Chapter 216
Fan Shengmei listened and listened, recalling her good times, "I don't blame you for this, and it has nothing to do with raw melons and eggs." Like the two of you look like a good girl, the boy is also afraid of being rejected and losing face, the best way is to go with the boy who is familiar with the field, everyone introduces each other and shouts, and it is natural to get to know each other. β
"Ah, that's it, but if it's a beauty, someone will still rush to come up. Like Sister Fan, and Andy. β
"That's a little bit more likely. Did you try it later? β
"One failure is enough of a blow, and I don't dare to try again in the future, so I still study honestly. But I still want to have someone who purely loves me, instead of pursuing me after being introduced to my colleagues, after asking others, understanding my work income and family background, and recognizing that I am a marriageable partner. I want to be in love. β
Fan Shengmei blurted out, "I want to get married." β
The two looked at each other, their expressions were complicated, and they both knew that what the other party was saying was the truth, a rare truth in this world. But Fan Shengmei came back to her senses and said busily: "I didn't mean to sing against you. When you are older, if you want to stabilize your dΓ¬ng, finding a suitable partner to marry is the first place. β
Guan Juer smiled: "I won't be suspicious." However, for a while, I was really upset, and I was often hit, and I was already doubting myself. Now I'm not afraid to say it, once Xiaoqu wanted to create a chance encounter and introduce me to a friend of hers, but that friend discharged Andy as soon as he came up, and he didn't see me at all. I only found out later, you think, Andy's grade and age, as long as you think about it sensibly, it is not the female neighbor that Xiaoqu intends to launch, but at that time I was completely invisible, and I was very desperate at that time. β
"I didn't expect it, I haven't heard you mention it, and I haven't seen your watch come out."
"Whoever is embarrassed to mention that matter, it's too late to feel inferior. Fortunately, I came over, and someone could still see me. β
Fan Shengmei was surprised and looked at Guan Juer. said: "It seems that Xiao Xie is a good comrade. β
"Probably." Guan Juer replied briskly, and laughed out loud when he finished speaking. "So I thought, really, Sister Fan, you're talking angry. I can't imagine how to get married with someone I don't love...... Belch. I'm talking too much. Guan Juer saw Fan Shengmei's round eyes, and suddenly realized that he was so happy, and hurriedly braked to stop.
"No, I'm so happy to see you so happy. It's hard for you to be like that. β
"yes." Guan Juer blushed and lowered his head, "I originally planned to be single for the rest of my life......"
"Don't talk nonsense."
"Really. I have a decent income and my ability is enough to solve my own problems, so why bother to find someone I don't love to live with. In addition to the difficult explanation from parents and relatives, it is still easy to convince yourself, a purpose, happiness is the most important. But if there are people who love each other, it's different. β
Fan Shengmei's heart was suddenly touched, but she replied unexpectedly: "Xiao Qiu may be the happiest person on our 22nd floor at the moment." β
"Hee-hee." Guan Juer couldn't help laughing out loud again. "Xiaoqu predicted that Xiaoqiu may often preach to us in the future, the concept of a happy life." She looked at her watch, "I'd better hurry out and find a place to make a copy of the bill and send it to Xiao Qiu." β
"Say congratulations again, and I'm happy for you."
"Actually, I'm also Meng Lang, and I don't know what will happen in the future."
"I'll be glad to say it again."
"Yes, haha. It's more comfortable to say it. β
Guan Juer dressed up and went out. Fan Shengmei reclined in the room and watched the door close, lost in thought. Her income is more acceptable than Guan Juer's, and her ability is more than enough to solve her own problems...... Think about it. She remembered that her so-called income had just started not long ago, since she was desperate for her family and her father had fallen again. She finally had money to spare, and she remembered! She hurriedly took out her salary card and checked her income in the past few months on the Internet. When she checked the balance, she couldn't help but smile bitterly, for the first time since she worked, she actually had extra money on hand. And there are more than 20,000. In vain, she has been living diligently and frugally and carefully in the past few months.
Fan Shengmei dragged the mouse with her fingers, subconsciously dragging the screen up and down, but her eyes kept chasing the number and jumped. I don't know if the optic nerve is tired or what, her eye sockets are moist.
Guan Juer went out of the community to buy a bag of fruit, and finally waited for Xie Bin's call. Listening to the voice, Guan Juer could imagine the sleepy-eyed look, and it could be seen that he had just woken up and called her. Guan Juer smiled without waiting for him to speak. She smiled and listened to the phone all the way until she came to Qiu Yingying's hospital room. found that it was not Qiu Yingying who was sleeping on the hospital bed, but Ying's mother. She was stunned, and she didn't know which ward she was in, so she had to look for her one by one. But soon saw Qiu Yingying frowning and talking to Ying Qin.
Qiu Yingying saw Guan Juer, her eyebrows drooped, "It's over, Guan, is it really your call to my father?" My dad called again and said you called him again. Actually, it doesn't matter if you fight, just tell me, I can deal with it, and now I'm caught off guard, my dad has already gone to the train station. Oops. β
Guan Juer thought about countless answers on the way here, but Qiu Yingying in front of her still caught her off guard, she was stunned for a moment and said calmly: "First Xiaoqu called, but then I also knew about it, and I didn't report it." β
"Hey, Guan, don't be angry, I'm not blaming you. Actually, I miss my parents too, and when I get hurt, I get weaker......"
"I wasn't angry, I just thought about reconciliation and immediately became ill. You see, I have counted your medical bills in the past few days, except for the escort who is a white slip, the rest are invoices. If you're right, sign on the back of each slip. β
"Ah, it turns out that you go to work like this, so majestic. Well, I'll see. β
Guan Juer stood aside with the fruit, smiled at Ying Qin and said hello, but didn't say anything. Everyone didn't think it was strange, because Guan Juer had always smiled more and talked less.
Qiu Yingying looked at it and signed on the back of each slip to confirm. Guan Juer saw that she turned to the last page, so he set the phone to the calculator state and handed it to Qiu Yingying to calculate the total price. Qiu Yingying smiled: "You really have a professional demeanor." I've always thought about how you do things, is it the same as being in the dormitory? It turned out that it wasn't. β
Qiu Yingying calculated the same result as Guan Juer's calculation, and signed her name on the printed statement. Guan Juer put away the original and handed a copy to Qiu Yingying, "You keep the copy." I have to hand over the original documents to Aunt Ying for verification. There's also a copy for Andy. I suspect she herself doesn't remember how much money she lent. OK, you talk slowly, I'll go next door to find Aunt Ying. β
Qiu Yingying said: "You leave it to me, Ying's mother is resting, and I will hand it over to her when she wakes up." β
"The concept must be clarified: not to her. Instead, you have to pay her money with one hand and hand over the documents with the other. Andy went to Mr. Bao, she entrusted me with these accounts, and I had to take care of her. Keep her money to good use. I'll go next door. β
"Guan, you're so strict."
Guan Juer smiled back and walked out the door. Qiu Yingying shouted with a smile behind her back: "Fruit stays." β
"I bought it from little Xieto, and he'll be there later." Guan Juer stood at the door for a moment before leaving. Walk down the hallway. Rolled his eyes, recalled, rolled his eyes again, and then went to find his mother.
Ying's mother was happy, and after figuring it out, she didn't ask Qiu Yingying, and went downstairs to find an ATM to withdraw money and hand it over to Guan Juer in person. At this time, Xie Bin also arrived.
Xie Bin waited for his mother to enter the elevator before saying, "It's quite refreshing." β
"Of course it's refreshing. Originally, Xiaoqiu could also let people compensate for lost work and other compensation expenses, at least to buy some supplements and maintenance. Buy a dress to replace the torn one, it's all gone. If the Ying family doesn't end it quickly, what if Xiao Qiu wakes up and regrets it. Besides, Xiao Qiu's father will be here tomorrow morning. I don't know what he'll think. β
"If she doesn't fight for this kind of thing, it's really difficult for outsiders to work hard for her. Let's go, find a place to eat, I'm hungry. β
"Hee-hee, I woke up hungry too. You've slept longer than I have. I once ate a seafood noodle with a colleague, and it tasted very good, so I'll take you there. I've always wanted to go again, but I haven't been able to find a partner. β
"You're still carrying fruit? Forgot to give it to Xiao Qiu? β
"I suddenly felt bored. I didn't even want to give a bag of fruit. Am I very diverse? β
"How else? Doing this to your roommate is good enough. β
"Maybe I didn't get enough sleep today and my temper was a little bad."
"No, no, no, you've slept enough, and it doesn't stop us from wandering around after dinner."
Guan Juer smiled happily when he heard it, and said arrogantly: "No." I wore high heels and refused to wander. β
"That'...... Eat first, think slowly, I'm so hungry that I don't have any ideas. I can do everything else, but I can't go hungry, and when I'm hungry, I'm blank. β
"In the future, when you escort the prisoners, I will report to the prisoners, hehe. Don't go so fast, I'm wearing high heels. β
"Oh, yes. But you don't know that the spring breeze is proud. β
"Ah, here are the horses' hooves, where are the sycophants? I want to be motivated, I want to be a sycophant. β
The two went out in a fight. Guan Juer occasionally felt that the "bullying" was ruthless, so he restrained himself and grimaced. She's so happy.
βΌyoyo
I think Guan Guan has a kind of lack of self-confidence in a certain way, for example, she thinks she is not beautiful enough, and she cares about this very much, so sometimes, when someone pursues her because she understands her work income and family background, she feels that this kind of love is not pure enough. I think there should be many kinds of love, is it only when you see the appearance and don't understand other things, is the love that comes pure? Is the pure love recognized by Guan Guan a manifestation of self-confidence in some kind of process?
Your appearance, your income, and your family background are all part of you, because your appearance likes you, it is the idea of some people, because of your income, your family background thinks that you are a marriageable partner, and they also like you, maybe they (such as Li Chaosheng, Senior Brother Lin) value these things more on your three views, the influence of dealing with people, the same is love, it is difficult to say which is more pure.
Guan Guan may also have its own limitations to break through, maybe this is an idea of this article written by Naida, I hope everyone reflects on their own bits and pieces, to see what they need to change, whether it is the shadow of childhood, or family constraints, growth is the most important thing.
I hope that each of them can grow and develop in the direction of happiness.
βΌchen
Top yoyo. There is no pure thing in the world, and human emotions are one of the most complex and diverse things in the world! Guan Guan's appearance is average, of course, it will bring her a psychological impact. Even if she is a person with high IQ and high EQ like Andy, if she has a short figure and a acne face, she will definitely have an inferiority complex, and Baozi will definitely not chase after her! In Ode to Joy, I don't think anyone's love is purer than the other. As for the concept of marriage, I personally think that a more complete view of marriage is - marriage is not just to find a lover, but because two people can live better together than one person, and divorce is not just to find the next one, but because one person can live better than two people together!
βΌzz
Sweat for Guan Guan. Judging from her conversation with Sister Fan, as a good girl who has always been diligent and upward, she has no beauty, she does not understand amorous feelings, she has no experience in love but is full of naΓ―ve desire, she longs for romance and is eager to be passionately pursued, which is the only irrational expectation in her rational life.
The greatest compliment a man can give to a woman is to marry her. However, for Guan Juer's little head who is too obsessed, those who are right and regard marriage as the object of love are not pure enough and too boring. Then Xiao Xie appeared at the right time. It's not Xiao Xie, there will be Xiao Li Xiao Wang Xiao X Xiao Y, in short, there will be a very attentive and romantic, very considerate and good at laughing with her - a fateful pit.
And Fan, as a beauty, has completely opposite troubles. Men will passionately pursue her beauty, but no one wants to marry her, so when she meets Wang, although she is not the ideal object, she is still moved by the sincerity that is willing to live with her.
Anai's writing is very interesting, these two people are contrasted with each other, and when they are put together, they can explain a lot. The object of a man's love and marriage is not the same. will passionately pursue beautiful women, such as Sister Fan, but to marry a woman with an innocent family background, such as Guan Juer. Sister Fan will never be short of flowers and gifts, and there will always be people to pursue, but if she really talks about marriage, there is only one Wang Baichuan, just this one, and she is still guarded against. Fortunately, Fan seems to have woken up, she is originally kind and smart, and has a certain ability, after figuring it out, she will strive to be self-reliant, but it will attract men who want to live a good life, and ane can be regarded as abusing her almost. And Guan Juer, she finally waited for someone who would pursue her passionately and hold her in the palm of her hand, but the day of abuse is not far off. Why do people fall in love with you at first sight, if you don't have beauty? This is a problem. When Brother Xie sees the poor dagger, it will be very interesting to see if Guan Guan can remain rational and how he will make trade-offs, looking forward to Anai's next article.
βΌSydorothy
Many people say that they don't like Sister Fan, and I didn't have a good impression of her before, but after reading today's paragraph, I feel that Sister Fan is the character closest to life, and I sighed.
βΌ The author replied
At the beginning of the article, many replies said that I didn't like Fan. In fact, writing Fan and Guan took the most effort from me. (To be continued.) )