Chapter 355: Psychiatrist
After all, who child living in an orphanage has not experienced the pain of losing his parents? Or the pain of being abandoned by your parents!
The pain of these children is much the same, no matter how many twists and turns there are in between, but the end result is just the same. 『』
After experiencing those similar tragedies, some children can still live a normal life and can get a happy feeling again, but there are some children who have a weaker inner capacity and have no way to regain their former cheerfulness and liveliness, and there is another reason, some children are still very young when they lose their parents or are abandoned by their parents, and they don't remember it at all.
So they don't feel pain in their hearts, at least until they are really sensible and understand a qiē, they shouldn't be too painful, because when they lose a qiē or don't know anything, it's the really most ignorant time in life, so they won't be too painful until they understand a qiē.
But what about the children who were sensible when they lost everything, who already knew what was going on, who understood what they had lost? They will realize the taste of pain as soon as they lose it.
And if this kind of child has a weaker mental capacity, then this kind of great pain in life will crush them, even if it will not cure them to death, but mentally and psychologically, it will indeed be a very violent blow to them, it will change their character, and it will make them become indifferent and become indifferent after the severe pain.
But in fact, such a change is not a good change for children, because behind such indifference and not caring about anything, there is their hidden and suppressed pain and sorrow!
Yes, even if one day they seem to be no longer miserable, but all feelings are replaced by indifference and indifference, it doesn't mean that they have really completely forgotten the things that have plunged their lives into a period of darkness, forgetting jì, this word is almost impossible for them.
Because of such a heart-wrenching thing, how could they forget it? Who can forget the parents who gave birth to themselves because of the passage of time?
Even children can't!
And the blow of the sudden loss of parents and parents, even for an adult, is estimated to be an unspeakable pain, an unforgettable sadness, and even some people will become very sensitive and fragile because of this.
Adults are still like this when they are facing such pain, let alone children who are just sensible and should have enjoyed the world's most selfless and purest love in the arms of their parents?
After facing and bearing such a blow, some children will inevitably have some psychological problems, and the root of these problems is those misfortunes!
In fact, when Lin Wanwan looked at these children, she sometimes wondered why there were so many misfortunes in this world? Could there have been some misfortunes that could have been avoided? It's just because of carelessness that such a catastrophe was caused.
Lin Wanwan really wants to tell those parents who already have children, for their own children, for the sake of their children, for the sake of their children, in order not to let the children be withdrawn and indifferent because of the loss of you, in order not to let the children live in orphanages, you must also take your life seriously, no matter what you are doing.
Not for anything else, just for the children!
"I have an idea, you can see if it works." Li Cheng said to Lin Wanwan and Wu Haotian.
This idea was the one that suddenly popped up in Li Cheng's mind just now, and Li Cheng himself now felt that this idea should be feasible, but he also wanted to discuss it with Lin Wanwan and Wu Haotian.
"Well, you say, let's discuss!" Lin Wanwan said immediately, and Wu Haotian also nodded and said, "Yes, let's say it quickly, don't hang our appetite!" ”
Although Li Cheng didn't directly say what his thoughts were about now, Lin Wanwan and Wu Haotian could guess that Li Cheng's thoughts should have something to do with those children who were not very gregarious and seemed to be withdrawn and indifferent.
Because Li Cheng's first sentence just now was to ask them if they had noticed those children, so it was also easy to guess.
And after guessing that it was related to those children, both Lin Wanwan and Wu Haotian felt that if Li Cheng wanted to help those children, as long as he said a way, as long as it was feasible, then he must support him.
After all, those children are really worrying to watch, in fact, not only Li Cheng and Lin Wanwan noticed them and felt deeply worried about them, Wu Haotian, a big and smug flower, actually had such thoughts, and when he noticed those children, he hated to take them away directly and send them to a warm home.
But no matter how impulsive Wu Haotian is, he also knows that there will not be a warm home in this world for no reason.
Especially for these children who have reached a certain age and have remembered the things that happened to them, it is even more difficult to find such a home, and they still look so melancholy, Wu Haotian feels that even if someone wants to adopt a child, he may not choose them.
After all, no matter how worrying and pitiful they are, those who come to adopt a child will want to choose a child who seems to be physically and mentally healthy, after all, if they adopt a child who already has some psychological shadows, it will be a very troublesome thing for them.
Maybe this child will have any problems in the future because of those shadows, so these children are really pitiful, because even if someone adopts a child, they may not choose them, and it is too difficult for them to have a home again.
And if you can really give them a home with parents and love, Wu Haotian thinks that maybe the shadow in the hearts of these children will slowly decrease, or even disappear, but who is willing to adopt them and be willing to use their love to influence them? After all, it's not that easy to do.
Wu Haotian's idea is not to condemn those who come to adopt children, but when facing these children who need a warm home the most, he directly skips them, in fact, think about it from another perspective, now Wu Haotian has all kinds of pity and heart-wrenching feelings for these children, but if he is asked to take the children home, let him take care of these children, and influence them, he really will not agree.
It's not that Wu Haotian will only say that he won't do it, but he knows his ability very well, and now he has a hard time taking care of himself, let alone finding a few such children!
And if he let the child follow him, Wu Haotian felt that it might be better to live in an orphanage.
And to be honest, Wu Haotian also thinks that if he adopts such a few children, then his life will be completely chaotic in the future, and he doesn't have to think about picking up girls or anything, and he can only be a child slave from now on.
To be honest, this is really not the life Wu Haotian wants.
In fact, it's not just Wu Haotian, if Li Cheng is asked to do this, Li Cheng will also consider it and weigh what kind of chain reactions and consequences this matter will bring.
It's the same for Lin Wanwan.
They all have important things to do for themselves now, and before these things are done, they must be busy, and in this state, they can't take care of the children, so let the children follow them, in fact, it is better to be in the orphanage, which is also what they think in their hearts.
So the way Li Cheng thought of it was not to bring those children home or anything like that, but another way to make the children get out of those shadows faster.
"I want to hire a professional psychologist for these children, and I think that in the orphanage, psychologist is really a very necessary profession!" Li Cheng said very seriously.
Since it is impossible to give children a warm home, let a good psychiatrist complete the task of expelling the psychological shadow of children.
"Hey! I think it's okay, this method is good! There are a lot of good psychiatrists now, but they just need money, but it doesn't matter, I'll take care of the matter of hiring a psychiatrist, you don't care, I have to do something for these children. Wu Haotian immediately said very happily after listening to Li Cheng's one.
"No, I'll just come, besides, since I thought of it, I have to do it, if you want to help these children more, then you can do something else!" Li Cheng rejected Wu Haotian's idea.
In fact, although Li Cheng's assets have not yet reached the level of being rich, he can at least be called a "rich man", not much different from Wu Haotian, so he can still afford to ask a few psychiatrists for money, and there is no need to ask Wu Haotian to ask for it.
It's not that Li Cheng discouraged Wu Haotian's enthusiasm and didn't let Wu Haotian help, Wu Haotian is such a big head, if he is willing to help the children all the time, there is another way, Li Cheng is also willing to encourage him to help the children all the time, but Li Cheng feels that he can come to ask a psychiatrist, and it is not a difficult matter.
If it is really a difficult thing to do, then maybe Wu Haotian, the eldest young master, is really needed, but since it is something that can be done with money, then Li Cheng has no problem coming by himself