"I can't figure out who I am, I can't figure out where I am! I can't figure out the earth-shaking changes that have taken place in my life. The pen ~ fun ~ pavilion www.biquge.info can't figure out that the original role relationship has undergone a huge change. This is the root of all tragedy. ”

"I see!" Miao Dangui sighed: "It turns out that not only Jiang Mingfei didn't clear it in his previous life, but even I did. Throughout my life, I have never left my son, daughter-in-law, or grandson, and I have injected too many expectations into Jiang Mingfei. I always thought she would change! ”

"That's right!" Jiang Muxue praised.

"You came up and treated Jiang Mingfei as if she were your own child, so reckless, it was a doomed failure. Because she's not your child! Never be your child! A daughter-in-law is not the same as a stranger, and a stranger may become your child, as long as it is a coincidence. But the daughter-in-law never. She is your son's other half, and her arrival has completely severed the intimacy and dependence between you and your son. You often wonder if she has spoken ill of you in front of her son, chewed her tongue in front of her son, and made him alienate you? To put it bluntly, this is actually an ambivalence generated by the idea of "fear and not accepting the growth of children". ”

"Don't deny the words of the deity, the deity has received your memory, and you can't deceive the deity. And you're not alone. Mothers often have an instinctive rejection in the face of their children's growth, on the one hand, they want their children to grow up, start a family, and gain a place in society. But, on the other hand, they don't want to! The growth of children brings them not only hope and joy, but also loss. Human beings are a species with complex feelings, and there is no way, this kind of feelings are so entangled. Yes, it is normal. But losing reason is abnormal, and it is also the beginning of tragedy and contradictions. ”

Miao Dangui wanted to refute at first, but after listening to the words in the back, he bowed his head again, what the adults said was right!

"And Jiang Mingfei thinks that if he has your son, he has everything that your son adds. What's even more ridiculous is that she counts you among your son's appendages. That's why there were all kinds of ridiculous acts later. ”

"The mistakes you and Jiang Mingfei made are the ones that most women will make at this time. It's just that many people gradually understand and improve. And some people can't figure it out in this life, and that life can only be tragic. ”

Miao Dangui sighed.

The words "advance and retreat to a degree, respect each other like guests" are repeated repeatedly.

The two of them walked some way further.

Jiang Muxue thought for a while, and then said: "Just have a degree of advance and retreat, and it is not enough to respect each other like guests." No one can forget that there is another key point between the two, the son and the husband. Two identities, one person. From this point, we can also see the importance of the key point of men. In fact, many times, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not handled well, and most of the source is still in that man. There are many contradictions that he can resolve, but he is lazy, he is upset, he is unreasonable, and he is unwilling. In this case, the results will only get worse. Of course, there are many incompetent people among them, who are all a mess themselves, and they can't handle this kind of interpersonal relationship that looks simple, but is actually the most complicated. ”

Miao Dangui sighed: "Yes, my son is not just a fool, an incompetent person!" ”

"What should we do in this situation?" Jiang Muxue asked.

How?

Miao Dangui shook her head, if she knew how, she would not have been so tragic in her previous life.

"There is a degree of advance and retreat, and respect each other like a guest. The two sides are at war, and they do not come to make it. ”

Jiang Muxue smiled, how could she say that it had become an art of war?

"What do you mean by your lordship, treating your son as a messenger?"

"That's right! Or more precisely, springboards, buffer zones, green zones, or, gray zones. ”

"Between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, there is a contradiction, and the most taboo is direct-for-tat. Sometimes, even if both parties are polite, are they really polite in their hearts? Are you really convinced? If it is really polite and convincing, it will not be-for-tat, and it will be argued on the basis of reason. This kind of direct confrontation is better to be polite, but if it is noisy, this is a rift that can never be repaired. ”

"What do you mean, do you have something to say?"

"Can you give an example, such as what kind of conflict or dispute?"

Jiang Muxue paused, and said seriously: "There are not a few categories of the Communist Party, monetary interests, children's education, and future pension...... What else is there besides these? ”

Miao Dangui thought about it, but he really didn't come up with anything else.

A few words short and pretty much everything.

"Let's talk about money, between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, never be directly involved. If there is anything to say, something to do, let the intermediary convey it. When the deity walked this way, he saw many strange phenomena, one of which was that the son's family gave his parents money for the festival or something, and often took it out of the pocket of the daughter-in-law. It's ridiculous that I need my son's help and have to pull it out of another woman's bag and look at her face. As a mother, the kind of grievance can be imagined! ”

"Yes, yes, yes! My lord! Indeed it is! Miao Dangui praised.

The two of them said so much, and before they knew it, the bridge was already in front of them.

Jiang Muxue searched her intestines and scraped her stomach, feeling that she had been "hollowed out", and she couldn't say anything else, so she only raised her hand, stroked Miao Dangui's forehead, and sent her blessings for the afterlife.

Miao Dangui left without worry, turned around, and disappeared.

Jiang Muxue stood stunned for a moment, and after a moment's time and space shifted, she returned to the Ghost King Palace.

"Little Cher! Hurry up and give the yin-yang mirror to the deity! ”

Unexpectedly, the Evil Ghost King stood at the door of the main hall to intercept him.

"King! I knocked and it didn't happen. Jiang Muxue put the yin and yang mirror with both hands.

The Demon King glanced at him, knocking?

You think there's a knock on the door!

got the yin-yang mirror, and the evil ghost king didn't bother to say much, and left directly.

After he entered the secret room, Jiang Muxue stood up straight and walked towards the desk.

The Law of the Human Pyramid is more complete than before, Jiang Muxue sighed and sat down, it seems that the Evil Ghost King is not only practicing hard during this time.

Writing books and speaking more seriously.

"Ah!!h

Just as Jiang Muxue flipped through the "Apocalypse of the Resentful Woman", a scream suddenly came from the secret room.

The voice was painful, as if it had been greatly hurt.

Jiang Muxue hurriedly ran to the door of the secret room, but the stone door was closed, and she couldn't get in at all.

There was only one shout, and after shouting twice, there was no response inside, and suddenly he slapped his brain and opened the imprint contact.

"King! What's wrong with you? ”

"King! Are you okay? ”

……

I said a few words, but there was no response.

ps: Keep today's recommended tickets first, and send red envelopes at three o'clock in the afternoon, not much, just a little lively,? (To be continued.) )