Chapter 670: Blind Date Conference (1)
Fu Jin has been thinking about his daughter's cowpox, when he came back from the palace, there was no smallpox epidemic, there was no vaccine, but after all, there was a vaccine, and Yun'er personally vaccinated Xue'er. Pen & Fun & Pavilion www.biquge.info other children in the house have planted.
Fu Jin wanted to talk to the Queen Mother about this, but as soon as the Queen Mother interrupted the conversation, Fu Jin stopped talking. It's better to be cautious about this kind of thing, it's a good intention, and people don't have to be donkey liver and lungs. I don't know how remorseful the queen mother will be after the emperor got smallpox and wanted his life!
The weather is getting colder and colder, and it is entering the winter moon, but the interior of the two houses is as warm as spring. Tian Liang successfully installed the biogas in the Ruiwang Mansion and the Xuanwang Mansion, so that no matter the master, everyone can take a shower in winter. You can also use biogas to boil water and hot water for laundry.
There are some seedlings and some vegetables in the king's greenhouse, and the semi-underground plastic film greenhouse is all vegetables. The grain reserves in the government have been carried out quietly, and the Xiaoice Cellar is to store grain.
"Yulong Cold Drink" is now completely Yulong hot drink, few people eat ice cream and ice unicorn in the winter, but some people drink milk, just Western snacks and bread, which is very comfortable.
Wang Ye and Fu Jin talked about this group of new palace maids, saying that there are 300 people among these people who are about to leave the palace and are about to leave the palace, and more than 30 have left one after another, and there are more than 200 older girls. We must hurry up and solve their marriage affairs, otherwise the emperor will be funeral, and they will not be married within three years, and the age will not be delayed even more, and it will be difficult to find a mother-in-law?
"The prince is right, the concubine is thinking about this. That day, I heard Sister Yun'er say that there was a blind date in the foreign land, and the concubine thought she could try it. ”
"When did you two become three aunts and six wives?"
"These people are the girls in our house, and we don't care about the people outside."
"Girl Bun, go to the backyard and invite Mrs. Chen over." The prince said jokingly, and Fu Jin covered his mouth and smiled.
Yun'er's action is fast, and it won't take long to arrive. After asking An, he asked, "I don't know what the prince and Fujin send?" ”
Fu Jin took Yun'er's hand and said with a smile: "The prince and my sister mentioned that many of the new palace maids are older girls, and they want to hold a blind date that my sister said. Where does my sister understand, it's better for you to come out. ”
"Don't price, don't price, Yun'er's mouth is stupid, and she can't be Chen Kuai's legs."
"Who is Chen Kuaijiao?"
"It's a character in a play in a foreign land, that is, a matchmaker, who happens to be surnamed Chen, and Yun'er's family."
The prince said: "You are better at this, you can talk about it." ”
"What's going on? The matter of the older palace maid is really a top priority. Yun'er and Lanlan went to that blind date, it was for Teacher Xu, but a lot of men came to Lanlan, not to mention that attentive person. ”
"Didn't come to you?"
"Fujin, listen to what the prince is saying? Yun'er is a married woman, a mother of children, a famous flower, and can she still do things like a halfway monk? ”
Fu Jin's stomach hurt from laughter.
"Tell me what the program is." Fu Jin often has exotic words when he speaks.
"It's really not okay for us to copy the things over there. What girl can look at a man with half her arms exposed? ”
"I'm asking you how to go on a blind date? Does the man look at the woman or the woman looks at the man? ”
"It all has to be seen, crossed. First of all, there are more than 200 older palace maids from the palace, right? There are also four teaching grandmothers who should also participate, right? The sunset is red. ”
"What about men?"
"Men naturally start from older youths, regardless of what status or position, just like the draft, five or six people play in a group, and the other party looks behind the brown glass, and writes down the number that he likes, and registers it. Then the men look at the women. You can also look at several people at the same time, and then choose a two-way choice that is satisfactory to both of you if you meet them. It is very troublesome to prepare, and you have to make a form before choosing the one you are willing to participate. ”
Fu Jin said: "This method is very good. Are there any older men in our house? ”
Wang Ye said: "The oldest age is only twenty-two years old, that is, the nephew of Medical Officer Zhu, where is the old age?" Fill in the registration form, and then number and write the number plate, just like the fashion model show, hang the number plate on the chest or belt so that the blind date person can remember his number, remember the number of the person he is satisfied with in the process of looking at each other, and then put the relevant information together. Maybe a person has a crush on two or three girls or a guy? This is the audition ......"
"Enough trouble. But this method is really good, anyway, we don't see each other, and we can't have anything to do with it in the future. Then prepare, the prince is responsible for the layout of the blind date venue, Fujin is responsible for the man's participation, and Yun'er is responsible for the woman, what is your opinion? ”
The prince said: "I still dare to have an opinion? You can do better than this king. ”
"Fujin, are you unreasonable to listen to the prince? It was his old man who found Yun'er. ”
Fujin laughed, when he first entered the mansion, Yun'er was a little afraid of the prince, and now he dares to tell jokes to the prince. That's good, it's too boring to talk about the rules with a straight face all day long. Yun'er is now in the position of Chang Fujin, and she is always like an angry little daughter-in-law, and she is not good for herself.
I don't know if I don't do it, but I don't know until I do it, this blind date will be troublesome. Yun'er recalled the two blind dates she participated in with Lan Lan and Tingting in a foreign land, and wrote down the main contents, which became a "blind date conference planning plan" after sorting it out.
Time, place, theme, object, age, number of participants, cost (including prizes, props, food, and activity content) (1. Each participant receives a numbered plate and sticks it in a certain position; 2. The guests accompanying the participants have fixed seats; 3. A brief introduction by the host; 4. Male participants play in groups of six, and female participants observe behind the brown glass facing the venue. After the male participants were selected, the female participants took the stage. Then the host gave a closing speech, and the later form filling work was completed by the conference staff, and the participants waited for the good news.
The blind date of the Qing Dynasty cannot be a game and a carnival like an exotic land, and the later material sorting is the trouble. It is necessary to investigate the requirements of each participant: personality, family members, social status, economic status, etc., as well as the requirements for the person who likes him/herself, what is the status after marriage, what to achieve, etc. Perhaps some of the male participants asked for a female concubine. In this case, you must be transparent and tell the woman that if the woman is willing, it is not the organizers of the conference who are deceiving you.
The next step is to make specific preparations, and the first thing is to sign up. All unmarried men and women who intend to participate in the blind date must register with Aunt Ning of the etiquette teaching within the designated time. This matter can't be carried out with too much fanfare, the social system and people's ideological concepts in the Qing Dynasty are very different from those in foreign countries, including male unmarried people will also be very embarrassed, so a few guards around the prince are responsible for conveying the news to these people.
Some applicants were immediately issued a license plate, and on the day of the blind date, the license plate was worn in the designated position.
Then there are groups, you can't call your name temporarily before playing, you have to play in an orderly manner.
Then it's time to practice your pace and get your outfit ready. It's a time to show the best for everyone, and it's important to dress for it.
The female participants were notified by the teaching and training grandmothers of the two prefectures.
It's not bad, many unmarried men and women have signed up with Sister Peach. This time, the oldest men and women over the age of eighteen who participated in the blind date were solved first, and the younger ones were not in a hurry. Therefore, even the older palace maids who will go home next year have also signed up. Who can miss such an opportunity?
Men are easy to say, even in their twenties is not a big problem. The guards in the house are really in their early twenties, and the family is not satisfied. So, the unmarried all signed up. Anyway, it's not a face-to-face look, and there will be no sequelae in the future.
Momoko said to the girls who signed up for the blind date: "Don't worry, don't let you be judged in front of many young men, choose your offspring behind a glass window, he can see you, you can't see him, and then you go behind the glass to see the offspring, and if you like it, remember his number, go back and tell me the number, I will register it for you." The purpose of this is to prevent him from taking a fancy to you but not him, so as to save the embarrassment of meeting in the future. So, you can remember two numbers at the same time, this one doesn't work and that one. Of course, you can only fancy one, you can't fancy it, and no one will force you to fancy two. And such a blind date will be held once every two or three months, and there will be a next time if it doesn't work out this time. When the time comes, how much do you groom yourself, don't twist when you go on stage, be generous, just stand on the stage for a while, and let the descendants who fancy you remember your number, all remember? ”
"Remembered. But Mama Ning, Caizhu has a question I don't understand, can I ask for advice? ”
"Yes, Miss Caizhu, please speak."
"Who's going to think of that? It's really good, otherwise if you go on a blind date in person, one party is not satisfied, how embarrassing is the other party? ”
"This is what the cloud master learned from a foreign land when he was traveling in the clouds. She's learned a lot. ”
"Mama Ning, sister, I also have a question for you."
"Mama Ku, please speak."
"If we sign up at such an age, will anyone laugh at us? When we come to power, will anyone laugh at us? ”
"Probably not, right? Everyone knows that this is a big deal, not a child's play. There are men of your age to choose, but there are no men of your age who have signed up in the house. Is that good? Wait for next time, Fu Jin said, if the effect is good this time, the scope of participation in the blind date will be expanded to other palaces next time, and at that time there will be people from different professions to participate in the blind date. ”
"What you say really gives us hope. We also want to have a home, so what's the matter if it's not up or down? ”
"Don't say it, maybe someone will marry you home when fate comes."
"This grandmother, I don't know who looks at us?" An older palace maid asked in a whisper.
"There are guards, personal soldiers, and servants in the house, as well as Cai Mai and Langzhong. In the future, there may be people from other palaces or ministers' palaces to participate, but the choice of people in the palace is smaller. ”
"Are they all unmarried?"
"Most of them are not married, and some of them come to choose a concubine, but our person who hosts the blind date will tell the participants himself, and he will not hide it from everyone at all. At that time, if both parties have a crush on each other, they will tell you their name, age, occupation, family situation, and also tell each other about your situation. ”
On this night, almost all the older palace maids suffered from insomnia. Although they all signed up, they were at a loss: they didn't know the other party's situation. These people had a good impression of Caizhu and thought that she had an idea, so they knocked on Caizhu's door to discuss with her.
"Sister Caizhu, isn't it a little abrupt for us to sign up? Wouldn't it be a shame if no one took a fancy to us? ”
"You think too much, we are not bald or blind, we are still from the palace, at least we look like the past, and we still understand the rules. How many big families want to invite us to their house to teach their young lady? We're a little older, no matter how old we are, we're still young women, right? Why is no one taking a fancy to it? I used to think that if a woman didn't get married, she would be clean, she wouldn't have to do so much housework and she wouldn't have to have children. But what to do when you get old? Who does it depend on if you have no children and no daughters? No one cares when I'm sick, and no one around me is so thirsty when I drink a bowl of water, it's too desolate.
"Then you're going to participate, right? With you to join us, we will be bold. ”
Colored beads are very difficult. She pointed out the marriage to the Queen Mother, and she couldn't tell these sisters clearly. If they did, they would have misunderstood.
"Well, I'm not going to participate, right?"
"Why? You're the best among us, what's the point of not joining us? ”
"Don't talk nonsense. You don't want to be an old girl, so you have to participate. ”
"You mean you don't want to get married?"
"I'll take a look,"
"What if I miss out on a good relationship?"
"Since it's a good fate, I won't miss it, and the moon has long been tied together."
"Ah, we see, you're already married. It's too tightly a secret! ”
"Wanyan, you must have signed up."
"I'll talk about it later."
Just when the palace ladies and sisters were discussing the matter of registration, the Queen Mother sent someone to the house and asked what was going on at the blind date meeting in the house. Gotcha, eyeliner reports. Fu Jin was afraid that the messenger would misinterpret the word, so he personally entered the palace to explain to the Queen Mother. Tell her that most of the palace maids who have reached the age of leaving the palace have not arranged marriages at home, and the house has held such a blind date, mainly for older girls.
"This method is good, but what if the man has a crush on the woman, and the woman has a crush on the other man?"
"That's the shaved pick, and the head is hot. We're just looking for wishful thinking, and we definitely don't force anyone. ”
"If you have been married in this palace, you are not allowed to participate. Why don't you marry these girls? ”
"They're new to the city, and they're not in a stable mood yet."
"It's not that those boys don't look down on the marriage of this palace, right?"
"How can it? It's just that this thing is a bit sudden, and I am not mentally prepared. ”
"Then hurry up and prepare, it's a side room and not a big wedding, just set up a table and a banquet."
"Yes, the concubine will convey your meaning to the prince when she goes back."
"Also, this palace wants the disciples of the clan to also participate in this blind date. Why do you say? Their main wives are all married by the palace and the emperor, and most of them are Mongolians, and some are not very casual. That can't be helped, but the concubines can let them choose for themselves. What do you think? ”
"Then try it. But it's really wishful thinking, the children of the clan took a fancy to it, but the palace maid sister didn't take a fancy to it, and she didn't count. Unless the palace maid's sister is willing to be a concubine. ”
"Okay, that's it. This Yun'er can learn anything. ”
"Where did Yun'er learn? She has always avoided this kind of thing. It was that casual talk that she talked about how she was once taken on a blind date by her eldest sister's daughter to meet the world. ”
"This is dangerous, what if someone takes a fancy to Yun'er?"
"Yun'er didn't sign up, and she can't play, just watch the excitement."
The Queen Mother laughed. (To be continued.) )