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"Xuan'er, I heard Mama Li say, you have set a class schedule for yourself, and you will arrange the time every day tightly?"

The county lord of Anping asked cautiously, afraid that Du Zhixuan would think that the reason why she gave those two grandmothers was just to better control her, so in Du Zhixuan's puzzled eyes, she explained: "Don't complain about Mama Li, I specially instructed her before to let her report to me regularly about the situation next to you, so as not to have a second woman who will rely on her identity to pinch your maid-in-law." ”

Of course, the most important thing is to beware of the calculations and framing of Du Zixuan by the old lady of Yongcheng Houfu and others. It was not convenient for the county lord of Anping to say this, but Du Zhixuan immediately understood. Then he tugged at the sleeve of the county lord of Anping and shook it, his eyebrows and eyes were crooked, and he said with a light smile: "Grandma, I understand, you don't have to worry." ”

For Du Zhixuan, having a grandmother by her side regularly reports her situation to the county lord of Anping and other elders, and it does not make her feel that her life is under the noses of others, like an abacus bead, moving as others want to move, without the slightest freedom in life. On the contrary, I realized the strong love and care of the elders for the younger generations, as well as the concern and love that even if I fly far away and get old, I still don't feel at ease and can't carry it in my pocket.

This is probably the so-called situation that no matter how old you are, in the eyes of your parents, you are still the coquettish and well-behaved child back then, and they need to be on guard at all times, and they can't put their minds at ease.

This kind of care and love is something that Du Zhixuan has not enjoyed in modern times.

It's not that Du Zhixuan is an orphan, but although she has parents and elders, she has grown up worry-free from childhood to adulthood, but she is particularly empty mentally and psychologically - obviously she has worked hard for a long time, just to become the object of her parents to show off to others, but her parents still maintain an indifferent attitude.

No matter how much success their children have achieved, whether they have become an enviable successful person or an ordinary person who has been doing nothing, there is no difference between them, and sometimes, it is really easy to discourage a person's hard work and enterprising spirit.

The only thing to be thankful for is that Du Zhixuan has a belief in never admitting defeat in her heart, otherwise, how could she climb from an ordinary employee to the position of assistant to the chairman in just ten years without any background?

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"In the past, I never thought that piano, chess, books, paintings, female celebrities and housekeepers were worth paying attention to. Even if I go to a banquet every time, I don't know what people are talking about, I can't talk, and I can't make a few handkerchiefs, it doesn't matter. ”

"Because I have cousins and sisters who really care about and take care of me, I don't need to further expand my network and make friends with people who are higher than me. Ever since the mammas came, I finally realized my mistake. ”

"Now, I am not married, and I can still enjoy the careful care of my grandmother and other elders and relatives, and I don't have to worry about the things in the whole house, just be happy and live happily every day. However, the Queen Mother has been married, and after I get married, I will be in charge of the entire Wuhou Palace. ”

"If you don't know how to be a housekeeper and use people, then you can only rely on the help of the grandmothers next to you. It's just that people's hearts are unpredictable, and no one is sure that in the first few years, the grandmothers can help me with their hearts, but after time goes by and no one restrains me, will they join forces with their subordinates to deceive me? ”

"What's more, I can't devote all my time and energy to taking care of things, otherwise, what use will those grandmothers and housekeepers have? Men can be in and out of the picture, but women, especially those of us who are in the inner house, no matter how talented they are, no matter how much scheming and scheming, they will not be able to fight their own way in the officialdom. ”

That kind of life may be suitable for characters such as the old fox who is really scheming, but it is not suitable for Du Zhixuan, who has not much scheming before and after the crossing, and only knows how to rely on his own ability to do things with his heart, and because of the living environment he is in, he has been educated since he was a child, and he has only learned a superficial way of dealing with the world.

The most important thing for people is to be self-aware.

"In this life, it is so long that it is impossible to spend all your time and energy on your husband and children. Then, you need to have your own hobbies, or skills. In this way, in your free time, you have a topic to talk about with other people. Whether it's piano, chess, calligraphy, painting, and female celebrity, being proficient in one or two of them, or having a rough dabble in each of them, is better than not knowing anything like I used to, not even understanding what others are saying, and not being able to make a handkerchief that I recognize. ”

"It's a pity that I wasted too much time before, otherwise, now, I would have been proficient in one or two. So, while I was still married, I wanted to make the most of all my time and learn as much as I could. Over time, I think it won't be long before I can easily talk to those noble ladies and make a friend or two. ”

At every party, everyone sings, dances, and can speak, but they don't know anything, so they can only sit silently and look at their friends and colleagues who emit a scorching light like a small sun, attracting everyone's attention, admiration and admiration.

Every now and then, Du Zhixuan secretly hated herself more than once for not trying to learn a skill.

Now, when I travel to this dynasty, whether it is piano, chess, calligraphy, painting and female celebrity, there are special grandmothers to teach, and I don't have to worry about my food, clothing, housing and transportation, let alone worry about whether I will lose my job one day, and I will go home to gnaw at my old book happily, how can she give up such a great opportunity to increase her knowledge and skills?

Du Zhixuan, who talks eloquently, is so confident and flying, and she no longer has the extreme pride and arrogance that she used to hide her inferiority complex.

Although even the county lord of Anping himself doesn't know why Du Zhixuan has such a complicated relationship. And, with Du Zhixuan's background, there should be no such thoughts and thoughts at all, but now these are in the past.

The county lord of Anping couldn't help but smile and squinted, gently touched Du Zhixuan's head, and a touch of relief and pride appeared on his face: "Xuan'er, it's good that you can think like this." ”

"Actually, even though we are women in the house, there are not many things that can be done. Otherwise, you let the men fight outside, and when they come back, they have to take care of the affairs of the entire mansion by themselves, and you see if they can be promoted and raised smoothly. ”

"Grandma, this is 'the male protagonist outside, the female protagonist inside', the so-called glory, wealth and bright future, half of the man, and half of the woman." Du Zhixuan said jokingly, but she was very satisfied that her idea was approved by the county lord of Anping.

"But I don't want you to focus all your energy on this and forget to pay attention to your body. After all, this body is the most important, and everything else is something outside the body. The county lord of Anping thought about it and continued to persuade.

Du Zhixuan cautiously promised: "Grandma, don't worry, I will never do that kind of thing to put the cart before the horse." "Having a good body is not only a prerequisite for doing more things and achieving greater development, but also a prerequisite for enjoying more lively scenes.

I really want to see if after she is seventy or eighty, is she, the person who was framed by Qian Shiya and others, live more leisurely, or after she comes back from rebirth, she desperately tries her best to calculate Du Zhixuan, and Qian Shiya, who pries Du Zhixuan's corner, lives better.

"That's good." The county lord of Anping nodded, what should be said, she has already said it, then, it is time to see Du Zhixuan's perseverance. If Du Zhixuan only "fished for three days and dried the net for two days", the county lord of Anping would take back his expectations and hopes for Du Zhixuan. If Du Zhixuan really persists for a long time, the county lord of Anping will put more hope on Du Zhixuan. Recommend the end of the couple's book "The Happy Life of the Landlord's Mother" The children's shoes you like can be moved to the collection, the link is below, and you can reach it by poking it 'A sentence introduction: In fact, this is a girl who holds the golden thigh of the "plane trader" After being reborn, she became a happy life of the landlord's wife.