"All I can think of is dividing your family's fortune into six, three-sixths for your dad and three-sixths for your mom. In the future, you will take three-sixths of your mother's and one-sixth of your father's, and the rest will have to be given to your brother. If your mother has transferred you four-sixths of the property, I think you should be content and don't make trouble. ”

"You don't understand. I've had this kind of thing happen to my fellow scholars, and it's not a three-sixths division or anything at all. The parents of the classmate died in a car accident together, and the question came when the inheritance was divided, whether the father died first or the mother died first. The results of the final division of different death methods are completely different. Besides, my mother and I are arguing for a breath, and my father can't ignore our women's status in the family. ”

"You talk to your dad alone and ask him not to be so unreasonable to your mom."

"I talked about everything I could, I told him directly, and he didn't hear it every time. This time, I guess I can't talk about it, and I can't startle my mother for me. ”

"Persuade your mother to take her share of the divorce."

"No......," Qu Xiaoxuan instinctively screamed. How can mom and dad get a divorce! ”

"You're no longer a child, is it interesting that your parents are so hungry and tossing to death? It's better to break up and live their own good lives. ”

"I don't listen." Qu Xiaoxuan covered her ears and left the table to go to the study. Dr. Zhao was stunned, thinking that Qu Xiaoxuan would do everything to her father, but she never thought about her parents divorcing. Similarly, I thought that Qu's mother had already been disheartened with her husband, and she had already done enough to transfer her property, but she still had a trace of illusion about her husband. A woman's heart really can't read it.

Dr. Zhao muttered and left the table and walked into the study, but saw Qu Xiaoxuan saying pitifully: "I don't want my parents to divorce." ”

Doctor Zhao stretched out his hand, hugged Qu Xiaoxuan into his arms, and sighed, "Can't you treat each other fairly?" Alas. Talk to your dad. ”

Qu Xiaoxuan was depressed, "I've had a lot of things lately, I'm so busy with work, and Xie Bin is making trouble for me, saying that he wants to talk to me about his kindness, but if he doesn't agree, he can't." Mom and Dad's side is messy again. Ah......" Qu Xiaoxuan screamed so badly that she didn't have the same style as before.

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Unreliable young man Xiao Xie

I am thinking about discussing "On the Unreliability of Xiao Xie as a Lifelong Partner". My comment is actually what Sister Mud means: "Sympathize with Xiao Xie's life experience and understand his actions, but I don't think that others are obliged to bear his misfortune." ”

There is a good saying, whether two people can last long. It's not about how much you love the other person's strengths, it's about whether you're able to face the other person's shortcomings. When passion and romance retreat, attention must face Xiao Xie's gloom. Xiao Xie's childhood has an impact on his personality that cannot be ignored. Xiao Xie is sensitive and suspicious. Strong self-preservation, aggressiveness, and sometimes pride and inferiority, all of which affect his handling of the big and small things in life, and then affect his relationship with Guan. For him, you must understand, be tolerant, use the greatest patience and wisdom to dissolve the shadow in his heart, and accept the possibility that the other party is stimulated by something, and you will immediately fall short. Is it emotionally acceptable to be closed? Is Guan capable in action? Guan was able to accept it for a while. Will you be able to accept it for a lifetime? Having said all this, this is not even mentioning the substantive problems that Xiao Xie's complicated family may bring.

For example, when Xiao Xie heard that something was wrong with his parents, how did he express himself? crashed, true or false, jealous of his girlfriend's former crush, ready to give up and retreat. If you want to analyze its motives and actions, you will inevitably go into a large article, so I will not repeat it here. When I read it, thousands of words converge into one word "rub". What kind of brain circuit is it? A big man like this, replaced me. has been stepped on in the hole of death. Falling in love should be a comfortable thing for both body and mind, just tossing and turning, is it falling in love or fighting wits and courage?

From Guan's point of view, on emotion. By no means deep. Admittedly, the two are very sweet in love at the beginning, and it is true that both of them are fully committed to it - but the question is who is not in love? Let's do the math: how long have the two known each other? How much do you know about each other? How many appointments have you made? How much time have you spent together? You see that at the critical moment, Guan Nei believes Andy more in his heart. To use this emotion to support Xie's big mess, it may not be enough. Let's look at the capabilities. Does Guan have what it takes to handle her relationship with Xie? So far, I haven't seen the optimistic table xiàn either. Her response was either evasive or impulsive. Cricket is right, Xiao Xie still has to play when he meets her. It's hard to say. In dealing with the conflict with Xiao Xie, Guan not only has nothing to show for him, but instead exposes his weaknesses.

After that, let's talk about Xiao Xie. Some people have compared Andy and Xiao Xie, and when it comes to the little dark house in their hearts, I think there are several differences between the two people: first, Andy has always been aware of his character flaws, and has been responding positively and rationally. And Xie is clear about his flaws? Are you willing to face it seriously? I still haven't seen any signs of it. Andy is more sober than Xie and better at introspection than Xie. Secondly, Andy is kind and upright by nature, open-minded, and principled; And Xiao Xie, if you don't have a good character, you can't talk about kindness, maybe, as far as the current table is concerned, there is still a gap between honesty and honesty and principles. Moreover, from the perspective of attraction to the opposite sex, Andy is a goddess: wisdom and beauty coexist in software, plus he is simple and unsophisticated; I have money in hardware, and my dad has the right. Bao Ziyan can not be firmly trapped, and sigh that he is fortunate in three lives; And Xiao Xie, Yi Qiē can only be said to be decent, and this is still not to talk about his complicated family. Rationally, Andy is more attracted to the opposite sex, which makes it easier for the other party to be willing to bear her inner flaws.

Having said so much, in the end, I would like to thank Xiao Xie Tongshou - he used his bad luck to bring us infinite gossip, and used his first love to inspire everyone's collective memories of youthful love, and his bizarre life experience brought "Resistant to your cow" and "This is okay?!" With his commendable deeds, he has sparked countless discussions about criminal psychology, and even ignited everyone's enthusiasm for discussing police stories with his own profession. Little Xie Tong shoes, whether you are cannon fodder or not, will always live in our hearts!

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Guan and Xie genuinely like each other, and their attraction to each other is natural and smooth. Therefore, Guan can learn to deal with emotional relationships through guò this relationship. Xie can learn to face his origins through this relationship. If both of them study hard and pass or even get a high score, these two people will certainly be able to build a harmonious marriage! The process of learning must be painful and struggling, and it is possible to break your head and bleed. But if you give up immediately, Guan and Xie will still stay in the state before studying, and there will be no progress at all! Today's parents don't want their children to be hurt, but if there are many things that don't let the child bleed once or several times, how can the child experience the wisdom of mastering life?

In today's update, the details of Ying Dad and Qiu Dad's tricks are very exciting, because the two of them have equal skills, so the result is quite harmonious. Dad Ying's hand is reasonable, Dad Qiu understands that Sister Qiu's marriage should be climbing high branches, so how can Dad Ying not understand? Ying's father saw that his son and Qiu's relationship was getting deeper and deeper, and Ying's father didn't come to the sea market often, and this raw rice was about to be cooked, so how could he do it if he didn't explore the reality of the Qiu family? What's more, by the way, you can also give the Qiu family a dismount and kill the woman's arrogance, which is really a beneficial and harmless approach! Sister Qiu is fortunate to have such a father, she talks about principles when she should talk about principles - move out immediately, bow her head when she should bow her head - and help Ying be discharged from the hospital with a smile on her face. Everywhere is the little ninety-nine in the heart of the father. In the end, Ying Dad readily agreed to the marriage of the two families!

If you want me to say, the family business that Naida found for Sister Qiu is really good, the two families are right, the three views are similar, the hard bar - the man is slightly higher than the woman, and the soft bar - the two small ones get along harmoniously. Even if Ying Ma Ying Baobao has a bunch of problems, the Qiu family's problems are not less, not to mention that no one has a difficult scripture, Ying Qiu is already very good, if there is no big storm in the future, there is no problem for a lifetime! Naida's arrangement for Sister Qiu is really a lot of hard work!

Growth, is the theme of "Ode to Joy", love is an opportunity to face your own inner barriers, Naida, you are really a high EQ and IQ, observant, experienced and writing masters, really benefited a lot, thank you. Although Andy, Guan Guan, Xiaoqu, Sister Fan, and Xiaoqiu are not by my side, through your writing, you have brought them to my side, so that I, like Guan Guan, can also learn a lot and benefit a lot in this period when many concepts are formed.

I am also very grateful to these sisters and sisters who chase the article together and share their life experiences, thank you for making "Ode to Joy" more attractive and valuable. (To be continued.) )