Lian Xunqin spoke freely to Old Man Lian, he knew that this was his grandfather, and all the scruples and discomforts in his heart could be told to his grandfather. Even if grandpa can't help himself, he can be a listener, listening to the worries in his heart, listening to his own complaints, and listening to these words that he dare not say to others. It's been too long, and everything has been held in his heart for too long, so long that he thinks that some things have actually been forgotten by him, and he doesn't care about it anymore, but he didn't expect that when he talks about it now, he still cares so much.

"Sustenance, hehe, don't you know that there has never been such a thing as sustenance in our place? People who think this way are all weak, and we are not! Since you're not sure, wouldn't you ask her and get a guarantee from her, a guarantee that you can go to the barracks for training with peace of mind? As long as you listen to the promise she gives, I don't believe that you will still be so swaying, and you will still be so uneven, and your heart will be unstable. ”

"You stupid boy, do you know where you're going to lose in this game? It's lost because you don't dare to say anything directly, and you don't dare to ask directly about something. If you dare to ask, I'm sure she'll talk to you, but you don't dare! You'd rather be frightened here than dare to ask her, because you're afraid, afraid that what you're scared about will really come true, and you're afraid that what she's going to give you when the time comes isn't what you want, so you don't even ask. You think that as long as you don't ask, there will be no harm, but you don't know that because you don't dare to ask, it is always you who will be hurt in the end. ”

Even the old man's earnest words Lian Xunqin heard them in his ears and remembered them in his mind, but what was the use of him knowing only some truths? He knew these things from the beginning, but it was one thing to know, and it was another thing to ask, he knew this truth, but he didn't dare to question, he didn't dare to ask, so what's the point? Because he was afraid, he felt that as long as he asked, it would be hurt and distrust to Ye Wei, so he had lost even the courage to ask.

"Because of this, I know my problem, but I don't dare to change it, because I'm afraid that if I ask what I'm worried about, will I be in for a cruel blow? I really don't dare, I don't want to see Ye Wei sad because of my question, as long as I ask, it's the biggest distrust for Ye Wei, isn't it? But if I don't ask, I've always been scared, I knew from the beginning that I would definitely leave, and at that time the most important thing for me was Ye Wei, I was afraid, I was frightened, but I didn't dare to say anything, I, really like a coward. ”

Lian Xunqin covered his head helplessly, squatted down, leaned on the knee of the old man Lian, and shouted helplessly: "Grandpa, I don't want to, I'm scared, I know how to solve my fear, but I still don't dare to do it, because after solving my fear, there will probably be something that I am even more afraid of." Besides, I don't want to make Ye Wei sad than I am afraid, I don't want to make her sad, and I don't want to be given up by her because of my repeated distrust. Grandpa, what should I do? What exactly should I do? What should I do to be able to put my heart at ease to Ye Wei and give her enough trust? ”

"In fact, the most difficult thing to do in a relationship is to trust each other, not to mention that you are still so young now, you can't learn how to give others a sense of trust, and you can't learn how to trust others. However, this is the way you must go, and although we can provide a little bit of a small building along the way, the main problem is still with you. You need to know what trust is, how to trust each other, you have to figure it out. Old Man Lian touched Lian Xunqin's head lovingly.

I haven't seen him so fragile since I was a child, it seems that love is really a catalyst for people to grow, even Xun'er, an indifferent and ruthless person, has gradually melted and gradually become like a person, but the journey of love is also very hard, there are actually very few people who can go to the end together, there will always be cracks because of various problems, and at this time they need to be carefully maintained, otherwise if one is not careful, the thing of 'love' will be broken.

And now Lian Xunqin and Ye Wei are in this state, because they care that they are still together, because they don't trust the relationship between them is as fragile as a piece of glass, and one can be broken if he is not careful, and Xun'er is working very hard to maintain this relationship, so I don't know if he is panicking like Lian Xunqin on the other side of this relationship, or if Lian Xunqin is the only one who is in a hurry here, and he is the only one who doesn't trust each other.

"Having said that, the most difficult thing to do in a relationship is trust, but the only thing that can make each other go on firmly is the trust and affection between each other, you are now in this stage where you are not trusting each other, and you are still wavering, but if you cross it, your future will be bright. As long as we don't have the slightest sense of hindrance to you, you will be able to be happy together, and the most difficult period between you will soon pass, because in the future, no matter how difficult it is, you will work together, and no matter how difficult it is, it will not be difficult for you. So what you should do is to give Zu Yewei trust, even if you don't trust it, you should ask if you have questions, and you shouldn't hold it in your heart. ”

"Now is our most difficult time, as long as we cross it, it will be fine, but this most difficult source is because of me, because of my distrust of her, our future is full of hardships, right?" Lian Xunqin muttered to himself, as if he was hypnotizing himself, "Listening to what you said, I know that as long as you give enough trust, as long as there is a problem, there will be no big problems between us, because we don't hide from each other, so we will reduce a lot of friction between us, so the best way to maintain a relationship is to say if there is a contradiction, and ask if there is doubt." Yes, yes, yes, yes, if she doesn't trust me, I'd like her to ask it directly instead of holding it in her heart, and in that case, she should be like that. ”

"This stupid boy, you should have done it like this a long time ago, this should be the normal way for the two of you to get along, instead of holding things in your heart, you must know that the things that are held in your heart can't solve the problem if others don't know, only speaking out is the only way to solve the problem, you, you, you, smart one, confused for a while, right?" Old Man Lian patted Lian Xunqin on the shoulder. (To be continued.) )