Let's say that Yifang listened to her mother's teachings, her face turned red, she lowered her head and said: "What is this thing that my mother said, husband and wife should respect each other as guests, if they go to ...... like this, wouldn't it be self-surrendering, but going to compete for favor with those concubines who serve in Israel and others to the husband?" ”

The eldest lady put a little in her head, and said angrily: "Do you think that as a wife, no matter how powerful your mother's family is, you can serve people without sex, and you don't have to please your husband?" Mother sues you, there is a powerful mother's family, and it is important for women to be able to win men in one fell swoop, but the pleasure of this husband is extremely important to women. If it is not favored by the husband, how can this child be born? ”

When the eldest lady said this, thinking of her son and daughter-in-law, she couldn't help but sigh, her daughter-in-law here is because her mother's family is too powerful, so she doesn't know how to please Jun'er, but she wants to press Jun'er everywhere, too strong, so that Jun'er treats her well, but in fact, her heart is getting farther and farther away from her.

Seeing that her son has been married for more than two years, Sun Xiluan's stomach still hasn't moved at all, and she also quietly called her son to ask the person waiting in front of her, only then did she know that the number of times her son and daughter-in-law have sex per month is pitiful, and her son is so unwilling to be close to his daughter-in-law, how can he give birth to a grandson? And their young couple are always so detached and unhappy, they are afraid that they will ...... in the future

She wanted to mention a few words about her daughter-in-law, but where is her daughter-in-law the daughter-in-law of ordinary people, and is her mother-in-law teaching if she wants to? In the end, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are not mother and daughter, separated by a layer, many private words can't be spoken, and she has to teach her daughter these words first.

"Fang'er, you heard my mother say that as a man, what I like most is that women should be gentle and submissive to him, be considerate and submissive, respect him everywhere, be anxious about what he is anxious about, think about what he thinks, and think of him first in everything he does. What is especially important is not to be jealous and prevent him from taking a concubine. This man is born to like to eat in the pot, look at the bowl, and value the color of the woman the most, but don't think that he can guard you for a lifetime. Look at your fifth aunt, your fifth uncle has endured it for so many years, and he hasn't accepted an aunt, what is the result? At first, how many people in the capital envied your fifth aunt's good fortune, and there was a husband who did not accept concubines, but then he was slapped in the face, not to mention, and he didn't even have a good reputation. ”

"But, mother, as a wife, can you really watch your husband take a concubine without a trace of jealousy?" Yifang couldn't help asking, she is a girl who has secretly tasted the taste of love, not to mention taking a concubine, even if her sweetheart looks at other women more, she feels unbearable, and she will be sad for a long time.

"There's nothing you can't do." The eldest lady said lightly: "I asked you to please my uncle, but I don't want you to give him one of your hearts!" We women, as long as we don't have true feelings for men, he will accept seventy or eighty concubines, as long as it does not endanger his status, who will eat his jealousy? My mother told you that if this woman wants to live a comfortable life, she must not give her true heart to a man. ”

Yifang remembered the sweetness of her and Wu Chong's love, although she didn't dare to say it, but her disagreement with what her mother said was clearly written on her face.

When the eldest lady saw her expression, she didn't care, and smiled: "My mother also came here at your age, and at that time, my mother also had a cousin who would blush and heartbeat when she saw him, and would secretly give me candy." My mother also thought that if she married him in this life, although she was not rich, as long as he was dedicated to me, she would still have a good life in the future. Or did your grandmother wake me up with a word. Wanting a man to be single-minded towards a woman and never change is a pipe dream! ”

"There is nothing more fickle in this world than a man's heart! I have a distant cousin, ten years older than me, she had a family business when she was young, and then because the family was in the middle of the road, her father wanted to withdraw this family business, and re-told her that the family was a good family, but her fiancé wanted to secretly meet with her, saying something 'I wish to have one heart, and the white head will not be separated', which coaxed her to the heart, and refused to withdraw from the family, and insisted on marrying the past. As a result, before she was white-headed, her man had a few money in his hand and fell in love with a young and beautiful girl, and wanted to get her back to be a child, my cousin was an infatuated person, and she couldn't stand the blow of her husband's change of heart, and she was sad and committed suicide by throwing herself into the water. ”

It can be seen that no matter how good this man's love words are, just listen to them, but don't take them seriously. They swear to you that they will never change their mind, and when you are old and decrepit, they will not throw you aside to like the new and hate the old, and if you can't give birth to a son, they will immediately take a few concubines to give birth to a son. Men's sincerity, heh, their so-called sincerity can't stop them from liking the new and hating the old, and they can't stop the disgust with you when you can't give birth to a son. ”

The eldest lady gathered her sideburns for Yifang, and said with a loving face: "Mother knows that you are bitter in your heart these days, and complains that we know that you and Wu Chong are in love, but we promised you to the son of the Chen family." In fact, according to the mother, a poor boy like him is the most unmarried, don't think that the mother is poor and loves the rich, people live for just a few decades, naturally they want to live a good life comfortably. It's not easy for us to be a woman, but fortunately we were born in such a family, and we haven't suffered any hardships, and my mother raised you so much, is it to marry and accompany the poor boy to live a hard life? ”

"Even if he can really develop one day, don't think that you have endured so many years of hardship with him, and there will be a good life in the future, this man is the most unprosperous in the world! If you really marry Wu Chong, accompany him to endure hardships for decades, and it is easy to wait for him to become developed, but you are old and have become a yellow-faced woman, and he will take a few more concubines to come back, what is your heart? It's better to marry someone who has no affection for him, no matter how romantic he is, he can't hurt our hearts. This man, if you pay a piece of sincerity for him, you may not be able to get him back for treating him sincerely, but it is better to use false flattery to get some benefits. ”

"Don't look at this second son Chen, who married a wife before, you married to be a successor, this is really a good family. His father is currently the secretary of the Ministry of War, he is also a high-ranking power, and his father's top boss, that Chen Ergongzi is also a young talent, and he is currently the commander of the Command Division of the Five Cities Soldiers and Horses, and he only left a daughter, who is a doll who is breastfeeding. Although he has a few concubines, but there is nothing, as long as you flatter your uncle and give birth to a son early, it is okay to give him a few more aunts. ”

"It's just that this concubine, all the men eat grains and think about six flavors, although we pretend to be generous and let them lead people to the backyard, but we can't be really tolerant and generous to let those concubines and aunts be spoiled. The most important thing is that the concubines must not be allowed to give birth to sons. ”

Yifang thought of the children that her father's aunts had lost a few years ago, and then thought of Aunt Liu, who had just become pregnant given to her father by Mrs. Tai, her heart was cold, and she asked in a trembling voice: "I heard that Aunt Liu is also pregnant, should my mother be ......?"

As soon as she heard Aunt Liu's three words, the love on the eldest lady's face suddenly turned into disgust, before this Aunt Liu came, she had already □□ the rules and obedience of the eldest lord's concubines, and then let them compete for favor with each other, but none of them could be particularly favored by the eldest lord, and then use some means as long as they can't give birth to children, it will not endanger the status of the eldest lady at all.

I didn't want to beat Mrs. Tai to give Aunt Liu, the little goblin, to their courtyard, relying on her youth and beauty, compared all the aunts, and won the favor of the eldest master. She thought that the eldest master was over forty, and it would not be so easy to come to the heir, but she didn't want to make Aunt Liu pregnant in just a few months. The eldest lord is happy that his dragon spirit is fierce, his fourth brother is several years younger than him, but he didn't make Aunt He have a big belly, but the eldest lady is angry in private.

"Hmph, the misfortune in that little slut's belly naturally can't be kept."

Yifang looked at the safflower and musk on the table, "That mother is planning to use these two medicines to ......"

The eldest lady shook her head, "There are too many of these two medicines in the back house now, and the effect of the medicine is too strong, it is too easy for people to see that they have moved their hands and feet." Mother just let you recognize them first, if you want to make the fetus fall blind, or this medicine is easy to use. ”

Yifang saw that her mother took out two small cloth bags from her arms, opened them and saw that they were each wrapped with a few yellow-brown medicinal herbs, which looked exactly the same, but the tablets in the green cloth bag looked larger, and the white cloth bag was slightly smaller.

I heard the eldest lady say: "These two are actually the same medicinal herb Angelica, but one is Angelica sinensis and the other is Angelica tail." As long as the angelica body in the fetal pills that those aunts drink is quietly replaced with the angelica tail, it will slowly fall off after a period of time. Nowadays, most of the doctors in this world are quacks, and few can see it, but they can see it, and they know the troubles in the back house, and they see that they are the sons of such concubines, and they don't say anything in order to save trouble. ”

Yifang saw her mother talking about these harmful things as if nothing happened, and couldn't help but say: "Mother, God has the virtue of a good life, but it is a human life." What's more, now that my brother has been crowned and crowned as the son of the world, it is that Aunt Liu really gave birth to a son, but she is still a doll who eats milk, and she is so much younger than her brother, so she can't compete for her brother! Maybe it's not necessarily a girl to be born, why should my mother dirty her hands? Grandmother used to say that in the world, you should still do good deeds and accumulate blessings, otherwise—"

"Shut up!" The eldest lady poked her head with a finger, and scolded fiercely: "Are you my daughter, I hurt you in vain, but I don't stand on my mother's side, but help outsiders speak!" You listen to that old thing, your kind mother has a good heart and has never been except for your father, but now her grandmother is so pressed by us that she can't turn over, and even the throne of the world has been snatched by us, and she almost didn't kill the old thing, I'm afraid that she regrets the soft-heartedness of the day. In this back house, there is a ball of harmony on the surface, but in fact, it is either you die or I die, you are merciful to the concubines, and it is you who are unlucky and suffer when you turn back. ”

"Even if the son born to Aunt Liu can't steal your brother's title, as long as it's your father's son, he can take half of your brother's property! Back then, my mother-in-law was taught stupidly by books such as "Female Commandments" and "Virtuous Yuan Records", and she was really tolerant and jealous, and gave birth to sons one after another by the concubines, but when the family was divided later, she only had one son who was divided into one-sixth, and the remaining five-sixths were all divided by the concubines, and because others were lonely, the things that should have been given to him were also robbed a lot by several younger brothers. ”

"Even if you give birth to a daughter, don't you need to give out an extra dowry? What is the situation in our house now, you don't know, there are so many industries in the house, and now the situation is not as good as a year, and when the title comes to an end in the future, and the tens of thousands of acres of meritorious land are recovered, I don't know what it will become? Not to mention, your dowry of 10,000 taels of silver hasn't been settled yet—"

As soon as the eldest lady said this, suddenly Mama Li beside her ran in in a panic and said, "Madam, it's not good, madam, the eldest young master slapped the eldest young grandmother, and now the eldest young grandmother is cleaning up things in the room, crying and saying that she wants to go back to her parents' house!" ”