You must know that this time Li Cheng and the gifts they brought have not been distributed, he has already thought about what to buy for the children next time, and also asked Zhou Xiaojun to count, such a situation is really rare even in the orphanage. 『』

And before, even if it happened, there were not a few times when it would really be cashed on time.

And Li Cheng's promise is different, Zhou Xiaojun now believes and trusts Li Cheng very much, in Zhou Xiaojun's opinion, as long as Li Cheng's brother says it, it can definitely be fulfilled, because Li Cheng's brother will not deceive people, Li Cheng's brother will not say that he will not do it, Li Cheng's brother is different from other people.

"Of course, all the children, including the older ones, can also have the gifts they want, can you go and ask them?" Li Cheng asked Zhou Xiaojun very seriously.

Because Li Cheng also saw that there were several older children in the orphanage, and these children looked very precocious because they were a little older than ordinary children.

Li Cheng knows that in fact, such children are the ones who need the most attention, and they are actually more sensitive than younger children.

But Li Cheng also knew that this kind of child may not be very gregarious in the orphanage, after all, there are not many children of this age in it, and they probably have nothing to say to the children.

That's why Li Cheng asked Zhou Xiaojun if he could ask those big children, he was afraid that those big children would disdain to talk to children like Zhou Xiaojun, and he was afraid that they would bully Zhou Xiaojun.

However, Zhou Xiaojun's answer made Li Cheng feel relieved, and Zhou Xiaojun patted his chest directly and said, "Don't worry, Brother Li Cheng, wrap it up on me!" Those big brothers looked fierce, but they were actually very good to us, I can tell them. ”

"Okay, you're good, by the way, if someone in the orphanage bullies you, you remember, no matter who the person who bullied you is, you must not be bullied by others in vain, if you can't beat them, then wait for the opportunity to act, in short, don't be pinched as a soft persimmon! Of course, in the case that others are not bullying you, you can't take the initiative to cause trouble, usually have to help more children younger than you, remember? Li Cheng instructed with some unease.

Some people may have something to say about Li Cheng's advice, didn't they say that these children are very pitiful and need love? Now start telling Zhou Xiaojun that he must return it when he is bullied? Why don't you let Zhou Xiaojun endure it? Maybe the person who bullied him was also a poor child?

If someone really asks Li Cheng that, then Li Cheng's answer is also very simple, that is, in front of people like himself, these children are equal, and they should help them, they are no different from those children outside, but in the relationship between these children, their status is also equal, this is pitiful, that is pitiful, everyone is an orphan without parents, and they are gathered here and in the orphanage to live.

Since they are all the same people, there is no one more pitiful than the other, and there is no need for anyone to be angry with anyone in vain!

These children are all equal, and if any of them wants to be a bully and someone wants to bully other children, is it because he is pitiful that he is allowed to do it? Let other children be bullied by him? Let him be a little bully in the orphanage?

If care is such a connivance, then those children who are little bullies in the orphanage, when they go out and enter the society, will think about being the boss!

So this kind of practice is not called love, but connivance, and the result of such connivance is to harm this child who wants to be a little bully

In the future, if this child becomes bad because of a self-righteous connivance, who is to blame?

And the world is cold, the word unpredictable is not only applicable to the outside society, but also in the small place of the orphanage, sometimes, maybe you look at the cute and poor child, and turn your head into a little devil that people can't think about or accept, these are all possible.

After all, their experiences are so unfortunate and complicated, so even children can become bad and double-faced because of those experiences.

So Li Cheng has always told Zhou Xiaojun one thing, that is, when Zhou Xiaojun faces other strong or bullied, don't back down, don't give the bad guys a chance, otherwise, if you back down this time, then he will bully you next time.

On the other hand, if you don't let it, and you firmly defend what belongs to you and your dignity, then the bad guys will also be afraid of you.

Li Cheng really doesn't want Zhou Xiaojun to be bullied by other people anymore, and Li Cheng doesn't want to see Zhou Xiaojun dare not fight back when he is bullied, or he doesn't know how to fight back, Li Cheng hopes that Zhou Xiaojun will be a boy who knows how to defend his dignity!

Of course, Li Cheng will not let Zhou Xiaojun blindly resist, but also to see what kind of person is the person who bullied him when he resists, if he is not an opponent at first glance, or if there are many people on the other side, then find a way, put up with this breath for the time being, and then find a way to clean them up later.

In short, whether it was resisting at the time, or coming back to clean them up, in short, no matter what, let those people know that they are not easy to bully.

And Zhou Xiaojun nodded very seriously in the face of Li Cheng's advice and said, "Brother Li Cheng, don't worry, I won't let anyone bully my own again!" And I'm going to protect my little ones who are younger than me! ”

"Good! If you have such a mind, it proves that you are a little man! Li Cheng touched his head very relieved and said, but Li Cheng felt that there was still a problem and it was necessary to instruct Zhou Xiaojun, "Xiaojun, my brother tells you not to endure the bullying of others in vain, but you also have to remember that when others don't provoke us, we can't take the initiative to cause trouble, understand?" ”

"I understand, I know how uncomfortable it is to be bullied, so I won't bully others!" Zhou Xiaojun looked at Li Cheng very seriously and firmly and said.

"Good! I'm really glad you can be so sensible! Li Cheng nodded with satisfaction and said.

"Yes!" Zhou Xiaojun was also very happy to make Brother Li Cheng feel happy for himself, and he said with a smile: "Brother Li Cheng will work for you when I grow up in the future?" I'll be sure to help you when the time comes! ”

Zhou Xiaojun didn't think of anything else in his heart when he said this, and Li Cheng was a little stunned by Zhou Xiaojun's unintentional words, because he suddenly felt that maybe his behavior of helping Zhou Xiaojun and not wanting anything in return actually made Zhou Xiaojun have the idea of repaying himself?

If this is really the case, then it will not work, Li Cheng knows very clearly that whether he is helping Zhou Xiaojun or coming to the orphanage today to give gifts to everyone, it is because this is the way to follow the most true thoughts in his heart, as long as he encounters such a thing, then what he thinks in his heart must be to help.

But this kind of help definitely doesn't have any self-interested thoughts in it, and there is nothing to use as a reason to let the people who have been helped by themselves, such as Zhou Xiaojun, repay their ideas in the future.

And Li Cheng also deeply hopes that Zhou Xiaojun will not have such thoughts, because Li Cheng feels that everyone has the freedom to pursue their own ideals, this freedom is not only in behavior, but also in thought, and if Zhou Xiaojun began to think about how to repay himself at a young age, then how could he have the heart to think about his life and what he wanted to do the most?

If there is no so-called "benefactor" of himself, then what Zhou Xiaojun has to do is definitely to find a way to realize his ideals.

Li Cheng didn't want Zhou Xiaojun to put repaying himself first, so he looked at Zhou Xiaojun very seriously and solemnly and said, "Xiaojun, how can you have such an idea?" ”

"Huh?" In the face of Li Cheng's serious question, Zhou Xiaojun really didn't react for a while, but after being stunned for a moment, Zhou Xiaojun understood what Li Cheng wanted to ask, and he also said seriously: "It was the teacher who sued us, and the teacher told us, let us remember those who helped us, and remember to be grateful to them!" You are the person I am grateful for, so I will repay you in the future! ”

Looking at Zhou Xiaojun's serious appearance, Li Cheng was really a little crying and laughing!

If you tell Zhou Xiaojun that what their teacher said is not right, it will not work, because what people say is right, you should remember to be grateful!

But when Li Cheng faced Zhou Xiaojun, no matter what he thought, he would think from Zhou Xiaojun's point of view, so Li Cheng just didn't want Zhou Xiaojun to put the things he was grateful for in the first place, and forget what he really wanted to do.

After thinking about how to explain what he meant to Zhou Xiaojun, Li Cheng said slowly: "Xiaojun, I'm not saying that what your teacher said is wrong, what your teacher said is very right, and people do remember to be grateful, but I also hope that you don't forget that you are a ** person, you are fully qualified and capable of having an ideal of your own." ”

And between this ideal and gratitude, I hope you will choose your ideal! I don't want you to be selfish, but I want you to know that I help you, not for your gratitude, in the case that I don't have to need your help in any predicament, you can choose the ideal first. ”