Chapter 172: Mindfulness

"But what?" Ling Weijue felt that there was nothing to clean up, so she pulled Tang Xuan out, turned off the lights and closed the door, returned to her room, asked her to sit down, and asked while making tea: "Do you think that although Qi Fan is good, he is not worthy of his brother after all?" ”

"It's not a question of worthiness or not!" Tang Xuan shook her head and said: "Qi Fan's family conditions are actually quite good, there is a small business at home, it is a relatively famous clothing company in the magic capital, Qi Fan's own conditions are also very good, and the city government is not deep, especially she is still the kind of person who is optimistic and positive about the future, and is the kind of person who cherishes and cares more about family and marriage, once such a person gets married, he will definitely put his family first." Age aside, I really think she and my brother are still very compatible, at least much more suitable than the ones my aunt and sister looked for before! ”

"But what?" Ling Weijue handed her a cup of tea, which he could see and didn't need her to say, what he wanted to hear was the reason why she hesitated and felt unsafe.

"Before the Chinese New Year, my mother and my brother-in-law's family had a falling out, and my mother even said that she wanted to cut off the relationship." Tang Xuan thought about it, and still picked up the key points about the things between her brother-in-law Wang Jin's family, especially her aunt Ruan Xianghan, and said: "Ruan Xianghan and my mother used to be very good friends, but now they are like this, I sometimes can't help but think that if Ruan Xianghan didn't know my mother or didn't have such a good relationship before marrying my brother-in-law, would there be no future." ”

"Are you worried that after Qi Fan and Tang Xiang have results, their identities will change, their mentality will change, and their relationship with you will also change?" Ling Weijue looked at Tang Xuan, he really thought it was good for Tang Xuan to think so, most girls thought it was a good thing to turn their good friends into their sisters-in-law, but they didn't see what might happen after the change of people's identities.

"There is such a worry!" Tang Xuan nodded and said, "Qi Fan, I still have confidence." But people change, and I'm really afraid that one day she will become a hideous person like Ruan Xianghan...... Like the Ruan family, her parents are also the kind of people who tend to be inflammatory, and her younger brother is still the kind of idle person who doesn't do his job. If she and the second brother have a result, their family is very likely to be absorbed and become a drag on the second brother. Although she is now cold to her family, she is a soft-hearted person who values kinship. Something really happened to their family, and she couldn't ignore it. After managing more, maybe like my mother, she took the affairs of her mother's family as the top priority, and unconsciously turned her heart to her mother's family......"

"Anything else to worry about?" Ling Weijue touched Tang Xuan's head, why did he think that his girl treated his brother as a younger brother?

"I'm also worried that they started but didn't get results!" Tang Xuan smiled bitterly and said, "One is an elder brother and the other is a good friend, once there is something unpleasant, it is difficult to say trivial things." But in big things, no matter who is right or wrong, I will definitely choose to go to my brother. If that's the case, everyone really has to be friends! ”

"It's not unfounded that you have these worries, but don't you think your worries were a little earlier and a little more?" Ling Weijue smiled and said, "First of all, Tang Xiang and her may be slightly moved, but Tang Xiang is busy returning to the team. At that time, I didn't have time to make further contact with her, and I have been busy since then, and I don't necessarily have time to think about the relationship between men and women, even if I really can't forget the fate of the meeting in Pingshui. He'll think twice about it, too. Qi Fan didn't know Tang Xiang's identity, but Tang Xiang would definitely be able to guess Qi Fan's identity. My sister's good friend is about ten years younger than himself, even if these can't deter Tang Xiang, they will make him more cautious. ”

"Are you saying this as someone from the past?" Tang Xuan couldn't help but smile, to Ling Weijue. He is the younger sister of his comrade-in-arms who is more than ten years younger than him, and he must have thought about it again and again at that time, and then decided that he would like himself, and he would wait for him to graduate and grow up, hoping that he would give her a chance to pursue it when the time came.

"Yes!" Ling Weijue admitted calmly, and said: "I thought about pursuing you for a long time in my heart before I decided to tell you, for me, this is originally a very cautious matter, and it needs to be treated with caution, and the object is you, so you should be careful." ”

Tang Xuan gently stuck out her tongue, Ling Weijue smiled slightly, and said, "The second is Qi Fan." Qi Fan is not a vain person, I remember you said that you wanted to introduce her to a boyfriend, but she didn't even want to refuse, and said Qi Dafei's words. What does this mean, it shows that even if she doesn't have a faint inferiority complex deep in her heart, she is also a little afraid, she doesn't know Tang Xiang's identity, she may have feelings, but after knowing Tang Xiang's identity, she may suppress that budding emotion. Don't forget, you did her a great favor, the incident that his brother made was just a small phone call to the Lin family's mango to you, but for her, it was a big thing that affected and even changed the trajectory of her life. As long as you show a trace of disapproval, she may immediately break off the relationship with Tang Xiang. ”

"So, if my brother really showed his heart to Qi Fan, and Qi Fan really nodded and agreed to associate with him, it means that both of them are really moved and affectionate, and even affectionate!" Tang Xuan followed Ling Weijue's words.

"That's right! If you really get to that point, you don't need to stop it! Ling Weijue nodded and said: "Actually, in this matter, the first thing you need to correct is you, don't think that Qi Fan is your friend, and don't think about how Qi Fan's family is bad, you should think about it, after missing Qi Fan, will Tang Xiang meet a girl who makes him excited, if so, will that person be better than Qi Fan?" And is there necessarily less trouble behind that person than Qi Fan? ”

"You mean tell me not to say anything, not to interfere, and let them develop." Tang Xuan nodded clearly and said, "If my brother decides to pursue Qi Fan, it at least means that Qi Fan really makes him excited, and if Qi Fan knows his identity and agrees to her, it at least shows that Qi Fan has a very good feeling for his brother." As for whether they can go so far, it depends on their own, I am a sister, and then a good friend, and at that time they are all outsiders, so I shouldn't care about it. ”

"Yes!" Ling Weijue smiled slightly, and said: "If they start but there is no result, you will lose one of her friends at most, if they start and have results, what you need to do is to stay rational and calm when facing the sister-in-law who used to be a good friend, don't be extra biased towards her because she used to be your good friend, and don't find fault with her just because she has become your sister-in-law, just look at her with a normal heart." But if they haven't started yet, you stand up and say no, and whether they have results or not, you won't please them. ”

"Okay, I'll listen to you, just pretend that I don't know anything, and wait and see how it develops!" Tang Xuan nodded, she now had no choice but to watch quietly, but it seemed that there was no better way to ask whether to interfere or not.

"That's right!" (To be continued.) )

PS: Marriage is not a matter of two people, but feelings can only be a matter of two people, Qi Fan's family may have such and such a bad, but the flaws are not hidden, and she cannot be denied because of this, many things can only be taken step by step.

I don't know if there is anyone around you who chooses a spouse and asks for "a house and a car, and both parents are dead"? The sister of a former colleague of the lamp married such a man, her mother died early, and her father will not remarry for a pair of twin daughters. As a result, in order to marry this man, her sister lied that her parents were dead and that she had only one sister. How many years have the two been married, the lamp is not very clear, only know that the sister got married first, the sister's child is more than five years old, and the man still doesn't know that his father-in-law is still alive +_+......

What's more worth mentioning is that this man is not good, his character is really bad, his property is fair before marriage, and all his household after marriage is AA system, and he rarely buys anything for women...... What's even more disgusting is that he doesn't allow a woman's pregnancy to have a child, thinking that the child is a burden and raising a child is a loss, and even said that if you want a child, you will divorce and find another man to have a child+_+......

Actually, I'm quite wondering, what is such a man going to do? This notion of not wanting any burden is really scary, has she ever thought about what will happen to her when she is old in the future and this man thinks she is a burden?