Qiu Yingying opened her eyes when she heard this, but she also drooped her eyes. "Didn't Dad force me to give up? How can you still go to them? I didn't know what kind of medicine my father was selling in his gourd, and he wouldn't let me ask or contact Ying Qin. ”

Qiu Mu said: "Alas, I know that asking you is also asking in vain. Wait for your dad to come back, your dad will always have a way. Quick, while there is no one in the toilet, you hurry up and wash your face and brush your teeth. There are meat buns on the stove, your father bought them, wait and greet Xiaofan and them to eat together. ”

Qiu Yingying pouted, "They don't eat the meat buns bought on the roadside, they don't like gutter oil, they think they add white flour, and they don't think the meat is good." I don't eat it either. ”

"Hey, I'm still poor, if you don't greet you, I'll greet you."

Fan Shengmei washed up with a makeup bag, just in time to see Guan Juer's eyes floating out with squinted eyes. She just wanted to speak to Guan Juer, but Qiu's mother immediately grabbed two meat buns and handed them to Fan Shengmei, rushed to the front and said, "Xiao Fan, eat the buns, it's still hot." ”

Fan Shengmei was caught off guard, and hurriedly stretched out her hand to grab two steamed buns, and hurriedly smiled: "Thank you, Auntie, I really didn't want to let you go out to buy steamed buns so early." ”

Guan Juer saw Fan Shengmei winking at her, so she hurriedly followed, but was blocked by the bun handed by Qiu's mother. She looked at the bun and didn't answer, "Thank you, Auntie, but I haven't washed my hands yet." She suddenly found that Qiu's mother hadn't washed her face yet, so she was holding the hands of the two buns...... Fan Shengmei entered the house and put down her things, took the bun for Guan Juer, and said with a smile: "I have clean hands, I took it for you, thank you, Auntie." Xiao Guan came over and told you something. The two entered the house, Fan Shengmei closed the door and said: "Yesterday Andy was looking for you, let me see you and tell me, I hope you will go to work with her in the morning, she has something to look for you." ”

Guan Juer looked at the posture of talking behind closed doors and was shocked, "What's the important thing?" ”

"I don't know, but it seems that Andy is very strict, and I specially asked about Xiao Xie's current relationship with you. I don't think she's a gossip person, so she asked so specifically. There must be a reason, if you take the initiative to find her. Don't go now, Mr. Bao is still there. ”

Guan Juer's eyes straightened, "I'...... Andy just asked me. I can't answer that. ”

Fan Shengmei grabbed the bun and returned it to Guan Juer, "Go out anyway, don't throw it in the bedroom." ”

Guan Juer picked up the bun with both hands and hesitated, "Sister Fan." Help me send a text to Andy saying I'll wait for her to come to work. I don't want to turn it on right now. ”

"Okay. Go ahead, I'll put on makeup. ”

Guan Juer looked at Fan Shengmei's smiling face, suddenly pasted it, buried his face on Fan Shengmei's shoulder, and was bored for a while before raising his face and saying: "I think, I'm not used to falling in love, people describe how beautiful and good love is, but as soon as I fall in love, I think of marriage and married life." How beautiful it is. ”

Fan Shengmei patted Guan Juer, "Don't jump to conclusions so quickly. Now that you know the crux of the matter, don't you want to get married, and simply enjoy love? ”

"It's impossible, I've always believed that people have no long-term worries, how can I not think about it. Alas, Sister Fan, you put on makeup, but don't hurt you to be late. ”

Fan Shengmei watched Guan Juer open the door with two meat buns in his hands, but greeted Qiu Yingying standing at the door sadly. "You're not even letting me participate in talking now, it's only been a few days."

Guan Juer was speechless. didn't bother to do it, so he walked sideways past Qiu Yingying. Fan Shengmei sat down, quickly put on makeup and combed her hair, and said by the way: "You have also been entangled recently." When you're done with this and have a perfect finish, we'll sit down for tea and chat. ”

Qiu Yingying looked at the bathroom door that was closed after her mother entered, and whispered, "I'll wait for my father to leave, and I'll talk to Ying Qin." Now, I can only hold my arms but my thighs. Let Dad play. No way, who made him my dad. ”

Fan Shengmei was speechless at this time. She hurriedly put on her makeup and hurried out with two buns. Qiu's mother saw it and said to her daughter proudly: "Look, who said she doesn't eat steamed buns." ”

Qiu Yingying smiled: "Let's see, it must be thrown in the trash can at the door." If you don't believe us, go down and rummage through the trash can. ”

Guan Juer looked at the bun on his desk and was in a dilemma. She thought for a while and asked Qiu Yingying loudly, "Aren't you going to work yet?" ”

Before the words fell, an angry roar came from the small black room: "Hard, don't you know how to speak quietly?" It's not a chicken and duck stall in a vegetable market. ”

No one could have imagined that Guan Juer, who had always been the most civilized, was scolded. Guan Juer's face was flushed with anger, but he was at a loss. Seeing this, Qiu Yingying hurriedly trotted over and said softly: "Ying Qin was discharged from the hospital today, I want to take a look." ”

Guan Juer said: "No matter what your future holds, don't lose your job, and settle down as the foundation of your life." One of my cousins has no job and has always been looked down upon by her in-laws. When we found a job for her and went to work, my in-laws' faces suddenly improved. ”

"Ahh Qiu Yingying was stabbed in the heart and stayed there. After being stunned for a while, she turned around and went out without a sound, rummaging through her luggage to find her bag for work. Her mother rushed over to ask why, and Qiu Yingying said anxiously, "Go to work." If you don't go to work again, you have to lose it. It's so scary to look for a job, I don't want to do it again. ”

After Guan Juer cleaned up, he went downstairs to find Andy's car and waited next to him. Not long after, I saw Andy and Bao Yifan come out together, and the body language looked like a lover in love. When the two saw Guan Juer, they smiled and parted a little, and Bao Yifan said: "I will solve this matter today, don't worry." See you in the evening. He kissed Andy on the forehead and walked to another car. Guan Juer looked at it and couldn't help but think of himself.

Andy looked at Bao Yifan's back with a smile, walked to his car, and almost hit Guan Juer, before saying, "He looks better in a suit." ”

Guan Juer suddenly realized that Andy was enjoying love. Even Andy, a person who searches for variables in everything, can love, how can she love incompetence? Before Guan Juer was stunned, Andy had already recovered to normal, and said to Guan Juer: "Xiaoguan, I will talk to you about something strict." Let's get in the car and talk. ”

Guan Juer hurriedly sat in the car, anxiously waiting for Andy to come in, "What's the matter?" ”

"Xie Bin followed me, yesterday." Andy said very simply and directly, "I will do it myself to stop the tracking." But I have to stop Xie Bin from having similar thoughts from the source, and I need your help. I wonder why he is following me. First, business, but I think this probability is very low, so low that it is impossible; Second, private matters, which are related to you. You help me think about why he's stalking me. ”

Andy finished speaking, and answered the usual rhythm. But he didn't wait for a reply. She had to slow down before leaving the garage and looked at Guan Juer, but saw Guan Juer's face dumbfounded, and there was no possibility of replying at all. Andy had to nunun in frustration. Hit the gas pedal and rush out of the garage. Unfortunately, I saw Xie Bin by the gate at a glance. She couldn't help but burst out, "Is Xie Bin waiting for you or waiting for me?" ”

Guan Juer, who was so shocked by the word tracking that he couldn't speak, looked out the window, and sure enough, he saw Xie Bin watching their car by the door. But Xie Bin didn't stretch out his hand to stop it, and Guan Juer didn't stop it. Andy squinted at Xie Bin, and the car slowly passed in front of Xie Bin's eyes.

Guan Juer said to himself: "He won't, he won't do anything to follow." ”

Andy completely ignored Guan Juer's denial, and said resolutely with the dictatorial assertiveness of his work: "The question 'why is he stalking me?' can be understood as 'why does he have a strong affection for me?' I have no contact with him, except for helping you lie that you didn't offend him at 2202, but that doesn't make him stalk me. Please help me remember if you mentioned me in front of him and how those words affected him. ”

"No, it won't. He wouldn't do that. But Guan Juer still couldn't help but follow Andy's resolute prompt and began to recall whether Andy had been mentioned in front of Xie Bin.

Andy didn't say anything, drove silently, and didn't interrupt Guan Juer's memories.

Guan Juer's memories were painful, and she didn't want to think about them, especially the conversation the day before yesterday. But Andy's prompt seemed to be compulsive, forcing her to recall clearly. She frowned and thought for a while, then said cautiously: "Usually I always say how talented you are and how much you take care of me. ”

"This one is not a threat to you, it is not a threat to him. It also doesn't pose a threat to your relationship. Next. ”

Guan Juer frowned and said lightly: "Andy, please believe me, I have always liked you and respected you, and there is no possibility of framing you." ”

"Huh? I didn't mean that. Oh, I'm a little impatient, I'm sorry, I've always been bad at restraint, I'm sorry. But be sure to follow the trail of posing a threat. Thank you. I'm annoyed and I don't want to be followed. I was very worried about having eyes behind me, and I had to put an end to the possibility of a qiē. Thank you for your understanding. ”

"Another time I mentioned you, just the day before yesterday, he mentioned the address on his ID card in the past, and I said that Xiaoqu also mentioned it, and you stopped Xiaoqu. This should also not pose a threat. ”

"That's it. Now that I've figured it out, I'll deal with it. ”

"It's not strict."

"This one is deadly."

Guan Juer trusted Andy too much and believed that Andy's judgment was correct, so she immediately thought of Xie Bin's various small actions when he talked about the original ID address, and she also realized at that time that the explanation was anticlimactic. And Qu Xiaoxuan's various desires in front of her are still very clear. "Andy, please tell me why I'm deadly."

"Nope."

Guan Juer looked at Andy and was speechless. Countless doubts in her heart, all the things she didn't want to think about before the morning, the ones she deliberately avoided, the things she tried to ignore, all poured in, and she began to have to analyze and think.

▼koko

Realistically, if the expectations of marriage are really high, it is harmless for girls of the public standard (within 40% of the public average), such as Qiu Qiu and Fan Fan and Guan Guan, to start accumulating experience with different boys as soon as possible. Find out what you like and what you are suitable for, and take the initiative to fight for opportunities (it does not mean chasing backwards), and the probability of encountering the best is much lower than that of passive people waiting for love.

▼abcd

Please give Xiao Xie a little more time and be patient.

One of the things I learned from the story of the five mm in Ode to Joy is that everyone has their own shackles. This cage of the true self is the result of the combined action of parents, surroundings, nature, experiences, etc. Of course, everyone is more or less aware of the existence of this cage and has a greater or lesser willingness to break free from it. If you can break free, it is really a rebirth, and it is also the result of the combined action of internal and external factors. Fan mm is the only example of the five mm in the story who escaped from the cage and lived again. The process of Fan struggling to get out of the cage took at least ten years (according to Fan's work at the age of 20 and meeting Andy and others at the age of 30), the process was heartbreaking and mentally miserable. But in this process, without the help of Andy, Ququ and other MMs, it is very likely that Fan MM's rebirth time will be postponed indefinitely! Therefore, we must be patient and loving to Xiao Xie, especially at such a critical moment: Xiao Xie has the heart to change, and although Guan Guan's love is the catalyst that stimulates the acceleration of this change, the amount of this catalyst is still too small, and the quality is unstable.

▼Jinan

The magic capital and the imperial capital have hotels under 100 yuan, of course, don't expect extravagant conditions, but how to live is better than laying on the floor in the corridor, right?

▼ The author replied

Minced meat. Let's repost a reader's comment on the back of the blog:

The Qiu family should not have the 3,000 yuan at all, nor will they not be able to pay it back in the future, but they should save it if they want to. Poor families value money very much, and they don't value it anywhere else, so they don't realize that they are disturbing other people's lives, and they are used to friends and relatives interfering with each other and helping each other. Qiu's father probably thinks that accepting other people's help in terms of money, even if he pays it back in the future, is still indebted to others, but the favor owed by working in someone else's house is far less than the favor owed by borrowing money.

In the past, there was a relative in the countryside who often went to the city and slept in my living room at night, and my mother thought that it was troublesome to change the quilt every time, so she paid him to find a hotel to live in, and he was very angry, saying that my family looked down on him and did not treat him as his own family.

I sometimes can't get rid of the notion that if I want to stay in a city for one night, the first thing that comes to mind is to go to my aunt's house instead of looking for a hotel, even if the value of the gift is more than the hotel fee. My aunt wasn't very welcoming to me that time, probably because she didn't need the gifts, but because I needed to wash the covers and sheets and prepare the food for my stay. So later, I also learned that I could solve it with my own money, so I didn't bother others.

In the end, the concept and the idea are different. And the Qiu family thinks that Fan is Xiao Qiu's good friend, but in fact, the friendship between Fan and Qiu is not that good.

▼ Bubbles

Understand. The concept is different.

When I saw this paragraph yesterday: "Father Qiu said: It's okay, if your parents can't touch them in the future, you will be embarrassed." You're also getting married soon, and soon you won't have time to play with them, so don't worry too much. The hotel, it's really dark, it's really no need to spend that money. ”

Soon I didn't have time to play with them~~~~~~ this tone is the same as Xiao Qiu, and you don't need to go backward with people.

▼Leaves

When I saw Guan Dad's words, I thought of discussing them with my mother, and I thought it was very true at that time. My mother and I discussed a little more than the soft and hard conditions of Guan Dad. My mother taught me that the first thing a man looks at is whether he is sincere to you and whether he is sincere to you. If not, it doesn't matter how good the conditions are. Don't be blinded by the so-called external conditions. This can be regarded from the point of view of character. Then look at whether this person is self-motivated and has the ability to plan his life. If he has, then he will not be able to suffer for a lifetime even if he suffers from this person in life. This is from an economic point of view. After passing both of these points, you can think about the other - the other most important point is to be comfortable with each other. In my mother's words, it's that there is always something to say between the two of them, and there is nothing that cannot be said. Pushing it to myself, I added another point: I need someone with an optimistic and positive attitude towards life, who is smart and humorous. As for the rest of the hardware, it's all up to personal preference.

Seeing Sister Qiu happily sleeping on the floor with her parents, she really had mixed feelings.

As a person, whether it is a man or a woman, it is best to have your own ability like Andy, and be a man on your own, even if you talk to the king of heaven, you can still straighten your waist! If your skills are average, then you hope to be reincarnated with some luck, and if you are blessed, you will be reincarnated into a good family, and you will still live with your head held high. However, there are still many people like Sister Qiu, who are from an average background, and they are trampled by others wherever they go. Sister Qiu in this Ode to Joy has at least one big advantage, that is, she is very easy to be content! It's just that sometimes when I read the text and read Qiu, because I got it a little bit, I was content and couldn't find the north. As a reader, I have really mixed feelings. The average person in this season of Netta has written very wonderfully! A bouquet of flowers!! (To be continued.) )