135 Affinity and distantness
"Don't bully people like this." I was maliciously teased, and finally couldn't help but bite He Liancheng's shoulder viciously and said through gritted teeth.
He suddenly laughed in a low voice, and said in a very ambiguous voice: "I'm just afraid that you will be accidentally touched by him at some point, I do think a lot." However, it's me who is with you now, and it's not interesting to eat these dry vinegars, right? ”
"I know it's still like that." I heard his relieved tone of relief.
"Good ......," he whispered in my ear, "a wolf, the bite is bleeding." ”
I was embarrassed by him, and I buried my head on his shoulder and didn't dare to squeak, and I felt ashamed of myself. He treated me very gently and lingeringly, in exchange for the next day's old back pain.
At three o'clock in the afternoon on Friday, we went to the kindergarten to pick up Yuan Yuan and Tong Tong. The two little things didn't expect me to come over so early, and they threw themselves into my arms a little surprised and asked, "Why is it so early, it's not school time yet?" ”
He Liancheng held Xiao Kuankuan in his arms, held Tong Tong with one hand, and said as he walked out: "I'm going to see my grandparents and uncle tonight." ”
As soon as his words fell, Tong Tong stopped, looked at me in disbelief and asked tentatively, "Mom, is it true?" Which grandpa? ”
Yuan Yuan was also obviously stunned and stopped. In the lives of the two little things, these names have never appeared, but they both went to school normally and entered their small society, and understood the meaning of these titles, so they were so shocked.
I bent down and kissed them on the forehead and said, "It's Uncle He's parents, mom and brother, and in the future, your grandparents and uncles." ”
The two little things listened to my words, but they followed forward again, but the expressions on their faces were not as relaxed as just now, and they looked preoccupied.
When I got to the car, He Liancheng handed Kuan Kuan to me, picked up two small things and put them on the child seat in the back seat, then helped us close the car door, leaned into the car by himself, and glanced at me.
I understood what he meant, and let me ask the two little things what was on their minds. The two of them obviously felt that this incident was too sudden, and they couldn't digest what it was for a while. Although I have been with He Liancheng for a long time, I have never mentioned his family in front of my children.
I patted Kuankuan's back to calm him down, then looked at Yuan Yuan who was looking out of the car window with a deep face and asked, "Isn't Yuan Yuan happy?" ”
"No, happy." When Yuan Yuan heard my words, he looked back at me and shook his head seriously and said, "It's very happy to have grandpa and grandma like other children." But ......"
He looked at Tong Tong hesitantly, and the next sentence was stuck in his throat.
Tong Tong lowered his head as if he didn't receive Yuan Yuan's eyes, and I knew that he had received a silent inquiry from Yuan Yuan. There is a tacit understanding between these two little things that I can't understand, even if they don't speak, their thoughts on the same thing are surprisingly similar.
Tong Tong quickly took out the seat belt on his waist and looked at the flowers before he said in a very low voice: "Mom, will my brother's grandparents like us?" ”
Before I could speak, He Liancheng, who had been pricking up his ears in the front seat, turned his head and said, "I will definitely like you." You guys are so cute, how can anyone not like that. ”
Yuan Yuan didn't speak, but Tong Tong looked at He Liancheng and then at me and said, "Do we have our own grandfather and grandmother?" ”
As soon as he said this question, I was stunned. I can't wait to use all means to minimize the impact of Chu Yi's biological father on them, but I was still asked this question.
Is bloodline really irreversible?
He Liancheng did not have any blood relationship with them, but he had always been with them when they were growing up, and Chu Yi's companionship was only a few months, and even these months were not very pleasant. Why does the child say kiss in his heart? Who instilled such a notion?
"Of course you have your own grandma and grandpa." He Liancheng reacted much faster than me, and immediately answered, not letting the atmosphere fall into embarrassment, he said with a smile, "It's just that there are two kinds of feelings between people, one is born with blood relations." For example, the relationship between you and your biological father Chu Yi, no one can change this relationship. The other is my relationship with you. We are not related by blood, but for some reason we are together and we are a family, and I may love you more than your biological father. ”
I could hear that He Liancheng wanted to express more, but he couldn't figure out how to make the two children understand. When I heard Tong Tong's words just now, I was a little angry in my heart. However, I also knew that at such a time, I must not be angry, otherwise I would have set up a forbidden area in the child's heart - this topic should not be talked about in front of the mother. I've been thinking about this idea for a long time, and I don't know what kind of impact it will have.
I can only think in my heart, fortunately they have such thoughts, and they are willing to sue me directly, instead of hiding it from me or figuring it out themselves.
Yuan Yuan turned his head to look at me after listening to He Liancheng's words, there was a thin moisture in his eyes, and he whispered: "Mom, I'm just afraid that my brother's grandparents won't like me......"
His voice was so low that it was almost inaudible, and I suddenly understood their worries at this moment, and hurriedly reached out to squeeze his little hand and said, "Don't worry, it won't be." ”
In fact, what I said was that I didn't want to believe it, He Zelin made He Liancheng promise not to give the two babies any inheritance at the very beginning, and I was impressed, but I couldn't say anything.
He Lian became a concession I made, so that I could not put forward any conditions.
The words that I didn't believe myself came out, in exchange for the inquisitive eyes of the two babies, He Liancheng also quietly glanced at me, and there was a little helplessness in his eyes.
While I was struggling with how to explain this topic further, Kuan Kuan threw himself out of my arms and threw himself on the face of Tong Tong, who was close to him, and his little hands hugged Tong Tong's neck, giggling while grabbing the little red flower on the chest of his school uniform with his hand.
Yuan Yuan now looks like a big brother, and when he saw the two little ones making a mess, he leaned over and grabbed Kuankuan's little fat hand and said, "Kuankuan is naughty, and my brother is angry for a while." ”
He easily broke his wide hand, and the little thing gnawed Tong Tong's button with a small baby tooth, and I hurriedly put my hand into his mouth and pried open his small teeth that were clenching the button, for fear that one would carefully bite off the button and swallow it into his stomach. When the time comes, I will go to the banquet and have to go straight to the hospital.
Kuankuan made such a fuss, the atmosphere in the car finally relaxed, and Yuan Yuan and Tong Tong no longer bothered about their grandfather and step-grandfather. After all, none of Chu Yi's parents had ever met, but they only had a vague impression and symbol, and they didn't have any feelings.
He Liancheng glanced at me quietly, with a relieved expression.
I knew what he was worried about, and I was afraid that there would be some gap between the two children and him. After all, we have gone through a lot of hard work to get to this point, and we can't afford anything more.
Some people may feel that the more trials and tribulations they go through together, the deeper the relationship between the two. In fact, this is really not the case, everything must have a degree. He Liancheng and I have been through so much, we both really feel a little tired.
Now the state between us is the best, there are no external worries and no internal troubles, and both of us have a little calmness and relaxation in our hearts. However, this state is also the weakest, but whenever there is a little bit of Ding'er, one of them feels tired and doesn't want to face it anymore, and then it's over.
I didn't speak again along the way, looking at the three little babies talking and making trouble, He Liancheng didn't speak again.
It was still early when I arrived at the hotel, so I took Yuan Yuan and Tong Tong to the room to change clothes, washed Xiao Kuankuan's face, and wiped the saliva off my chin.
He Liancheng went to accompany He Zelin and his stepmother Luo Fengyun.
About half an hour later, He Liancheng called me and asked me to bring the child over. I cleaned up the mess and took one and two to the small living room.
Because it was still early before the banquet started, the entire banquet hall was quiet, except for the waiter who quietly set things up, and finally arranged the venue, there was no superfluous person.
Passing through the banquet hall and coming to the small living room, I knocked on the door and someone opened it from the inside, I raised my eyes and saw that it was He Xiao, he smiled at me first, and then called a sister-in-law-#~ Wonderful? Pen? Pavilion?++
This title made me feel a little thunderous, and my mind was a little blank.
He Liancheng had already gotten up at this time, walked over with a smile on his face, bent down and picked up Tong Tong, pulled Yuan Yuan in, and I followed Kuankuan with him.
When it really came to see He Zelin with my children, I suddenly felt a little overwhelmed, as if it was me who was waiting for He Zelin to admit it today, not He Xiao who was standing aside and smiling lightly.
At this moment, I admire He Xiao's high means, he has made sufficient preparations in the early stage, and today's situation is a matter of course, and I am the one who is really embarrassed. I can't complain that he tried his best to let He Liancheng take me to this banquet. On the surface, it seems that He Liancheng made concessions and reluctantly attended, but in fact, he used my identity to resolve his embarrassment and everyone's attention to him. I can't really guess what will happen when the party starts. Will anyone point the finger at me and my two children? However, such an arrangement was decided after discussion between He Liancheng and He Zelin, and I also felt that sooner or later the two children would have to enter everyone's sight, so it was better to take this opportunity to appear.
Now, it was useless for me to think about anything else, so I had to walk in hard, without any discomfort on the surface.
He Liancheng sat next to He Zelin, put Tong Tong on his knees, pulled Yuan Yuan and said to He Zelin and Luo Fengyun: "Dad, Mom, this is the eldest Yuan Yuan, this is the second child Tong Tong, they look exactly the same." ”
There are two more today, begging for tickets, begging for bubbles, begging for hookup, and flirting!