Episode 11 Spring Dream Without a Trace (5)

"Fiction and theory are hypothetical situations, and everyone can give it a myriad of possibilities. I ask a practical question, and I hope you can answer it sincerely from the heart:

Who believes that a divorced twenty-seven-year-old woman with hereditary epilepsy can still find true love? ”

This question, which made everyone speechless, was suddenly thrown out by Wenwen, who was still calm and discussing her love life just now.

How to answer? Looking at her calm appearance but tears flashing in her eyes, you can know that this matter is very likely to be herself.

When the fairy girl joked about fortune telling, the fat man could vaguely feel that Wenwen's emotional experience would be more bumpy, but he could not have imagined that he had been married and suffered from hereditary epilepsy.

Although he was shocked in his heart, on the surface he still looked unfazed, and said casually:

"What about divorce? Now that the divorce rate is so high, I haven't seen anyone discriminated against in any way, it's just a ceremony. If the cause of divorce is epilepsy, it can only show that the man is cowardly and unreliable.

And I think that this result is a kind of relief, otherwise if you choose someone who is not responsible to rely on for a lifetime, how can you be sure that in the future wind and rain, he will not abandon you?

Most people have their own obvious shortcomings, they are ugly, short, and fat; The family is poor and has a lot to do; Too distracted, immature, irritable, impulsive; Picky, ignorant of people, unaware of self-...... There are many original sins and shortcomings of human beings, but the degree is different.

If the girl's other strengths are more obvious, there will always be people who love her enough to tolerate those shortcomings. It's just that the experience is rich enough, and the people you meet are not enough, in the final analysis, it is still a question of choosing the base and probability.

My biggest ideal is to date as many beautiful women as possible, theoretically speaking, the probability of such an unreliable man finding true love is much lower than the situation you said, but I have never been worried. I have always believed that there will always be a girl who loves and accommodates me enough to get to know me. ”

Looking at the embarrassment of everyone looking at each other, the fat man was still full of uncare, but he also knew very well that it was this attitude that Wenwen needed now.

As soon as the fat man finished speaking, **Tao also quickly added:

"Even if this plot appears in the protagonist of my novel, I don't think her ultimate happiness will be affected! And those different emotional experiences will also be more fulfilling and perfect for her life.

The heroine of the novel "Hourglass" is kind, independent and strong enough, and I don't think these two issues will affect her struggle and persistence in love! ”

Now that the topic has been launched, Wenwen has no worries, and simply tells her experience, wanting to see how Tao will arrange the ending of the story for a girl like herself if this story becomes a novel.

Her hometown is in a small city in Jiangxi, and her primary school, middle school, and junior college are all in this city. As a school flower, she was naturally chased by many people, and in the first half of her freshman year, she established a relationship with her former table mate in her junior year of high school.

Her epilepsy is inherited from her father, but it is not a frequent occurrence, and it occurs two or three times a year, although foaming at the mouth is more scary at the onset, but the doctor also confirmed that this symptom can be slowly relieved, and the impact on life is not very large.

The boyfriend knew about the situation, but he never told his parents. In the three years of dating, both parents were relatively satisfied, because Xiaocheng got married early, so they helped them arrange the marriage just after graduation.

Afraid that the baby will inherit this disease in the future, Wenwen has always been afraid of pregnancy, and the two have lived for a year, both of which are sex with protective measures.

When the man's parents were urging him to have a grandson, Wenwen's ex-husband thought that they had been married for a year, so he said that she had epilepsy. As a result, his parents immediately turned their faces and forced him to divorce.

This twenty-three-year-old man, he has never been his own master since he was a child, school, work, and marriage are all arranged with the help of his parents who are small leaders in public institutions, although he likes Wenwen very much, but this cowardly man has no ability to resist the power of his parents at all.

Since the parents have repeatedly confirmed that they can find a girl with better conditions for themselves, divorce has become an unacceptable thing.

Wenwen, who has not experienced much warmth and coldness, is also very passive about her fate, since her husband has given up fighting, she has also given up her efforts to save her marriage.

In order to get out of this sad experience, she left the town and joined Wang Wenjun, a primary school girl she attended yoga training with in college, and then found a job as a sales clerk.

Weihai is a very comfortable city and easy to get along with, so Wenwen quickly adapted to her new life and thought about making a new home here if the opportunity was right.

There are always countless opportunities for beautiful sales to meet school-age young people or young parents, and under the offensive of one suitor after another, she also tried to fall in love a few times. It's just that every time the words divorce and epilepsy are spoken, these young people will immediately give different excuses and slowly disappear from their lives.

After a few disappointments, Wenwen didn't have any hope for love, and put all her energy and sustenance on work, but now that the property market is in a big depression as a whole, this spiritual sustenance has also gone wrong, where should I go?

Looking at Wenwen's resentful appearance, the fat man felt that he needed to temporarily act as a prince on a white horse, and persuaded:

"So it's the right choice for you to come to the huddle, since the work is like this, find more opportunities for your feelings.

Young people who buy a house in advance before they are married are generally insecure, and some of them are not using their parents' savings to buy a house, and it is not very reliable to expect them to be brave and independent in the face of the challenges that come with love.

A beauty like you, you need to find a more MAN, more responsible man, now everyone is doing public welfare, the contact with the people is completely different, and the boys who pay attention to you will also see your love and kindness more in addition to your beautiful appearance. ”

Comfort the beautiful girl, the fat man has always been positive, not to mention that this girl obviously has a good impression of herself.

Tao also added very cooperatively:

"What the fat man said is very similar to the idea I want to express in my novel, that although the emotions of a twenty-year-old are beautiful and simple, they are also a mixture of impulsiveness, vulnerability, and lack of responsibility.

A love that requires courage to undertake, it is inevitable to meet the right person in the right environment. Now that you can be at peace with your imperfect past, and you can be relieved of the rush of life, you just need to have a little more courage to keep trying in a new environment.

Perfect love is a scarce commodity, a reality that everyone is facing.

The two natural advantages of being beautiful and kind have made it easier for you to get attention in your love life than others, so the rest is just like the fat man said, keep a thick nerve and meet all the possibilities in life. ”

It turned out that putting Wenwen's situation in the novel may have been just a flash, but after communicating for a while, Tao felt more and more that the imperfections of life and love might be more real.

Her heroine is indeed single at the age of thirty-three, so why can't hereditary epilepsy be the reason for her independent and tolerant and charming personality.