Let's start with a few terms. First of all: the small environment - the word is very magical, any bad thing, as long as it is crowned with this word, the danger hài and importance, immediately decline.

Here's an example: you're in a hostile environment.

For example, as long as meat is mentioned, then the people around will be all kinds of excitement, such as small fresh meat in the early stage, and probably buying meat and selling meat in the middle stage, and then later, not to mention.

In short, it is directly linked to the **.

In this case, they will look at you with strange eyes, and things will be normal from you, and they will start to distort from one of your words or sentences, and become that you are very low.

And then, what about your reaction.

You can be angry: "Shut up! You guys are so boring! ”

Any reaction depends on the occasion and the person.

If someone else says this, the other party may stop talking immediately, but you say it.

They're probably going to do it, and they're going to push and fight.

You will suffer, it's better not to say it, you can choose to be silent, there is nothing that you can't get over (there are also, for example, a group of people are endless, they have to force me to be any short, ugly, old, lewd and distorted pervert, and they do not hesitate to use all kinds of means to suppress me, frame me, and persecute me).

You can also go to the teacher to complain, but often you are counted down first, and the teacher just symbolically reprimands a few words.

You can also talk to the girls next to you, but there is no guarantee that they will be nobler than the boys, maybe they are in high spirits at this time, shouting at the violent ones: "It's okay, come on, kill her!" ”

But it may also work, among which there will be more patient girls, who have changed all kinds of bad things for you in the past, and suddenly sat down with a caring face: "I think they are still very good, I think you should find the reason from your own side." Why don't you see other girls being beaten, aren't you ......? ”

Okay, have you seen it, this is persuasive, who said that they usually like to do things and don't like to study.

Next, what corollaries, conjectures, great scientific discoveries are about to be made.

Of course, this is essentially misleading and misleading, and nothing else.

Okay, it's a bad environment, right?

But this is the small environment.

That is, it has nothing to do with the big picture.

It's normal to have a little weird skirmish in a small area, but it doesn't break the law and doesn't violate morality, right?

For such small things, it is usually explained like this.

For example: show you something else (what could be worse than that?).

Worse things, though only fragments, are enough to show that it is normal for something strange and small to happen in a small environment.

It's nothing more than two things: sex and violence.

For example, how do women in other places do they interact with men?

Or just violence, more focused conflict and physical damage.

After reading it, you feel that it is much more normal.

Besides, it's probably all kinds of persuasion to find the reason from their own side.

Well, boys, it's all like this (generalize it first, say anything as a universal thing), and they don't have anything too excessive, too obvious.

The environment is like this, why can't you get along with others, you have to adapt.

Then you will find that the environment is really becoming more and more vulgar.

As for you, get used to it.

However, there is no guarantee that if you get into the habit one day, you will not be immediately talked about in the same situation with a little bit of their usual normal language.

Okay, although the above is a bit long, but it is just to explain a problem, and it is not too much in a specific small environment, this is a general explanation.

Here's the application.

Let's take a recent example first, recently they have been guiding me in various ways, probably there are two handsome guys, both handsome.

One is youthful and sunny, clean and lovely; The other one is gentle and steady, with big eyes and huge eyelashes, and a little sexy.

The direction of the guide is probably that one of them is looking for death and life for me, not thinking about food, dying and living (I feel happy when I think about it, no matter which one of them he is, it's all good.)

It's really fake, I think it's worth it in this life.

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However, I have experience with this problem.

Human reactions are deeply related to the environment.

It's not that you like someone, and then you lose or don't get it, and you're going to be miserable.

This requires other conditions.

You are out of love, but your studies or career are in full swing, and you don't want to eat, but most of the time it's not because of feelings.

The person you like suddenly runs away with someone else, you are very painful, but there is no one next to chew the root of the tongue, you want to say, but look at the side, one by one with a rational and powerful expression, most of the time you look at it, then think about it, then feel bored, and then forget it.

You fall in love with someone, and then this person gets along with someone else, but it doesn't take long for him to disappear from your eyes and the world, and there is no such thing as carrying his girlfriend in front of you, and there is no all kinds of commotion going back and forth in front of your eyes.

Then your focus shifts to the other people around you, and you don't feel much pain.

Well, even if you meet all of them, you have a crush on someone, and he is on good terms with someone else.

And he brought his girlfriend to all kinds of dangling in front of your eyes, all kinds of riots.

It just so happens that the people around you like to be lively and all kinds of perverts, and they discuss with you, and the more they discuss, the more unhappy they are.

At the same time, your studies and career are hindered in various ways, you can't learn at all, and you are depressed in all kinds of ways.

However, if there are all kinds of foodies around you, all of them are fat like pigs, and you are content with the status quo, and you still have all kinds of spare money in your hands, it is impossible for you not to think about eating.

Finally, let's talk about the necessary conditions for not thinking about eating and drinking, looking for death and life: you see a person, he runs away with others, all kinds of temptations and all kinds of shaking in front of your eyes, your academic career is hindered and you just have energy and time, your environment is very depressed, all kinds of encouragement from the people around you, the surrounding is thin and beautiful, the usual topic is thin and beautiful, you don't have much money, you are hungry and find that it is very refreshing, there are no adverse reactions to the body, and the rest of the money can buy some useless and good-looking small bits and pieces, and the excuse of falling out of love seems to be very foreign.

These conditions are indispensable.

The possibility of Korean dramas or pathos appearing in reality is very small, and sometimes it looks a bit like it, which is not easy.

However, even if I think about it, I still feel very happy, so why bother to find out who it is, whether it is true or false?

I am willing to believe, and convinced, there are two handsome guys, the best handsome guys, more than 180 tall, weighing between 130-150, standard measurements, big eyes, gentle and handsome, personable, love me and love to seek death and life.

(Actually, I'm willing to do both, they're the highest standard of any man I've ever seen in my life, either one, just give me one.)

Don't fight, don't end up with nothing, give a second.

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