Chapter 482: Low self-esteem
Mu Dan looked at the young general Doro, slightly confused. Pen, fun, and www.biquge.info
But the next moment, he reacted, and Dora was paving the steps for him.
Immediately, his good impression of him increased, and after sweeping away the previous haze, the two brothers drank with him.
Lin Yu admired the young general Doro a little now. persuaded a lot of people, and finally said: I don't mean anything else when I say this, I just want to continue to play with you! When the words arrived, the misunderstanding was solved, and people were praised. In the end, it makes you feel that he is not crooked or miscellaneous at all, and he is very simple! It's no wonder that Qing'er has had such a good impression of him in just a few days. Such a man is really annoying. Lin Yu felt that if she didn't know some things before, she would also think that others were very good.
Mu Dan may have finally understood the negative energy that had been accumulated for so many days, and his heart was happy, so he pulled the young general Doro and didn't get off the table. Dora is actually much younger than him, but at this moment, he is affectionate as if there is no generation gap at all, and he drinks one cup after another.
Hushan people can drink and drink well, but they can't stand the fact that both of them are full of blood, and they must do it when they raise a glass. When Lin Yu and the others finished eating, both of them were also drunk.
"What can I do? I was supposed to go shopping in the afternoon, but now people are drunk like this. Qing'er's brows furrowed.
"It's already like this, don't think about it, let someone help them back first." Lin Yudao.
Mudan was sent back to his courtyard, while Dora was sent to the guest house. Qing'er ordered someone to boil sobering tea and send it to General Doro, so that he wouldn't wake up with a headache after a while.
Qing'er and Lin Yu returned to their courtyard, they had only been away from the palace for more than a month, and it had already taken on a new look.
Qing'er herself couldn't believe this change, and even rearranged a number of maids in her yard.
This was supposed to be done by Mama Doro, but she's on the ranch now, so it's all arranged by the Apocalypse. However, this also solicited the wishes of Mama Doro, after all, she is the one who manages the backyard.
Mao Yihan and Wuyun haven't seen each other for a few days, although they have been promoted to female officials and got rid of slavery at this time, they still pulled Wuyun out to talk.
"I see that Dora is very good, and his mouth can speak well, no wonder you like him so much." Lin Yu quipped.
"Nothing." Although Qing'er said this, she couldn't hold back the smile on her face, and she looked happy and proud. "But he's really nice, he's very good at taking care of people, and he doesn't have a fight. It's not the same as the noble son I've seen before. β
"Because our Qing'er itself is different from other noble girls!" Lin Yu blinked.
"Sister Lin, you hurt me again." Qing'er said angrily, "I don't think I'm so good, although you always say that I should be confident, I also know that I should be confident in this identity." However, I always felt that I lacked an aura, just like Lady Doro and Concubine Jin. There are so many excellent women around him, and then I am like this, he still likes me and is willing to be good to me, Sister Lin, I am really satisfied. β
"Silly girl!" Lin Yu really wanted to sigh, "I thought you were quite good now, but you still have such low self-esteem in your heart." Mrs. Doro and Concubine Jin, their aura has been cultivated by infiltration for many years. If you live in that environment, you will become like that in a few years. Lin Yu said, "Actually, Dora is good to you, and it should be." When a man and a woman are together, they should be good to each other. Didn't you treat him well, too? And it's normal for him to like you. Almost all of the women around him, as you said, are strong women, and these women are powerful and hardly need his protection. If he wants to protect them, he has to constantly and desperately improve himself. But you're not, you're so weak, and he's more than rich and more protected now, which fully satisfies his man's psychology and sense of achievement. β
"Giggles!" Qing'er was amused by Lin Yu and laughed, "Why is it like what Sister Lin said!" β
"I'm telling the truth. Many women, in order to win the pity of men, have to deliberately pretend to be weak, and you don't have to pretend, of course you can satisfy his self-esteem! Lin Yu continued, "But it's right for you to have low self-esteem, when I was with your brother, I would also have low self-esteem." β
"Will Sister Lin also have low self-esteem?" In Qing'er's eyes, Lin Yu has always been very confident, including Jing Hao's marriage to a side concubine, she is also very open.
"Of course I feel inferior. I remember a very wise woman who said, 'When she saw him, she became very low, very low, low to the dust, but she was full of love, and out of the dust blossomed.' It is said that women will unconsciously have an inferiority complex for the excellent men they like, as if they are very small and humble, as if they have fallen into the dust. But because I like it, even in the dust, I can bloom with joy. Such a good and wise woman is still like this, let alone us? Lin Yu sighed, "When I first found out that I liked your brother, I often thought that he was such a noble son, but I was just an ordinary person with a low status. He's so much younger than me, and when I'm older, he's still in the prime of life, will he not like me? I was full of conflicts, so I refused to accept his affection. Of course, in the end, I still couldn't stand the love I had for him in my heart, so I decided to be with him. β
Qing'er's face was full of longing, and it took a long time before she said, "Sister Lin, the woman you said is really wise!" I feel like I'm who she says I am. Flowers bloom in the dust, in fact, the heart is very happy! Then he said, "Sister Lin, are you still inferior now?" β
Lin Yu shook his head.
"I agree with this woman, however, I feel like it's a state of mind before the relationship is finalized. Qing'er, Dora hasn't confessed to you yet, has he? β
Qing'er nodded shyly, "ThisβDo you still have to make this clear?" β
Lin Yu was slightly stunned, only to realize that in such ancient times, almost all of them were blind marriages and dumb marriages, and the words of the matchmaker of their parents' orders, Hushan was relatively open, but almost all of the nobles were given marriages, as Lin Yu said before, like Qing'er and Doluo Junior, there are really not many people who have time to cultivate their feelings before marriage, let alone any confession. Thinking of this, she suddenly felt that Jing Hao was cute again, and at least confessed to her countless times-uh, off-topic-
Lin Yu quickly dragged his train of thought back, "It's the same." But what I mean is that you're engaged, uh, after you're married, you're going to find that the low self-esteem you used to have will slowly disappear, because you like each other, and you'll become more and more confident, just like I am now. (To be continued.) )