Bao Yifan was stunned, "You went to see it?" What to talk to my dad? ”

"I didn't expose him, but I told him on the side, don't try to listen to the government, I will move to Wei Guoqiang to sit behind him."

"Original...... Such. ”

"Hmm. Fix it for now. I didn't know what to do correctly, so it was inconvenient to rush in and ask you at that time, so I had to move out the disgusting Wei Guoqiang. ”

"Rejoice! I said so. Bao Yifan jumped into the bathtub, lay down comfortably, stretched out a hand, and shouted almost coquettishly: "Andy, come and talk." ”

"I almost fought with your dad just now, and I almost didn't recognize you like that. I was so upset that I wanted to scare your dad at the time, so I ran away and didn't dare to look at you. ”

"You feel sorry for me."

"No, don't be numb."

"I've been annoyed for the past two days, they have given me problems, including today's meeting, which is also on the shelf, do you think, I haven't talked to a few adults alone for two days, is it a good time to have a meeting? I already knew that some people were unwilling to quit and would do all kinds of tricks. You are ruthless, hitting seven inches. Give me a bad breath. ”

"Actually, I don't want to hit your dad seven inches, I'm just a dog jumping off the wall in a hurry, and I can't see you depressed. Moreover, I don't want to see you like this, almost unscrupulously doing things against your father, which is more evil. ”

Bao Yifan was taken aback, and couldn't help but put away his hippie smile and looked at Andy.

"Do you know how much of a bag I have in my heart? I knew he killed my mother, but I couldn't call the police, I could only watch him get away with it. Those who originally swore loyalty to my mother are now watching the direction of the wind and being taken under his command, but they are even more committed to me in order to show their allegiance. He wanted me to forget that he killed my mother, and he pretended that there had never been such a thing as my mother in this world, and I kept my mother's office sealed, but he destroyed the office while I was on a business trip for only one day. He deliberately went against me! Step by step, he destroyed my authority in the company, took away my power step by step, and then he sneered and directed his courtiers to besiege me. It's not that I'm evil. He's pushing me. If you hadn't threatened him tonight, he would have succeeded tonight, and my orders would never have left my office again. ”

Bao Yifan confided fiercely, but Andy's eyes always fell on the strand of hair on Bao Yifan's forehead. Not long ago. Still in the conference room, the strand of hair had been listlessly drooping down, revealing full decadence. And now, with the frequency of Bao Yifan's anger, the strand of hair is loose again. Slowly, slowly, sagging. Andy finally couldn't help but reach out and wipe the strand of hair and flatten it. So, her eyes had nowhere to escape, but to look into Bao Yifan's eyes. She saw that there was a wave of crystal sparkling in Bao Yifan's eyes with the frequency of anger. She couldn't help but slowly slide down her fingers and press them to the corner of her eye, and the tears flowed out like a burst. Wet Andy's fingers hotly. At this moment, Andy's heart stopped being irritable.

"You don't have a bag. Because when you are mourning, he is arranging, and when you are thinking of old feelings, he is cutting through the mess quickly, so you are passive everywhere. ”

Bao Yifan leaned out of the bathtub and hugged Andy tightly. Both felt that this hug was very different from everything that had happened before.

"I still don't have time to accompany you later, I'll sort out my thoughts, and I have a meeting tomorrow morning."

"Against. Every step you've taken so far has been carefully designed by your dad. Even if I'm interrupted tonight, and it's expected that by the end of the night, he's regrouped, and you'll still have to act according to his script tomorrow. It's better to give him a surprise. You all retreat. Give him all his fucking stuff, let him play alone, and you start anew. ”

"It just happened to him. Isn't that what he wants to force me out of the company? ”

"Although I don't know much about family or anything, I have limited knowledge, such as Wei Guoqiang......"

Andy had to do a vomiting pose to cushion the psychological discomfort of saying the name. "Even though I've never had bad contact with him. He...... Ouch, you know anyway, compare your dad yourself. What your dad does to your mom doesn't mean what he treats you. At his age, it's too late to raise another one to take over. Take a step back, even if you withdraw completely, you already have the market, experience, contacts, manpower, and funds, you don't have to worry, and you will not be worse than today in three years. ”

Bao Yifan raised his face, looked at Andy for a while, and said, "Can you let me think alone for a while?" ”

Andy didn't say a word, got up and exited. Bao Yifan looked at her back a little confused, lost in thought.

▼11

Everyone noticed that Andy and Fox, who are not the most capable and happy in the article, will be stuck in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. The key is that the husband must be psychologically mature and have strong handling methods, but unfortunately Chinese men are born with a mother-love complex, so there are so many entanglements in Chinese society.

▼kaixin

Basically, the woman deals with her mother's family, and the man deals with her mother-in-law's family, which is straightened out, and everyone is fine. As long as one is not straightened out, there is no end. This turning point in the transformation of ideas will inevitably collide more. There are also benefits to more discussion. Be prepared.

▼ The author replied

In fact, Xiao Qiu and Ying's family have their own place, Ying's mother refused to ask Xiao Qiu, because she felt that Xiao Qiu was not responsible enough and had no principles with men, and later Ying Dad decided to want it, because he understood that Xiao Qiu was easy to handle, and the character of a man was superior, both of them were for the sake of Ying, just like a feudal parent picking a daughter-in-law; And Xiao Qiu is desperate to respond, which is also determined by her concept of choosing a mate, she should have a decent job, a stable income, a serious person, and a good education, and she is the best man she can climb.

As for the role of love between these two people, I think that for Xiao Qiu and Ying, the right marriage partner is the lover, what kind of emotional exchange in love, etc., they don't need it, they just need to be sure that the two can live in harmony together. And what kind of being angry with her mother-in-law is a matter of course for Xiao Qiu, she doesn't feel angry at all, she only feels happy - because she is a family.

Let's talk about Xiao Fan again. Miss Xiaofan is actually a good girl, with vanity, but also a little unrealistic, so ambitious, but her heart is good. In fact, she is also a believer who respects men and the strong, although she is proud and beautiful, she has never understood her ability, in fact, she is inferior, wearing a mask of seeing through society, and dreaming of turning over with her appearance.

Miss Fan, a little bit of a heart is higher than the sky, life is thinner than paper, she is smart, but after all, she is limited to her background and experience, her vision is not enough, and the pattern is too small, so that she can't grasp the direction of her life, but she has always pinned her hopes on the hero's rescue......

But we are a real mother :) a smart girl, and with a few really smart friends, she will eventually see herself and find the right direction in life, so I think there is still hope for Xiaofan.

This "Ode to Joy", seeing the present, gives me the biggest feeling, that is, I have a few true friends in life, and I am very lucky!

▼ The author replied

Increasingly, I feel that friends are not necessarily like-minded. The key is character.

▼chen

Some readers said that Xiao Qiu's current situation is because she 1) does not know people clearly; 2) Unable to listen to the advice of others...... Hehe, Xiao Qiu has these problems, and I personally think that the main reason why she has thrown herself into the quagmire of embarrassment is because she disrespects her own series of practices...... Let me count it for her:

1. In the second season of "Ode to Joy", when Ying Xiaosheng knew that it was not a section at the dinner, he immediately brushed his sleeves away without saying a word, and Xiaoqiu didn't even mean to apologize afterwards.

2. In the second season of "Ode to Joy", there is a stalker in the train station.

3. In the second season of "Ode to Joy", Ying hooked his little finger slightly, and Qiu immediately secretly interacted with Ying's girlfriend behind Ying's back.

4. In this season, Qiu didn't feel ashamed at all because he was beaten because he should have been, and he didn't think he should apologize.

5. In the face of Ying's mother's third-rate practice of just using Qiu to make a head bird to attract the attention of Ying's girlfriend's family, Qiu didn't feel anything wrong at all.

6. In order to understand the urgent need, Ying's father temporarily nodded and agreed to the relationship between Ying and Qiu, and Qiu immediately couldn't find the north. didn't realize that Ying's father didn't even show his face, so he turned upside down, leaving Ying's mother to continue to teach Qiu!

It can be seen from the above details that Qiu didn't want to respect himself at all in front of Ying Xiaosheng and his parents.

Just as the old man Mencius taught, "The lady will insult herself, and then others will insult her." Because Qiu didn't respect himself, Ying Xiaosheng and his parents didn't want to respect this woman at all! This is a direct result of Qiu's own behavior, and it should be a normal reaction with his family, which is reasonable.

Any kind of relationship, including husband and wife, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, work relationship...... If it is not based on mutual respect, there will be no good ending. Some readers said that Ying Xiaosheng has a house, a proper job, and is honest and kind, for Xiaoqiu, Ying Qin is a high-performance stock, without Ying Xiaosheng, where can Qiu find such a good husband! Hehe, that's the matter of the wise.

If Sister Qiu has been managing love in this way of not having self-esteem, it is estimated that it is indeed less likely to meet someone who can respect her and love her. It is very likely that even if you respect Qiu at the beginning of your relationship, you will gradually disrespect Qiu. And in the face of the direct result of disrespecting herself, Qiu has always been unclear about the real reason, so she has no possibility of correcting it.

Instead of marrying a man with a poor economic foundation, it is better to find a man like Ying Xiaosheng who has a certain economic foundation. (To be continued.) )