letting their parents suffer. ”
Tan Panpan was puzzled: "Since raising a child will be so troublesome, why do many older women have a second child?" ”
Tan Lijun smiled emotionally: "Because a small life will bring a kind of vitality to their family." Even if it's troublesome, it's a happy problem. Because parents never feel that raising their children is a troublesome thing. ”
Tan Panpan's eyes couldn't help but moisten, and he asked again: "Then was it annoying when I was a child?" ”
His daughter's words evoked Tan Lijun's memories of the past, so he said to his daughter while recalling: "When you were a child, you loved to cry, and every time you cried, you always didn't play anymore, making the whole family jump." At that time, your mother and I hoped that you would grow up and be sensible as soon as possible. In this way, we have peace of mind. Now that you've finally grown up, we feel like we're missing something at home. ”
Tan Panpan couldn't help but ask: "What's missing then?" ”
Tan Lijun said with emotion: "There is less naughty and crying you in the family, and there is more obedient and quiet you, but we can't feel the vitality of this family at that time." Sometimes I wonder if you could do it all over again when you were a kid. ”
Tan Panpan suddenly said emotionally: "What is the happiness of the family, some people say that it is the harmony between husband and wife, father and son, and mother and daughter." However, respecting each other may not be able to fully appreciate the sense of happiness, if a family can often hear the baby's cry, and the inner roar and touch, this is also a kind of family happiness. ”
Tan Lijun listened, suddenly glanced at his daughter, and was immediately surprised. At this time, he felt that his daughter was unusually mature.
Tan Panpan's eyes were moist at this time: "Dad, I want a sister." Through her, I can feel the footprints of my childhood. I can more deeply experience the love of my parents and the comfort of more family affection. ”
Tan Lijun listened to his daughter's words, and his shocked eyes revealed a trace of emotion.
Qi Shunmei had something in her heart, and she couldn't help but hide at the kitchen door to eavesdrop on the conversation between the two women, and when she heard her daughter's words, she couldn't help but shed tears of excitement. (To be continued.) )