Chapter 4 Hot Topics
As soon as Liu Yongmei said this, everyone present just glanced at each other, and it didn't cause much of a sensation.
"Why, didn't you hear what I just said?" Liu Yongmei couldn't help but be surprised.
Qi Shunjun first said: "Yongmei, does the news you said have anything to do with us?" ”
Before Liu Yongmei could answer, Yang Guanghai, who had always seemed bored, vomited: "That's it." That's not good news, is it? Now China's population is about to explode. How can the government liberalize the birth policy? ”
Liu Yongmei immediately explained: "The government naturally has their reasons. Although the population pressure is high, the population is already aging. This is not conducive to the long-term development of the national economy. If the policy of allowing couples with one child to have two children is introduced, the birth policy can be gradually adjusted to promote the balanced development of the population in the long term. In this way, the realization of our people's dream of having a second child has become within reach. ”
Qi Shunmei let out an "oh" and questioned: "But what does this have to do with me?" ”
Liu Yongmei looked at her, then at Tan Lijun beside her, and then said softly: "Isn't this a good thing for the two of you?" Lijun wouldn't want to have another child, would he? ”
As soon as Liu Yongmei said this, Tan Lijun's heart couldn't help but move. Qi Shunmei's heart also rippled. However, Tan Panpan's face, who was sitting at the bottom, changed. She bit her lip and hung her head.
Qi Shunying's baby son couldn't sit still at the dining table, so he rushed to the living room to watch cartoons and Sahuan, and liberated her. In fact, she and Yang Guanghai, the baby son, have long been guilty of preprandial anorexia. I usually like to eat those snacks, but when it comes to normal meal time, I don't want to use chopsticks. He accepted a few bites of feeding from his mother, and he had already given enough face.
Qi Shunying was puzzled at this time: "Alas, raising a child now is almost exhausting people to death, if you raise more, then you won't let people live?" ”
Liu Yongmei glanced at her, and then smiled: "Do you think that all the children in the world are as uneasy as your family?" Then I'll tell you, in fact, it's good to have a second child, when I had only one baby in the past, I was afraid of losing it in my hand, and I was afraid of melting in my mouth, just like your family's Wangwang. Don't let him do anything, be his little master well. When you are naughty, you are reluctant to scold when you should scold. If you do something wrong, you are reluctant to punish when you should be punished. Inadvertently, love turns into doting. If you are overprotective and spoiled in this way, you will only harm your child in the end. But if you're giving him a brother or sister or something, then you won't subconsciously spoil him like you would if you only had one child. Scold when you should scold, and punish when you deserve. It's good for your child's growth..."
As soon as Liu Yongmei talked about this, Mrs. Qi hurriedly reminded her daughter-in-law in a low voice: "You can be quiet, if that little ancestor hears it, he will remember your lifelong hatred as an aunt." ”
Liu Yongmei looked at Yang Guanghai and Qi Shunying, and smiled calmly: "What I said is the truth, even if the child is careful, but my sister and brother-in-law won't do this, right?" ”
Yang Guanghai hurriedly said: "Sister-in-law is reasonable. My family's Want Want is just spoiled by the. ”
"You..." Qi Shunying glared at her husband angrily.
Liu Yongmei said loudly: "Actually, there are many benefits to having a second child. For example, a child is the 'biggest' at home, no one competes with him, he often says what he wants, he gets what he wants, and even if he doesn't do anything, everyone revolves around him. If there are two children, after comparison, invisibly, a sense of competition will be formed from an early age. In addition, if there is only one child in the family, the children may be able to settle down in another place when the children go to school or work in the future. When my parents are home alone, the house is lifeless, and there is no one to accompany me. If there is one more child, maybe one can stay with you. When they got old, someone poured water for the tea. If you have a cold or illness, there are people around to help take care of you. ”
Old Lady Qi immediately nodded: "Yongmei has a point. For example, if you talk to Shunjun, Xiaolian is a girl, and she is still studying in the deep sea, can she fly back in the future? Therefore, you should have a 'second child'. ”
When Liu Yongmei heard her mother-in-law's words, her pretty face suddenly turned red, and she couldn't help but say angrily: "Mom, why did you go around me?" I persuaded Shunmei and Lijun to have a 'second child'. ”
When Tan Panpan heard this, he buried his head lower, and reluctantly sat there without running away. However, her love affair did not attract the attention of others.
Old Lady Qi looked full of interest at this time and said, "Yongmei really brought good news to my old lady today. Shunmei must give birth to one, but Yongmei also has to give birth to one. Ever since you gave birth to Xiaolian. Our old Qi family will have no men in the next generation. You and Shunjun can have a boy. ”
Liu Yongmei glanced at her husband with a feverish face. Qi Shunjun hurriedly said: "Yongmei is forty-three years old this year, I'm afraid the age is not allowed." In my opinion, this matter of having a second child should be carefully considered. ”
Old Lady Qi sank her face: "Yongmei, is she still too old?" Your second aunt was forty-five years old and gave birth to your little cousin. Therefore, our Yongmei gave birth to a 'second child', and there is no problem at all. ”
Qi Shunjun couldn't help but look at his wife, and they were speechless.
Qi Shunmei asked Qi Shunying on the other side at this time: "Fourth sister, you are only thirty years old, if you want to have a second child, there must be no problem at all." Are you going to give birth to a 'dick'? ”
Qi Shunying had a bitter face: "My family's Wangwang makes me exhausted every day." If there is a little ancestor like him, then it will cost me my life? I don't want it anymore. ”
Qi Shunmei disagreed: "Fourth sister, you are a full-time wife." A few of our sisters, you are an idler. It's completely qualified to have a 'second child'. Besides, Hiromi is so good at grabbing money outside. ”
When Yang Guanghai heard this, he couldn't help but show a hint of an arrogant smile.
Qi Shunmin silently listened to the conversation between his sister-in-law and couldn't help but glance at Chen Xuewu beside him.
Unexpectedly, Chen Xuewu was also secretly staring at her face.
Qi Shunmin's heart moved, and he immediately blurted out: "Learn martial arts, let's have a child too, right?" ”
Chen Xuewu's eyes lit up, and when he was squirming his lips and didn't know how to answer, Old Lady Qi suddenly said: "No!" Shunmin: How old are you? Why do you still want to have children? ”
Qi Shunmin was surprised: "No matter how old I am, I am two years younger than my sister-in-law." Since you encouraged her to give birth to a 'second child', why did you pour cold water on me? ”
Old Lady Qi said angrily: "What did you say about this girl? Your eldest brother and sister-in-law are qualified to give birth. Because your eldest brother is the director of the Agriculture and Forestry Bureau, and your sister-in-law also sits in the office of the Family Planning Office. There is no problem with their financial ability. And can you? Although you are a teacher and have a certain amount of financial security, what about you looking for this master later? What kind of security can he bring to the children of the future? ”
When Chen Xuewu heard this, it was as if he had been slapped in the face, and his face turned red. He had no shame to refute this mother-in-law, so he could only stick his head deep like Tan Panpan.
Juanzi just heard that her mother was actually planning to have a second child, she was not angry, and she wanted to say a few words against her mother, but she didn't know what to say, and when she heard that her grandmother was relieved of her anger, she couldn't help but show a pleasant smile, and glanced at her stepfather with mocking eyes.
Qi Shunmin saw that her husband was so sad, she felt a little unbearable, and couldn't help but retort to her mother: "Hmph, if I want to give birth, no one can stop me." Even with my own salary, I can still raise my children! ”
Before the old lady Qi could speak, Yang Guanghai suddenly burst into a burst of wild laughter: "Hahaha, the second sister is a little simple, right?" How easy is it to raise a child now, as you say? ”
Qi Shunmei was not angry, and couldn't help but say angrily to Yang Guanghai: "What does it matter to you if I want to have a child?" Do you think you can raise a child in your family? ”
Yang Guanghai didn't mind the second sister-in-law's dissatisfaction with him, and said reasonably: "Second sister, raising a child now is not like when you raised Juanzi." Do you know how much it costs me to raise a son Xiaowang now? I've done the math. My precious son, who has been eight years old since birth, has already spent a two-bedroom house on the house. ”
When Qi Shunjun heard this, he couldn't help but shake his head and said: "If all the parents in the world are as rich and spoiled as your family, I'm afraid I and your third sister can't afford to raise them." ”
Qi Shunmei couldn't get used to the arrogance of her little nephew, and couldn't help but sneer: "Hmph, if I let me have a son like Xiaowang, then I would rather be born and strangle him." ”
When Qi Shunying heard the third sister's disrespectful words, she couldn't help but raise her mouth.
Yang Guanghai was stunned, and did not bother with the three sisters-in-law, but said: "Even if you want to raise children poorly, then today's children will cost money from birth to college, and it will cost a lot of money, because the current standard of living is improving year by year." For example, milk powder always has to be bought, and it is estimated that it is a lot of money to wait for early education classes, training classes or something, as well as the most basic food, clothing, housing and transportation, which cost a lot of money. For you, I am afraid that the money you planned to save for retirement will have to be used to raise your children. ”
Qi Shunjun didn't like this fourth brother-in-law's habit of usually having a copper smell, but he still agreed with what he just said, so he said: "Guanghai is really a businessman, and this account is very clear. So, Xiaomin, you and Xuewu can't be rash. If you give birth to a child and can't give the child a suitable environment to grow up, then you won't be at ease. ”
Qi Shunmei also said at this time: "There are four brothers in our family, no matter which one wants to have a second child, the second sister is not suitable for childbirth." So, second sister, you better give up this idea. ”
Qi Shunying also coaxed: "That's it." If the second sister still follows the brother-in-law in front, you can still consider it. But with the current conditions of this brother-in-law, if he wants to have a second child, it will be crazy! ”
Liu Yongmei saw it in her eyes and wanted to open her mouth to say a few euphemistic words to appease Chen Xuewu, whose self-esteem was hurt, but considering her own situation, she couldn't help but squeak.
Chen Xuewu couldn't wait to find a crack in the ground at this time. He finally couldn't be silent anymore, so he opened his mouth and said, "I don't have any intention of having children at all." Xiao Min just said it in passing. ”
Old Lady Qi stared at her 'new aunt' with indifferent eyes, and said in a tone of insinuation: "Xiao Chen, the words of me and the children may not be listened to, but they are all reasonable, please..."
Qi Shunmin saw that this was the case, although he was angry, he couldn't attack everyone. When I heard that my mother was still chattering, I quickly grabbed a piece of braised pork with chopsticks and put it in my mother's bowl: "Mom, today is your birthday." Please eat more, don't talk too much. ”
Old Mrs. Qi saw that she was unwilling, so she had to swallow what she was going to say later.
Qi Shunmin saw that his mother had finally stopped, so he buried his head in eating without saying a word. Her idea is to eat quickly, and leave this place of right and wrong with her husband as soon as possible.
When the others saw this, they were also silent. The whole banquet suddenly showed a chewing sound, and few people spoke out loud.
However, Juanzi didn't wait for her mother to withdraw first, so she stood up first: "Grandma, I've eaten enough, it's time to go." ”
Qi Shunmin didn't wait for his mother to squeak, and stared at his daughter in surprise: "What time is it?" Why are you leaving so early? ”
Juanzi said calmly: "I will take the opportunity to go to Xinhua Bookstore at noon." So, I won't wait for you. ”
Qi Shunmin questioned: "If you don't need me to drive you, then how can you go to school?" ”
Juanzi's eyes whitened and her mother looked: "You don't have to worry about this." I will arrive at school on time. ”
Qi Shunmin seemed to understand something, so he stopped caring about his daughter.
After Juanzi greeted all the elders present, she turned around and left her grandmother's house.
When she left her grandmother's house and walked out not far, a car followed and stopped next to her!