80. Arguments
This sounds extremely funny, Gu Shuhan hasn't accused Qin Zhihong and Yu Man, a halfway couple, of meddling in other people's families and treachery, but unexpectedly, some people are complaining about them, accusing her of not occupying the position of Qin Zhihong's wife, and she should take the initiative to retreat. If she does not back down and does not compromise, she is backward in her thinking and feudal dross, and she will be despised.
Only people of this period can say such things with confidence. As a perpetrator, instead of thinking about whether his own behavior is inappropriate, he accuses the victim of being stubborn and does not open the door for him. As for the victims, no one pays attention, they are abandoned by the times, by their husbands and families, they deserve it, who makes them feudal dross.
The total negation of the old culture, the appropriation of the new culture or the taking out of context, coupled with their own greed, have created one tragedy after another. Those who are forced to marry wives are just the ones who come to the door to ask for marriage, and when there is a newcomer, they will leave their wives aside, and use "new culture and new atmosphere" as an excuse, which is the most despicable, Qin Zhihong is one of them.
Gu Shuhan is so arrogant, naturally it is not rare for a man with low moral character and no responsibility like Qin Zhihong, nor is it rare to compete with Yu Man for such a man, but this does not mean that she has to succumb to the concept of the person in front of her, and retreat aggrieved and pitiful.
Although she thinks so in her heart, she doesn't want to put her private affairs in front of the public and use them as a topic of conversation for everyone. Fighting with a little girl who has not been deeply involved in the world, that is, she wins, is there anything to be honored?
"This is my private matter, it has nothing to do with our topic today, don't introduce irrelevant topics because of personal feelings." Gu Shuhan was ready to bring this topic over in a few words, but unexpectedly, the little girl who spoke just now was unwilling.
"How can it not matter?" The little girl in the plaid skirt raised her head high, and her delicate little face was full of rebelliousness: "Isn't today what we are talking about about how to better promote the progress of society?" What you just said is an external thing, just a superficial thing, isn't ideological progress more important than these? If your thinking is rotten and outdated, even if you have a few technical skills, it is not worth learning and emulating! If you avoid answering my questions, you are weak-hearted, and I look down on you! ”
Ignoring the tugging of the people beside her, the little girl finished her words in one go. She stared at a pair of round eyes, as if she had put on her battle armor, ready to respond to Gu Shuhan's counterattack at any time.
The companions beside her were a little embarrassed, although they knew that she was a little disappreciative of Gu Shuhan, but they only thought that she was too high, and deliberately talked back to them to show that she was different. Gu Shuhan is the person they dream of, and the opportunity to listen to Gu Shuhan's lecture is also something they finally asked, they never expected that such a thing would happen. Seeing that their companions were so rude in front of Gu Shuhan, as if they were looking for fault, they also felt that they couldn't raise their heads in front of Gu Shuhan.
In fact, they didn't think much about what the girl said. In these years, there are not many girls who can be sent by their families to study, and even fewer can be sent all the way to college by their families. Most of the girls' families are halfway through their studies, and they drop out of school and get married. It can be said that the girls who have been able to study in B University until now must have quite good family backgrounds and very enlightened families.
The pursuit of progressive ideas is the idea of every enlightened person, and they naturally support free love. However, in this case, there are very few people who can truly achieve unrestrained and completely independent love and marriage. Their so-called free love is mostly to choose a family they like in the right family, and then marry it.
When they learned that some progressive young people resolutely abandoned feudal marriage, they did not admire or bless it, but in their opinion, this situation was not applicable to Gu Shuhan.
First of all, Gu Shuhan is not different from those abandoned women of the old things, she is not only beautiful, but also witty and capable, she is a new woman who cannot be renewed. If those old-fashioned women were left behind because their thinking was too backward and they couldn't keep up with their husbands' footsteps, then what reason was there for someone like Gu Shuhan to be abandoned?
Moreover, after Gu Shuhan became famous, the people of the time did not pay attention to her past. There is no way, Qin Zhihong is too flamboyant, they don't know what they did at the beginning. At the beginning, Qin Zhihong, who was still studying, rejected the female classmate who confessed to him, and instead pursued Gu Shuhan, which caused a sensation in his original school. Faced with the pursuit of young and middle-aged talents in the school, Gu Shuhan naturally agreed, and the two dated for a while, and after Gu's father and Gu's mother saw Qin Zhihong, Gu Shuhan dropped out of school and married into the Qin family.
If there is some truth in other people who are dissatisfied with the feudal arranged marriage and regret the marriage, Qin Zhihong completely likes the new and hates the old, when he wants others, he says that he is free to fall in love with others, and when he doesn't want others, he pushes it to his parents, saying that it is a feudal arranged marriage, and many young girls are quite ashamed of Gu Shuhan's husband. In addition, Gu Shuhan's husband had made trouble a few times before, and he had a lawsuit, and everyone had a very poor image of this person. For the woman who is on good terms with him, he doesn't have a good feeling.
I know that this person is such a character, and I still mess with him, isn't it willing to be cheap - what is cheap? Aren't you afraid that you will become the next Gu Shuhan?
However, the girls only learned today that their classmate Yu Yan had a great relationship with Gu Shuhan's husband's lover, and on such an occasion, they even had to stand up for her.
They didn't know that Yu Yan was Yu Man's cousin, and Su Ri had the best relationship with Yu Man, so seeing that Yu Man was not righteous because of Gu Shuhan, was ridiculed by outsiders, and was not understood by his family, Yu Yan was very angry.
In Yu Yan's opinion, it is right for her cousin to pursue her own happiness, and it is Gu Shuhan who is wrong, who is those who do not understand her cousin and future cousin-in-law. Therefore, she can't listen to others say good things about Gu Shuhan, and she can't see Gu Shuhan's sought after appearance, so she has to pull Gu Shuhan down from the high altar and let everyone see her rotten true face.
Gu Shuhan took Yu Yan's words, even if he didn't have the idea of competing with Yu Yan for the benefit of his tongue, he had to say something now. If she keeps silent, there will always be people who feel good about themselves and will always look for her to provoke.
She didn't want to talk about her past personal affairs, she had already come out of it, but that didn't mean she was ashamed to mention it. In this matter, she has been frank and frank from beginning to end, and there is nothing to say to others.
"Some dross may eventually be eliminated by history; There are virtues that never go out of style. I have only one sentence for what you said, if a person has no faith, he will not stand, and a treacherous person will be a person in vain. ”
"Your sense of superiority comes only from your so-called new ideas, because of your new ideas, you can stand high in front of me, the 'feudal dross'. And what do you call a new way of thinking? He didn't even distinguish between events, and blindly regarded abandoning his wife and remarrying as the right thing; It is a blatant regard treachery as a virtue and abandonment of duty as an honor; It is to regard cheating as the progress of society, and to maintain one's marriage as a backward mind. What else would you do if you would just take the little fur you 'brought' from the West? What is your position, what face, to accuse me on behalf of the 'progressives'? ”
"I admit that it is indeed pitiful that marriage is not autonomous, but if your so-called 'progressive thought' is to love it today and marry it, and to throw it aside tomorrow if you don't, without any sense of responsibility and shame, then don't want such a 'progressive thought'! Why do we study 'progressive thinking' just to save the country and revitalize the country? How can such a person who has no sense of responsibility and no responsibility be expected to take on the future of the country? If you're happy today, you'll make a fuss-new, and if you're unhappy tomorrow, you'll throw it aside, what's the point! ”
The big hat must have been buttoned down, and Yu Yan suddenly felt a sudden increase in pressure. She wanted to open her mouth to refute Gu Shuhan, but Gu Shuhan didn't give her this opportunity, and said without pause: "If the 'progressive thought' is just a big piece in your hands, you can use it when you can use it, and keep it when you can't use it to show superiority, those real pioneers are really sad." The state has cultivated you, not to let you show your superiority in front of others, and it is better to do more practical things if you have this kung fu to blame this and blame that. ”
"You, you're unreasonable!" Yu Yan's little face turned red, but she couldn't think of anything to refute Gu Shuhan for a while, only heard Gu Shuhan pause, and said, "Besides, why do you expect that I will not divorce Mr. Qin?" Although he was once a husband and wife, he has no intention of me now, and he has no father-daughter affection for the little girl, why should I pester him, could it be that I can't find a better person than him in the world? It was Mr. Qin, who was reluctant to return my dowry, so he was dealing with me while making a rumor outside, saying that I couldn't leave him. ”
Yu Yan seemed to have finally found a point where she could attack Gu Shuhan, and hurriedly said: "You have so many factories under your command now, why worry about taking money?" A little money and silver furniture, just leave it to him, why fight with him? It's really lustful, vulgar and unbearable! ”