Chapter 180: The matter of marriage is raised

Seeing that Pan Xiaoni did not object again, Zhang Yang took the wine from Zhou Xina's hand with a smile and poured himself a glass of wine. After a while, Lao Pan brought him the dishes, he hurriedly said politely to his future father-in-law, and asked him to have a drink, but Lao Pan looked at Zhou Xina's face, looked at the guests who had just walked in from outside, and said a few polite words very consciously, and went back to the kitchen to work.

Seeing that Lao Pan's consciousness was so high, Zhou Xina nodded with satisfaction, and then said to Zhang Yang: "Zhang Yang, just now Xiaoni said that she was happy today, I don't know why?" ”

"Mom, why else, it's not because Zhang Yang doesn't want to be the regional manager, Mom, you know, it turns out that the boss asked him to be a manager, it's actually Europe and the United States are really a ghost, I said why are the five supermarkets in our area, except for the supermarket in our Windy City, which opened late, Zhang Yang has only been a store manager for more than a year, so he should be transferred to be a regional manager." Zhang Yang hadn't answered yet, because of some excitement, Pan Xiaoni preemptively talked about the reason for her happiness.

After listening to it, Zhou Xina thought about it for a while, and then understood the joints, she said: "She has such a good heart, give our family Zhang Yang a relationship and seek progress?" It's not another plan. When Zhang Yang started, he was so cautious, according to what I said, he did the right thing. On the other hand, your marriage is also engaged, and the two of you should discuss how to get the certificate, and then the wedding will be done in a beautiful manner, this is the right thing, where can you casually say that you are separated? It's not me as an elder who said that no matter how good your relationship is, once you are separated, it is still easy to get separated, and it is easy to have contradictions. You say don't you? ”

Zhou Xina originally didn't want Zhang Yang to be a regional manager, but it was just that it involved her uncle's future, and she couldn't say it directly, but now, when she heard that this was an arrangement made by Europe and the United States, she naturally told her heart without any scruples.

After Zhang Yang and Pan Xiaoni listened, they looked at each other and smiled. The two of them thought at the same time, Jiang is still old and spicy, what her old man said is really a bit reasonable, although they are engaged now, their relationship has really not gone through any major tests, far from the point where love is stronger than Jin and is not afraid of rain and wind. As soon as they are separated, there may be some unexpected changes.

"Mom, you're right, I didn't agree to this appointment right away, and I also have concerns about this, this is not to say that I have any doubts about the relationship between Xiao Ni and the two of us, but to say that this world is unpredictable, and I still lack a little confidence in fate." Zhang Yang immediately agreed with Zhou Xina's opinion.

"Hey, that's right, no one should be too full of words, where is there such an absolute thing in the world? Think about it, if you go to another place, Europe and the United States really chase after you immediately, she and you get along day and night, and maybe something will happen if it's okay, you see, in this society, there are not many people who live in two places and finally break up? Zhou Xina went further.

Distance can produce beauty, but distance can also produce strangeness and estrangement. It's all a killer of love.

Pan Xiaoni also understands this, so when Zhang Yangyi told her that she might go to work elsewhere, and the two of them couldn't see each other every day, she was really nervous for a long time. How many people in the world love each other who have complete confidence in themselves and in each other?

After listening to Zhou Xina's words, Zhang Yang and Pan Xiaoni nodded like garlic, thinking that what she said was too reasonable, and Zhang Yang, who would come to trouble, immediately sent the top hat to his mother-in-law: "Oh, Mom, you have a set of love theories, and you are simply an emotional expert around us." You, that's amazing. ”

One sentence caused the cheerful Zhou Xina to laugh heartily, attracting the curious eyes of several customers in the noodle restaurant, Zhou Xina looked at their surprised looks, didn't care, but smiled even happier.

"Zhang Yang, you, you are better than being able to speak with your mouth, so that people are willing to talk to you. Ha ha. However, after all, laughing and laughing, what to do next, have you thought about it? ”

"What's next?" Zhang Yang pondered for a while, looked at Zhou Xina's smiling face, and suddenly said with an epiphany: "Mom, I understand, you mean that you want me to prepare for the wedding with Xiaoni, don't worry, I will naturally think about this matter, and then make a plan and report to you." ”

"Mom, why did you talk about this issue so quickly, I didn't want to marry him so soon, Zhang Yang, don't think too beautifully, this girl hasn't agreed to marry you yet." Pan Xiaoni heard that the two of them had put the marriage on the agenda so quickly, which was a little inconsistent with her ideas, and immediately objected.

"Ah, Xiaoni, aren't we engaged? Why, you say you don't want to get married? Zhang Yang asked a little puzzled.

"Engagement is engagement, marriage is marriage, this is not just a word difference, anyway, Zhang Yang, let me tell you, I haven't wanted to marry you so soon. You think, I don't know your parents very well? You said that your family has no extra house, let's get married and live with them, don't you first get familiar with your temperament, after getting married, you are living under one roof, maybe there will be some contradictions. Pan Xiaoni expressed one of her concerns.

Zhang Yang also felt a little reasonable when he heard Pan Xiaoni say this, but he still wanted to marry Pan Xiaoni as much as possible, so as to fix his relationship with Pan Xiaoni, so he persuaded again: "Xiaoni, you don't have to worry about this at all, my parents are teachers, they get along very well, and they won't have any conflicts with you." ”

"That's not necessarily, Zhang Yang, look around, but anyone who is married, as long as they live together, how good is the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law? This is not a question of who has a good character, but that people are like hedgehogs in winter, as long as they are close, they will inevitably pierce each other. Pan Xiaoni was not persuaded by him, but instead cited the example of the people around her.

Not to mention, now this mother-in-law relationship is really like this, in the past, in feudal society, Chinese put filial piety first, in the family, the status of the old woman is very high, the daughter-in-law is generally a submissive role, at that time there is a little contradiction between the daughter-in-law and the old woman, and it will not break out fiercely.

Nowadays, the feudal religion has been abolished, the status of the old woman has plummeted, from the original role of the oppressor to the angry, the daughters-in-law have also become hard in the family because they have their own jobs and independent economic resources, and even one is stronger than the other, and few are bullied by the old woman to live, so that the contradiction between the old woman and the daughter-in-law in the family is highlighted.

I don't say this to say that I hope that the daughters-in-law will be oppressed by the old woman, but that it is true that with the development of society, the natural enemies of the old woman and the daughter-in-law are becoming more and more unsuitable to live under one roof, and it is an inevitable trend for the family to develop on a smaller scale. Conflicts between members of a family of three are definitely less likely to break out than in the family model of three generations.