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The Wang family and the Xie family are the families that are tied for the first place in the family records, but they do not completely control the entire situation.

The more you are in a high position, the more cautious you must be.

Because when you fall, the damage is heavy.

This is the first lesson that Uncle Xie has memorized since he was a child, adhering to the teachings of his great-grandfather.

At that time, his great-grandfather had already lost his tooth and asked him with a smile, "Do you say that it is because of the tooth or the tongue"

"Of course it's because of the teeth," the young Uncle Xie replied with a wink.

"Why?" said the great-grandfather, who pleaded for knowledge.

Uncle Xie said proudly, "Because of the hard teeth, you can chew things, eat meat, and gnaw bones, but your tongue can't do anything." ”

The great-grandfather asked with a distressed expression, "Then why doesn't the old man have a few teeth left, but his tongue is still there?"

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Uncle Xie couldn't answer.

Later, he learned that this was the first lesson of the Xie family's ancestors.

It is to let children know from an early age that hard things are the first to break, and the wood shows in the forest and the wind destroys it.

In popular folk parlance, it is: people are afraid of being famous, pigs are afraid of being strong.

In order to let the Xie family's glory continue forever, the sect leader of the Xie family must be very low-key, because once the sect master makes a mistake, he will lose the status and glory of the entire family.

It is not the most talented person who is the suzerain, but usually the one who can best grasp the situation, the most tolerant, and the most capable of being the suzerain with the muddy son-in-law.

Uncle Xie's second class was to learn water.

People go to higher places, and water flows to lower places.

Uncle Xie knows this sentence as a babbling child.

But his great-grandfather taught him how to make a big pit that collects water.

The bluestone slabs that can be seen by the light cannot be retained.

In the mud, you can store water, but you can't scoop it out.

Only a depression holds the water.

Why

You can't hold water without a stomach.

There is as much water as there is in the belly.

In this way, the Xie family used simple and easy-to-understand examples, and the elders passed on these principles of establishing a life and preserving the clan from generation to generation.

For a family to become a family, and it has been ranked high in the family for many years, it must be the quasi-rudder that the head of the family can handle, and there are excellent children of the family one after another.

Uncle Xie and the mud are good hands, the children of the family within the Xie family, the internal branches of the Xie family, between the Xie family and other families, and between the families represented by the Xie family and the upstarts, he can make the mud and shine beautifully.

After Yuan Xu ascended the throne, he once issued an edict to evaluate Uncle Xie like this, "Calm and serious, with a good mind." ”

No one thinks it's inappropriate.

When Uncle Xie saw Yuan Ming speak, he immediately praised the two little ladies for arguing well.

This word "debate" is used very well.

What started as a conflict has now turned into a debate.

Conflicts cannot be calmed down, and after a conflict, everyone will fiercely defend their own positions and opinions.

The debate is a back-and-forth argument, and after the argument, everyone can still get along with each other as they want, and it is more likely that they will change their own positions and opinions.

Uncle Xie said this, on the great Cheng dù, it alleviated Yu Shuisheng's embarrassment, and also turned the-for-tat confrontation between Lin Leshuang and Yu Shuisheng into a debate.

It seems that there is no contradiction between the upstart and the family, and there is no contradiction between Mrs. Lin and Mrs. Yu, they are just discussing the rise and fall of the family on the family.

Yuan Ming glanced at Uncle Xie and did not make a sound.

Uncle Xie said again: "I didn't expect the little ladies in the boudoir to be so knowledgeable. It's really a shame to kill us Langjun, as the Langjun of the family, you must be vigilant, work hard, and take on the burden of making the family stronger. Now, the twenty-year revision of the family record does show that the family has changed dramatically. However, it also shows that as long as you are capable, why can't you change the family from a common person to a family?"

As soon as these words came out, the scene suddenly changed.

The gentlemen of the Xie family said one after another that they should remember what the head of the Xie family said, and they must ensure that the Xie family is still the first in the family record twenty years later.

And Lin Xian said excitedly: "These words simply go to my heart, our Lin family can't become a family, third brother, we will not separate in the future, go all out, let the Lin family get better and better, maybe we don't have to wait for our grandchildren to achieve this goal, we can watch the Lin family become a family with our own eyes." ”

Lin Shan looked at such a younger brother, and couldn't help but be infected.

Lin Xian's biggest problem is impulsiveness, but the biggest benefit is to protect his family, his words are obviously true, and he wants to be with his brother to guard the Lin family forever.

"Okay," Lin Xian looked at his younger brother and nodded.

The two brothers of the Lin family expressed their hearts to each other.

Yu Langjun said with a mocking face: "Lin Shilang, how high the sky is, how big the earth is, it seems that you think that with great strength, you can lift the Lin family from the nouveau riche to the ranks of the family." ”

This is said in a weird way.

The last time he exited at the gate of the eldest princess's mansion, he was taught a hard lesson by Lin Shilang, and his grandfather Yu Yan felt sorry for this grandson, stopped the emperor's car, and sued Lin Xian.

Yu Yan thought that Lin Jian was driven home by the emperor and thought about it behind closed doors, his son was still so arrogant, when would he sue if he didn't sue at this time

Unexpectedly, the emperor appreciated Lin Xian's strength, not only praised him as a strong man, but also reconciled the mud in it, so that Yu Langjun and Lin Shilang did not know each other and got along well.

Yu Langjun was angry every time he saw Lin Xian.

But afraid of Lin Xian's fist, he has always tried his best to restrain himself.

However, just now, the sharp-toothed eldest lady of the Lin family actually squeezed her cousin without saying anything, and lost face in front of the public.

He doesn't usually like this cousin very much, but once he goes out, they are all Yu family.

Yu Shuisheng was slapped in the face in public, and he was beaten so loudly that he was also gloomy.

After listening to Lin Xian's words, he couldn't help but sneer.

"This is strange, don't you know that the Yu family became a family, and it was the ancestors of the Yu family who sold grass shoes and socks and saved the family business, and then turned into a farming family.

Lin Xian was rarely articulate for a while, and Yu Langjun was so red that his face was red, he trembled with anger, patted his thigh and said, "Okay, you're very good." ”

Xie Xu listened to it on the side, and felt that the two people of the Yu family today did not look like they were guests, but as if they had come to have a special relationship with the Lin family brothers and sisters.

The battle of will between the gentlemen is not like the little ladies who just talk about it, and often things will get bigger and bigger in the end.

"Are the two of you talking about how to become a family, the king of Huaiyang said very much, the family also started from the grass, it must be the first to have money, and then there is good land, turn into a family of cultivation and study, and run a prestige in the hometown, and slowly become a big family, the prestige of the family is wide, and if the descendants are angry, they can also become a family after a hundred years, and now the family record is repaired once in 20 years, General Lin is still a minister in the court, maybe the repair after 20 years, the Lin family is already in the family record is not known."

Xie Xu's tongue bloomed with lotus flowers, and learned what Uncle Xie said, Uncle Xie and Third Master Xie listened to it on the side, and they both felt relieved and looked at each other.

"Twenty years later, if the Lin family can become a family, my head will be cut off and given to him as a night pot." Yu Langjun didn't intend to stop, and still spoke harshly.