Ning Biyun took a sip of the tea on the table, the tea was a little hot, the tea was a little old, but she could drink it, the Ning family was picky, she didn't have this habit, she could eat any tea.

Ning Biyun himself had a few good feelings for Yuehua, and the two sat and gossiped, Ning Biyun found that she and Yuehua were quite angry, for example, neither of them liked to drink green tea like Longjing, they both liked fried yellow tea like Maojian, and both of them liked the special licorice apricot made in the northwest......

On the stage, it happened to be said that Cai Wenji was welcomed back by Cao Cao, married three times, and was bitter for a while, Ning Biyun said:

"Cai Wenji's appearance is rare and good, and it is rare to have an opportunity, when she was a teenager, she married the Hedong Wei family, her husband went to her husband's house, and she drove out, and at the age of twenty-three, she went to the Huns to be able to become a Yanshi, and she returned to China and married Dong Ci, gave birth to a son and a daughter, and her daughter entered the palace and became a princess, the first two marriages were not good, the third one was good, and the children were also promising, and the woman did her even if the marriage was not perfect, it was also considered a success."

"I don't think it's necessarily, she is in the Huns, wrote "Hu Ji Eighteen Beats", homesickness is there, and it doesn't necessarily mean how sad the days are, I heard that she remarried after returning to China, and her husband was sentenced to death, thanks to Wen Ji's intercession, she was able to avoid the death penalty, and when she returned to China, I don't think it would be much better to be a pro-life, the dramas we watched or the storytelling were all posterity, and only she knew the joys and sorrows inside." Yuehua thought for a while and said.

"Yes!"

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Ning Biyun picked up the tea and took a sip, thinking that only he knew whether marriage was as hot as drinking tea.

She is the youngest daughter of the family, more than ten years younger than the elder brother above, her father does some martial arts in his hometown, and uses the seaside customs to guard the errand, but also can do some export business in private, don't look at his father's official child, the family is very rich, the year she got married, she happened to meet her brother for promotion, and when the Japanese sent a ship to Wei to trade, her father happened to guard the southeast coast, and made a lot of money through trade, it was a good time, the cousin of the family, cousin, at most married a small official or a rich family without grade, she married the son of a local family, The husband has no flowers, he is motivated to study, and he gave birth to a daughter within a year of entering the door, and the little sisters in the family don't know how to envy him.

In fact, only you know the inner suffering.

She is the youngest daughter in the family, she grew up pampered, never the slightest disagree, a big family, a family, a mother-in-law and a smiling face, stabbing a knife in the back, she is arrogant, straightforward, does not understand the twists and turns of the inner house, and does not know how much she has suffered.

Although the husband does not have a fancy intestines, there is no one to carry an aunt today, and Ming'er will have a room, but it is not good for her, the two have a temper and do not deal with each other, see the day to quarrel, do not quarrel is also respectful like ice, she has suffering in her husband's family, in her husband's house can not say, back to her mother's house, her mother thinks that she has gained a lot of benefits, she can't complain, and she can't say how much she lives.

It's easy to raise a daughter, the daughter was taken out by the family boy at the age of four, watching fireworks on the overpass, just in time for the bridge to collapse, when she came back, the flesh and blood on her face were blurred, and she couldn't see the human appearance, if she didn't recognize the clothes on her body, she didn't know that it was her own child.

She didn't get along well with her husband's family, and she didn't have a good relationship with her husband, the child was her lifeblood, she almost cried out of breath, and the child stopped at home for 7749 days before being buried.

It was about excessive sadness, she didn't get up very well at that time, and in the next few years, her husband was admitted to the Jinshi, and he was an official elsewhere, and he has been rising, but the two husbands and wives have gathered less and left more, and the relationship has not improved but is getting worse and worse, and it is more and more difficult to get along with the mother-in-law.

One after another, her temper became weird, her body was not good, she was thin and skinny, her skin was sallow, her spirit was in a trance for a while, and she almost didn't survive a serious illness once, and she was about to die.

After another year or two, she didn't conceive a child anymore with such a body, and the concubine entered the door and gave birth to a boy, which was to be recorded in her name. She has been childless for many years and has no hope of pregnancy, and she agrees to keep the child in her name, but she must hold it to her.

The concubine Wei is the niece and nephew of her mother-in-law, how can she agree to take the child to her mother-in-law and raise her, she is only willing to remember that she will raise her own in front of her mother-in-law, Ning Biyun refuses, and her wife and concubine quarrel when she sees Tian'er.

She has no children and no favor, she can't speak at her husband's house, her mother-in-law and concubine are working together to calculate her, her husband is standing on the dry shore, and she doesn't help on both sides, she can't fight her mother-in-law and concubine's room, her mother's mother is a fool, her brother and father are only promoted to make money, no matter what she does, one of the two sisters-in-law is so angry that she runs away from home, one laughs and stalks, and no one helps her, she was very disappointed at that time, and she simply left in a fit of anger, and did not go back to her parents' house, and lived alone outside.

Ning Biyun didn't suffer any setbacks before she got married, she had a big temperament, a big temper, she was old, her edges and corners were rounded, her temper was not as impulsive as in her early years, and she was thinking about it: She has a mother's family, her brother is out, and her mother-in-law can't move her, as long as she doesn't make seven mistakes, how can she marry a wife, it is impossible to divorce her, at that time, she will not let go, and her mother-in-law can't do anything about her, she will promote a girl casually, give birth to a son and record it in her name, and she can live a life.

It is said that the child is the rope that connects the husband and wife, if the daughter is alive, she can survive for her daughter, the daughter is gone, the pregnancy is hopeless, and the life in the husband's house is hopeless and difficult, she is not without money and no home, why bother to die in the husband's house all her life.

She now bought a house outside, half of the time in her mother's house, half of the time in her own house, she doesn't have much money alone, the dowry has bought land, the rent collected in a year can't be spent, there is no difficult mother-in-law, she is alone, she can eat when she wants, sleep when she wants, don't look at people's faces, don't care about gains and losses, I don't know how comfortable the days are.

But some people think that if you don't let go of the official's wife, and leave, the days should be unlucky, Ning Biyun still felt faceless when he first left, embarrassed to go out to meet people, afraid of being laughed at, older, self-esteem is not so serious, and he is more and more open, why bother to wear a gorgeous robe full of lice for the sake of face.

Whether you marry well or not, how your life is going, it's really like drinking tea, only you know when you eat it in your stomach, Yuehua's words, she feels more and more reasonable, and she votes for the deed.

"I heard that you were abducted by a kidnapper, how old are you this year?"

"This month is thirty and sixteen."

If her daughter is still alive, she happens to be older than her, and it happens that both of them still have dimples, and they look good when they smile, but her daughter is born in early May, five months older than her, but as the saying goes, three years old looks old, the temper of the two is not the same, Yuehua is gentle and delicate, is a well-behaved child, the daughter is different, don't look at the daughter is small, the person is small and has a big temper, a four-year-old child, loves to eat walnuts, Ning Biyun held her with her left hand, and smashed the walnuts with a small golden hammer in her right hand. Ning Biyun was afraid that the golden hammer would hit the villain and refused, so she shook her head, the little girl was angry, and the little hand slapped Ning Biyun indiscriminately, the villain's temper was still stubborn and persistent, and she had a posture of not giving up, Ning Biyun's hair was messed up by her, and she had no choice but to return the golden hammer to her, the little girl immediately smiled, took the little golden hammer, and smashed the walnuts like her mother, and suddenly smashed her own hand, with a bag of tears in her eyes, holding her mouth, she just refused to cry, and Ning Biyun was distressed and happy.

Yuehua is about the same age as her daughter, and when she looks at her, she thinks of her daughter, and looks at her becoming more and more soft and amiable.

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