"I think I'm getting really fast, I didn't even think of it!"

Seeing the fat son happily cheering and running in front with the clown, Chen Xin said with a little emotion.

"In the past, I wasn't the kind of person who was particularly jumpy and fun-loving, but like many girls, I liked shopping and fashion. It was two or three years ago, anyway, at that time, I definitely didn't think about getting married early, let alone having children early, and becoming a full-time wife. ”

really didn't expect this, Chen Xin at least didn't expect that she would become a full-time wife so early, she didn't expect that her life seemed to revolve around the family.

"It's better to change than to plan, and some things just happen. Besides, I was young and ignorant at that time, but when these things happened, I didn't just adapt and get used to it. ”

Zhou Quan said very insincerely, looking like a person who had come over.

"At first, I didn't necessarily get used to it, but I just got used to it gradually. I was a bit at a loss at first, although I wasn't particularly ambitious before, but I didn't think about just taking care of the kids at home. I wasn't really ready to be a mother at first, but I didn't know how quickly I got used to this kid. As for some of the previous small ideals, they have long been forgotten. ”

Chen Xin is telling the truth, she may have had some ideas and ideals before, but after getting married and having children, her thoughts have completely changed. Now she is used to life on Evil Jiao Island, and now she is used to being family-centered.

"It's the same with me, when I first knew that I had a baby, I was excited, but soon I was confused and stressed. I think I may have adapted to being a fiancé and husband, but I really didn't adapt to being a father, and I was very stressed and overwhelmed. But when the day came, I found that I seemed to be thinking too much. ”

Zhou Quan is also sharing his mental journey with Chen Xin, and the two of them have talked a lot and talked about too many topics; But it seems that such a formal talk about my 'growth' has not yet been.

But there's nothing to be embarrassed about. There's nothing that can't be said, at least Zhou Quan and Chen Xin are now willing to say some of their thoughts, some confusion and so on.

"I'm the same way, I'm not even ready to be someone else's wife. There have been a lot of imaginations before. But I found that there was a slight difference between reality and my imagination. I can even say that if it weren't for the fact that I was pregnant, it would have been difficult for me to make up my mind to marry you in a short period of time. ”

Chen Xin said with a smile, she is not afraid to tell the truth now; In fact, of course, Zhou Quan also knew such a little thing, but Chen Xin said it so bluntly. It really hurt Zhou Quan a little.

"Sometimes it's really because you have children that you discover your potential, because these little ones find that they have changed a lot unconsciously. Before I had children, I never felt that I was a particularly patient and attentive person, but after having children, I really became a lot more patient. ”

Thoughtful is telling the truth, and the absolute truth is the big truth; After having a child, Zhou Quan really found that some of his potential was tapped. For Zhou Quan, because of the birth and growth of his baby son, he discovered some potential that he had not noticed before.

After having a child, thoughtful patience, endurance, or carefulness have great potential; There's a lot to prove this. Because after having a child, Zhou Quan did adapt to his new identity, and when facing his child, he naturally began to show the qualities that a qualified father should have.

"I may have felt a little aggrieved before, I just graduated from college, I should have enjoyed a wonderful life, my life should be colorful. But now it's good, I'm married, and I'm going to stay on Evil Jiao Island now as a stay-at-home mom. Many of my classmates thought I was not worth it and felt that I had lost too much. ”

Chen Xin and Zhou Quan held hands. The two of them were walking and playing games with their son; For these current lives, in fact, they are very satisfied. Maybe I didn't think that I would become what I am now, but naturally because of my family, I changed a little, and this thing is also a normal thing. Even if they hadn't thought of it before.

Taking care of children is actually the most challenging thing, because these little guys are unreasonable many times, because if you want to take care of these little guys, you need to be careful and patient enough, which is a quality that ordinary people may not be able to have, because such a character is really a test of people.

Taking care of a child is quite a test in itself. It takes a lot of patience; But for parents, not only taking care of their children requires enough patience, but also educating their children requires even more patience.

Zhou Quan and Chen Xin have a lot of say in this matter, because their baby son is really able to toss and save zài, and wanting to educate this kid really makes Zhou Quan and Chen Xin have a headache when they are happy.

So Zhou Quan and Chen Xin also discovered their potential in a great way, qualities that they had not realized at all before.

"Daddy, Mango!"

The fat son ran back happily with the clown, and the snack seller pointed to a mango tree by the side of the road and said expectantly; The little guy now also knows about mangoes, he knows what kind of mangoes are delicious and what kind of mangoes are ripe.

"I'll pick mangoes, and you'll have to eat bananas later. Be careful that your little belly is full, you sue me, how much more fruit can you eat? ”

Zhou Quan kissed his baby son's fleshy little face, he smiled and teased the little guy; No way, although this kid can toss, but this kid is indeed a pistachio.

"I eat two mangoes, and I have to eat a banana."

The little guy counted with his little hand, two mangoes and a banana, this thing is really nothing, the little guy is really quite edible, especially this delicious fruit is even more popular with him.

Since the baby son has said so, then Zhou Quan naturally obeys the meaning of the baby son; Some of these fruit trees are the 'natives' of Evil Jiao Island itself, but in fact, more of them are carefully planted and transplanted. Although Zhou Quan does not plan to use Evil Jiao Island as an orchard, it does produce a lot of fruits.

The climate of Grand Abaco Island on this side of Evil Jiao Island is mild and pleasant, and the environment of the tropical monsoon climate also makes the fruit industry here relatively large. A large part of the fruits provided to tourists are self-produced and sold, and even tourists can sometimes pick their own fruits.

There is no need to be thoughtful or Chen Xin to help the big dragon children peel the peel, the little guy is still quite level; As an excellent snack item. If you really need help with eating, then you must be unqualified.

"Yang Guang is also going to be a father, you know at this time, right? Look at it, among our friends, Yang Guang has children relatively early. But we. The eldest son is already alive and kicking, and the second child is also a few months old. We're really ahead of those friends, and we're definitely kids the most. ”

Taking the mango handed over by Zhou Quan, Chen Xin smiled while tasting the mango; In the past, she may have been a little apprehensive about being a good mother, but now she is confident in taking care of her children.

"That kid really didn't tell me. This guy is hiding such good news from me! I'll call him when I go back later, congratulations, and then crusade again. He didn't do this properly, and he didn't share such good news with me. By the way, tease him again, I've always said that I'm a daddy, and now he's about to ask me for advice. ”

This is indeed good news, Zhou Quan naturally hopes that his friends will be happy, of course he also knows that Yang Guang will definitely be quite happy and happy after having a child.

This is definitely good news, after having children, it is a more perfect and complete life, life, this is a comprehensive cognition; It is only after having children that we can experience more happiness.

"It's not Yang Guang who said it. It was Gianna who called me. She and Yang Guang didn't plan to have a child so early, they actually planned to have a child when their career was better. They are more ambitious than we are, and they may not be ready to be parents. ”

Chen Xin said with certainty that she was very clear about some things about Yang Guang and Gianna; Yang Guang is a thoughtful buddy, and Chen Xin and Gianna's words are also slowly becoming familiar because of these relationships, and now this is also the type of good girlfriends, and there are many things that they often communicate.

"Kid, that's hard to say. Although there are some ways to control zhì, I can't tell when these little guys will come. ”

Zhou Quan said with certainty, because he and Chen Xin's second child was a little accidental. At least they themselves didn't have such early plans to have a second child. However, some things are just 'out of your control'.

"Actually, it is normal for Gianna and Yang Guang to have children now, they have been together for several years, and they are both very ambitious. But it's time to start a family. It's just that I think the two of them have a bit of a headache now, although they have been together for several years, but sometimes there are still some cultural conflicts, and there are some differences in living habits, not to mention that after pregnancy, there are actually some conflicts. ”

What Chen Xin said is even more true. Different cultural backgrounds and different customs and habits, in fact, this will cause some conflicts in such transnational and cross-racial love.

Although Yang Guang and Gianna have been together for several years, they have long been accustomed to and accepted some of each other's living habits, but some things can be certain. That is, some contradictions are actually existing, and after Gianna is pregnant, there will definitely be some contradictions and conflicts, and even this is quite intense.

"Yang Guang is okay, but Yang Guang's parents and Gianna are a bit of a conflict now. Yang Guang's parents came according to their habits, but Gianna followed some American habits. Gianna has a bit of a headache now, she feels that she is not so expensive now, and she is not used to living with Yang Guang's parents. ”

What Chen Xin said made Zhou Quan laugh, this matter is really nothing at all; Don't say that Yang Guang and Gianna are in a transnational relationship, this is a relationship with different cultural backgrounds, even if they are in love with the same cultural background, this will be influenced by some families from both sides.

If it is in the United States, in Europe and the United States, there may be some sayings that love is a matter for two people, and it has little to do with their families. But from the cultural background of the East, they know that falling in love and getting married is not just a matter of two people, it is also a matter of two families.

"I think both of them actually know these things, but now that they have children, they have a lot of things to face right now. After having children, they have to deal with these things as well. ”

Chen Xin now completely put on a posture of a passer-over and said, she seems to have a lot of say in this matter; However, she also felt that this matter was actually not very difficult, because Yang Guang and Gianna had been together for several years after all, and their relationship was quite good, and they started from scratch together.

"That's their business, they figure it out themselves. In fact, Yang Guang will also be influenced by Gianna to some extent, and Gianna will definitely adapt to some Chinese culture. It's not a problem for them, and we're going to get ready to give gifts and be groomsmen and bridesmaids. When the time comes, I will ask my baby son for an errand, he will be a flower girl or press the bed, this big red envelope, small gifts must not be missing. ”

Thoughtful and full of anticipation, it looks like the good buddy's lifelong event will be implemented soon, which is definitely a good thing. Zhou Quan felt that as an iron buddy, he definitely needed to prepare something.

Chen Xin nodded in agreement, if Yang Guang and Gianna got married, she naturally believed that this matter would require the whole family to go out; What is not said in this matter, of course, it is necessary for the whole family to work and contribute to this matter, and of course this matter also needs to be involved.

Take the children for a walk, chat, talk about the shortcomings of parents, and talk about the growth of their precious son. These things are actually the main topics in the chat between Zhou Quan and Chen Xin now, and their topic is the shortcomings of parents; It's all old husbands and wives, where are there so many sweet love words.

They have been married for a few years, and now it is the most normal to live at home in a down-to-earth manner, which is the most normal state of life. (To be continued.) )