The wait was so long that it was heart-wrenching. Guan Juer took out her work and started to be busy, but she was a little absent-minded, she was worried about her parents' attitude. Especially her mother's, she knows that her mother must be picky, and her mother is not picky about her only daughter, how can she not be picky about Xie Bin.

Finally, Dad's text message came: We will stay in Haishi on Friday night and see Xiao Xie on Saturday. Guan Juer replied to the text message: Is it okay to change to May Day? Dad replied: No, before we meet, you have to be careful and don't get too close. Guan Juer's face turned red, and when she saw that her colleagues were entering the door one after another, she hurried up to hang up a phone call to Xie Bin. "My parents are here on Friday, can I have a meal with you on Saturday?"

"This week?" Xie Bin was obviously shocked.

"Yes, as soon as I mentioned it to them, they couldn't help it. But if you don't, I'll ......."

"I'm okay and I'm glad they value me. When they arrive, I'll pick them up. ”

"They have their own car. My boss is in, bye-bye. Guan Juer was a little dazed after putting down the phone. She didn't know if it was right or wrong to sue her parents so early.

Andy waited for the elevator, but waited for Qu Xiaoxuan and Dr. Zhao, who looked like conjoined babies. She was more embarrassed than the two of them, and turned her face to the elevator and said, "The nanny made breakfast for the two of you, why don't you go over and get it." ”

"It's too late. Hey, why don't you wear an engagement ring today? ”

"Two days is enough time to declare sovereignty for Baozi. I remember that Xiao Qiu was discharged from the hospital today, and I don't know what they were going to do. ”

"Go directly to Ying Qin's house? She's not so tight, who lives here to take care of her? Her mother didn't even have a place to live. ”

Dr. Zhao interjected leisurely: "Squeezing is always liveable." However, I don't know if I will be infected. ”

Qu Xiaoxuan laughed, "Sister Fan and Guan Guan will thank you for your words." ”

"I'm going to buy a dress to wear when I go to Baozi on Friday to get a marriage certificate. Don't know how to buy, are you free tonight? ”

"I'm not free tonight or tomorrow night, you still look for Sister Fan, she is the emptiest now. Except for asking her not to save you too much money, she has a good eye. Qu Xiaoxuan lay on Dr. Zhao's back. Secretly stretched his neck to look at his expression, and seeing that he didn't react much, he added, "I really didn't expect it." We seem to have just met, and you're getting married. Xiao Qiu is also ready to get married. ”

Andy saw Qu Xiaoxuan's movements, and couldn't help but smile and help her, "When are you guys?" ”

Dr. Zhao said without hesitation: "Xiaoqu once said that she would wait for her to enter the MBA for half a year. I was willing to see my parents. Probably around that time. ”

Qu Xiaoxuan never thought that it was the answer, she was pleasantly surprised to hang on to Dr. Zhao, and he carried him into the elevator. "Why don't you ask my parents when they'll see you, I haven't even said yet, you're too a bully. This is the 22nd floor, Pansi Cave, you don't have the right to speak. ”

Doctor Zhao said with a stinky face: "A talent like me, whoever is allowed to do it is all ticketed, and there is no suspense at all." I just didn't bother to think about it, and there was no zài variable at all. ”

"Haha. Andy, have you ever seen such a stinky and shameless one? ”

"That's called self-confidence." Dr. Zhao replied again. Andy smiled. She has a good memory, and the two of them split and merged not long ago, which is completely due to their lack of self-confidence.

The three of them broke up at the elevator entrance and looked for a car. Qu Xiaoxuan pestered Dr. Zhao and asked, "You mean I'm not confident?" ”

"You are the first confident, I am the second confident. You're afraid to see my parents, I'm afraid to see your friends. I really breathe a sigh of relief, and it's nothing to see. But it didn't work out well, and that's the lesson I learned. ”

"Well, I love you, and I listen to you."

The two got into Qu Xiaoxuan's car. I was not in a hurry to leave, and then hugged and kissed. Andy passed by and smiled. Dr. Zhao sighed after kissing, "Why do you have so many business trips?" I've had so many surgeries, we don't have time to indulge until we die after we get back together. ”

"You take a leave of absence now, and we'll go back." Qu Xiaoxuan screamed.

"No, surgery is waiting for me. If I do it one day later, the patient will have more pain, and I can't bear it. ”

"Actually. Me too. There's never enough money. ”

The two went to work in great depression.

Qiu Yingying, accompanied by Qiu's mother and Ying's mother, was finally discharged from the hospital and rented back the house. When she broke up with Ying Qin, Qiu Yingying cried all the way at the thought of not being able to see each other for a long time after that. If it weren't for the two mothers, if the sisters on the 22nd floor were out of the house, she would definitely beg Qu Xiaoxuan to find Dr. Zhao again and ask Dr. Zhao to help her stay in the hospital for a few more days, she didn't want to leave Ying's duty.

The group of three opened the door of 2202, and Ying Mu frowned first. "In-laws, only one room, a single bed, where do you sleep at night?"

"Go back and buy a mat and buy a few foam boards, sleep on the floor, just a few days, get over it. In-laws, sit here, I'll see where to boil water. ”

Qiu Yingying hurriedly said: "I will come to boil water." As long as I don't have to bend over, I can do anything. Ying mother sat for a while, and the water was soon ready. Qiu's mother wanted to stop her daughter, but when she wanted her in-laws to watch it, she let her daughter be busy.

Ying's mother couldn't help but say: "I don't think you should boil water." It's not okay to live like this, don't one of them get better, and the other is sick again. Anyway, our two families have already seen that they will get the certificate in a few days, and besides, my family should be hospitalized, and there is no one in the house of Ying Qin, so it is better for you to live in. If you live there, I can rest assured that I am not afraid of thieves entering the door, and you can rest and rest better, killing two birds with one stone. When Ying Qin can get out of bed by himself, I can go back to cook a dish and wash clothes or something, which is also convenient. Yingying, you quickly call Ying Qin and ask him to ask someone else to help him get lunch, and I will help you clean up here and then go back to the hospital. ”

Qiu's mother couldn't help but hesitate, "Is it convenient to do this?" I haven't even proven it yet. Why don't I ask Yingying's father? ”

"Don't ask, the general direction is for them men, we will solve the small things ourselves, and don't trouble them with everything. Yingying, you call. ”

Qiu Yingying actually wanted to agree a long time ago, but it was just because of the presence of the two elders. She hurriedly took out her mobile phone to talk to Ying Qin, and the two mothers worked together to clean up the clothes that Qiu Yingying needed for the next half a month.

But after hearing the news, Ying Qin said strangely: "Then why don't you simply return your rent as well?" When I am discharged from the hospital, we will get married, and you won't have to move back to the rented house after you get married. What are you doing with it? Isn't it a waste of rent? You talk to my mom about it. ”

"Hey, how can I say this, you say, I'll give your phone to your mother."

Ying's mother listened to what her son said and felt that it was right. Go back to the house to discuss with Qiu's mother. Qiu's mother objected, "Oops." That's not good, how wrong it sounds. Anyway, I'm not married yet, and I'm in such a hurry to move in, it seems like ...... Doesn't seem to make sense? ”

"Tsk. Women's family, don't talk about any changes. I'll tell Yingying's father. Yingying, you call your dad for me. ”

Seeing this, Qiu's mother reluctantly complied, so that her daughter didn't have to call. Thereupon. Qiu Yingying excitedly sent a group text message to the entire 22nd floor, "I was discharged from the hospital, I am in good health and can walk on my own." Mom and Ying's mom are helping me pack my things and move to Yingqin's house, I'm leaving 2202. I'll miss you, and I'll come back to see you when I'm strong. Sister Fan, how do you tell the landlord to quit the rent? ”

Guan Juer saw the text message first, and she was surprised, isn't the Ying family very conservative. Why did you suddenly figure it out that you could live there before marriage? She put her doubts aside and went to the bathroom to call Qiu Yingying. "Xiao Qiu, we're at work, so we can't help you. Why don't you pack it, take away the ones you want to use today, pack the heavy ones that you don't need for the time being, put them in the house. I'll come back in the evening and help you move over with Xiao Xie. It's just that it might be later. ”

"Ah, Guanguan, you're so good. Take a kiss. You come at night with an empty stomach, and my mother and I will prepare the dishes and wait for you. ”

"No, we still have to eat before we have the strength to move. It's just that I'm really reluctant. ”

"Guan Guan, I really don't want you. It's a pity that I can't do anything right now. I'll come back to you when I'm all right. ”

Qiu Yingying put down the phone and hurriedly reported to the two mothers. Both of them breathed a sigh of relief, they had a car and friends to help, and they didn't know how much it was convenient. Ying Mu smiled: "It seems that you are very popular." A few of your friends helped out, and they had the money to pay. The ones with great power seem to be quite capable. ”

"Yes, the five girls on our entire floor are you to help me and I will help you, my dad has already said that with these friends, he doesn't worry."

Ying Mu smiled, "That's." However, if you play with your friends before you get married, you can focus on a small family after you get married. ”

"That's it."

Ying's mother was relieved. "Really sensible. It can be seen that Ying Qin's father will not be wrong to look at people, you can handle it on the big festival, no problem. ”

Qiu Yingying nodded again and again, even if she was embarrassed to admit it, she was already happy in her heart. That's right, she had no problem with the festival.

▼ Quagmire

Suppose we talk to a stranger

Among the five golden flowers, each has its own characteristics and shortcomings, but there is no doubt that the little girl in Guan Guan is the most neutral and peaceful, smart and kind, considerate and generous, and well-born, in addition, there is a bottom line, principled, a little calf temper, generally speaking, such a girl is the easiest to get family happiness in real life.

However, the world is impermanent, and good people may not always encounter good things. So, the police brother with a complicated background appeared.

In all fairness, Xiao Xie Guanzi, from the beginning of the treatment of Xiao Qiu in the train station, to today's Tongguan, you and me, complaining to each other, what Naibao showed us is a person who can't say anything bad in any aspect regardless of his background - even if he plays word games in the confession book, it can be understood - such a family ugliness, who wants to talk about it.

Up to now, Xiao Xie is still a relatively positive, bold and careful, smart and motivated, considerate of his girlfriend, appreciated by his boss, and liked by his friends.

is linked to Xiao Xie's background: can get the support of his stepfather (his biological parents definitely don't have this ability), go to college, and study music, although he has the influence of his biological mother, but most of them also have his own observations, empathy, and pleasing people. So Guan Guan was completely in love with that romantic sunrise.

It also shows that once such a person shows a completely dark side in a small family, it is difficult for outsiders to believe it. Xiao Xie is a smart and motivated person, most people with such a personality are competitive, and people with a competitive heart will not like to fail. But the marriage of Xiao Xie's parents is a huge failure, and Xiao Xie's father's whole life is a failure. Freud said that children learn from their parents how to associate with the opposite sex and form sensory discernments about the opposite sex. The mother's abandonment of her husband and children gave Xiao Xie a very bad start. Rumors of right and wrong from neighbors, whether they are pity or ridicule, are all worse.

In such an objective environment, if you want to remain unaltered, unless you are an extremely strong, open-minded and kind person by nature. But what I can see is that Xiao Xie is obviously playing scheming in the confession book. What worries me the most is that Xiao Xie is not hiding from Guan Guan, but deceiving himself. If I ignore that question, it won't exist zài.

As Ye Zi said, children from unhappy families often unconsciously repeat the tragedy of their parents' generation. However, what makes me sigh is that if you are a girl, you are likely to hurt yourself. Boys, on the other hand, are more likely to be influenced by their outward-looking and aggressive genes, as well as social traditions, and choose to hurt others.

There are generally two ways to hurt someone:

I betrayed first. Because all women are unchaste and untrustworthy, they can always betray - as long as the conditions are right. Subconsciously, he doesn't believe that he can keep his lover for a long time, so instead of suffering a future that will happen, instead of accepting a passive blow, it is better for me to take the initiative, then the betrayal will never exist, and I have preserved my self-esteem.

The second type: I want to control zhì a qiē. All the qiē had to be carried out according to the ideal established procedure, and failure was terrible. Of course, the process can be tortuous, the action can be gentle, the means can be diverse, but the final success is a must. How can I be like my father, I can't keep my wife, I can't keep my job, my life is useless, I can't achieve anything. As a result, doubts produce anxiety, anxiety leads to uneasiness, and anxiety leads to fear. And people who are in fear are the ones who can do the most cruel things.

Xiao Xie is very good. But it's so good. People with little background can get the blue eyes of leadership; In addition to outstanding ability, it can also unite colleagues; was bold enough to help his girlfriend in the hospital, and when the war was in chaos, he could carefully observe Zhao Mei's heart slipping away; can also resonate and be romantic through music, this is simply the perfect boyfriend, but unfortunately, perfection is poisonous.

Now, all it takes is a good wife, a good family, and all the flaws of childhood can be remedied. And his father's defeat will never be repeated in his body. Even if Guan Guan initially had a crush on someone else, what he liked at first was not himself - Naibao's foreshadowing was buried deeply. As for those who are seriously suspicious, have a strong desire to control, and have the ability to scheming, see Empress Dowager Bao.

Now the question is, what if we talk to a stranger – and all unmarried girls or women who are about to remarry are actually likely to do so?

This stranger is so lovely and brings me so much joy, and the misfortunes of his childhood, in the aura of love, in the feminine tenderness, kindness, tolerance and love written in the genes, in the vanity that I can save him and I have charm to touch him, is simply a plus, not a vigilance.

If she talked to a stranger, Qu Xiaoyou would not have kicked off at the beginning, and even if she was on the first plate, she would have all kinds of demonic tricks to get out; If it's Andy, she has a brilliant mind and a jade-burning madness; So what about Guan Guan, this good boy who will be soft-hearted in the face of friends, and a good girl who will agree against her will in the face of her mother playing the family card to interfere in her life - even if she resists, she is very soft and saves the country, will she face the bottom line, will she have the determination and ruthlessness of a strong man to break his wrist and cut his flesh to cure sores. Although I know that Naibao is a pseudo-stepmother and a real mother, although I know that Naibao can't stand the female M, I am still worried about Guan Guan.

In the end, I don't really want Xiao Xie to really go that far, with his experience, if a good woman like Tongguanguan completely collapses, I don't think he can still find family happiness - and most importantly, I'm afraid he himself won't believe that he can find any confidence in women.

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