Chapter 82: Alternative Learning
In the blink of an eye, the time entered September, and the autumn tiger was still powerful, but it began to get cooler in the morning and evening. When the climate is good, people's mood is good, and Hajilan's children are already six years old and seven years old. After the lunch break that day, with the cool air, Hajilan's mood was just right, but Nalan asked Yahuan to call her to the main courtyard, which made Hajilan confused, look at the Yahuan, she shook her head and said she didn't know, Hajlan looked at Mama Gefohe beside her, Mama Gefohe thought for a while, and whispered: "Gege has passed his seventh birthday, well, Mama guesses, will Madame ask Gege to start learning the rules."
Hajlan felt powerless when he heard this, and when he thought of what he had heard from Qi Buchen, he suddenly felt that the sky was dark, and Mama Geffoh looked at Hajlan, who had suddenly wilted, and comforted him; "Gege, this is just Mama's guess! Besides, the rules have to be learned sooner or later, but it is difficult at first, and it will be easier to understand later. After saying that, he pushed Hajlan to the main courtyard, and Hajlan slowly moved to the main courtyard.
As soon as he entered the house, Hajlan saw Mama Wuya, who didn't have much sense of zài beside him, sitting under Nalan's hands, and the two of them were discussing something enthusiastically. When they saw Hajlan enter the house, they stopped. Nalan kindly pulled Hajilan who was about to salute to his side, and said gently: "Our Hajilan is seven years old, and he is already a big girl, and he will start learning the rules in the afternoon, female red, and the housekeeper director ......"
After the ideological mobilization work of the Nalan clan, Hajilan's ancient ladies' education officially kicked off.
What is Lady Show? Whether it is "Zhou Li", "The Book of Rites" or "The Book of Daughters", what remains unchanged throughout the ages is the four elements of virtue and beauty. Since this day, it turned out that Wu Ya Mama and Ha Ji Lan, who had no sense of zài by Ha Ji Lan's side, and Ha Ji Lan were almost inseparable, not that Ha Ji Lan dragged Wu Ya Ma back with a dead face, Wu Ya Ma and Ha Ji Lan were actually to cultivate Ha Ji Lan's manners, words and deeds from time to time, starting from the subtle trivialities, a little adjustment to make Ha Ji Lan reach the best state, just like Qi Buchen's requirements when he was trained, to do: do not review, do not lift your lips, do not sit on your knees, Limo shook his skirt, laughed loudly, and shouted angrily.
It seems quite scary to do it, look at it again, Qi Buchen, now even if she is leaning on the Luohan bed and reading, it will make people feel more intellectual, natural, even if you can feel that she is different from others, you can't find fault with it at all, and you will be impressed by it, this so-called cultivated aristocratic style, giving people a natural feeling. It doesn't seem to be that difficult, after all, Hadjlan has been an adult, oh - it's a bit difficult to say whether he has retreated or not degraded now, and Hajlan, who is a pseudo-child, said that Qi Buchen can do it himself, but in ancient times, was it really that easy? Sleep elegantly, but also require a walking posture, Hajlan to not have the habit of inside and outside, but also can't walk like a model every day, this time not only sleep under surveillance, even walking There are always people staring, and after a long time, the ears have been ground out of the cocoon, and there is no sense of zài and does not like to say much, but it is like changing the engine, and keeps repeating in Hajlan's ear: "The women under it walk, ask for chest relaxation and abdomen, show generosity, circle legs or shy stomach, How good the body shape is also submerged. Originally, combing two handfuls of hair, putting on a cheongsam, and shoes at the bottom of the lotus pot under the feet were the easiest to take the figure-eight steps. Walking with a shy stomach, as if she is a few months pregnant, what a joke! ”
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One day at Nalan's place, Qi Buchen and Sur Mama were there, and Hajilan suddenly found that Qi Buchen had risen a little taller, which was not the case when he came to ask for peace early this morning! Her eyes slipped, and the bottom of the flower plate was on her feet, and she was actually dressed very steadily. I can't help but secretly give Qi Buchen a thumbs up, genius! You must know that when Hajlan first wore high heels, the knees of both legs were bent when he walked, and he was afraid of falling off because he was unnaturally walking slightly.
Nalan was very satisfied with Qi Buchen's expression, smiled, and asked Hajlan what he had learned. Hajilan answered one by one, and Nalan looked at Hajilan, who looked pained, and said, "E-Niang also felt very uncomfortable at the beginning, just take your time." ”
Slowly, Hajlan discovered that the greatest use of Mama Wuya is not to teach you how to walk, how to kowtow, what kind of sleeping posture is elegant, and so on. Instead, let you know a lot of taboos, and her usefulness is not to tell you 'what to do' but to tell you 'not to do anything'. Except for what you shouldn't do, the rest, with your usual upbringing, you shouldn't get into a big disaster. Gradually, Hajlan is not as painful as he was at the beginning, and now Hajlan is keen to chat with Grandma Wuya, put a pot of tea, a few small snacks, and start chatting.
Hajlan sat down first, put his hands down, took the handkerchief, and looked at Grandma Wuya with a smile to talk.
"Gege listens to people, you have to have a little smile, you can't smirk, you can't keep a straight face. When the board face scores, the smile also divides. Well, okay, that's a good laugh. Hey, Gege, sit up straight. ”
"Alright, let's get started."
"The rules in this palace are big, but they also train people, it is not difficult, but it is not difficult. First of all, the people in this palace are all masters. Our master doesn't like bells and whistles. (Hadiran: The place they live in is fancy enough.) The queen mother in the palace is still the rule set by the queen mother at that time, the palace maid is not allowed to add fat and powder, and the jewelry on her head is not allowed to pass three pieces, autumn and winter are brown, spring and summer are green clothes, except for the birthday festival and the New Year...... The masters of the harem don't have to be like this, but they also follow the mood of the three. You are not allowed to move around in the palace, and you have to accompany you in pairs if you have something, and it is not a simple matter of being punished when you are discovered. (Hajlan: Can't there be a spy in the palace who sneaks through the wall alone?!) At night, the eunuch will not let him enter the palace gate, and it is the palace maid who keeps watch at night. (Hajran: Damn!) When sleeping, you should also pay attention to your posture, you can't sleep on your back, you have to sleep on your side, and it's best not to talk in your dreams. When eating, don't eat things that will get a smell, some things smell big, but you don't dare to eat them casually, so it would be too offensive for the masters to smell it. For example, mutton, fish fishy in the river, and fresh fruits are okay, but you can't eat too much and make your stomach upset. (Hajran: It's a good thing that things are original these days, but there is still this shortcoming in the palace?) )”
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In addition to talking about some things she experienced in the palace as material for her words and deeds, Mama Wu Ya also said some things that made Hajlan listen to the ancient gossip of many ears, and said it after a while. One of the major characteristics of Mama Wu Ya is that she is very 'grateful', she can hardly hear her speak ill of people, she is very good at saying it. You have to distinguish from her words, the temperament and shortcomings of each person behind these words, and even the bad intentions. (Hadjran: I knew that there would be no fuel-efficient lamps that came out of it, and it was more important to learn to speak.) )
Hajlan knew that the mother of the fourth elder brother was originally a palace maid, and it was estimated that she was blessed by the three feudal lords. She is good-looking, and she has to be old and good-looking. There are still a few palace concubines like Concubine De, such as Wan Liuha, although she has not given birth to children. When talking about these people, the aunts' faces were faint. When it came to Wei, who gave birth to the eighth elder brother, Mama's expression didn't change much. Just said: "That master," paused, "The background is a little lower, so the eighth elder brother followed Master Hui to raise him." ”
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In Hajlan's afternoon class, he also began to learn a little simple female red, but he didn't give him scissors yet, and he couldn't draw patterns by himself. Because of his young age, he can't do fine work, so he only learns some simple ones, and he also has to prevent needles from pricking his hands. The mama who taught needlework asked her to do some simple work while telling her about color matching. And the steward director understood something from observing the Nalan clan's way of dealing with it. Daily life is just a trivial matter, and as for personnel arrangements, buying and selling people, and cashiering money and food, it is not always available. As long as you know what to do at home.
The Nalan clan often told Qi Buchen and Hajran: "Don't be public. If someone says you're so strong, and you're refreshing in everything, it's scary. You say, Are you not burdened by these words? If everything is too public, everyone knows you, it is inconvenient to do anything, and if the personality is too strong, it is easy to expose the emotions and be calculated by others. You are a girl's family, and there are some things that you can't say. But you can't ignore everything, showing weakness like that, and it is easy to be deceived and humiliated. Usually you want to know everything, but you can't show it, and when you really want to use it, don't point it out directly until you have to. If you can see the problem, you have to think about how to cure it, otherwise, don't talk about it. If you want to say it, you can also say it to Eniang. I see? ”
Qi Buchen nodded understandingly.
Hajran said in his heart: I understand, pretend to be a pig and eat a tiger. If you want to be a black boss hidden behind the scenes, you have more potential to survive. And, if you hit a snake and hit seven inches, you either don't do it, or you kill it.
Hadiran's ladies' class continued, and his free time was even less pitiful.