Chapter 144: My Cousin's Advice (2)
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"Actually, you're thinking too much! The friends I have with are all of the same family background, or slightly higher than mine, and their education determines that they will never be able to do such a thing, so you should not be depressed because of this, and vent your frustration on your sisters. ”
"Perhaps, you think what I am saying now is very annoying and unpleasant, but, as a cousin, I still want to tell you that you are sisters of the same father and fellow brothers, and you have the same blood on your bodies, no matter how much you quarrel and quarrel in private, but when facing outsiders, you still have to huddle as a group, and don't think that others can drag the other person into the water if you calculate one of you. Otherwise, perhaps, when the time comes, something will happen that you do not expect, and the consequences will not be something you can afford. ”
"This world has too many constraints on us women, even the nobles of a wealthy family! Even if he gets married, he is only from a small yard to another small yard, and all he sees is the sky in the yard, and he can't do his own business like the men in the house. ”
"Even so, we can also be a considerate and filial girl, so that the fathers and brothers who are fighting outside don't have to work so hard, and after returning home every day, they have to worry about the things in the house, which greatly distracts them from the opportunity to make contributions."
"Before getting married, our sisters were harmonious, and we shared our experience in piano, chess, calligraphy, painting, female red housekeepers, etc., and discussed them at any time.
"You know what? Why are commoners and nobles all pampering their own girls? Just because girls are born with more restraint and suffering than men. The only way to enjoy a happy life is the more than ten years before marriage. After getting married, you must extinguish all the thoughts and ideas that you shouldn't have, and be a husband and a godchild. And assist the husband to take care of the things in the house, so that the husband can be busy with the future without worries......"
I have to say that Qian Shiya's words show the current situation of most of the noble daughters of the Great Liang Dynasty.
Of course, there are also some talented and well-read noblewomen. I don't want to put my mind on the skills of piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, female red, etc., to increase my psychological impression points in the grandmothers of various families, but I like these from the bottom of my heart or specialize in a certain item, participate in the imperial examination like a man, enter the court as an official or learn martial arts, and get the martial arts champion.
The only pity is that such people are still a minority after all, even the Great Liang Dynasty has produced several empresses with outstanding military achievements and considerable talent in governing the country, and they are no exception.
This point is not much different from the modern times before Du Zhixuan's crossing.
The slogan of "equality between men and women" has been shouted for an unknown number of years. However, there is still unequal treatment between men and women in the workplace. This is determined by all aspects, and it is not something that can be changed by one or two people, nor can it be changed by decades or centuries of changes in the world.
However, even Du Zhixuan, a time-traveling woman who carries the "King of Hell" system, does not plan to make more changes to this, but is ready to restrain all the thoughts and shocking thoughts that are ready to move, and slowly integrate into this era, so as to truly enjoy the "leisurely" life that cannot be experienced before the crossing.
But. In Du Zhixuan's opinion, the reason why Qian Shiya said such a thing was just to put gold on her face. To put it in layman's terms, it is to make your reputation better. It is also easier to arouse the disgust of Du Xuan, Du Ping and Du Zhiwei for Du Zhixuan, and the heartfelt gratitude for Qian Shiya's relief or even some partiality.
Sure enough, no matter how much the grandmothers teach, she is used to a straightforward personality, and it is impossible to change much. The intrigue that has not been trained in many years of professional career, and it is impossible to deal with the wit and strife in the back house.
This is probably the biggest difference between multinational groups that really only care about work ability and some public institutions that pay special attention to interpersonal relationships.
Qian Shiya said with relish, and was very pleased that Du Yu, Du Ping and Du Zhiwei looked at her with admiration and admiration, and also with a strong look of gratitude, excitement and excitement.
However, when she moved her gaze to Du Zhixuan and found that Du Zhixuan was looking at herself with a light smile, in that faint gaze, there was no longer the confusion and anxiety hidden under the pretend calm, I don't know if she was stabbed by Du Zhixuan's overly clear and transparent gaze, and she could almost see Du Zhixuan's inner thoughts, and she seemed to be afraid that Du Zhixuan would see her innermost thoughts from the sight of the two of them, or she would be revealed by Du Zhixuan. The kind of confident and flying look that bloomed like a butterfly breaking out of its cocoon was frightened, in short, Qian Shiya immediately looked away and took a deep breath, because of the expressions on the faces of Du Yu, Du Ping and Du Zhiwei, the pride that was bred was bred, and in an instant, it turned into a puddle of water, and was dried by the sun, never to exist again.
Such Du Zhixuan? Such Du Zhixuan!
Qian Shiya bit her lip, and once again firmly in her heart, she couldn't continue to let the prince of Wuhou Wang Shizi see Du Zhixuan, otherwise, there would be a terrible reversal beyond her expectations.
This kind of feeling that everything is in the palm of your hand, but suddenly there is such a person, and it feels really bad to escape from your control.
I really want to kill Du Zhixuan immediately!
"What my cousin says always makes sense." Du Zhixuan pursed her lips and smiled, "I can't complain, I always hear people say, 'Listening to your words is better than reading a book for ten years'." ”
"Cousin Xuan, I treat you with sincerity, and now, you finally realize my hard work!" Qian Shiya looked at Du Zhixuan with a touched face, vividly interpreting the sensible and polite eldest sister, and the relief and sigh after seeing her sister, who has always been naughty and disobedient, become well-behaved and caring.
is so accustomed to putting gold on her face, obviously hiding a lot of calculations in her heart, and saying a word casually, it is a girl who has thought a lot in her mind, even if it is not the first time she has seen it, but, every now and then, Du Zhixuan still has a kind of ** that can't bear to look directly and hate to attack immediately.
"Heheda, my cheap cousin's face is so big!"
"I've seen shamelessness, but it's rare to be shameless like this!"
"Every time I see my cheap cousin, I have a kind of ** that I can't kill her right away!"
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Finally, the frank and straightforward complaints of the ubiquitous ghosts saved Du Zhixuan, otherwise, Du Zhixuan really didn't know how to continue to get along with a girl like Qian Shiya without tearing her face. (To be continued.) )