Chapter 60: Please Go Play
After Christmas, Kim Lan went back to school. She had been discharged home a few days earlier, and the doctor said that her condition had improved and that she could just recuperate at home. But she couldn't stay at home, and she only felt that her parents who sent her to a mental hospital were really hateful. She is vindictive every day at home, otherwise she will sink her face and ignore people, close the door in her room, and refuse to come out when eating, only willing to sneak to the kitchen to cook instant noodles when her parents are not at home.
Jin's father and mother suspected that her illness had not yet recovered, but her daughter hated them both so much that she was afraid that anything else would stimulate her even more, so she had to specially invite the doctor to come to the house to watch.
The doctor in the psychiatric hospital accepted the red envelope, and when he saw that the parents were really pitiful, he agreed to come to the door. Mental illness is different from other physical pain, many people go home to recuperate, their families don't know how to treat him, whether to hold it carefully like a glass bottle, or treat it like an ordinary person? In a dilemma. Under the difficulties of the family, it is difficult to ensure that the patient's condition will not recur. Therefore, his home visit is also a regular thing.
After coming to Jin Lan's house, although Jin Lan knew that her parents had invited her as soon as she saw the familiar doctor, she was only angry with her parents, but she had a good impression of the doctor. When she was in the hospital, the doctor treated her gently and thoughtfully, did not treat her as a madman, listened to her very carefully, and did not care about her after knowing that she saw a ghost, but explained it with scientific reasons, he did not discuss with her whether there was really a ghost, only said that sometimes people will scare themselves, the more afraid they are, the more likely they are to take it seriously, and it will become a vicious circle, and tell her a little joke about the Buddha, there is a Buddha on the side of the road, a drunk man passed by the Buddha statue knocked down, kicked and beaten, and vomited the Buddha statue, and then swaggered away; The second pedestrian is a believer in Buddhism, seeing the Buddha fall beside the road, the Buddha lifted up, wiped the Buddha statue with his own clothes, after he left, the Buddha let the little ghost around him go to the second pedestrian bed in the middle of the night to make a mistake, the little ghost asked should not be the first person? Buddha: The first person doesn't believe in me, so of course he won't give me offerings; The second one believes me, and I will have an offering.
There are people in this world who believe in ghosts and gods and those who don't, but accidents and misfortunes are possible for every kind of person, so whether ghosts and gods have power or not, this is really unknowable and unpredictable, so you can believe it or not, but you can't only believe in ghosts and gods, that's stupid.
Jin Lan also reflected after being sent to the hospital, she felt that in the end it was indeed she who scared herself, and her reaction was too unlike a normal person, even if she woke up in the middle of the night and found that Master Xu was not in the room, she couldn't go out barefoot without shoes, let alone eavesdrop on his phone calls, she was scared away when she knew that her parents were coming, in fact, she already felt that she was a little abnormal, and Master Xu also thought that she was abnormal, so she was even more afraid of seeing her parents. Later, if you tell your parents about her ghosts, your parents will definitely not believe her, so it is not surprising that they think she is crazy. If she told her parents rationally and calmly after the accident, she might not be able to trust her parents.
In the end, it was the doctor who said she was normal and allowed her to be discharged, so she believed the doctor.
The doctor talked to her, and she bluntly said that she didn't want to talk because she hated her parents, and she didn't want to pay attention to people, "They still treat me like a crazy person!" I get annoyed when I see them! ”
The doctor went out to talk to the parents, and she hid and eavesdropped, and heard the doctor say, "The child is normal, just vomiting." It's not good to leave her alone at home, and it would be better for her to be able to go back to school. Adolescent children are prone to all kinds of mental problems, and it is too exaggerated to say that they are mentally ill, but their reactions will be more intense than adults, with a strong sense of hostility, and the worldview is black and white, so at this time, the family should treat them with a more mature attitude and do not follow the pace of the child. ”
Jin Lan heard the doctor lecture her parents, and when she heard her parents believe in the doctor's words, she didn't treat her words properly, which made her even more unwilling to be with her parents.
So the doctor told her parents to let her go back to school, but her parents still had to hesitate, she was already busy agreeing, but she was afraid that the school would be too lively during the Christmas holiday, so she deliberately missed the holiday and came back.
There is still the spirit of Christmas in the school, and many couples appear in pairs. After Jin Lan returned to the dormitory, two of the three people in the same dormitory were glued to her boyfriend, and there was no time to care about Jin Lan who was "sick" and went home to recuperate, only one of them asked her curiously what illness she had, how is it now? She said it was because of the autonomic nervous system disorder caused by too much stress.
This is a disease that normal people rarely hear, but when examined in detail, it is not strict. It was after discussing with his parents under the advice of the doctor, Jin Lan used it as an excuse to perfunctory the curiosity of his classmates.
The classmate asked her curiously what was going on with this disease, and Jin Lan said that she had diarrhea when she was nervous, so her family took her to see a doctor, and after returning home, she slowly improved in a familiar environment before returning to school.
In the evening, everyone in the dormitory came back, and sure enough, many people came to greet Jin Lan, and after hearing her have diarrhea, they all laughed. Jin Lan secretly reassured, it is better to be treated as a joke than to be mentally ill, the former is just a laugh, but the latter has to be looked at sideways and avoided.
This joke has been circulating for two days, and no one is interested in mentioning it again, and Jin Lan is just able to go to class calmly. It's just that every day her parents always call to remind her to take medicine, which makes her annoyed. When she was at home, she deliberately changed the bottle of the medicine, for fear that people would see the name of the medicine and search for it. Even so, she was still dodgy when she took the medicine, and she was most afraid of being seen by her classmates she knew.
"Jin Lan, what medicine are you taking?"
Jin Lan was startled, and when she looked back, she saw that it was a girl she knew, her name was Yu Zhigao. It is very unusual for a girl to give a boy's name, she said that it is because the family has high expectations for her, and the name was given by her grandfather. She herself is a fair-skinned girl with a gentle and slow tone.
The two are in different bedrooms, Jin Lan is not very familiar with her, but she has a good impression of her, seeing that it is her, Jin Lan is relieved, knowing that she will not go out to gossip, so she said casually: "It is the tonic prescribed by the doctor, you know that my illness is just right." ”
Yu Zhigao really didn't ask, sat down and said, "By the way, last time I said that I wanted to invite you to my house to play, do you want to go?" It's a lot of fun to celebrate the New Year in my house. ”
Jin Lan remembered that she talked to Yu Zhigao about her hometown last time, Jin Landao had never been to the countryside, and she heard her say that the village would eat big dishes during the New Year, and the whole village would eat in the open air together, and there was a roast whole pig, and the whole village would eat together, Jin Lan said it was very interesting, and she wanted to see it with her own eyes, so Yu Zhigao invited her to go home together.
"My family is very hospitable, and there are already a lot of relatives and friends during the Chinese New Year, so you don't have to worry about causing trouble to my family. And we can also go to the market together, there is a big market for the New Year, and it will be open until the fifteenth day of the first month, you will be my guest when you go to my house, and I will take you to ride a mule, set off cannons, and eat a feast, okay? ”
Yu Zhigao enthusiastically invited, Jin Lan was still embarrassed about how to refuse, but now she didn't want to spend the New Year at home, it was good to go to the countryside to play, and she was from the same school, so she was not afraid of danger, so she happily agreed.
Yu Zhigao was very happy, and told her that she lived in her house when she told her, and there was an electric heater in the house, so she was not afraid of freezing, so she was reassured, and said that the family had a newly built house two years earlier, and it was convenient to take a bath and go to the toilet.
"My brother plays online games at home every day and refuses to go to class." Yu Zhigao said.
"You still have a brother." Jin Lan asked curiously.
Yu Zhigao said: "I am the eldest in the family, and I have a younger sister and a younger brother at the bottom, and there are three children in our family. ”
Jin Lan is an only child, and when she heard that the Yu family had three children, she said, "It's already a lot." ”
Yu Zhigao said: "There are many births in our hometown, my brother's family has five daughters, and their family has seven children. ”
Jin Lan opened her mouth wide in surprise, "Then don't you pay a fine there?" Don't you care about family planning? ”
Yu Zhigao said nonchalantly, "We don't care about this, we have more children and more blessings, just give birth, they can't stuff the children back anymore." ”
Jin Lan knew that there were two children, and there were many sisters and brothers in the family, but I really hadn't heard of so many children like Yu Zhigao's hometown.
Yu Zhigao said with a smile: "I don't suffer if my brothers fight more in the family, when I was a child, I called my brother and sister when I fought in the village, and I went to fight three and one together!" ”
Jin Lan listened funny, "It's great, there are brothers and sisters to help fight together!" She listened more and more to go to Yu Zhigao's house as soon as possible to see what it was like. A big and lively countryside with a lot of children in every household, the village must be very lively, right?
"I really want to go to your house soon."
Yu Zhigao said: "I'm going to call my house and say you're going!" She quickly dialed and said in a local accent, "Mmmm? My classmate said he was coming...... Hmm, right! Schoolgirl! She's the only one! Not...... Good ......"
Jin Lan looked at Yu Zhigao curiously and hung up the phone a little bored, and asked her, "Is your mother unhappy?" Then I'm ......"
"No, no, no! She told me to bring a few more! I just want to take you ......" Yu Zhigao hesitated for a moment, and asked Jin Lan not to tell others first, "I'm afraid that after I say it, the people in my bedroom won't be able to tell them...... I don't get along well with them, and I don't want to invite them to play......"
This Jin Lan fully understood, in order to avoid being difficult to do, she nodded and said, "Okay, I won't tell others." When Jin Lan thought of his parents, his face became unsightly. Yu Zhigao guessed it when he saw it, and said, "Are you afraid that your parents won't agree?" Otherwise, you go back with me first, don't tell your family, wait until you get to my house, let my parents call you, so that your parents will agree to you. ”
"Good!" Jin Lan jumped up with joy. That's the best! There is no need to look at her parents' faces in advance, she will go to Yu Zhigao's house first, even if her parents don't agree, she can play first!