In Su Yu's view, the love between men and women in this world is not a question of whether it is worthy or not, but whether it is suitable or not. If the four words "'door' is right" can easily erase feelings, where are there so many crazy men and 'women' in the world?

What is the identity of Anping Hou Shizi, how many beautiful 'women' are upside down, and he can choose from the 'fat' Yan and thin, and it is not an exaggeration to say that he has read all the sails. The outer room he placed is just a beautiful and "glamorous" woman with a poor background selling "flowers" and "women", and her conversation and demeanor may not even be as good as the maid in the Hou Mansion, so what? bought a house and visited her all the time, that is, to put her in my heart.

The son of a good concubine is innocent and can be an official, maybe one day he will soar and turn over to be the master, this kind of identity is understandable for being feared by the housewife. The outer room has no name and no points, why does it make the housemother angry? If Princess Guantao's concubine just stole a girl, the two would not have made a fuss to the point of breaking off their righteousness and alarming the saint's Cheng Dù, and the concubine was placed in the outer room, which ruined their family's career.

The 'door' is not right, firewood, rice, oil and salt are mixed together, and the years and life are grinding feelings, which is inevitable, but who asked you to cut a knife between them when the love between the two is strong? Anping Hou Shizi likes to sell 'flowers' and 'women', puts her as an outer room, and wants to marry a high-ranking 'family' and a noble 'girl', which is indeed 'quite' and has no responsibility and poor character. But it is precisely because he is this kind of person that he can not touch it if he does not touch it - I also know that this prince will not blame the tragic death of his lover and child on his own sake, and he will definitely put this account on Su Yin's head.

This kind of grudge formed when you are young and vigorous can easily become a lifelong feud, or even become a lifelong feud due to years of mutual aggression. Not to mention that after this incident came out, the reputation of Anping Houfu plummeted, and the marriage was better, how could the Su family not be hated by the Cui family? People just politely rejected your marriage proposal, even if they misunderstood your brother's character, they didn't tell the story of the refusal. After you know about this, you secretly tell the Anping Houfu or their in-laws, and 'privately' know that it is enough to leave them faceless, and you can use it to publicize it to the public?

If this matter is only a matter for two families, there is always a safe solution. The outer room is not elegant, and in a few years, the love will fade, and the mother and son will be able to settle down in a good place, get some money, and live a peaceful life. It is at this time that the Marquis of Anping has to take a tough attitude in order to protect its reputation.

One corpse and two lives, how tragic? Although Su Rui scolded Fang Xuan on the battlefield and took the 'life' of tens of millions of people at every turn, he never lost his 'life' because of his 'private' grievances.

He also used to be dust-free and boasted of being unconventional. Over the years, the lessons of blood and tears are vivid, and I understand why he may not take back one or two points very sincerely, and there are so many people who manage interpersonal relationships with their hearts - in the past, he opposed the expedition to Goguryeo, did not know how to hide it, and had a tough attitude. When the northern generals saw that he was soft and hard, they wanted to kill him, so as not to add such a discordant factor to the battle of Goguryeo, so as to reap the credit of Goguryeo's destruction of the country. If he hadn't saved some of the remnants of the defeated army, one of them would be the nephew of a general, and he would also be the only seedling of that family. This general will not 'reveal' the news, so that Su Rui can save his 'life'.

"Gossip is a gossip." Su Rui looked at his eldest son in disappointment, word by word, and said very solemnly, "Those who play 'tricks' with power will surely sink into the power tricks, people live in the world, they must be upright, their mentality must be stable, their backbone must be straight, and their posture must be low, if you don't learn to be a man, how to do things?" The second and fourth children boast of being extremely smart, they don't take the world seriously, and they are complacent when they take advantage of it. But I don't know that the gains and losses in this world are not overnight, and they can't be seen clearly with their eyes alone. ”

Speaking of this, seeing that his son was still a little unconvinced, Su Rui said again: "You asked me for the art of war, do you really want to learn it, or did you listen to others?" ”

Su Yu listened to it and said confidently: "I really want to learn!" ”

He admitted that a large part of the reason why he asked his father to teach him the art of war was that everyone talked about him and said, "That's Su Rui's son." I even often ask, Su Du protects the frontier and is famous, but you stay in Chang'an, I don't know how many percent of Su Duhu's peerless art of war, how much have you learned?

There is not a son who is not proud of his father, and these sons may want to learn from their father; or obey his father's words and be respectful; Or want to surpass his father, unwilling to be a 'shadow' under the light. Su Yu has all three, and he can't tell which emotion has the upper hand, in the final analysis, he still wants to prove that he can do it.

Su Rui nodded noncommittally: "Okay, after the birth of the eldest grandson of the Su family, I will find an opportunity to take you to the Western Regions." The art of war, there is too much talk, it's just talk on paper. You first go incognito, start as a petty official, when I think you are qualified to be my personal guard, when you follow me again. ”

Hearing that his father was finally going to teach himself, Su Yu was full of joy and replied loudly: "Yes!" ”

What boy doesn't yearn for the lonely smoke of the desert and the sunset over the long river? Thinking that he could also gallop on the battlefield, Su Yu's stomach was full of depression. Seeing this, Su Rui's expression was relieved for a minute or two, and the boulder in his heart had not yet fallen.

His son will not be so cowardly that he will not even dare to go to the battlefield, but in his heart, when he is not on the battlefield, everyone has ambitions. When I arrived on the battlefield, I understood that in that kind of place, in addition to life and death, identity, status, dignity, honor and disgrace...... When nothing is the case, the courage of many people will crumble, and they will become a deserter if they abandon their self-esteem.

As a general, he not only shoulders the heavy responsibility of judging, guiding, changing, and even dominating the battle situation, stabilizing the morale of the army, subduing the generals, and channeling the factions, but also worries about the reaction of the ministers of the DPRK and China. With all the effort and countless injuries, it is easy to win the battle, and we must beware of "high merit covering the master", in which the pain and hardship cannot be described in words. This is also the reason why the saint prefers to promote people from families to be the commanders of one side rather than the common people - no matter how proud the family is, most of the children of the family know the royal prestige, and many of them are familiar with history and current affairs. Besides, born in a family, "compromise" and "sacrifice" are almost compulsory from childhood to adulthood. It is precisely because of this that although the sons of the family will not rebel in an absolute way, they are more stable than the children of the Han 'Gate'. It is like many generals who were born in a poor 'door' and were illiterate, who thought that they were invincible in the world after a few more victories, and no one could wronged themselves. Even if for the sake of the whole battle situation, he suppressed his meritorious deeds, or delayed his food and grass for a few days, and shortened his military salary, he thought that he had been greatly wronged, and he set off an anti-flag as soon as his brain was hot. Even if they don't rebel, they hope for more wars to make meritorious achievements, just like those generals in the north, seeing that they have conquered Baekje, the morale of the army is like a rainbow, and regardless of the gap between Baekje and Goguryeo, they immediately want to take Goguryeo. He said that he wanted to expand his territory, but in fact, he was thinking about himself and wanted to take a few more steps through military exploits. At this point, it is a good thing that the children of the family give in and spare their lives. If these people don't spare their lives too much and don't fight at all, they will only grab merit and run away.

When Su Rui was worried about his son, the 'jade' Chi, whom he valued and courteously treated, stood in the room, shook his head again and again, his eyebrows were full of emotion: "Like, it's really like!" ”

The look of the lord of Hailing County is really very similar to him back then.

Obviously they love the things next to them, just because the world thinks that a completely different path is the right way, they must abandon their ideals, embark on the "right path", and polish themselves into a worldly harmony and the same appearance.

The kind of unwillingness hidden in the bottom of my heart, if I don't experience it personally, who can understand?

The gray-haired grandfather raised his eyebrows and beat him with a cane in anger; His generous and benevolent father ran after him from one end of the courtyard to the other, holding a ruler in his hand. laughed and played with him, and the uncles who didn't have the slightest elder steam looked left and right, and no one interceded for him; The gentle and virtuous mother wiped her tears and never protected each other, but silently wiped the 'medicine' for him.

Whether he is beaten or scolded, whether he is talking or teaching, he just wants him not to waste his unforgettable talent, and not to put his heart and soul into the 'jade' carving. He doesn't have to worry about the family's business, he has his elders and cousins to cook, and he is the only seed in the family who reads, so he just needs to study hard.

How indignant he was back then, and how deviant he was in order to vent his dissatisfaction! The result? Flying disasters, all the 'doors' are destroyed, even if there are thousands of words to tell them, it is just a sentence of "the son 'wants' to raise but does not wait".

After so many years, he always wondered what would happen if he followed the wishes of his elders and devoted himself to studying? But he understands that no matter how many times he does it all over again, he will still choose what he wants to do, even if it ...... Make them sad. Then again, if he hadn't had such a skill, I am afraid that he had become a ghost with his relatives early, how could he avenge this blood feud for them?

Thinking of this, 'Yu' Chi suddenly stopped.

His unwillingness is all because he loves 'jade' carving, but the elders want him to study with a 'door', what about the county lord of Hailing? The road of the 'female' is mostly a husband and a child, taking care of the inner house, this county lord...... There are very few people who can break the surname of Khotan in one bite, and the lord of Hailing County has this ability, how can he be willing to live in Su Mansion?

'Yu' Chi knew in his heart that most people with skills were not willing to be at ease with what happened and got by, but looked forward to showing their strengths, but the Su family ...... Thinking of the Su family's undisguised defense and disgust for themselves in the past three years, and then thinking about the frequent contact between the Su family and the Wei Wangfu, as well as the violinist who has been stranded in the Su Mansion so far, 'Yu' Chi raised his eyebrows, a trace of interest appeared in his eyes, and even brought some vague expectations. He knew in his heart that Su Rui was afraid that he had found out a lot of things, and for the sake of the harmony between the two families, he should have 'handed over' the deed of the violinist. It's just that I was afraid that the lord of Hailing County would get married, and Su Mansion would return her or a ninth-rate man from the Daiwang Mansion with a bad reputation, so I didn't do it. But look at the Su family's mother and son, the appearance of the mother and daughter, what Su Rui said, they will definitely do it? It's funny, it's really interesting, it seems that this pool of stagnant water, the days when there is no hope in sight, has finally ushered in a turnaround.